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MissMilaRose and The Dating App Liar??
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Welcome to another episode of Sex, Drugs, and WHATVER!! Guest co-host Miss Mila Rose joins host Vera James! We give stellar advice to a guy who may or may not be lying about having a dating app on his phone. And then talk about behind the scenes of our day to day lives as adult content creators.
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00:00:15
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What is up, everyone? Hey. Welcome to another episode of Sex, Drugs, and Whatever. And with me today, I have the beautiful Miss Mila Rose. And we're going to be talking to her about how much she does this job. How are you? Good, good. um As many of you may or may not know, a storm just hit Houston on Thursday night, but luckily I am here today. Yesterday I got my power back. How are you doing? I'm good, I'm good. I know your storm was a little crazy. worse Yeah, it was crazy. but You got hit too by a storm? We got hit by a storm, yeah. and it
00:01:05
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it wasn't or a lot of trees, the power was out for like 12 hours, and our air has still not come back on, girl. No! it I'm like i am so sorry to hear that. I have all my windows open, I have a fan on, which I hope it doesn't mess with the sound. so Props to you for showing up. I wouldn't. No air conditioning, I'd be like, sorry. Yeah, it's been pretty sad, but I don't want to make it. But, um, yeah, I'm glad you're okay. Commitment. Yeah. Yeah. I know. It was, I was about to go eat dinner. I was like, yeah, it's not that bad. We had like a 15 minute warning and then it got bad. When they like to sneak up. Yeah. It's just like now isn't it didn't just start like tornado and hurricane season.
00:02:02
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Yeah, actually I think it starts in like a week, so it didn't even officially start again. Great. Yeah. Anyways, let's read a little email. You want to? Okay, shoot.
00:02:19
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Dear Vera, I do love it when they say dear for some reason. I hope this finds you well. I have gotten myself into quite a predicament and would love some advice. I have had a dating app on my phone for over two years, i started dating my girlfriend a little over a year ago, and I just forgot it was there. I randomly noticed it was still on my phone about two weeks ago, deleted it, went on with my life. A few days later, my girlfriend just began just began to start wanting to see my phone a lot and acting suspicious of me. She's also being pretty passive aggressive, which is unlike her. I'm worried she might have saw the dating app.
00:03:12
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then maybe even noticed I deleted it. And now I feel like both of us are stuck and I don't know what to say to each other. What do I do? Oh snap. I know. I feel like oh we're missing a lot of content. I think so too. I think there might be some information withheld to make his image sound a little better. Yeah boy. I think Miss Mainland is correct. Because that's like, when I read that one, I thought, hmm, this one just sounds like. Yeah. Just trying to leave out a lot to maybe sell the nice guy. I mean, hey, if he's being honest, then honesty is the best policy and leave nothing out. But if he is trying to hide something, she's just gonna get more suspicious. You'll just need to
00:04:09
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have a big old honest conversation about this shit. um Yeah. It sucks that. I don't know if that does just suck that if you're being honest about that, it's just been there that whole time. Like how would that part of that didn't make sense? A little bit. I mean, it could be a miscommunication with yeah the two of them or he's genuinely trying to hide something. Yeah. Yep, exactly. But yeah, man, we're just going to have to ah get over that, what did he say, awkwardness. Well, two years due into a relationship is quite a short time still. It takes some time to open up. It does. And being vulnerable and honest is the hard thing to do. Don't you know? Now it's your trial run. Go be honest with her.
00:05:07
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Yeah, so yeah, that is our wonderful advice. Hope it works out for you. Yeah, good luck. But now we want to hear more about you, Mila. o What inspired you to start creating adult content and how and when did you get here? Yeah. Well, it's been a crazy wild ride and some of it, I don't even know how many of it's friendly this would be in other platforms, but I did start in the adult industry a couple of years prior to going online.
00:05:46
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her And I created a an account on MV, and also I was doing some camming. And I got a custom video order, and I didn't know what those were. I was just like, oh, I'm just going to open up everything to offer as much as possible. yeah And it was very cringe. It's very amateur. I was using my webcam. And it was awful quality. But I was like, huh, this is really cool. And so I started taking on everyone's fantasies and eventually my content just started transforming to content that I enjoyed creating. Yeah, well you do have some good creative content so you have to always be
00:06:33
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learning. I think we all, all of us in this industry have had that cringe stuff that we've created, yeah do you know, but what are some of the most important skills or qualities that you have gained in this industry and that are now contributing to your success? One of them, I would say that I'm still consistently learning like every day, not every day, but ah consistently enough is just communication with customers. like It's so dynamic and like communicating professionally, but also in a way that has boundaries because you know sometimes customers can be asking for way too much. but
00:07:18
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Sometimes you have to understand where they're coming from, which can be a little bit hard when you're like, no, they don't deserve that. But at the same time, there there might be something there that you have to really face with with truth value and see like maybe he is being a jerk. but maybe there is something I can communicate a little bit better in general just to make sure everyone's on the same page. yeah So you learn like every day and not only that but there are customers out there that try to take advantage of some models and I had an experience with that kind of recently where it was
00:07:55
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It was an interesting ride and I learned a lot and you just learn to navigate with authenticity but also kind of with your guard up because you don't know who's going to try to communicate with you. Yes. And how long have you how long have you been doing this now?
00:08:14
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Well, adult work in general, like 10 years, but here doing adult work online about eight years. so yeah Yeah. So somebody just recently tried to take advantage of you? It was some months ago now. It was some months ago now. um ah Yeah. Just not respecting boundaries for the most part, but I think the intentions were not the best either. Yeah. how um Yeah. Because wouldn't you say that it's it's kind of odd. It doesn't happen as much to creators that I'm going on like three or four years now. and That's awesome. And they attack you within that first year or two.
00:09:10
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Oh yes, oh yes. not It's not as common, but yeah, I still have people that try to take advantage. But now you know. Yes, now you know. Yeah. What did you do to handle that situation? Yeah, well, I mean, with that one, just reestablishing boundaries, but also not giving the attention to feed Into anything negative. Yeah. Yeah, there's really only so much you can do ah Eventually, they just get bored and leave I have to I think my like Blocking them, you know my block button. I'm a yeah quicker with it. and Yeah other I
00:10:03
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Well, good for you though, because I think it's a good thing. It is. I just think I could work. It's because I could have, I can like be mean and like sometimes they won't, you know? That's awesome. No, I'm just like, no, we're not even, if I just even get like... That's awesome. I really respect that like femdom Attitude that's how I um, I accidentally found out that I was good at Fendom because I started out in camming and they They were provoking me to humiliate them because I was I would like custom out so I had to um now I can't do that anymore because I
00:10:52
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they're gonna jerk off to it. Oh, oh, no. Now you have to be nice. Yeah. no or Just block them. yeah are There are some not so nice. I wouldn't even call them fans or clients. know But can you share a memorable ah memorable or just impactful but positive experience you've had with a client or like a really funny um custom order fun when out there. Oh man, there there could be so many stories I could bring up but I guess the first thing that does come to mind is um I had a customer, well I still have this customer, right now I'm actually postponing
00:11:44
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one of his orders because unfortunately, so I have a customer who likes me to do forward rolls, just like kind of like an athletic, upskirt, panty, shot thing. yeah And just like he, yeah, yeah. So a few years ago, I had a hand injury and I couldn't do it physically. it was There was an injury and so that was postponed for at least six months of longer. He waited. And and i was I was very surprised because that's very rare for for customers to be that loyal and really invested into a model.
00:12:26
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yeah And more recently, um it's just been raining nonstop here in Houston, and it's it's been a mess. And now the mosquitoes are rampant, and I am covered. And like I'm sorry, like I can't right now, but um he's what he's working with me on it, so that's really good. And ah it's just it's really rare in the community for for that kind of customer, but it's awesome when you find them. Yeah, yeah, it really is. So thank y'all to all the good, loyal customers out there because there are a majority of them are really, really wonderful. Um, can you discuss any unique or interesting collabs that you've done with either creators or brands?
00:13:19
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Yeah, there's definitely been some interesting ones. um can tell the first one that comes The first one that comes to mind that I had a lot of fun with is um I have a big wedgie fetish. And there was, ah well, I mean, my audience. My audience, let me clarify. My audience is a huge wedgie fetish. I do enjoy it in terms of the fact that they are funny and fun to do. They're not comfortable. and So I was with Siren Verde and she had over a Honey Bunny VA and we were at this large property she friends with that owns the property and we were doing like circle wedgies and we were all like hanging onto each other's panties and just going around in circles and having a blast. It was hilarious. That ah that sounds funny. What is yeah the title of that one?
00:14:15
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he's roommate prank wars up you did like a series and yeah I think that might have been the 10th I think but don't quote me on that it might have been the 10 that's so fun I do you live near content creators that you can collab with? I used to. I used to. I was in New Mexico two years ago. Then I moved to Texas. um Honestly, the city that I was in was just a mess. And other cities had like really high crime rates that I was very uncomfortable with. And there's other things I didn't like about the state in general. I do really, really mess the content creation with the girls that I met. yeah But it's just one of those things. Yeah.
00:15:05
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I can't even find anybody really in my. It's hard. ah It is. Yeah. It's really, really hard. And I'm, yeah I am in the stage of my life where I'm intentionally trying to find more friends. And like, oh my God, it's, I can't tell, I can't tell them. It's hard. It's really hard. um Moving here, I tried to make vanilla friends that aren't in the industry. And it's really awkward when they ask what you do because it's like, are they going to think differently of me? Like, I think it's almost like a guarantee at that point. But at the same time, I don't want to not be honest and open. So it's really hard. I know. Like i've I'm on an app to
00:16:03
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Which one? My friends. Bumble for friends. Me too. Are you? Well, I was. I was for like, it was good. I had to pay for it to see results, but I did that for a couple months. pay Yeah. After, I'm going to have it for three months and then I'm going to do it. But I tried one time. um just being really upfront with somebody, like telling them as soon, because everybody wants to ask you the same question. What do you do? yeah yeah I don't know. Maybe it's because and I know how people in the South are going to react and I don't want to tell them, but like, I don't really want to hear that question. yeah and um yeah I don't know. they put oh Somebody like I told two people, I was like, I'm just going to be really upfront. like
00:16:48
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And the next day I had a warning on my account. So not telling. Now I have to a lot of people. What? That means someone reported you. What? Yeah, they reported me. This person has their own issues. I know. And like it was shitty. And like, I just laughed and I actually wrote them and they wouldn't tell me what it was about, but they removed the warning. Wow. So now like, I feel like I have to a lot of people. That's crazy. My therapist says I don't have to be 100% honest and vulnerable with people to still be like true to myself. So I'm working on that shit. Yeah. but yeah How else do you balance? What kind of things do you do to balance the work and like social life or like your personal life? Oh, that's a hard question.
00:17:47
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I feel like balance is one of those things that I need so badly and I've been working on it for years and I still don't have it right. yeah It's like I'm a bit of a workaholic at heart, but after hanging out with my collab friends that I had in New Mexico, I realized I actually do want friends, but it's hard to now separate myself because I, for like five years straight, all I did was work. And so now having vanilla friends that you can't even like work and hang out with at the same time, it's more challenging. I actually have to like separate myself. ah I guess, I mean, everyone's kind of busy nowadays anyway, so there's that. So it's like you have to plan in advance to hang out, but we're all in like our older ages of life now. So no one really has time to hang out. So it's a little hard. You just have to kind of dedicate your your time. Yeah, I think that's why like
00:18:42
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Cause I do have like a good core group of friends. That's good. But if I only, I only get to see them like twice a year. So I just needed like more friends so that maybe I could do something like once a month or like, I don't know, but freaking hard, isn't it girl? god Yeah, it is hard. What? impact do you think that the adult content industry has owned society? It's definitely shifted really really hard recently with only fans blowing up so that's that's definitely a hard one to say because like before I think it wasn't as loud but now like even like normal people are talking about
00:19:39
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creating their own OnlyFans and doing like tasteful nudes and things like that. So it it's definitely, like there's more people talking about it for sure. I think more people have something to say about it, good and bad. um But I do think that there's more positivity in general and I think that that is a good thing. yeah So. Yeah, there is. I wanna really try to get that lawyer, I'm sure you follow him on that knows all that stuff because I just can't believe, there is just a lot of negative. Follow what? The lawyer. The doctor. Lawyer. Yes, I'm sorry. Lawyer. Lawyer, yeah. Oh, sorry. Sorry. My southern accent. Yes. Like a man of the law. Yeah. That works specifically with like sex workers. Do you follow him? I don't remember his name. oh
00:20:39
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But just how recently it's really become a political issue, like in my state, we can't access Pornhub anymore. Wait, are you also? I know that Texas has some issues, but I think there's like multiple states that have issues. There are like five or 10 states. And I don't think the bill has passed yet, but Pornhub has already said like backed out. Does that make sense? Yeah. Yeah. Of my state. So like, yeah. Yeah. That is concerning. It really is. Especially just, it's, I mean, you can probably figure out which political party it is. but like Honestly, i I don't pay attention. So I don't know which. Oh, good. I don't either. It's, it is like, it's the Republicans, like,
00:21:38
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Okay, from it's that hard art Yeah, are you from are you from are you American? I'm Canadian but I've been in America for the last eight years. Yeah, um So the whole political stuff is like Very dramatic to me. Yeah, and I'm just like I don't even care. I don't I can't vote. Yeah, I'm not Now that I have I have a husband that is English so he's not okay. He came over on Ibiza and um, he's also like, this is dramatic. Yeah. It's just, it's like a charades. I feel like rich people are just playing charades with us. Like, yep. Yeah. Class deport, like, leave us alone. I think it's a joke. I'm not gonna vote anymore. That pisses people off. But
00:22:29
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Yeah. Ever. Anyway, I did not really get into politics. Yeah, I i think... No worries. I mean, it's a part of it, right? Like it affects us. It affects what we do. So it's shitty that they really... I mean, they just think porn, like their thing is like porn is a sin and that we can't, they can't keep kids off of it. Like aren't the parents supposed to be monitoring that shit? Like why is the government coming in and trying to
00:23:00
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attack a billion dollar industry. that Yeah, it is a big big question that requires a lot more than what we're currently getting to work on the issue. Yeah, I know. It just pisses me off. But yeah, also at the same time. Yeah, it is very anchoring. Are there any misconceptions that you had about the industry before you started? It turned out to be untrue.
00:23:33
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You know what? I kind of started very like dear with headlights on because I started on a whim and I kind of learned as I grew. So I wouldn't necessarily have say I had any opinions on the industry before jumping head first. So because of that, I wouldn't necessarily say there was any misconceptions I made prior. yeah I guess, I guess I would say that I never thought I would be in the that adult industry, but, and I would say that we're much more normal than many might but like to believe and like to classify us as, yeah like we're quite normal people. I think I, um, came in, um, like the same as you. I had nothing, yeah I had no knowledge and I just started learning it.
00:24:31
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I always call it like building the plane while you're flying it. like Oh, I like that. Actually, it's scary though. yeah It sounds like a plane while you fly it. Scary. I just probably wouldn't want to do that. Yeah. Yeah. It's really insane, but that's kind of just how I... It's fun. Yeah, it's very fun. Just jumping in. I definitely have somebody something wrong with me that makes me do that. Nah. Nah. Not at all. It's one of those beautiful flaws. but um It's a great quirk to have.
00:25:05
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have What kind of misconceptions or negativity do you feel like you deal with online? And like how do you deal with it? Or hopefully you don't, but I'm sure you see it like the rest of us. or no A few things come to mind. um For one, I feel like sometimes customers can be hard on models, just because like we have our own lives too. and we're on like we We are on a lot more than most workers. yeah and Not only are we on and available, but we have to show up with an energy that's
00:25:55
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going to entertain the customer and not like whatever's going on in our lives. And I i remember specifically, um I was pretty close with, I'm Megan Live for a bit there because we had done a collab and I had her on Instagram. I don't even know if she has an Instagram anymore because I think I got deleted, some stuff happened. But I remember she had made a post that she was like, will you guys leave me alone? Like I'm in the hospital, something happened. I'm like, like that is seriously what we deal with though. Like even if we're in the hospital, like you guys are going to be like, where's my shit? Like where's my content? Where's my, like pay attention to me and it can be hard because we we can't always be on like that. Yeah yeah I um somebody in one of the group chats that like me and you are in just like support they just mentioned that too how
00:26:45
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I don't remember what it, I think they just took like two mental health days and like o they were reported to a site. So yeah, I mean, I know guys get excited. I don't know, but yeah. Yeah. e Yeah. Even the platforms can be hard on us. Like even around like Christmas, like telling us, oh, we need to do XYZ. It's like, it's Christmas. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. also that one that comes to mind for me is how people I still see people especially on reddit that have the belief that this is really just like taking nude pics and that's easy easy like y'all don't know how much I've had we
00:27:36
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us all had to learn about lighting, you know, camera settings, um, sound. What else? And also promoting. Yeah. And also how many tears are shed because our lighting isn't how you want it. We're like, why? Why isn't it good? Yes, exactly. Like the shit is really, really hard. Uh-huh. Yeah. It's really hard guys. And it's not just a pretty face on camera, just like, hey. Yeah. No, it's really not. Like, marketing, coming up with ideas constantly. And yeah it's a lot. like On the flip side, though, if it does look easy, it's because we made it look easy. Yes. And it's because a lot of work went on behind the scenes. Yes. And we really, really care about what we do and yeah how good it looks. And we put in a lot.
00:28:36
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of effort. Yeah. To make it look flawlessly easy. Yes. Good. Well said. How do you stay positive and keep fresh content and engaging? I guess. Yeah, I guess that mental health stuff is really important. For me, like it's multifold because like I do try to stay on as much as possible. But at the same time, like I notice it too. If I'm falling off of my workouts, my diet, my if I'm eating more sugar, if I'm drinking alcohol, if I'm not sleeping, if I'm not exercising, I start
00:29:22
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getting into quite the slump and it really affects me. So I think all of that stuff is really important to help me have as much energy as possible, have as much positivity as possible, but even with all of that stuff, like life can still happen and it can really knock you down, but not as hard I feel as if I was also struggling with my physical and mental health. So just having like those days off when you need them. Lately, I have been scheduling uploads in advance, which means I technically don't have to work at all right now until like July, mid-July. And I'm planning on like getting it caught up until September because I want to take the summer off. It's too hot to film here. It's too hot. So I'm really happy because like when the storm came, yeah Yeah, when the storm came, my stuff was still launching. like I didn't have to worry about, like oh, well, I can't post today. But it does give you that freedom. And I think that is is really helpful. But um making sure that when you need those days off, take them off. When you need to focus on your self-care, do that. Yes. I think that's one of my favorite things about this job is
00:30:36
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Well, once I had to get over like my perfectionism and like, yeah that like workaholic is a whatever you want. Yeah. But yeah, that I can. I can take yeah a few weeks off if I need to and then come back and it's gonna be fine. Yeah. yeah But we can even struggle with that too. It's like, oh no, if I take time off, is everyone gonna disappear? Yes. I really think that in the job, like, is everybody gonna like forget about me and like yeah but no it never is that's a good thing about once you got to a certain point and it usually just picks right back up what you think so yeah i mean i do notice like um
00:31:22
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Everything seems to happen in waves. Like if you do kind of take a hiatus, you might still experience like your peak, but then it might take like a few months of really working hard to see people like picking up on your content again. yeah And with our content too, it's like versus doing like YouTube jobs or TikTok jobs, for example, it's like a little different because we're technically doing content creation, but we're doing sales. Because we're selling our content, we're just we're not just getting ad revenues. It's a little different. like where We also need to sell it. So there's that. Yeah. um Tell us what like an average day looks like for you. And I also need to know how you got like months ahead. Because girl, I'm trying to do that.
00:32:16
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killing myself. I'm not kidding. So what was your first question again? Sorry. What a typical day. I have two different variations. One, I'm either editing or two, I'm filming most of the days I'm editing. If I film for two days in a row, I'm probably going to have to edit for at least a week or two weeks. That's what happens. So I usually wake up around 6, 6, 30, take the dogs on a walk, get them breakfast, start a coffee, do some advertising, um and then I will either edit for the whole day until like 6 o'clock PM, or I will start getting ready to film for the day, and then I will start up dinner and relax for the evening.
00:33:09
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um For the months that I've been planning in advance to take off, I've had to mass produce content, mass edit content, and work really long hours. The reason why I'm able to do it so fast is because I've been doing this so long and I've been able to streamline my processes with A bit of automation in a way like a lot of my processes are so streamlined I can do things so boom boom boom done yeah and I don't have to do everything from scratch so that does take up time to figure out how to do regulate and gain experience but once you know how to do it and how long things take you can just mass produce.
00:33:55
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and then be like, okay, I'm going to spend this much time producing and adding content, and then if I spend that much time, then I know I will get that much time off. And that's essentially what I've done. I'm like, I can't film with this heat. I know if I do this much work for this period of time, I can take this much time off. yeah So that's what I've essentially done. That's awesome. How many, like, yeah in those two days of filming, How many films are you making? It depends. Like if I'm doing non cosplay, I can dish out like 15 videos. But if I'm doing cosplay, I generally only do like six
00:34:41
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six maybe I'm trying to push it up to nine now for some because if I can push it more but it's harder for cosplay because the costumes take a lot longer to set up put together and it's just a lot longer of a process and I might be also doing youtube footage photos shoots that also take time um but I can film up to about 15 videos in a given day I basically worked it out too. If I work, on average one week of work gives me about three weeks of content if I'm working hard. That's good. i yeah like Yeah. I aspire to be like you and one day one day do that. um I've always known like how organized and like business.
00:35:35
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Mila is always into this podcast, like about changing your mindset and business. good um But yeah, I think I've like told you before though, I'm still doing some healing from like long COVID. And so right now I'm just chillaxing. I kind of burnt myself out really, really bad. last year or so. That takes time to recover. so I've had i have had multiple of those and it's hard because like you don't want to stop. yeah And then your symptoms start kicking up about whatever it is that you're like, you're about to burn out if you don't slow down. You're like, I can push through this. And that's that's the danger point. The moment you start getting those symptoms, you're like, no, if I don't take a step back, I'm going to have a mental breakdown. Yes.
00:36:28
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yeah yeah it is
00:36:33
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the Yeah, it gets in yeah trouble sometimes but yeah, I actually um, I just realized like a couple weeks ago that When I realized that I had long COVID well, actually nobody could diagnose me for like six months. That's wild So I just thought I was going crazy and like um like for almost three years I could not um really get out of the bed. I couldn't even handle my god like sound movement.
00:37:10
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Um, and I ended up losing my job a few months. Oh my God. Yeah. And so instead of like, like a normal person that if they lost their job and they were really sick and they couldn't even get out of bed, like, healing. Oh my God. Is when I decided to become a sex worker and like start. Damn. I started a business on my own. And I mean, I did, I did really, really well. And then I finally just like, I was like, girl, you've been, I've been kind of doing that my whole life. So yeah.
00:37:51
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I'm really sorry you went through all that, but some magical stuff came of it. Yeah, definitely. Like I don't, I do not regret any of it. And I really, I really do say that and like speak about it so that people know that like it had a lot to do with like some unresolved trauma, you know, just so people know that, I don't know, I was like on freaking autopilot. for years and like um waking up yeah Yeah, unfortunately, I mean, same with me. Like sometimes you need a traumatic event to kind of like shake you up. But then even though it's really hard and you have to deal with a lot of stuff, you can really create a lot of dynamic shifts in your life. Yeah. And it's awesome. It really has been awesome. and as yeah I'm just trying to slow down a little bit now. and But eventually I'm going to get back because I ah love working hard. I was just doing it.
00:38:58
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to a really unhealthy extent. Yeah. Yeah. And that's the balance. It's really hard to find. Yeah. um What content do you enjoy doing the most? Do you enjoy the cosplay or? Yeah, i it shifts all the time. I mean, when I first moved down to New Mexico, like I love filming the girl-girl stuff. I'm like, I've never done this before. This is so much fun. like You're filming with these girls that you can relate with.
00:39:30
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which is so great. And then, I don't know, there is just I just started playing with ideas like, how do I do something different? I was like, well, I've always been a nerd into anime. I was like, let's just do cosplay. um But now, even though I really enjoy cosplay, I'm starting to feel that I need something different. Like, what is that different? And so I'm thinking maybe over the summer, since I'm going to have so much free time, I want to start 2D animating some hentai. And maybe I can create a production or two. I know that stuff takes a long time, but maybe I can make something of it. and
00:40:13
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Yeah. I've always wanted to do some sort of like an anime or something, but like the process of that takes so much time. I was like, ah, I give up. That'd be interesting. I'm excited though yeah to see it. Yeah. yeah What is your best sellers? Is it the best sellers? It fluctuates um for a long time. It was wedgies and I don't really know what it is right now because I sell like everything. i Oh, I guess there was a really big um streak for me for taboo content. I realized how much, how big it was on MoneyVids. So I was producing a lot more of it like last spring.
00:40:59
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And sad it really pops off. So I was doing a lot of that. But that stuff can be a little dangerous, too, because there's a really fine line with taboo content that it sells really well. But if you push it too far, it's like against TOS. So you have to be very careful with it. um So right now, I guess like I have a few categories that are pretty decent. um I guess taboo and certain fetishes like wedgies, medical, cosplays. Yeah. Yeah. I love how dynamic you are. Like I wish I got sucked into the taboo niche. It kind of found me, but like you said. Yeah.
00:41:45
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If I put, especially mommy stuff, if I put it up there, it'll sell. It'll just sell. It's insane. boom boom boom But, um, what did I already ask you? I'm sorry. This is my brain, my like long COVID brain. I'm not doing too well, but, um, did I ask you how you handle criticism and negativity? Handle criticism. Both online and in person.
00:42:17
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Let's see, do I handle it differently in person? I mean I guess in person is a little different because when you're responding via text you can reflect on it before posting. In person, I do think even for me, there's probably a sudden defensiveness potentially. um I do remember, I mean, this was years ago, so I don't know if I'm still like this, I do remember um being told, why do you always have to like explain yourself? So i'm like, a you're right, that's, I don't have to be so defensive over it, I can just
00:42:52
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acknowledge that I'm doing something wrong. It was a video game thing, so it wasn't like my character, but my persona was like, you kind of suck at League of Legends, you should probably play better. But for written critique, you again, like the initial defensiveness nature does set in and then you kind of have to like read what they're saying and then analyze it in a way of okay, they might not be saying it the nicest, but is there something here that might need to be addressed? And if not, then how do I redirect this individual? um And if it ends up being like something like where they're trying to say, Oh, like,
00:43:36
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I'm so angry that you don't have this video for free. Then instead of being like, well, this isn't for free, haha you could just be like, well, here's all the information to place a custom video order so you can have this. um Or if they're saying something like, oh, I didn't know that the service was over. OK, I should be implementing two days in advance. this copy and paste message that was like, you have two days left and that handles that. Sorry for the inconvenience of not having that already implemented. Yeah. yeah You've talked about that, like I think in one of our groups again, and you always do. People really, well, I just have to like block negativity.
00:44:22
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I mean, there's different ways of handling it, right? Like when you're a femdom, it's a little different. Yeah, I guess that's true. I just don't um have yeah the patience for it at all. It's very, very triggering to me as well. Sorry, in birdies like that too. She's like, yeah, no. But I respect that. And that is your brand. yeah Like you shouldn't be operating like I do. Yeah, no. like everyone is different and there's not like yeah one right or wrong one size fits all yeah thing in this industry that's another one of my favorite things about this what um yeah what is your favorite thing about our job or favorite favorite thing
00:45:06
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sometimes I just get a smile on my face, you know, like sometimes people will message you and be like, this content made my day, like I was in a bad mood, like I wasn't feeling great. And then your content just lit me up. I'm like, Oh, it's awesome. Like, sometimes I'm in a bad mood too. And to cry and eat ice cream in bed. And then I get a comment like that, like a Twitter message or something. I'm like, Oh, I'm making people feel better and put a smile on their face. I'm like, well, it's a little bit, a little bit easier to wake up in the morning knowing that you're showing up for people who kind of like need that. Yeah. That is not, yeah. I had people that have noticed how I had to slow down these past few months and like reach out and yeah, that shit feels good. You sometimes think that, you know, they,
00:46:03
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don't care about you as a person, you know, but they notice those little shifts and it's fucking sweet, y'all. Those are your real true fans. Yeah. It is nice. So you got any fun summer plans or what are some of your hobbies i need to animate obvious yeah um stuff about you I know there's so many ideas that I've been playing with but I like to get in and over my head so I don't know how much I'm actually going to tackle this summer. um
00:46:41
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I love cooking so maybe I will try some recipes and healthy recipes. um Might make YouTube videos of them who knows. Definitely want to draw because that's something that like I grew up doing for years and I haven't really touched on and it will be so much fun I think. um I would love to have some summer adventures, but I don't really like to do those solos, so let's see. I'm gonna see if I have some invites. I might be hanging out with one of my good friends down here more often this summer, so that is awesome. We might have some adventures. um Other than that, maybe maybe I'll take my dogs out more. They love that. That's good. Yeah. are you planning Are you planning on going to
00:47:35
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any of the like exotica, what are the other ones that just went next biz? Do you ever go to those? I haven't, I've only been to one ever. I went to the AVN the year the pandemic hit like right before. if And I've been wanting to, it's just, I don't know. I don't want to go by myself, A, but B it's like, I don't know. Maybe I'd be more interested in going with others. Yeah, we need to kind of get just a group to at least like. Yeah, that'd be awesome. Down there. Yeah. Cause I'm kind of a little chicken. It can be intimidating, especially if it's your first time. So yeah, we should try it sometime then. That'd be great. I don't even know which ones. I never really keep up with them, but yeah. avian
00:48:34
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Seems like a good one. I don't know if that one's even operating like normally anymore, because I know they were doing it online for a couple years during the pandemic. And i I heard something like the last year, this one, people had to camp outside or something. like I don't remember. something Something weird was going on with the last one. So I don't i don't know. Let me. no This thing went dead. Let me change the battery. You'll still be able to hear it. Okay. Damn it. I knew it would happen. I just forgot to set me a timer. No worries. Do you need to be off here at a certain time? I forgot to ask you. No. It'd be too much longer. Oh, I love, I just started this new, I was using a different platform. yeah And it was, this one's just so much easier. I love it.
00:49:33
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All right, sorry about the little technical difficulties. We were talking about Expias and yeah and and shit and yeah yeah, we should try to get because that's what I see a lot of people saying on Twitter. yeah They're a lot of fun too and you definitely get to mingle with other people in the industry. I think more so like I don't know how other like exotic and whatnot is like you can do fan interaction but I think the best part really is ah meeting all the girls and ah connecting because again like it can be lonely it can and can't relate to people who aren't in the industry. No you can't so yeah we definitely need to
00:50:20
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work that out and go in here because we know enough nice models now that. Yeah. We're all connecting on like Twitter, but we're not connecting IRL. We talk about like the same shit and stuff. and Yeah. What advice would you give to someone considering hearinging the adult entertainment industry? there's so many pieces of advice but I guess just entering in I might have to steal this one from siren but I remember I asked her the same thing but honestly like it's so true like just film what you love filming and if you don't know that yet experiment it with it figure it out film a lot of that um because the problem too is and I remember I gave this advice to ah
00:51:11
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I think it was hero my Hero BBC or something was his name but ah he was new to the industry too and I was like, don't accept custom videos if you hate that niche because if you do that custom video and you post it, you're going to start getting asked to more of that content. and If you already know you hate it, just say no, decline and just film what you enjoy because you're going to get asked to do more of that. yeah Yeah. Very good. Good advice. Yeah. It's hard to start in this. I want y'all to all know that. Mila, where can, where can everybody find you? You have a YouTube. Yeah. If you want to tell them about any of that Twitter. Yeah. I have a YouTube. Ms. Mila Rose Twitter is at Ms. Underscore. Mila Rose little.
00:52:08
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row out there. It's a little different. And then Instagram's, again, a little different with that. Ms. Mila Rose underscore. ah Mostly Ms. Mila Rose, though, on on Google. If you just want to Google me, you'll find all of that stuff. And I will also link it in the description. Yeah, sure. And I appreciate you so much being on here today. Is there any? Thank you so much for inviting me come by again. Okay. Sometimes I'd love to share some more with us. Is there anything else you want to tell all these beautiful people out here today? Miss Mila Rose. I love your support and I love all of you. Thank you so much for enjoying the content and offering to purchase some costumes for me because cosplays are not
00:52:50
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cheap so thank you so much for everyone who does that and all of you amazing babes out there who are working on your own platforms keep it up you're doing an amazing job and you are not the only one who is struggling to keep going Perfect. I could not have said it better myself. And follow us fuckers. We'll see you soon. Bye!