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Casting Spells on Listeners (The Real Way)
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When people hear I use witchcraft in my creative practice, they assume I'm trying to control them. The reality is different and way more interesting! In this episode, I pull back the curtain on how I use spiritual practice as the foundation of my work as an erotic audio creator. We're talking morning tarot and meditation routines, working with lunar cycles, blessing my business, grounding techniques, crystals, singing bowls, and the rituals that keep me resourced and intentional.
But here's the thing: I'm NOT casting spells on you. I'm casting spells on myself. I'm using spiritual discipline to show up as my most present self so that when you listen, you're hearing genuine attention and embodiment.
Whether you're a creator looking to deepen your practice, someone curious about witchcraft beyond the mystique, or just interested in how spiritual discipline shows up in professional work, this one's for you.
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Introduction to The Slut Next Door
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Welcome to the Slut Next Door podcast, where we dive deep into desire, unravel kinks and fetishes, and explore the deliciously naughty side of self-discovery.
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I'm Beatrix Vale, an erotic audio creator, and your guide to all things kinky and curious. So let's begin.
Misconceptions of Witchcraft
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So when you read the title of this podcast episode, how I'm casting spells on listeners, I'm sure your brain probably goes one of two places.
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Either you think I'm literally bewitching people through my voice, some kind of hypnotic mind control thing, which is very sexy.
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or you're wondering if I'm about to talk about witchcraft as ah sort of metaphor, calling my audio magical in that generic creator way.
Creative Rituals and Spiritual Practice
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But here's the reality. Neither of those things are true. Because i do use a little bit of witchcraft in my creative practice.
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I have rituals that I do, do like morning tarot and meditation. i work with lunar cycles.
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I bless my business. I use crystals and grounding techniques. And yes, It does directly impact the audio I create, but what I'm not doing is casting spells on you.
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What I'm actually doing is casting spells, if you will, on myself. I'm using spiritual discipline to stay resourced, grounded, and intentional.
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So that when I do sit down to record, I'm not running on fumes. And I'm not performing from the scattered place. I'm present.
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And that presence, that's what people respond to, I think. That's the real enchantment. It's not some mystical force bending your will, which again is pretty hot. It's a hot audio um prompt if you ask me.
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But what I'm actually doing is genuine attention, actual care, and just a woman who knows how to show up as their full self.
Connecting with Inner Goddess Energy
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So in this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on how I use my witchy side as a creator, and I won't be mystifying it, but really demystifying it.
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You'll hear exactly how these practices work, ah why they matter to my business, and how they translate into the work that I do. So, keep listening and if anything resonates with you, you might find something useful in here too or you might just be purely curious and just enjoy hearing me talk about things that...
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make me feel passionate. So before we get into the episode, i am going to start with what's currently making me feel like a goddess.
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If this is your first time listening, this is just a short little segment I started. It really is a great activity for me to do with myself because I'm able to sit back and reflect on things that are going on in my creator life or in the life around me. And I'm able to tap into that real goddess energy that is inside all of us, but it definitely is inside of me.
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So Something very interesting has happened recently and it could just be pure coincidence. It could be something a little aligned.
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So I'll explain. You know, if you know me... Every day that I show up in my business, I am working at high erotic levels.
Erotic Energy and Past Connections
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And that's why I love my job. I'm a very erotic person. And so being able to tap into that every day is just like a dream come true.
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But I do think that the more I tap into that, the more that I'm tapping into that with other people as well, I do believe that there is some vibration going on.
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you know, when I am becoming aroused, when I'm using my voice to stimulate and to titillate, such a fun word, titillate, I do think that I am raising the vibrational energy of me and, I love to be just a little woo-woo and think that I'm helping someone else raise their vibrational energy, you know, like sparking their erotic charge.
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So with that said, here recently, i have been really digging into titillating and and ah electrifying someone's erotic charge. I mean, like if we're being honest, I'm doing that all the time, really, through my files, but definitely one-on-one with someone and something very interesting has happened here recently.
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oh and before I get into that, really, i you should know that that person that I'm working really one-on-one with, we have recently really been digging into cuckold encouragement, a little cuckold corruption. Okay, so keep that in mind.
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So here recently, just out of nowhere, and it's been if I had guess, had to guess One to two years, I heard from one of my former bulls. So if you don't know this about me, i was in a cuckold relationship years and years ago.
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And one of my more memorable bulls, and when I say memorable, I mean we really connected beyond just the kinky level. We actually went on dates. We really connected on a deep level.
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The sex was amazing. um So anyways, just out of nowhere, he reaches out. like and it's been it's been years. And i couldn't help but think, what?
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Like, how aligned is this? I mean, truly, how aligned is this?
Coincidences or Vibrational Energy?
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And it was very exciting for me. It was thrilling, actually. um Because if you know me, you know I have a particular type when it comes to my goals. And so hearing from him was so, it was just exciting. So anyway, I hear from him, super exciting. And then...
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A couple days later, i hear from another person from my past, not a bull, um a little background info on me, and I'm not too shy about letting people know this, but I used to date couples.
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um And so one of the former, has now he's not a married husband anymore, um But the husband reached out to me to just so just say hi. I mean, we both know what he's probably reaching out for. And hey, bring it on. I love it. But um yeah, so he reaches out to me. And you know I sat back and thought, this is very interesting.
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So either it's just pure coincidence, right? Which it could be highly likely. Or we can get a little woo-woo and we can think that because of my recent vibrational energy, just my pure erotic power is just shooting out there into the world. And you know without them thinking about it, they caught on to and they thought, hmm, I wonder what Beatrix is up to.
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let me Let me look her up. Let me
Authenticity in Spiritual Practices
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reach out. So that, I mean, like I said, i if I'm being completely honest, I lean towards, it's just pure coincidence, but there's a part of me that's that loves to think the other side, that it's completely my energy just being shot out there and they can't help but respond. And that makes me feel like a fucking
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goddess that makes me feel like a goddess that makes me feel powerful I mean honestly if we want to go the woo woo side that I have this o you know erotic ah energy inside of me that that past lovers just can't help but reach out and see how their goddess is doing um no they didn't call me goddess but they should shouldn't they
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So I had to bring up that story because it was just, it's so interesting and it's very sexy and really it kind of ties in to today's episode. So with that said, let's jump into how I cast spells on my listeners, how I use my witchy side for my practice, how So before I really get into that too, actually let me say, i never want to force my my spirituality spirituality on someone.
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What I'm going to be doing here is I'm not going to get like too detailed either because I do hold my spirituality very close to me. um a lot of it's very private.
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No one knows about it. it's It's ultimately for me because it's not a performative practice. Well, I perform for myself, but you know what I mean? Like it's, I'm not doing it for anyone, but I do realize that it can be rather interesting.
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And I do love, i do love sharing myself especially with my listeners, the the people that listen to me and get to know me. I love to share this side with you guys. So with that said, please know that I am not like turning into some like, um,
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religious like nut job or something. I am just sharing the things that are very, very important to me. And um i don't judge anyone's religion. i you know, I think that's I love living where I live here in the U.S. because I'm free. I'm free to believe what I want to believe. And I think that's beautiful.
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I think that that's part of human nature is doing the things that feel good to you and doing the things that you believe in.
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um because I don't expect anyone to ah do what I do just because I do it. um I just love to share if you want to hear. So um also i did want to kind of note that I don't really, sometimes I don't even call myself a wedge because I don't i don't follow, say, the Wiccan religion like at all. I just
Daily Practices for Creativity
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like pick and choose the things that speak to me.
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i i do things that means something to me. And sometimes, a lot of times, there's fall on the witchy side. So I like to say that I'm a little witchy.
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um Sometimes I just say that I'm spiritual. ah But I often do not call myself a ah witch because i don't i don't follow what, ah say, a Wiccan would do.
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You know, I don't... I don't even really have God or goddesses that I work with. I just, I do things and you'll see in this episode, I do things that benefit me, that help me turn inward and make me a stronger person.
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So the first thing that I do is I have a pretty regular, um and I say pretty regular because like, for example, today missed my morning routine because I had a hair appointment um and I also had another online appointment that I had to make. So it kind of ruined my morning routine. But I would say nine times out of 10, I start the day with a very specific ritual. So I call it my morning meditation.
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i I have a room in my home that is called the meditation room. um It's kind of like an extra little... living room, if you will. i really think it use it's supposed to be the dining room. um But I turned it into my meditation room. i have a record player in there. i have a couch in there. It's very cozy. um But I have this space that is super important to me. So every single morning, I i go there and I start with a short meditation. i just ground myself. I center myself. and i pull tarot cards and I use those cards to kind of journal.
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um So after I pull them, i spend, ah i don't know, about 10 minutes at journaling and I journal about things that are relevant to the card that I pulled and what's going on in my life. So I kind of let the card work as a way m I use it ah use it to point me to something. And sometimes it's like very clear what I need to journal about. Sometimes it's not. I'll look at the card and I'm like, how am I supposed to like apply this to my life? It doesn't apply right now. So I'll just journal about something that's on my mind.
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But this this time is so special to me. it's so It's so grounding. So, you know, after I journal, typically if I have the time, i meditate more.
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i I meditate for even a longer time And I'll center my meditation on a specific focus or I'll include a crystal that's supposed to work on a certain emotion or um i give myself a mantra or an affirmation and I, it is such a special time. It's very energizing. um Meditation, I'm sure, works differently for a lot of people. For me, it is so
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It's like drinking a cup of coffee, um although I do still drink coffee in the morning. But what I'm saying is it feels like a cup of coffee. like it just It energizes me. it it is such a perfect start to a day, especially when you're doing the kind of work I do.
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And I would imagine a lot of people are like, oh my God, big, whoop-dee-doo, you turn on a mic and you moan and talk sexy. No, honey.
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and It is so much more involved. And I won't get into that. I did a few episodes um talking about what it's like to be a content
Emotional Investment in Creative Work
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creator. There are so many...
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facets to this business and even just content creation is a whole beast in itself. It's not that easy. You know, it takes a lot from me because I'm showing up with very authentic emotions and I'm, you know, ah not only that, there's script writing, there's just a, there's a lot of layers. And so it can be very demanding and ah in an energy way, in an emotional way. and That oftentimes, especially if the file is highly erotically charged, I get done with that file and feel, i have the feeling that I just had sex. Like that's the feeling. I feel like almost satisfied. Like, whew, I like, i need, i don't smoke cigarettes and I feel like I need one sometimes, you know, like that kind of feeling.
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But my morning ritual, when I call it my morning meditation, it is a time where I am making space intentionally to listen to myself before i listen to anyone else and before anyone else can listen to me.
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It's a way for me to turn inward. And so if you think about what I'm doing, it's not mystical at all. It's really not woo-woo in any sort of way.
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It's very grounding, you know, and that and it becomes almost like a discipline and away because in ah in a form of self-care,
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Because i i turn inward, I'm spending time on myself before i come to my office and give myself to others, like give my power to others.
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So that's my daily foundation, if you will. Some other things that I might do before recording, it really just depends on how I'm feeling. There are certain things I might do, like if I'm going to do work,
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recording session, I might go i use some singing bowls. If you don't know what those are, just look them up. But um you know I might hit on those and kind of like use some sound cleansing or that I do this a lot actually.
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i do short little grounding techniques before I press record to make sure that I am in the moment that I'm not somewhere else, that I am about to embody me.
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You know, I'm not going to embody half of me. um Another thing that I might do, I like to use essential oils.
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I make my own blends. I'm still kind of like tinkering and learning, but I do have this blend that I use in my office that's supposed to be a sense that stimulate a creative juices flowing. I'm supposed to make you feel alert.
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And so I use that. ah This really isn't connected to what I do for work, but I mean, it kind of is because it's important. I get my rest every night. I use the same because it's so perfect.
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It is it is the my most favorite smell ever. It's a blend of oils that I call nightfall and I turn it on before I lay down And it's supposed to stimulate like, you know, calm and sleeping.
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and it's the most magical smell. i my God. I love it. um Yeah. So I might use ah my my oil diffuser here at my desk. I also have made some rollers. where I roll on a blend on my wrist that's supposed to calm me down or supposed to ground.
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um Like I said, like essential oils are something that I'm still learning and kind of playing with and I just, I love them. I also have a lot of crystals at my desk.
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So ah looking at it now, i have my favorites. I two moonstone spheres. I have some amethysts at my desk. I have some citrine spheres.
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And so... If you know me, you know I'm the crazy crystal lady. I love crystals. I love them. And we can Here's my thoughts on them, okay? going to be completely honest with you.
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So they're gorgeous, for one. i love i love collecting crystals. They're so fucking pretty. i love them. And sure, I might think, hey, there might be something to this moonstone that helps me tap into my goddess energy. And I do. Like when I touch it, I am touching it to think about the goddess energy inside me. Do I think that there's some magical quality about it that pulls the goddess out of me?
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No. But what it is doing, it is something physical that's gorgeous um that i'm that I'm touching and I guess you can call it a placebo.
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But, you know, again, we can we can think. There's nothing wrong in thinking that, hey, maybe there is some vibrations inside of here that help me feel softer and more feminine. um Maybe there isn't. It doesn't matter.
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to me. You know, they make me happy. They help me tune in to what I want to tune in into. And that's all that that matters. You know, they, the crystals aren't sitting here like working magic.
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I wish they were. That would be really cool. I think that they really work more as a sensory anchor, like my moonstone spheres. Like I truly believe that when I touch them, they pull, they make the goddess inside of me swell And that is not woo-woo to me.
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That is just a really simple tool that I use. And these these things on my desk that make me happy. And when I look at them, they're so gorgeous.
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I mean, come on, that's that's really not magic, but it is magic in a way.
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But you know when we boil it all down, I think that all these things like the grounding, the essential oils, the crystals, they're all just working on my nervous system.
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That's what they're doing. And again, I'm why i'm not I don't feel like it's fair to call me a witch because I i don't believe that they're working magic on me.
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you know I'm not like casting spells or trying to cast spells. I'm using these things in a way that benefits me.
Business Blessings and Gratitude Rituals
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And that's why I say it's just a little witchy. So before I press record, I do these little things, the crystals or the grounding, or the essential oils. And you know so when I record, I'm working on me where when I'm in the editing process after I record, those things are working like like the reverb or the eat the equalizer layers. Those are working on my voice to make my voice sound more magical, if you will, where I'm working...
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on the things internally. I'm working on me so that I am present and I'm the best version of me before I press record.
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ah Another thing that I use ah in my business, if you will, I use some witchy things when it comes to money and abundance.
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So I have a money bowl that I have at my desk. I make one every month. Like I refresh it every month. And think it,
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you know Do I think this money bowl helps me make money? No. When I look at it do do i feel good because i spent some time putting it together and I think it looks really cool? Yeah.
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you know, it makes me feel a certain way ah when I light an incense near it or when I light the candle when I first create I thinking about the things that I'm thankful for.
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i am thinking about, you know, making money. I'm visualizing the ways that money makes my life easier.
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And those, are that's what I'm doing. that That's it. You know, there's no magic thing. There's no... There's nothing with that bowl that I'm using to be like, oh, I'm just going to make money um appear out of nowhere. you know I'm not doing that. um I do little things too.
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to bless my business. Like I'm looking at this little jar I have on my desk that you know I did this special little thing that was really special for me. It was really meaningful for for my business. And so that little jar sits there as a reminder, you know the the herbs inside of it. Do I think that they're doing magical things inside of there?
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no But I love that little jar because I look at it and I think about my business being blessed. you know um Every night I go to bed and I go through things that I am thankful for.
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Every single night, I just, as I'm laying there and I close my eyes, i just go through, you know, today I'm thankful for blah, blah, blah. Today I'm thankful for this person. And I'm going to tell you probably...
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I would say probably eight times out of 10, am thanking my listeners. I hate saying fans. I'm thanking my listeners. I thank them. I thank you guys a lot because you make me Like I can never explain how special it is to have people believe in you, to have people show up every day.
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it means the absolute world to me. i don't know if I can ever explain how much it means to me. And I literally thank you all the time. So I'm laying in bed going through things that i that I'm thankful for because I truly believe that when you feel abundant, you become abundant. And I can break that down more, but it's very simple. I think that we attract we attract the things that we are.
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You know, and it's as simple as that. And so the more that I feel abundant, the more positive I am, the more I i come from a place of care and nurture, that's going to come to me.
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So when I'm thinking you guys, or I'm thinking, m you know, there's, sometimes there's really silly things. I might thank Lucy for being cute, you know, like when I'm, when I'm going through the things that I'm thankful for at night, I am doing that also because i do kind of have that belief that what you do comes back to you three times. So like if if I'm... I think about... I'm sitting here thinking about, um wow, you know, if I...
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If I think about all the eroticism I'm putting out there, I'm getting that back three times. Bring it on. Bring that shit on. ah But no, really...
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It feels good to to feel thankful and and to believe that that is going to come back to me threefold.
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That makes me feel good, you know. and And yeah, I do hope that is true because i don' I don't want bad things to happen to me. Um, so these practices of gratitude, these moments of blessing my business that means so much to me, the little money bowl that I make.
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you know, i see these things as resources for my business, like ah on an energetic level.
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And you know, we all want to be successful. Like, I'm not shy to say that I love to make money. you know, we all love making money. It's fun. It makes life easier, you know, but it's also important to me that not only do I have a successful business, but but it is running on fuel and fumes that that are pure and that are good, with for lack of better words. um
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Yeah, that's really important to me. And so these little things that I do are witchy, but they're not like mystical woo-woo things. They're there are ways of putting just like good things out into the universe and hoping that it comes back to me in this in the same
Personal Growth and Lunar Cycles
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way. That's all it is. um Another thing that I that i do is, it,
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and i love to do it ah I love to work with the moon. And what I mean by that is I pay attention to the learn lunar phases. so I have this app on my phone that shows up as a widget as well. So when I open my phone, I can see what the moon phase at any time.
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And i I pay attention to that. And every morning during my morning ritual, I note what it is. That's part of my journaling. And so the concept is that you can work in partnership with the moon, which I think is like really kind of cool to think about. um But it's just like recognizing...
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The rhythm of the moon and the and that the energy it's giving off, you know, because we all know the full moon is just glorious. It's it's shiny and it's, you know, luminous. And, um you know, when it is a full moon, know,
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it's It's kind of lovely to think that I can be the same. I can use that same energy as the moon in this phase and XYZ done.
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Or my favorite thing is every new moon. unless there's something crazy going on in my life. um I love to pick a specific intention during the new moon.
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So the new moon is when the moon is like the darkest it is. And it's a really good time to like plant seeds, go and go internally And um really start something new, basically. And so I'll pick an intention, something personal, because I'm sitting here thinking I've never, yeah I've never used anything with my business because...
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I don't know. i just feel like I have my business down pat. Like usually it's something that I need to improve in my normal ah my normal life. ah So for example, ah recently I've been working on becoming more organized and more intentional with my finances. So You could say that's related to my business, but it's not. It's really the things that are like my own personal finances, not the finances of my business.
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So yeah, thinking I've never really used the moon with work because i don't know, I've never thought to. and probably never will. Because again, my practice, my spirituality is about me.
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Not to sound all selfish, but... You know, it is about me. And that's kind of like my point with this whole episode is I think that some people might be like, oh gosh, he's a witch and she hypnotizes people. o um Yeah, and the actually, you know, first of all, I'm not really a witch. ah Second of all, that actually is super unethical to you know, because I have studied about ah specifically witchcraft and that's like one of the main ethical things is that you don't ever do spells or whatever on people without their consent.
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Kind of like kink, you know, you're not going to do something with someone if it hasn't been consented upon. um Yeah, that's just really gross energy to to be doing something sly like that. So...
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Anyways, back to the moon. ah Yeah, I'm really not ever working with anything to do with my business. It's usually about me. It's always about me, rather.
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um And so I'll just kind of work with the energy of the moon. And, you know, assuming that I am also going through the same lunar cycle in a way, and I'll kind of work with the moon phase and attune my own energy to it
Spiritual Practice as Self-Improvement
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and just kind of synchronize with the moon. And it's really like, I love it. It makes me feel really
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It makes me feel like I'm doing something woo-woo without being woo-woo, if that makes any sense. ah Because again, I'm not like, I'm not going out in the moon stripping naked and letting the moon infuse me with power. um Although that sounds really fun. I'm really not doing anything like that at all. It's ah it's more just a way to to manifest things that you want done, really. And I mean, how cool is that? Like before I got into the spiritual side of me, I wasn't making goals for myself like that. And so now every 28 days, I'm making goals for myself.
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and and doing actions towards it. It's beautiful, you know? um And that's why my spirituality is so precious to me and so important to me because I do think it's made me um ah an even stronger person.
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and it's something that I hold so close to me. um i would honestly kind of feel lost without it. It's like, yeah, it's just, I'm living the best version of me because I decided to to learn about things, to open myself to things. And yeah, it's um it it is.
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And going back to, you know, how this relates to my business, I think that is why I'm able to be a successful content creator. and because I make so much fucking content too. Yeah. Because I really do. it's It's insane how much I make.
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But I account it to all of these things that i do i am I am i am the magic. you know And when I say that, there's nothing magical about what I'm doing. I'm not even casting spells. I don't do stuff like that.
00:41:40
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But I love to say that I am enchanting myself. I am casting a spell on
Authenticity as Magic in Recordings
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myself. you know the The only real magic here is the presence within me, you know showing up for myself, working on myself, working Every day, that's the magic.
00:42:04
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You know, I never, ever would bewitch anyone. that Again, one, that's unethical, and two, I don't even know how to. i i do know how to use my voice to seduce, but that's not that's not bewitching. That's not magic.
00:42:23
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That's just skill um You know, so with my practice, I'm doing ways to fully be in my body, to be in my voice, you know, to to show up every day as grounded as I can and intentional So that when people do listen to me, they hear something authentic and they hear something special and unique because it is uniquely me, you know, and that that is the quote unquote magic.
00:43:02
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is is me. um And we all have that. We all do. We have our uniqueness. We have the the quote unquote magic within us. And it's just knowing how to use it to the best of your ability and finding something you're passionate about. Because that's something I've learned, I think here recently is that I think people really respond well when they feel and see and experience your passion. you know And anytime i anytime I talk about crystals um with my fan base, I always hear like, oh my gosh, I love how passionate, I love hearing you talk about your crystals because you're so passionate. And I've recently journaled about that because that really hit me. Because when I talk about my crystals, I'm not performing. I'm not trying to sound passionate.
00:44:07
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I just am. And so I noted that because it just felt important to me to to understand that people... are drawn to you when when you're passionate, I think. And especially in today's world when there's so when like AI is just everywhere you know We want something genuine. We want something real. we i think we really crave that human connection.
00:44:39
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And another thing that's kind of hit me recently is I was reading something to where ah being creative, like tapping into whatever creativity lives inside of you divine.
Creativity and Divine Connection
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divine And that really struck me because i think I spent most of my life believing that I was not a creative person. And it wasn't until I started doing audios that I was like, oh my gosh, I love creating something out of nothing. i you know That's what drew me to audio because it there was this creative element. you know And like I said, I never considered myself creative.
00:45:26
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But I do think there is something really special about believing or thinking that when we are creating something, you know, when we're doing something with our hand or we're creating something out of nothing... we are tapping into something divine there. i think that's really special. And I think there's something there, whether it it is something divine or it is ah something, you know, beyond ourselves, whatever you want to call it.
00:45:58
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I think there is something there. And I think, I think that's kind of special. So, you know, when, If someone were to ask me, and I think I have been asked this before, like, you know, are you actually, i have a fun story.
00:46:15
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at my hair appointment, I did, i did actually confess to my hairdresser that I did erotic audios. And that's huge for me because, and I'm not going to go on a tangent, but Um, that is just huge for me to be able to admit that to a stranger. I'm, I'm working on owning me and that's including Beatrix in a healthy way, of course. Like I'm not going to go stand on the street and be like, I make men come for a living. You know, that's not, I don't think that's a great choice, um, to do in public. But, um, anyway,
00:46:55
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She asked me what I did for work and I thought, fuck it. I'm going to tell her what I do. And I did. And she was so cute because she said, wow. So how does that work? or Do men come to you and ask you to cast a spell on them?
00:47:11
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And I just, and that I thought that was so adorable that she called it that. But um anyway, so no, I'm not casting spells on my listeners. i don't even like, think it would be cool actually to like...
00:47:31
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I put herbs on my mic. Now I'm thinking about how cool that would be. But, you know, there's nothing like weird I'm doing or anything woo-woo I'm doing. You know, every morning what I am doing is that every morning i sit down.
00:47:47
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I meditate. I check in with myself. I bless my business when I can. I work with lunar phases. i tap on my singing bowls. I light incense.
00:48:04
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I ground myself before I record. And all of this... is we can say a spell, but the spell is not on you.
00:48:17
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It's on me. You know, it's me taking responsibility of me and this body and this mind and this voice I was giving and it's showing up as my most authentic and intentional and present self.
Conclusion: Authentic Presence as Magic
00:48:38
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And I think that when you listen to someone who is actually present, who is being authentic and, you know, they're not they're not running on empty and they're not performing from a place of desperation or even fakeness, I believe that you do feel that. Yeah.
00:49:02
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And so we can call that magic if you want, but if you're being logical, it's not magic. But I do love calling it magic. I'm doing things on myself to show up the way I do with my microphone and you hear it.
00:49:22
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and you respond, you find it unique, boom, it's magic. So my witchy side is about controlling myself. It's not about controlling other people at all.
00:49:38
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It's about making sure that I'm behind my mic and it's me. You know, i'm I'm aligned in the ways that matter to me and I'm grounded in my own power. And I think that's why people say i do have that quiet power because there is a power behind there.
00:50:01
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So, you know, you can show up and feel safe because I'm grounded. And that's the spell that I'm casting. Yeah. And again, it's not on you, it's on me.
00:50:13
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So the only real magic here it just my presence and everything just kind of flows from that. So if you're listening and you've never even heard me before, go down into the description, the summary of this podcast episode. I left a link there where you can check out more on my work And if you have heard me plenty of times, now you get to know the special things that allow me to be honestly the most badass bitch you've probably ever met. So thank you so much for listening and until next time.
00:50:58
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00:51:10
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00:51:25
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