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Speaker: Bigger talks, bigger talks.
Speaker: And we're back again with another IG Live edition conversation.
Speaker: And today I'm excited because we get to talk astrology.
Speaker: You know, I'm always asking people, what's your sign?
Speaker: What's your moon?
Speaker: What's your rising?
Speaker: What's your Mercury?
Speaker: What's your Mars?
Speaker: So today it's interesting.
Speaker: You see the back of this feelings board.
Speaker: It's kind of the shape of an astrology natal chart.
Speaker: So I have a phenomenal guest.
Speaker: Her name is Nicole Krasnoff.
Speaker: And she's an astrologer.
Speaker: She'll be going live from her astrology page, My Take on Being.
Speaker: We're going to talk about love, career, and the future.
Speaker: And I got so many questions to ask her.
Speaker: I'm so curious.
Speaker: I also think it's very important for you guys to really listen in, pay attention, ask questions in the chat, and also understand in the times we're living in, things are changing.
Speaker: People who are
Speaker: Getting rid of their old ways and the planet is transforming basically new jobs without jobs So you should know more about yourself.
Speaker: So I'm gonna let her in and we will have a beautiful discussion stay tuned Let's see
Speaker: Hello.
Speaker: Hello, how are you?
Speaker: What's going on?
Speaker: I'm good.
Speaker: How are you?
Speaker: I'm phenomenal.
Speaker: Welcome to Bigger Talks, IG Live Edition.
Speaker: How's your day?
Speaker: It's amazing.
Speaker: I'm so happy to be here.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Well, to people who don't know, Nicole, as I said before, is an astrologer.
Speaker: she's amazing she did my chart last week and i was blown away i had some deep insights and we're going to get into that before we talk about my chart and my reading let's talk about you as an individual um i did read in your bio that you're from los angeles but you're currently in brooklyn so give us a synopsis of who you are and how did you get into astrology
Speaker: yeah so I'm originally from LA it's a you know big astrology place everyone there spiritual so it definitely enhanced that I have been practicing for like 10 years now I have loved astrology forever I remember being younger and thinking I don't know how people could memorize all of that and then I got it oh I get it now
Speaker: Once I started kind of reading into it and like my own chart, it made like a lot of sense and I related to it a lot.
Speaker: And I've just loved it ever since.
Speaker: I'm in New York now.
Speaker: I kind of just was like, all right, I want to make astrology more of a thing.
Speaker: I started a TikTok, which is how you found me, which is awesome.
Speaker: Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker: And yeah, I like really love to do it.
Speaker: I love talking to people.
Speaker: I love reading charts.
Speaker: You know, I especially love talking about love and relationships and all that.
Speaker: It's just been a really fun journey.
Speaker: Well, that's good to know because actually, guys, that's how I found her on TikTok talking about relationships.
Speaker: Like, if your rising sign is this, go to the seventh or eighth house.
Speaker: And if their sign is this, look up their ruling planet.
Speaker: And if they... So just to give you guys a quick synopsis, the first reading was a relationship reading for my self-love.
Speaker: And we went over, because I told her in the past that there are a lot of dating shows.
Speaker: And I'm like, wow.
Speaker: I do so many dating shows.
Speaker: I wasn't asking for it, I wasn't calling for it.
Speaker: And you were saying because your son is in your fifth house.
Speaker: Fifth house represents entertainment, fun, romance, pleasure, play.
Speaker: I'm like, interesting.
Speaker: And then you were saying like, because my MC, my Midheaven,
Speaker: was in Leo, but that's enough of that.
Speaker: And so a lot of the stuff you said with my ideal partner and person, they got to have like strong placements, they got to have a lot of like earth planets in their chart and be ambitious and independent.
Speaker: I'm like, oh man, spot on.
Speaker: So it kind of gave me some peace at heart because to understand what I'm attracting and what I have going on.
Speaker: But for people listening, because I think relationships, I think love is so important in all of our lives.
Speaker: Where did you start?
Speaker: Where do you start when it comes to strides, when it comes to reading someone's chart, when it comes to love?
Speaker: What's the first rule of thumb?
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: So I think for the most part, everybody knows their sun sign, right?
Speaker: Like we go off of a sun calendar so people can gauge like, okay, this is my sun sign.
Speaker: I know what I'm looking for on a pretty surface level, right?
Speaker: Like if you're a water sign, you know you can get along
Speaker: with other water signs but that's just the tip of the iceberg so if you know the time you were born and the place then you can look up your birth chart and your birth chart what you have behind you yeah you know is it basically like a screenshot of the sky at the moment you were born and the other planets in that you know in the sky yes have a place in your chart and you know show you different areas
Speaker: they also fall into the 12 houses each of those 12 houses are like the external elements of your life starting with like your appearance ending with like how you view spirituality yeah so usually you know astrologers will talk about your Venus sign Venus is important when you're looking at love because it talks about what you
Speaker: find beautiful what you like what you're like relationships what you're looking for in another person and so it's easy to look at this and go oh okay i'm a leo venus i really appreciate big gestures and people that are confident and magnetic like that's you know commonplace um or you yourself can be those
Speaker: you know have those elements um so i always tell people to look at their venus because it'll make sense as to what they want to attract right but if we're looking at your chart as a whole and i can actually show you a picture of yours so that i can describe um let me just do this
Speaker: So if we're looking at a chart like this, which, you know, complicated for most people, but we usually look in the seventh house.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Seventh house is the house of long-term love and relationships and partnerships.
Speaker: So astrologers are a look at the seventh house and to see, you know, what planets are there, what planet is, um,
Speaker: at the beginning of your seventh house so for you it's aries and taurus then we look at the ruler ships you know we look at who rules taurus which is venus which is also in your seventh house so it's someone with you know strong earth energy with you know they're beautiful inside and out they have a lot of comfort and stability they're looking they're grounded um
Speaker: So that's really important.
Speaker: And if we look at Aries, Aries is ruled by Mars, Mars is in third and Capricorn.
Speaker: And that means someone that's goal oriented, someone that has, you know, kind of all their stuff together, all their ducks together.
Speaker: And so those are, you know, I know that's complicated, which is why I'm glad you booked a reading so I can, you know, but
Speaker: But no, it's all... Literally, like just to kind of feed off that chart, like it really made sense.
Speaker: Because when you break down like the planets, the houses, and the signs that rule those or planets that rules those houses, and he was just like giving me details, I'm like, this makes so much sense.
Speaker: Like, this is accurate.
Speaker: I can go to the board and say,
Speaker: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker: And so for me, it gave me not only confidence and more faith, but like, okay, understanding, like, okay, I'm at peace.
Speaker: And I think that's why astrology readings, reading a natal chart is so important because you have clarity, right, around love, around career, around the future.
Speaker: So before we go on to the next question, we got to get, you know, your signs, like what's your rising, what's your sun, and what's your moon?
Speaker: Yeah, so that's the big three.
Speaker: That's usually what people go off of.
Speaker: So I'm a Pisces sun, hence why I love all the spiritual stuff.
Speaker: Right, right.
Speaker: Me too, Pisces.
Speaker: Yeah, I was Pisces.
Speaker: I'm a Scorpio moon, so I love, I like deep, really deep content.
Speaker: And I'm a Sagirizing.
Speaker: So you're a Scorpio moon, we're a book.
Speaker: That's, you know, we're the cliff.
Speaker: Yeah, yeah.
Speaker: But yeah, knowing those three signs for anyone is really helpful because your sun is like your ego and your principles and how you operate in the world.
Speaker: Your moon is your emotions, your subconscious, where you feel safe.
Speaker: And your rising kind of dictates how you come off in the world initially, even how you look or how you dress, like what people see you as before they really know you.
Speaker: Yeah, and it's so important to know that.
Speaker: And then, you know, as you go deeper, because I'll ask a person, like, what's your Mercury?
Speaker: Like, you know, we always hear Mercury in retrograde.
Speaker: But Mercury, to my understanding, if you agree, is how we think and how we communicate.
Speaker: And then you spoke on Venus, which is more like a love planet, which you should look for.
Speaker: I want to get into the education of astrology.
Speaker: So you said you've been studying for like over a decade.
Speaker: Like, what age and when did you get started?
Speaker: Who was your mentors?
Speaker: And like, what, what like led you to astrology?
Speaker: Like, how did that happen?
Speaker: yeah so like I said it was like when I was little I was like that's crazy if people can memorize all this stuff my mom was always into like Chinese astrology yeah and then I think when I started I was like oh what's a moon sign I like kind of started getting in like curious about that and I looked mine up Scorpio moon I was like oh my gosh this makes so much sense I have I feel like I have really
Speaker: deep, intense feelings that like, I don't know if other people are experiencing.
Speaker: And so that got me kind of hooked.
Speaker: I was like, oh, wow.
Speaker: Like, I don't feel just Pisces.
Speaker: I feel all these things.
Speaker: And so once I started kind of getting deeper into it, I was like, I wonder what everyone else I know is.
Speaker: And so kind of opening up my mind to
Speaker: like this whole new universe of information and like you know love psychology and love sociology so it was just another way of looking at it right and so I kind of just leisurely studied right yeah round when I was like 16 and then I'm being more serious about it I got a mentor like two years ago she's like this
Speaker: amazing astrology teacher i would i had like weekly readings with her we would go through all the charts and i learned so so much um and i just like constantly consume astrology information so it's like a constant learning which is really exciting cool yeah and i i think the thing is because over the years and you're constantly like at your leisure getting information you're putting to into the
Speaker: together, you're evolving, you're growing, you're trying to understand more.
Speaker: Now, I do know from past, you know, history, at least in my life, that people are a little taboo with astrology.
Speaker: But the world is evolving, things are changing, I think, and people are tapping more into the metaphysics, the spirituality, and I feel like astrology is under their umbrella.
Speaker: why do you what would you say and why would you say that astrology is very important not only for your life discovery but for your career in love like what is it about it that you know helps that help you and everyone else that you've served yeah well so the interesting thing about astrology and like just a little like background um astrology is thousands and thousands of years old you know it's been studied for thousands of years most cultures have
Speaker: had some look for meaning in the stars in some way.
Speaker: It started in like the second century when, you know, people were like just looking at the stars to forecast the weather, to forecast like political events.
Speaker: You know, we had major modern scientists like Galileo kind of being both the astronomer and the astrologer.
Speaker: And when
Speaker: You know, there was this big revolution, this like, you know, the Renaissance where astrology and art and all that stuff was really, really popular.
Speaker: But with all the advancements in science that came out, there was this kind of divide between astronomy and astrology.
Speaker: And astronomy was viewed as a science and astrology was no longer viewed as a science.
Speaker: And it used to be that they were together, like in the 15th century.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: In the 15th century, doctors would need to like consult them, the phases of the moon before they did any.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: And so it was really popular during the Renaissance because they, that's when the printing press was, you know, invented, existed.
Speaker: And that's how they were, um,
Speaker: popularizing the practice through the spread of like almanacs.
Speaker: And so there was just a lot of major breakthroughs that led to this kind of like, oh, well, you know,
Speaker: astrology is just spirituality.
Speaker: But, you know, people like Theodore Roosevelt kept a birth chart, his birth chart, like on his desk.
Speaker: And Morgan said, you know, millionaires don't use astrology, but billionaires do.
Speaker: Then in the turn of the 20th century, Carl Jung, the famous- Love Carl Jung.
Speaker: He's amazing.
Speaker: he was the one that actually like developed psychological astrology oh he did yeah and it led to like the personality based interpretations that we know today um so what was also really cool is around the 60s astrology started to pop back up again like really get popular because it was the age of aquarius and the
Speaker: various was when um uranus and pluto were conjunct uranus being the planet of revolution and pluto being the planet of transformation so this big evolution transformation happened and people started kind of diving into more spirituality now in the 21st century social media and like all this really accessible astrology information it started at this
Speaker: I think it's very popular obviously with women because it's kind of like against the patriarchy because it's like the divine and sacred feminine, right?
Speaker: It's against this belief that like there's the only people that can be
Speaker: you know, the top are like priests and pastors and male figures.
Speaker: Oh, that's interesting.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: There's a lot of discourse around that, which is really exciting.
Speaker: Also what's another really fun fact is that astrologers believe that the rise of social media, um,
Speaker: is because there was an increase in c-sections that led to the births like births being between 9 and 5 p.m and which means the number of people born with their sun sign above the horizon in the 10th house what does that mean you say above horizon above yes
Speaker: So when you're born during the day, if you look at which I showed you the chart, if you're born a day, your son will be like on the upper half of your chart, which means like it was in the sky when you were born.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: And so,
Speaker: if your son is like, especially in your 10th house, 9th house, 11th house, there's more people see you more.
Speaker: So there's more, uh, reputation to uphold.
Speaker: There's more prestige.
Speaker: So that's like, they're, you know, that's something that they're more like saying placements where people have fame.
Speaker: If your son is in like in the upper half of your chart, then it's more of like,
Speaker: you want to be seen like people.
Speaker: And if it's in the tent specifically, then it's like, you are, you're who you are, who you like, what your goals in life are really are visual to be people and like huge on reputation career, all that stuff.
Speaker: So.
Speaker: That's just the background.
Speaker: And I think it's so fascinating.
Speaker: And I know a lot of people don't know it, but like to me, astrology is just patterns.
Speaker: Like it's been studied for thousands of years and people laugh at it, but it's like, you know, we've been studying the economy for thousands of years and that's also patterns.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: And can you elaborate on like the 10th house?
Speaker: Because I think that's where the MC to Midheaven stands.
Speaker: Because I think most people, they always know their moon, their rising, and their sun, right?
Speaker: But I always try to tell people to look at the MC to kind of get their public persona or reputation.
Speaker: Can you kind of like elaborate on what that means and how you can find it in your chart?
Speaker: yeah so if you know your birth time know your location then you can like go online and just look up birth chart calculator and it'll show you your chart and at the very top of your chart it'll have a sign that says mc your mc like for 99 of people is going to be between the 9th and 11th house it's usually in the 10th um
Speaker: case that's career reputation recognition all very important things to like your your journey in life so when people when you're looking at your MC you want to look at the sign that's in your MC like for you it's Leo so the way that you're seen the way that you come off especially in like work and in the world is Leo it's confident it's magnetic it's charismatic it's like
Speaker: Sun energy really and then because Leo the sign Leo is ruled by the Sun we look at your Sun sign which is Pisces which is house yeah so
Speaker: Yeah, I mean, I think the biggest thing is, you know, it's so much information.
Speaker: I think people get overwhelmed, it doesn't make sense.
Speaker: And we just want to know what we need to know.
Speaker: I think it's important to know yourself through in and throughout.
Speaker: Like I think you was telling me when you were still, because I want to move into career now, when you was reading my career chart,
Speaker: you would tell me work i have a lot of planets in capricorn and or i have capricorn and saturn and uranus and you're like you gotta work he said he said it's a little tough but when you climb and get where you want to go it turns out better so can we can we transition and talk about like career and how that and what impacts or how do you should look at your chart in a career aspect as far as your natal chart yeah so for career i typically look at saturn in the midheaven we kind of just discussed them in heaven
Speaker: Saturn is also something to look at because Saturn is rules regulations authority I'm a thought leader becoming the expert in a certain area so where you have Saturn in your chart
Speaker: though saturn can also you know talk about like obstacles and challenges you'll face it will talk about how you grow and what you need to overcome to be the best that you are so astrologers will look at saturn and say oh you know you have saturn in the third house like for you communication is going to be a really big part of your career there might be trouble with it you might have obstacles that you need to overcome but it's going to be something that
Speaker: is a constant point of growth for you.
Speaker: And so a lot of people will look at Saturn.
Speaker: A lot of people will look at the ruler of Saturn.
Speaker: Um, and a lot of people will look at the mid heaven, mid heaven being career reputation.
Speaker: Mid heaven is also the 10th house, 10th house is career reputation.
Speaker: So if there are any planets fall into the 10th house, it could be, you know, how,
Speaker: your dip, you know, how you go about your career, how you go about gaining your reputation.
Speaker: Um, someone with a lot of house, uh, planets in the 10th house could be really career oriented.
Speaker: Like they could really driven, but if you have a lot of energy, if you have,
Speaker: you know, a mid-heaven that's like very like, want to be known.
Speaker: There's a lot of career orientation in that too.
Speaker: People also look at the second house for like how you can make money.
Speaker: Yeah, money for money.
Speaker: So tell everybody right now because everybody want to know what their second house placement is.
Speaker: Like that represents what?
Speaker: Material possessions and money.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: So it's like, it's just, it's even your personal values, but a lot of time it's like the stuff you want, your, your values, your, the material possessions, you're trying to get money.
Speaker: It's like, it's the direct income that you're getting.
Speaker: So utilize the energy that's in your second house.
Speaker: then you can find ways to make money, right?
Speaker: Like then you can find that kind of energy.
Speaker: Eighth house on the other side is more like long-term investments.
Speaker: It's like other people's money, kinda.
Speaker: So just trying to understand the energy that you have there,
Speaker: what focus is in there for you and how you're able to utilize that in your favor to make money long term so yeah i mean i i cover like people always ask me that in reading yeah because i think money love career and then you know you have the future aspect now there's just some way that for you as an astrologer you can explain someone's future within their charter you can kind of see their potential of their future is there some type of
Speaker: thing to look at like how does that work yeah so what's funny is like a lot there's a lot of like predictive astrology which i'm still studying it's stuff that's you know that's that's a big one but predictive astrology can look at like where the planets fall and how they're interacting with each other and be like okay like this is what's this is what's coming for you in the future um a lot of the time astrologers most of the time will look at transits
Speaker: So that's like what's happening in the sky currently and how that relates to your chart.
Speaker: So like you can get a reading that's like, okay, let's look at my transits.
Speaker: Let's look at my birth chart and then what planets are moving around right now and what I can look out for.
Speaker: A lot of people, well, you know, my age, your age, they've gone, they're going through or about to go through their Saturn return.
Speaker: Saturn is like around age,
Speaker: 29 to 31.
Speaker: It's like this big up.
Speaker: It's tough too.
Speaker: Like people listen, Saturn return is fight or flight.
Speaker: Like you got to really like, you know, strap your boots up and get ready for like some challenges that don't even make sense.
Speaker: But they're going to push you to be your next self that next decade of, you know, your 30s.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: because Saturn is coming back to the place that it was originally at when you were born.
Speaker: And so like the first 30 years of your life are like a wash.
Speaker: It's like, all right,
Speaker: You're like, and it's funny because this article just came out that was like, people aren't really adults until they're 30.
Speaker: And a bunch of astrologers were like, yeah, because that's your Saturn return.
Speaker: Like, you're in your way now.
Speaker: Like, all, like your life is being upheaved.
Speaker: Like, are you, are you, are you ready?
Speaker: You know?
Speaker: And so a lot of astrologers will look at like major events that they'll look at like what's upcoming, um,
Speaker: you know, forecast for the year, full moons, eclipses.
Speaker: I mean, we have a lot of that this year.
Speaker: People have been, you know, feeling a lot, a lot of breakups during the summer.
Speaker: We had a Venus rush parade.
Speaker: People were especially publicized ones, but like lots of people were kind of like, oh my God.
Speaker: And that's because the moon or the eclipse season or whatever is going on.
Speaker: That's why those things taking place.
Speaker: So Venus was in retrograde.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: So what, you know, Venus being love and relationships, it's like when it's retrograde, which retrograde is like, if we're standing,
Speaker: at Earth and looking at a planet because of the movement, it's spinning backwards, like slowed down a little bit in our elliptical journey as the Earth.
Speaker: So when we look at retrograde, it's like people are like, oh, my God, that's in retrograde.
Speaker: Venus in retrograde is like, get ready for breakups.
Speaker: Get ready to look.
Speaker: Why is it like that, though?
Speaker: Like, why is that?
Speaker: Why is it so certain?
Speaker: Like, what is that?
Speaker: It's, I mean, that's astrology, right?
Speaker: It's just like this study of like what's been happening for so many years and like looking at like why do people break up more often during Venus retrograde?
Speaker: Why, you know, like so many celebrity breakups, so many divorces after 30 years, like crazy.
Speaker: I always tell people I feel like astrology is like it's like written like it writes your life like babies just happen like I feel like my based on my chart I don't know but my life I feel like my life has been a movie I could not imagine that positions I'm in or been in would have happened 10 12 years ago but when I started digging into my chart and getting more clarity and revelation I'm like
Speaker: this makes sense.
Speaker: So is there somewhere in your chart where you know like this is my soulmate or I should marry this type of person or marriage is something for me?
Speaker: Do each individual have that type of thing where they can sense that they're going to be married or they're going to have a, I don't know, successful relationship?
Speaker: yeah so definitely looking at like the seventh house and the planets in the seventh house and the rulers you know they'll kind of be able to dictate what that you're looking for i remember my astrologer um she was telling me about a church that she was like this person will never find love wow jesus i was like whoa um not so much like they
Speaker: it's impossible for them, but it's like something that they don't necessarily want or like.
Speaker: I have a few ways of looking at it in a chart.
Speaker: Like I kind of talked to you about it.
Speaker: Like, is it easy for you to get in and out of a relationship?
Speaker: Are you getting outside enough to find love?
Speaker: Are you,
Speaker: in the, you know, is it easy in that way?
Speaker: Are you finding people that you align with?
Speaker: Like, those are all things that we can look at in a chart to be like, okay, yeah, all of these things, like,
Speaker: do or don't work like it could be really hard for you to get in and out of a relationship you could not be finding anyone and you could if you do find someone that they're not you know you're matched and so those people i'm sure have a harder time also if like the planet of love
Speaker: has difficult aspects like relationships to the other chart.
Speaker: Like if Venus, Saturn or Pluto, it's like that can create more uncertainty, more complicated obstacles.
Speaker: in love and so someone that's like really struggling is like oh wow i didn't realize like my you know saturn was like conjunct venus like right on top of my venus what is when you say conjunct what does that actually mean that means the planets are like basically right on top of each other like looking up at the sky like venus and saturn are really close together as far as perception goes
Speaker: And so when they're really close to one another conjunct, then it's like, oh, I see why I have these obstacles.
Speaker: I see why I'm having these issues in love.
Speaker: So that's also why I love astrology because it's like, if you know these things,
Speaker: make an effort to understand them instead of getting like really jaded about something or like, you know, dismissive.
Speaker: And you'd be like, oh, yeah.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Because I think you for me, I don't think I know I was I was telling you about long distant relationships for me over my life, my lifespan.
Speaker: I'm like, I'm always like,
Speaker: I'm like, am I afraid of love?
Speaker: I'm running from it.
Speaker: Like, why do I keep attracting long-distance relations?"
Speaker: You said, because for you, because your moon placement is in Sagittarius, you like your space, you like to be free.
Speaker: And I was like, okay.
Speaker: But I used to be frustrated because I'm like, how do I keep connecting with someone that lives far away?
Speaker: You know, like, there's people, you know, and it's like, okay, this makes sense.
Speaker: And this is why astrology is so important for people to know, to understand and get a reading.
Speaker: Now, I want to tap into
Speaker: Before we get into questions, because I got some questions for you that people sent in.
Speaker: I added someone some more as well.
Speaker: But before we, we're going to do a rapid fire.
Speaker: So I'm going to say three signs, right?
Speaker: And you're going to tell me, this is going to come to you.
Speaker: What's the most compatible sign with that sign?
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: All right?
Speaker: Yep.
Speaker: You ready?
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: All right.
Speaker: So the sign is Gemini.
Speaker: Aquarius or Libra.
Speaker: Taurus.
Speaker: Capricorn or cancer.
Speaker: Uh, Pisces.
Speaker: Cancer or Scorpio.
Speaker: Wow.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: So those are water signs.
Speaker: Great.
Speaker: I like pairing the elements together.
Speaker: I know like people have different opinions, but I, I feel like those really work together.
Speaker: No, they do.
Speaker: I mean, I have some experiences, so I got, we have several questions, but I'm going to just go one by one.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: What,
Speaker: this is really good which is considered to be the most desired sign that's interesting so there's i mean i think there's like different ways to look at desire but when it first comes to mind to me is libra because libra is so it's the flirt it loves to like you know kind of be like
Speaker: The one that like people are like magnetic, it's like, it's a very magnetic sign.
Speaker: It's ruled by Venus, love and beauty and aesthetics and Libras are typically like pretty easy to get along with.
Speaker: They're easy going.
Speaker: They're non-confrontational.
Speaker: So people really like them on the, well,
Speaker: I mean, love hate with Leo's, but Leo's are definitely very popular in that sense because they want to be desired.
Speaker: So the goal, you know, find ways that desire them.
Speaker: And they're usually very successful at a lot of celebrities or Leo's, you know, people find Leo's to be also charming and magnetic and exciting.
Speaker: Um, and then on the other side, I also think that like, if someone's really into like, like, you have like,
Speaker: dark then people will go for a scorpio because scorpio is going to give you that like i'm a little afraid of you but i'm so into this right right
Speaker: your own personal preference but I go with those for sure.
Speaker: This is another great question.
Speaker: Which part of your chart do you want to pay attention to the most?
Speaker: I never thought of that.
Speaker: Interesting.
Speaker: So I we talked about this before but there's you know Placidus system which is how I
Speaker: what I use in astrology and there's whole sign.
Speaker: Whole sign is just a little bit simpler in terms of just making everything equal.
Speaker: Like astrology apps nowadays use the whole sign system.
Speaker: So I really look at the first house because that's kind of what starts your journey.
Speaker: It's like your path in life.
Speaker: I look at the fourth house because, and these are angular houses and this is what, what is really popular with astrologers that use Placidus system.
Speaker: I use the fourth house because that dictates your home, your family, what your life will, has looked like and will look like in the future based on like what you call home.
Speaker: I look at your seventh house because it's, you know, relationships, it's long-term, you know, partnerships.
Speaker: It's like,
Speaker: know what what will happen in your life with the people that you're supposed to be with and then house right you're midheaven um which is your career which is your reputation which is like how you come off in the world so those are really and you know a lot of other astrologers are really important people
Speaker: yeah definitely so i you know i know you know my chart but i just wanted you i'm gonna say two placements and you just write what comes to you so pluto in the first house i believe it's scorpio right and then fourth house aquarius i think yeah yeah so what what does that give you if you didn't know me yeah pluto in the first house means that if i didn't know you first house is always that like there's some kind of major transformation or shift into
Speaker: of like your appearance, the way you are seen to people.
Speaker: So like when something big happens in your life, you kind of shift, you change.
Speaker: Like something about your appearance changes, something about like the way people view you changes.
Speaker: And so like those things will,
Speaker: happen kind of on a physical level almost.
Speaker: It was big transformative experiences.
Speaker: Aquarius in the fourth house.
Speaker: So Aquarius is kind of, it's the air sign.
Speaker: It's about community.
Speaker: It's about
Speaker: you know it's it's like humanitarian causes right um but aquarius is also kind of like i don't want to upset any new queries but it's a little detached and so something unique and innovative about aquarius but that also could mean something something slightly more detached right so like a you know fourth house being home and family could be something kind of different about your upbringing about how you then decide to you know create your
Speaker: your family in the future there could be something different about it um or it could you know dictate like your your fourth house is like your mom and you know all that stuff so it could just dictate like a detached nature and my mom is an aquarius and it's in a fourth house yeah she's detached at times i have some other questions um i think we answered some of this in an interview already uh okay
Speaker: Man, he says so much.
Speaker: Well, I guess what's the significance we said that of your sun, moon, and rising sun and how does it influence your personality?
Speaker: So, okay, cool.
Speaker: You told us about the sun, you told us about the moon, you told us about the rise.
Speaker: Like what placement influences your personality the most?
Speaker: Is it your rising or your moon?
Speaker: See, I get confused sometimes because I keep thinking it's your rising because that's your ascendant, how people see you.
Speaker: What do you think?
Speaker: So there's like a big debate among astrologers, I would say, like what really, what like really looks at your personality.
Speaker: Um, some astrologers kind of look at like day charts and night charts differently.
Speaker: Um, like a day chart is like, if you were born during the day and night is if you're born at night, because if you're born at night, then the moon is above the horizon.
Speaker: So then some would say that your moon is your,
Speaker: most, your innermost personality, which I relatively agree with.
Speaker: I think that your moon is something that like comes out when you're alone, when you trust people a lot,
Speaker: want to feel safe when you want us to feel secure I mean look at your well I always look at people's moons to be where they feel the most secure like your moon is in the fifth house my moon is in the tenth house like for example if my like career or reputation feels faulty then because my moon is in the tenth house I feel
Speaker: like unsafe.
Speaker: Like I feel like, Oh my God, things are, nothing's going to work out.
Speaker: Like I get a lot of anxiety.
Speaker: And so you can look at your mood and what house it's in to like, see what area of your life is important to you.
Speaker: Like someone with a moon in the seventh house is someone that like really values their long-term relationships and you know, friendships too.
Speaker: That's like, I have to make sure that all my relationships are good for me to feel good.
Speaker: Oh, that's good.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: People with like a sun chart, the sun sign can be very telling as well, you know, that's your personality.
Speaker: But I know a lot of people are like, I don't really relate to my sun sign, which is totally fair.
Speaker: Because I think sometimes I've realized, you know, when people meet me, they think I'm a fire sign.
Speaker: But that could be my mind.
Speaker: You're so motivated, so just at it.
Speaker: Like, oh, that's my moon, my moon is in Sag.
Speaker: But then I know people I'm rising, it's Libra.
Speaker: Oh, I can see that.
Speaker: Like, you know, now this is the question I have.
Speaker: Do, are they compatible signs in your moon?
Speaker: So say if you both have fire moon signs, do they usually get along?
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: So I, before I even look at sign compatibility, I look at people's moon signs.
Speaker: When I do like compatibility readings and I can like put two charts together, I can look at, okay, like,
Speaker: what are the really important elements of the compatibility?
Speaker: And I think that when I look at a chart, it's always going to be a moon.
Speaker: I will always look at people's moon signs.
Speaker: The moon,
Speaker: is where you find comfort and safety and security and you're not going to show everyone your moon.
Speaker: Oh, say that again.
Speaker: Oh, that should be a quote.
Speaker: That's deep.
Speaker: Oh, say that again.
Speaker: You're not going to show everyone your moon?
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Because you just said something prior to that.
Speaker: You were saying like your moon sign usually comes out when you feel comfortable around someone.
Speaker: Comfortable, right?
Speaker: And that's more like your real self when you feel like your walls are down.
Speaker: That was great.
Speaker: Wow.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: So that's when...
Speaker: you know, like if you feel really comfortable with someone, that's because they've earned it.
Speaker: They can see that like real part of your personality.
Speaker: And so when I look at like people's compatibility, I look at their moon signs.
Speaker: I'm like, is this person's moon being supported by other in that person's chart?
Speaker: Like if their moons are in the same sign and right next to each other, like those people just inherently
Speaker: understand each other right like they are like peas in a pod like you don't have to say anything because they'll get it um if people's moons are square like for me a lot of people with an Aquarius moon I was it's square and I find that that's where I've had conflict that's where I've had the square represent the square is a 90 degree angle so it's like a conjunct is like when they're like within
Speaker: I say seven degrees from each other but a square is when they're about 90 degrees from each other and so it's like I don't know like four houses or four planets off different but what you see a square in this compatibility chart it's like oh like there's gonna be difficulty with how these will express emotions to one another like one person is not gonna feel supported they're gonna feel
Speaker: conflict with someone else.
Speaker: So I love, I mean, that's, that's also the reason I started.
Speaker: So the moon places are very important.
Speaker: Moon is very important.
Speaker: So then I know, I know when I was on your TikTok page, you talked about air signs and then I looked up air signs that I was in with someone else.
Speaker: And I'm like, the communication is so stimulating.
Speaker: It's so deep.
Speaker: It's so raw.
Speaker: It's so real.
Speaker: we both have planets in air right i believe they're mercury is gemini mines is uh aquarius so what about airs time does air signs kind of help a relationship or partnership or business relationship as well yeah so mercury is really important when you think like mercury is you know
Speaker: intellect it's communication it's knowledge um it's how we communicate with one another i think mercury you know people don't really talk about that in terms of compatibility i do because i think that the way that you communicate and what you know energy mentally you share with someone is really important
Speaker: I think that if you have you know an air sign mercury what you do and I do it's easy to be quick it's like your the banter is on you're funny you know that's really important and you can have a lot of compatibility with someone but if you can't communicate with them then it's like oh this is kind of this is tough yeah yeah
Speaker: And something as simple as that can really dictate like, you know, where the relationship goes, how it falls off or how it grows.
Speaker: And like having those little understandings and placements within your mind like makes sense because I'm so curious.
Speaker: All right, we got some more questions.
Speaker: Also, by the way, you know, people listening, you know, she has another page, which is a personal page, but my take on being how do people like reach out to you and get a reading because I'm telling you, it's the best.
Speaker: They can go on my website.
Speaker: It's in my bio.
Speaker: And they can book a reading.
Speaker: I do love readings, career readings, full chart readings.
Speaker: And yeah, they're really insightful.
Speaker: Sometimes I look at my own chart again and I'm like, oh my God, that's crazy.
Speaker: So I love doing those because I think that, especially when someone has a specific question in mind, because they're like, I'm really focused on love.
Speaker: It's really something that I want to understand in my chart.
Speaker: And then they were like, wow, like that was, that was crazy that there were so many elements, so many things that we can look at.
Speaker: So I, those are my favorite readings.
Speaker: So if anyone wants to know more about love, yes, love, love, love, we all need love.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: So I have two questions.
Speaker: So the one question is,
Speaker: Astrology and career choices.
Speaker: Can your birth chart help you find your true calling?
Speaker: That's one.
Speaker: And two, how can understanding your chart improve your physical and mental well-being?
Speaker: Like, are there placements in your chart that affects, like, your mental mood or if you're going to have more anxiety or you might be depressed at times?
Speaker: Like, is it something in, like, your moon placement?
Speaker: I'll let you see it.
Speaker: So let's start with the first question.
Speaker: Can your chart help you find your true calling?
Speaker: Cause I'm always in there trying to say, where's my calling?
Speaker: I love to look at the mid heaven, right?
Speaker: And then I look at the ruler of the mid heaven for you.
Speaker: It's your son in Pisces in the fifth house.
Speaker: It's in the house of, uh,
Speaker: love relationships like the you know like the fun kind like entertainment and and hobbies stuff like that so like you can find
Speaker: You're calling there also your son is like definitely a big part of what you're calling It's how you want to be perceived in the world.
Speaker: Um, I also look at Jupiter because Jupiter is how you can expand growth and You know the bigger elements of your life your progress and for you it was in the seventh house Which is like partnerships and like I said like you can really expand
Speaker: through partnerships and the people that you're around and the connections that you make.
Speaker: Mine is in the 12th house.
Speaker: So it's like spirituality and, you know, occult things.
Speaker: So I definitely look at like those placements.
Speaker: So.
Speaker: also saturn but saturn midheaven sun jupiter these are really important when you're you're calling western astrology doesn't talk about destiny because it's like not in what culture to talk about destiny but eastern astrology which is like much older vatic astrology talks about fate and destiny cultures your fate is kind of like written out for you yeah horns
Speaker: Before you're born so there that's an interesting tidbit.
Speaker: Um, oh yeah, okay physical and it's a little bit of being so First house is your physical appearance.
Speaker: So like for you for someone Let's say with like a moon in the first house their emotional well-being
Speaker: tied to their appearance what people them how they look kind of stuff so something with a mood in the first is like I need to look good in order to feel good and I know that and for people but like it would it could really deter one if they didn't look good and they had the moon in the first house sixth house is your daily routines your your work your health all that kind of stuff so
Speaker: You can look in your sixth house too to see like what planets are there.
Speaker: A lot of astrologers will be like, oh, like if this planet is in your sixth house, then you could have issues with this part of your body or your health or whatever.
Speaker: I don't like to say that because I just, I don't want to like scare people, but sixth house is like what you focus on or like even just how you go about your, your like day-to-day
Speaker: day routines right so you have like fiery six house energy you're like kind of chaotic and you're like i need to get a million things that's me i got i think i got aries in the six house i'm just like go go go get it done what you doing yeah so there's a lot of like that like kind of chaotic energy yeah and then 12th house
Speaker: is mental health, it's spirituality.
Speaker: Say that again.
Speaker: That's huge.
Speaker: So 12 house is mental health, spirituality, and whatever.
Speaker: It's very like, kind of like one foot in this world, one foot on the next.
Speaker: It's very, it's Pisces energy.
Speaker: It's like empathy, creativity.
Speaker: And it's a really like, kind of like psychedelics, that kind of vibe.
Speaker: So 12th house, like if someone has a lot of 12th house energy, they could be, you know, psychic.
Speaker: They could be like really, really like empathetic, like a sponge to people.
Speaker: They could just see through people.
Speaker: Like it's a very sensitive type of energy.
Speaker: So if someone has a lot of planets in the 12th house, like,
Speaker: they could be thinking about mental health, psychology, sociology, like all that, all that stuff, like a lot.
Speaker: It could also be kind of heavy because it's a lot of heavier energy, but it's, it's spiritual.
Speaker: And if you can use that energy well, then you're going to, you know, find an outlet for it.
Speaker: That's how I always, you know, I told you, it's like, everyone has difficult planets.
Speaker: Everyone has difficult placements, aspects, all that stuff.
Speaker: I love a difficult chart.
Speaker: Yeah, tell me what your teacher told you to tell them I think it's important.
Speaker: Like a life lesson, really.
Speaker: It really is.
Speaker: And it really like reshaped my own mind when it came to like difficulties in life.
Speaker: And I was like, she's like, the first thing she said to me when we ever logged on was like,
Speaker: you have a really difficult chart I was like okay and she's like no no don't worry because someone with a difficult chart means that like you have grown your whole life up until this point with difficulty just built in like you were constantly going through
Speaker: struggles through changes through transformations and so by the time that you're you know making decisions for yourself you're like i've already i've already been knocked down right you know i've been there before what are we doing again
Speaker: to me you know and it becomes you become a lot more resilient you become a lot more um equipped to deal with the changes and someone that has an easier tar may not be as equipped to like when you know a transit comes or when their saturn return comes it might really shock their system because they're like i haven't dealt with this kind of pain
Speaker: or this kind of obstacle before, like my life has been relatively simple.
Speaker: And so it, knowing that kind of helped me like look at traumas and look at traumas for other people and just be like, that was incredibly hard.
Speaker: What you went through, like no doubt in my mind, like I can see it in your chart, like, but it turned you in,
Speaker: to the person that you are today and it pushed you to become a new version of yourself that is like so much you know and what is what would you say is the like the most uh misconception about astrology that you hear or that's out there that's not really true or more of myth that people say
Speaker: I mean, people will say a lot about astrology.
Speaker: I think it's more like, I understand that people are like, ah, it's fake, it's silly.
Speaker: But it comes back to me just saying like, it's patterns.
Speaker: Like we've been studying patterns for thousands of years.
Speaker: Astrologers have been looking up at the sky and, you know, it started to be like, it started with, oh, when you're seven years old, based on
Speaker: the sun and mars you're gonna burn your hand and now it's like well now if you have this connection between sun and mars it might mean you have like issues with temper or you get fiery you know that kind of stuff so i think that you know the the misconceptions and to me what's kind of sad is that it's like viewed as something that's like
Speaker: Some a lot of time like feminine like a lot of dudes will be like, ah Astrology don't tell me you're one of those astrology girls
Speaker: long time even for me it was like really hard to admit to that I love it and I like would always you know but I was like oh I just don't want to be viewed that's you know my Scorpio I don't want to be perceived whatever I was like you know I
Speaker: I think it's like, so I think it's, I'm glad it's having this resurgence because it really creates self-awareness.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Self-awareness is key.
Speaker: If people know more about their charts, it's like eyeopening.
Speaker: Right.
Speaker: And they'll, there's personal growth that you can gain.
Speaker: And some people will look at their chart and get discouraged.
Speaker: Like, Oh my God, this is like really difficult.
Speaker: You read parts of my career.
Speaker: I'm like, Oh, Hey, what's that?
Speaker: Saturn and the cattle car?
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: I got a growth, right?
Speaker: But it's all part of the story is all part of your movie.
Speaker: I have two questions before we get off.
Speaker: They came to me.
Speaker: One is can your chart depict if you're going to have children or not?
Speaker: And can you see or discover, you know, because we want to be open-minded to all things sexuality through your chart?
Speaker: So that is so let's talk about the children thing.
Speaker: I think that if you have fifth house energy, like you have your son in Pisces, like that kind of like house is children.
Speaker: And so even if you may decide not to have children, children will still be kind of a theme in your life because of that son energy in the fifth house.
Speaker: I love kids.
Speaker: I can't wait to have a bunch of them.
Speaker: Cause I'm a kid.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: It's huge.
Speaker: it cannot determine your sexuality because the way that my teacher described astrology and the way that I like to view it is your soul is entirely different and outside of all these metaphysical descriptions that we've given it.
Speaker: So your soul,
Speaker: has come to this earth and like takes on you know the second it was born yeah like okay you have your astrology signs or whatever but your soul is void of all all those external things that we've labeled to it so yeah there's like you can't determine you know race or sexuality or anything like that it's just kind of like the soul and so yeah so yeah well
Speaker: That was beautiful.
Speaker: Before we get off here, I just want you to leave the people with some words of encouragement for astrology and tell them how they can find you once again because I think it's very important.
Speaker: And this was beautiful.
Speaker: Thank you for your time.
Speaker: Thanks.
Speaker: Yeah, no, I just think that
Speaker: The more you know about yourself, the more you can know how to use the energy given to you.
Speaker: Like some things might be difficult, but it's it's the more you know about it, the more you know how to reframe that energy and how to use it in a good way.
Speaker: Like it there could be something difficult in your chart.
Speaker: But if you use that energy to become the thought leader or expert or even just a listener,
Speaker: for someone that's going through the same time.
Speaker: Like that's, that's so important.
Speaker: That's so powerful.
Speaker: And then I think that like a lot of people just gain so much self-awareness and have so much personal growth.
Speaker: And I think that that's, that's why I do astrology.
Speaker: Cause I just love to, I love to see that.
Speaker: Um,
Speaker: But yeah, if you wanna chat with me or if you wanna reading, this is my astrology account.
Speaker: I also have my personal account.
Speaker: You can go on my website, which is mytakeonbeing.com and book a reading with me.
Speaker: I'm also on TikTok, same username.
Speaker: I post all the time about all the different signs.
Speaker: But yeah, I'd love to, you know, if anyone wants to DM me or chat, like I'd love to answer any questions.
Speaker: I'm more than happy.
Speaker: So with this, I think it's the Equinox Eclipse coming up.
Speaker: Like what should we be looking for with this new moon or this full moon coming up this weekend?
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: So there's an eclipse on, so there's a full moon actually on the 29th.
Speaker: Actually, it's a full moon in Aries and it's in,
Speaker: opposition to sun and libra so what happens is like this is like trying to balance the energy of me which is aries right me my my my safety my security my personal needs versus libra the sun libra libra being like relationships and other people trying to balance trying to find that balance between thinking about yourself and thinking about others right like making sure to
Speaker: prioritize both or prioritize one if you feel like the other one has been too much on the forefront um so it's it's really about uh finding balance i new moons are like big energy right like a lot of people will you'll feel i always say like careful when you go out at night on a full moon because something might happen yeah not in a
Speaker: there's a lot of energy out afoot.
Speaker: Um, so then there's an eclipse on October 14th and then one, like, uh, one later, like October 29th, 20th and 29th, um, and eclipse periods for shadow, like themes in our personal lives that we need to work on.
Speaker: Um, it's a really great time to focus on self-reflection, um, tap into our purpose, look at how our community, uh, this,
Speaker: eclipse will be influenced by us and that governs like uh our relationships our uh connections and that's like society family friendship romantic so again with the you know venus libra energy like really
Speaker: the focus is on relationships, which is great.
Speaker: We love that focus.
Speaker: Well, that was it.
Speaker: That is all.
Speaker: Thank you for your time.
Speaker: Thank you for your energy.
Speaker: Thank you for your insight.
Speaker: This was a great episode, great conversation, and this will be out soon on Bigger Talks Podcast.
Speaker: People follow her, mytakeonbeing.com, book a reading, and she got what you need.
Speaker: If she helped me, I'm pretty sure she can help you.
Speaker: All right, Nicole, have a good day and a good evening.
Speaker: Talk soon.
Speaker: Peace and love.
Speaker: Bye.
