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RECEIVE WITH GRATITUDE ~ EP 4 ~ Make It More Than A Dream LIVE PODCAST
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A manifestation challenge with Cleo Massey from Pass around the Smile
Welcome to episode 4 ~ Receive with Gratitude
This episode is a little different, because it was recorded live with so many of my beautiful Smilies from all over the world. And the energy was MAGNETIC!
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In the first half of this episode, I explore the ins and outs of receiving our desires and how gratitude is the key that can unlock it all. We chat about how gratitude is one of the highest vibrational states you can embody and how it quite literally rewires your brain to magnetise more of what you desire.
I also share:
💫 Why so many of us quit right before the miracle occurs
💫 What to do in the quiet unknown when nothing seems to be happening
💫 How guilt, resistance, and downplaying your dream can block your manifestations and how to shift that
💫 Why receiving can actually feel uncomfortable, and how to fully allow what you’ve been manifesting.
The second half of the episode is a powerful Q&A with live questions from the community. We dive deep into:
🌙 Surrendering and detaching from the outcome
🌙 What to do when you manifest something and then feel regret or doubt
🌙 Interpreting signs and coincidences and what they really mean
🌙 Comparison, scarcity, and how to manifest when others are after the same dream
🌙 Choosing passion over paychecks and honouring what lights you up
There were SO many good questions that I know will spark something for so many of my Smilies!
Whether you’ve already started receiving or you’re still waiting for your desires to land, this episode will help you shift into trust, alignment, and an open-hearted state of receiving.
THANK YOU for joining in on my manifestation challenge, ‘Make it more Than A Dream’ what an incredible 4 weeks. Remember to join the Facebook community (link below) and get involved
Let the magic, begin… Cleo xx
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Transcript
Introduction to 'Pass Around the Smile'
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Pass Around the Smile is like your go-to friend, the one that lifts you up and backs you to the end. She's there to guide and inspire, challenge and teach, and remind you that your best self isn't out of reach.
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Self-development, manifestation, self-love and more, it's time to trust the process more than ever before.
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Welcome to Pass Around the Smile, the podcast. I'm your host, Cleo Massey, and I am so glad you're here. Let the magic begin.
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come Hello, my smileys and welcome to episode four, which is the final episode of my manifestation challenge, make it more than a dream. And this is so exciting because it is a live podcast recording.
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I did it live with so many of my smileys from all across the world. the energy was magnetic. I did just want to let you know before we start that unfortunately there is no video ah with this podcast episode. I didn't do the settings right on Zoom and when I downloaded the video, it had all of the faces of everyone ah in their homes and their full names showing. So for privacy reasons to protect my smileys, there is no video with today's podcast. It's just audio. So pop me in your ears and enjoy the final part of Make It More Than a Dream.
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I'm just going to get let's let's get into it. Let's get into it. This is this is too exciting. OK, where do i even start? i I didn't think I'd be this excited, but I'm like really buzzing right now.
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um So as you guys know, but said well no, hang on guys. This is, this is a podcast. Like this is a podcast recording. This is not a part of a course where I'm just like, so I'm going to be super casual, obviously, but I get to say hello everybody and welcome to the Pass Around the Smile of podcast.
From Desire to Gratitude: The Path to Receiving
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This is episode four of the Manifestation Challenge, Make It More Than a Dream.
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And at the moment we are recording live. This is my first live podcast that I have ever done. And i'm off I'm bouncing off the walls. I am so excited. The chat is going off. We have people from Italy, USA, UK, Finland, Belgium,
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Russia, it's it's honestly crazy and so grateful for you all. Whether you are on this live or you are listening later down the track, welcome to episode four. And can I just say how proud I am of you guys for coming this far in the challenge.
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Now, this particular episode is receive with gratitude. We are moving into the receive state. Now, I know in episode three, we kind of talked about going from that desire state to the receive state because we cannot receive something when we still desire it, because if we desire it, it's far away from us. It's not ours. It's unachievable. It's unattainable.
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But if we step into the energy of receiving, we are open, we are ready, we are saying to the universe, i I've made room, I deserve this. And i'm <unk>s ah you're essentially just saying that you're ready because when you are desiring something, you're not quite ready yet. It's still in that future version of you.
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So receiving with gratitude, we're going to be talking a little bit about gratitude, not too much though. Because I know that if you have done this manifestation challenge, you are a smiley.
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You have listened to many Pass Around the Smile episodes, I would think. And I talk about gratitude a lot. So I'm not going to go into the basics of gratitude. I'm going to touch on some different kind of ideas around gratitude that are...
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kind of like fun and unique ways to think and use gratitude because I think you guys are with me. We are all growing spiritually. You have been on a self-development journey for a while now.
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And even if your self-development, spiritual development journey only started at this four week challenge, you're still four weeks in. Like that's incredible. The amount that you will have changed,
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The amount that you would have learned is huge. So then outside of the gratitude section, we are going to be talking a little bit about receiving, but mostly about why we tend as humans to quit right before the miracle occurs.
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I have kind of come up with three reasons, I think, as to why we do that, because I think we are all in the same stage now where we are probably in that step of receive or wanting to get into that energy of receiving our desire, but maybe it hasn't materialized quite yet.
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And I don't want any of you to quit right before that miracle occurs. I will not let that happen over my dead body. Okay, so that is a little rundown.
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I'm so glad I can see some of your faces. This is so nice because usually I'm chatting on a microphone, obviously, to no one. And I'm like, is this going to resonate? Am I, you know, but seeing your smiling faces right now.
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It's so beautiful. um Wow. I'm just I'm so excited. want to do live podcasts more. um So
Trusting the Universe and Recognizing Signs
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for the beautiful people on my live podcast now, please feel free to keep your camera off if you would prefer. Please feel free to put it on if you would like.
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um However, please do keep your microphone off. And if you do have a question, because once we kind of chat about the receiving with gratitude, we're going to move into Q&A. um And that Q&A, the floor is open, my smileys. Please, there are no silly questions. The chat is there for you to ask your questions in and I will try to answer every question. I have my mum on here moderating so she will be able to like be like, Cleo, you forgot this question because I'm talking. Sometimes I miss things.
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But please know if I miss it, I will put it the answer in the community, but I'll try to get to it all today. So without further ado, let's get into it. Episode four, Receive with Gratitude.
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You guys have come so far and it is now the most exciting part. I'm also excited to hear in the chat a bit later where you guys are at what you have experienced yet and how you're feeling within this really exciting challenge.
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Okay, so let's talk about gratitude. As I mentioned, the simple things, I'll go over just a couple really quickly. As you guys probably already know, gratitude is the highest form of vibrational energy. It is the quickest way to get out of a funk.
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It is the quickest way to raise your vibration, to climb up that emotional guidance scale. You cannot manifest anything new into your life until you are grateful for what you already have.
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Now, this might feel frustrating to hear, especially if you are in a sad stage of your life or if there are negative things happening around you or if you are getting, you know, really swayed by what's happening within the world. There are some really sad things happening in the world. And I think if you are a smiley, you are probably a very empathetic, energetic being and you're probably feeding off of that energy.
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which it can be really hard to just focus on what you have because sometimes that can feel almost greedy, but you are doing the world yourself and the people around you a service by being grateful for what it is that you have. So focusing on what it is that you do have, not what it is that you don't have.
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Focusing on the abundance of instead of the lack of, okay? Honestly, that's... All I really want to touch on gratitude alone, gratitude elements will be coming into what I talk about next.
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But I just think you guys are, I just really trust that you guys know that you are quite advanced, that you're on this journey with me. And I don't want to repeat the simple things because the point of make it more than a dream, this manifestation challenge,
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was to do things a little bit differently. Wasn't the, you know, organic, traditional law of attraction steps. We're doing things differently. We're deconstructing it and approaching it in a way where like, I'm just so confident that it will work in different ways for all of you.
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Okay, so the first little heading that I have written down is how to stay open when things look different to what you imagined. Okay, so this is we're in the state of receiving. We are receiving our desire. We're getting ready to receive it. You may have received it already.
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It may not have manifested in your reality quite yet, but you have created it If you have asked, if you have visualized it, if you have seen it in the stars, you have created your dream.
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It is already there. It's it's happened. Now it's just a matter of you bringing it into your physical reality now. I really had to work on getting my head around that is whatever I imagined I've already created.
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It's already a thing. As I've mentioned in my previous law of attraction example stories is that when I have manifested something into my reality and I'm experiencing it, I experience this like really weird thing kind of um deja vu-y feeling where I have already lived out that dream because I have created it in my mind. I visualized it. I felt it. I've been in it. And then when I'm experiencing it in real life, I'm like, I've been here before.
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Well, yes, I've been here before because I created the dream. But how do we stay open when things are starting to look a little bit different to what you imagined or what you had hoped?
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So as smileys, you know my story. For years and years and years, I was manifesting, you know, to get this these dream acting roles. And it was not working out how I wanted for a million reasons. I was chasing the dream for all the wrong reasons.
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But what I found was that when things started coming up for me, opportunities, ideas, people that weren't to do with acting that now I know what to do with pass around the smile, I was totally blocking them for a few reasons.
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Number one reason was because i thought that giving attention to any other dream would mean that I was giving up on acting. The second reason was these opportunities that were coming up, these ideas, the signs, the synchronicities that the universe was sending me for years, they were unexciting to me.
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They were small. They didn't make sense. So I was not in a state of trusting that the universe knew what it was doing. I didn't realize that the universe was trying to co-create with me.
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So what I did was I blocked the process because I was scared, because I was unaware, because I was not connected to me, my values, my beliefs. I was not in alignment.
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Everything was looking very different to how I imagined. But when I let go and I decided to trust the process, oh my gosh, Did the momentum flow? When we let go of control, life flows with us instead of against us. And I know I say that all the time, but we need reminders because it's so easy to control, try to dictate and almost micromanage our dreams or the steps to get our dream into our reality.
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But what we are doing is we're mucking up the entire process. So when things are coming up, whether they are signs, whether they are opportunities, they are coming up for a reason.
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Listen, I want you to celebrate and be grateful for every sign, every step along the way. These steps may seem small. They may seem uninteresting, but they are all a part of the puzzle. They are all a part of what is going to be that big shift, that big change.
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And looking back now, there was like two or three years where I was blocking all of the opportunities, the signs. I had like really cool opportunities come up that I was like, absolutely
Embracing Self-Worth and Overcoming Judgment
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no, like complete rejects rejection, complete resistance.
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But when I did let go and allow, Pass Around The Smile has evolved so effortlessly because when something is right for you, it will just flow.
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It will just happen. Opportunities, doors will open, the right people. Pass Around The Smile, yes, I work so hard, don't get me wrong. I work really, really, really hard, but I work so passionately hard because it feels so incredible.
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My cards, my courses, everything that I have done has been the easiest thing career wise that I have ever done because I finally thought even though this is looking different to how I imagined, I have to trust that there is a bigger reason, okay?
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So it's really easy also to get kind of like uptight and angry at the universe, like it's not hearing us in this state of receive, right? So this is why I think it's really important to bring in the why we so often quit right before the miracle occurs.
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As I mentioned in my little intro, I have come up with three reasons as to why I think we do this and I'm gonna break them down now. So number one is the discomfort of the unknown becomes too much.
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OK, so let's say, let's use this example that we are now we're in week four. All right. I reckon the majority of us are trying to surrender now. We're trying to let go. We're trying to move out of that state of desire into the state of receiving. We may not have manifested our desire into our reality just yet.
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So things have kind of become a little bit unknown and a little bit silent. And what we are doing, because there is no evidence yet in our real life that our dream is a part of our reality, we feel a little bit wobbly, a bit uncertain.
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We lack a bit of trust. We feel off track. And because we've been gaining that momentum through visualizing, through acting as if, through writing it down, through meditating, it gets all really exciting.
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And then when you surrender and let go, yeah, it can feel good for a little bit. But then we start to wonder where our desire is. I want you to think about a seed before it sprouts.
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There is so much happening underground to make that... seed sprout, right? There's so much happening, but we can't see it above ground yet. The same goes for our dreams. There is so much happening up there to make your dream a reality.
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You just have to trust. Just because we can't see evidence yet, we assume nothing's working. When in reality, the energy is just shifting behind the scenes. Okay, so that's number one.
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Number two is old beliefs get loudest in the unknown. Okay, so right before a big shift, our subconscious patterns seem to flare up.
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Why? Because our ego tries to keep us safe in the familiar. We are scared of rejection, we are scared of judgment, we are scared of failure, we are scared of disappointment.
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It is normal. So thoughts might come up in this kind of unknown phase of nothing ever works out for me. Who am I to want this?
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It's happening again, it's not gonna manifest, okay?
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It's kind of like a final defense mechanism to try and keep us safe or try to keep us away from that change or that shift. And what we do is we grab onto it because it's easy, because it's safe, because it's comfortable.
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But my smileys, you have come so far. You have come so far already. Please do not. give in to your ego who is going to try and get you to play it safe and keep small, keep quiet because it's just safer and easier there. Okay, the third one is that we mistake the pause or the unknown for a no, okay?
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So when things slow down, Or when there's silence after the action that we've been taking, it's really easy to assume that the universe isn't listening. The universe hasn't heard us. I didn't ask loud enough. I didn't do all the right things. I didn't act as if enough. I didn't visualize properly.
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I'm doing it all wrong. But it's not a no. It's not a rejection. A lot of the time our manifestations involve things externally outside of us to shift and change.
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So let's say you are manifesting money, right? Well, where is that money going to come from? Who is that money going to come from? Other people, other things, circumstances, other opportunities changing externally to you.
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You don't need to know who or what or why. You just have to trust and know that you have already created the dream in your mind, therefore, it's been created. It's there.
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It's just a matter of it coming to you now. So it can be so uncomfortable. Again, I think it's because we've, this is what I've been trying to deconstruct because I have definitely quit right before the miracle occurs quite a few times.
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When Indigo was... maybe she was like three or four months and I was just starting to kind of do a little bit more work within Pass Around the Smile.
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I kept from my Oracle deck pulling the card rising and you guys will probably know what the rising card says, but it's you are continuing to rise. Don't quit right before the miracle occurs.
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And I kept pulling it every single time I would do a reading. So I knew that I was close. I knew that something was on its way and for me that was kind of like finding myself again, getting into the flow of Pass Around the Smile again and I ended up having some really incredible speaking opportunities that came up um and some you know a flow of orders. I had some podcast episodes that were sponsored by really incredible businesses all within like a few weeks and But I should say not and I was so tempted to quit right before all of that unfolded.
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Why? Because it went stagnant. It went silent. I was like, it's not working. So I may as well throw all my hard work in. because the universe hasn't heard me. So I'm just going to sink back into my shell. I'm going to be negative. I'm going to assume that it's happening again. My manifestations aren't working that, oh, I'm the owner of Pass Around the Smile. What will I tell my smileys?
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I'm doomed. And then we negatively spiral.
Focusing on Positivity and Handling Success
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One of my favorite things to do at the moment, I can't remember if I talked about it in episode two or three of the manifestation series, but it was about positively spiraling instead of negatively spiraling.
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I've been trying to do it. Um, And we were actually doing it with my husband and something that he was kind of manifesting within work. I was like, what about all of the things that could actually go right? Because we were kind of just thinking and you do it again as a protective mechanism.
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What if this happens and goes wrong? Oh, what will we do then? What if it goes so incredibly right? And what if this random amazing thing happens? And what if that amazing random thing happens? It's just so exciting and so expansive for your imagination to take that route instead of the route that we all know that we take far too often.
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And that's another thing that your coloring book is going to be really good for is just getting out your coloring pencils, coloring in your Oracle cards, which was the third download. Um, And positively spiral. Think of all of the things in your love life that could go so incredibly right. Like go far out, go way wild, like whatever, in your career, with your health, with your, I don't know, your goals, with food or the gym, whatever it is.
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Anyway, I'm getting off topic, but I'm just so excited. I'm so excited that we are all on this live together, like doing this podcast live with your little smiling faces coming get back at me.
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And even if your camera's not on, I can see your names. I can feel your energy. Like this is just, okay. Oh my go gosh, Melody's coloring as she's listening. That is the best. That is the best. I'm actually loving the coloring book even more than I thought.
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And you know what I'm going to do which you guys should do too, if you want, of course, on the, like, so I'm coloring in the self-worth page at the moment. And what I'm going to do once I finish the coloring in, I'm going to write,
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all like kind of quotes and affirmations around the drawing that have to do with my self-worth. So things in the past that I haven't felt worthy of, I will like flip to a positive mantra and write it and I'm just going to fill the page with all these positive mantras.
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So if you do it, take a photo of yours and send it to me. Okay, so that They're kind of like the three pillars, I guess, that I believe kind of stop us from, that sorry, reasons as to why we quit right before the miracle occurs. So I really want you to take a minute to kind of let that sink in um and kind of check in with yourself. Do you do any of those things? Because it's so easy to do.
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But we've got to remember that because a lot of the time things happen need like to change and shift externally, that's going to take a little bit of time, right? Yes, we want our manifestation to materialize this minute. And yes, it might.
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You might be two minutes, two days, two weeks away from your biggest manifestation materializing. But we don't know. So in the silence, in the unknown, it's not a no.
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It's not not happening. Yeah, it might happen in a different way than you imagined, but we all know. What do we say? i accept this or something better. So many times I haven't manifested what I wanted, but I manifested something far, far better.
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far better that suited like the future version of me not the old c Cleo I think that's another thing we do is we get stuck in the old versions of us and we think that we want that because of all these different reasons but a lot of the time actually the future version of us is meant for so much more and don't close your mind off to wanting one thing because what if you are meant for something so much better Okay, so i want to talk about receiving now and why it often feels uncomfortable because now we're moving into, let's say that you have just received your desire, right?
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So we've talked about kind of the unknown of when we are in the state of receiving and we are surrendering, we are trying to let go, but it hasn't manifested yet and what to do then and what not to do.
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um But now I want to say, let's say you've manifested your desire, right? So you've received it. You may not expect this, but it can actually feel really uncomfortable to receive your desire. While it may be so exciting and relieving, depending on where you are, who you are, what you're asking for, sometimes that you might feel guilt coming up.
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You might feel resistance. You might feel like you want to downplay or be quiet about what you've manifested. because we get worried about how other people will perceive us achieving this dream.
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Often there are people around us who want the same things and maybe you get the thing and they don't have it so you feel guilty or you don't wanna share it you don't wanna talk about it, you don't wanna fully be grateful for that thing because you're like, well, other people should have it too.
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Well, there is more than enough to go around. Their journey is their journey. Your journey is your journey. When you receive your desire, you need to loudly and proudly be so grateful.
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Declare to the universe how ready you were for this thing that came into your life. Embrace it with so much gratitude and quiet the outside noise. Put a big bubble around you.
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If there are other people in your life who are going to judge you or be jealous of you, That is their problem. It is not your problem. Yes, it's so hard not to let that affect you. Oh, my gosh, it is so hard. um my One of my friends, she was manifesting a um like to win a prize home.
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And she had said to me, i just worry that if I win it, this other friend will be so sad because she wants it too. And I said, well, there you go.
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You're not going to manifest it. I'm like, that's lovely. It's a beautiful thought. But that belief system, imagine what that's doing to your energy. That's fully shutting you off to the universe, being like, actually, don't worry. It's going to be far too uncomfortable if I win this home. So I'd rather just not.
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Has anyone else done that? I have done that where I've actually wanted something really bad, but then I've realized the repercussions that I would feel if I manifested that thing where I'd have to explain to people how I got it.
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um I've had a lot of people say to me in the past, you're so lucky. And that really upsets me because yes, I am lucky. i definitely have so many elements of luck that have come into my life over the years, 100% get that.
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But I also work really hard. So really feeling into your self-worth again in this moment, if you know that you deserve it, if you know that you have worked hard, and even if something manifests just like that and you happen to not work hard for that manifestation, it did just appear, you still deserve it.
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You are not greedy for asking for it. You are not greedy for wanting more. We all deserve whatever it is that we want and everybody has the ability to use their mind to bring what they want into their reality. Yes, everybody's circumstances are different.
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Yes, some people are seen as luckier than other people. I totally get that. And it can be a really hard concept to grasp. I'm still working on it. But really check in with how you feel about receiving your desire. If you've received it already, how have you been feeling?
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If you are... about to receive it because we know we are all about to receive what we want to receive. Check in with how you think you really will feel when you receive that desire. Do you need to work on how that's going to feel for you? Because it could be a it could kind of manifest in a blockage as well.
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And also awareness, with awareness, with acknowledging, oh, yes, actually, this does feel unfamiliar and I am feeling resistance. I am feeling guilty. i am downplaying it. It's normal. But with acknowledging it, it will lessen.
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Now, I have one more gratitude fact before we get into the Q&A section, which is so exciting, um of the podcast.
The Science and Practice of Gratitude
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So, little fact about gratitude, because we want to finish on a high.
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Gratitude rewires your brain, okay? It literally rewires your brain. It's so exciting. So practicing daily gratitude, what it does is it lights up your brain's reward system.
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ah It releases serotonin and dopamine. So what that does is the more that you practice, the more your brain looks for things to be grateful for. So it's kind of like how I chatted about the reticular activating system. When we practice gratitude, it's a practice.
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When you practice daily and you're genuinely feeling so grateful for where you are, for what you have, for who's around you, Your brain looks for more reasons, for more evidence as to what you should be grateful for and it becomes so easy to be grateful.
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So easy, so effortless. What that does, the gratitude, practicing it daily, it shifts your emotional baseline. So your emotional baseline is up here now. So what does that mean? It means that you're vibrating high. It means that you are manifesting things without even trying.
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And yes, this course, I have given you steps and tools that I believe will help you to manifest what it is that you want, and these can help you and it creates so much awareness of maybe where we're going wrong or like what we need to do to help ourselves more, but you actually can manifest something just by vibrating high.
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I've done it a million times and it feels really bloody good. Now, going to say this now before we get into the questions because I think I'll forget. In the booklet, so the first download that you guys had access to within the course, week four has a lot of good like kind of good information that I really want you to read over in the overview and the journal prompts and all that, of course, but mainly like in the overview of today that I on purpose did not talk about in this live because I thought it's just doubling up on information. So at some stage this week, during your week four, wherever you are at, there is no rush, but as long as you promise me that you'll do it and you'll show up for yourself,
00:29:48
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please read over all that information let it sink in because it's kind of a little bit different to what we talked about on today's podcast episode um oh my gosh it's 7 30 so that was half an hour so we can spend the next half an hour doing questions and I think I've got a couple of things to read out already random and a tiny off track but what pencil slash texters or pens is everyone loving um I use the oh no I forgot the brand Oh, I forgot the brand, but there is a brand that is really vibrant.
00:30:19
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And once I got like a... another brand that it's like a really well-known brand. Does someone know the brand I'm talking about? It's like really well-known. You use it in school. They're a little bit more expensive, but they're so vibrant because like we don't want to color in with non-vibrant pencils. I think that's saying something to the universe. That's like, I'm not vibrant.
00:30:38
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I'm light because I'm scared. But if I'm vibrant, I'm loud and I'm clear and I'm colorful. Derwent. Derwent's a good one. That's not the one I was off. Yes, that one. Faber-Castle. Faber-Castle. Yep.
00:30:52
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Faber-castle, faba, faba, fabery, whatever, that one. That one, okay. Taylor, I pulled the rising card followed by the congratulations card on Thursday.
00:31:04
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Taylor, Taylor, my god, that is very exciting. How good is it when you're just feeling like a little bit Here, there and everywhere, you're a little bit like, where's my desire? Or you're having a day and you pull cards and it just like, ah don't know, it just brings something up inside of you that just reminds you that you're happy.
00:31:29
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connected and protected and that everything's on track and it's just i don't know for my mindset I can go from feeling so negative and quite low to like oh my gosh this is happening like it's coming I have that reassurance now Okay, guys, so we're going to step into the Q&A version, version, sex section, section.
00:31:53
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um Yes, that's what I mean. Faber-Castle. That's a really famous German brand for colourful pencils. Well, thank you, Alessa. Thank you. and Germany for bringing these pencils to my life because they're the most vibrant and you don't have to press really hard, you know. Okay, guys, so hit me with your questions.
00:32:13
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Let's go right back to week one, week two, week three, even today. What is something that you are still feeling unsure on? There are no silly questions. I guarantee you that your question will help other people as well.
00:32:27
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Are you stuck on asking like where to ask, how to ask, who to ask? Have you asked for something but it feels off? Is there something with your values and beliefs? Do you have ah question about your particular manifestation?
00:32:40
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um Oh, Cleo, see this is why my mum's good. Cleo, see Christy's message above. Okay, must have missed something. Oh, Christy, sorry, I just saw your Faber-Castle message.
00:32:50
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ah I think I'm still saying it wrong. Anyway, okay, Christy, i really wanted to apply for a job about 12 months ago, but I didn't because a friend went for it and I would have felt bad if I'd gotten it over her. She didn't get it anyway.
00:33:06
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Oh, that's a really hard one because I get it. I understand. You're an empathetic person who cares about your friend and it can be so hard to get to a point where you know that you deserve it, even though your friend deserves it too. But what I think, like, let's just go back 12 months ago. I know this ship has sailed, Christy, but I think this is a bit of a self-worth issue.
00:33:33
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And I think it's a little bit of a throat chakra issue too. I say throat chakra issue because i think in there you were probably scared of the communication that needed to happen. if you had gone for this role.
00:33:46
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All that needed to happen in this, and again, I'm empathising with you here because I can feel like the awkwardness and the like, you know, I'd just rather not because she's a friend and I don't even want to, I get it.
00:34:00
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um But we're in a self-development, self-reflection manifestation course right now. so How could we change this for the future? Because you actually don't know, Christy, if you blocked yourself from a huge opportunity then.
00:34:12
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I would have sat down that friend before ah the job. And of course, if this job was genuinely something that you wanted, you would probably want to check in that like you didn't just want that job because...
00:34:24
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you know, your friend wanted it. And I know that sounds like kind of contradictory because you didn't want it because your friend wanted it. But maybe if your friend was talking about this incredible job, or you're kind of like in your head, oh, maybe I do want it.
00:34:35
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So, of course, checking in to see if that dream was actually completely right for you. And let's say it was, I would sit her down for a chat, really work on that throat chakra, that communication and just say, look This is uncomfortable for me, but I am really thinking I want to apply too.
00:34:51
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I want you to get it as much as I want me to get it. And how do you feel? How would you feel if I went for it as well? And she probably would have opened like with open arms said, please, please do it. And let's do it together and let's practice together. And who knows? They might have opened up a position for both of you.
00:35:07
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You don't know. Positively spiral. What are all of the other opportunities that could have come up? Maybe she got the role and then they opened up a role for you three weeks later and you got to work together.
00:35:17
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Do you know what I mean? always other There are always there's always more. But you are an empathetic kind being as well. Okay. Hi, Cleo. Sam from the yeah UK. Thank you for this four-week course. And I literally think you are an incredibly vibrant and lovely person, completely infectious. Oh, my gosh.
00:35:37
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Thank you. I'm very new to this and manifestation literally as in since the week four course started. Wow, amazing. I'm not on week four. I'm on week one to two and finding it difficult to concentrate, sort of asking for things. Am I doing it right, et cetera?
00:35:52
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I'm so in my brain about it. All I think so, any help for a newbie would be very appreciated. Sam, first of all, I wanna say good on you for giving it a go.
00:36:04
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Second of all, I wanna say that every single one of us smileys on this call right now, we all hold the same power. You hold the same power as I do, Sam.
00:36:15
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Just because I am the owner of Pass Around the Smile and I practice meditation a lot and, well, not as much as I used to and it's still a bit of a thing that I'm needing to do more, but just because I seem to know a lot about manifestation and the law of attraction does not mean that I am more likely to manifest my desires than you. We all hold the same power. We all have minds.
00:36:38
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And they are so powerful. So I would let go of the idea that you're a beginner because you're actually not. You've been using the law of attraction your whole life just without knowing.
00:36:49
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So what you're doing now is you're just giving yourself a bigger chance to manifest what it is that you want because you are understanding how the law of attraction works. Um, so i would first of all, just be so proud of yourself for doing it, for starting it. And as for, you said, you were getting a little bit confused, um, a little bit like lacking concentration.
00:37:10
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i would do some focus meditations. I have some, um, and really get, I think you need to go back to getting really, really clear on what it is that you want. I think maybe you have thought that you were getting clear on what it was that you wanted, um but you're not quite there yet.
00:37:27
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Even if you're telling yourself, no, I think I've got clear, this is what I want. If you're still feeling confused and lacking focus, I think maybe there's something a little bit that needs tweaking there. Does that make sense?
00:37:38
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Let me know if that makes sense. Okay, Laura Lee. Hey, Cleo, I've been loving this last month of content. It's been so incredible. I wanted to ask about rejection being redirection.
00:37:49
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I've been working toward a specific job for the past five years and have been unsuccessful with my application. The last two years and once again was unsuccessful last week. ah I'm sorry that I know that stings. I feel like the universe is guiding me towards another career and this last career was just an ego desire. So i it so i I'm excited to move on.
00:38:15
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But right now I feel trapped in a job I don't enjoy and I feel a bit stuck with what I can do with my life. I guess my question is, how do I move through this? How can I get back on track with alignment? Laura Lee,
00:38:27
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First of all, you have such great self-reflection there where you said, I feel like the universe is guiding me towards another career. And this last career was just an ego desire. That is incredible.
00:38:39
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So i would do some journaling on letting go of that past version of you and what your ego is actually saying and dictating connected to that last career. And yes, like use my example, I was so sad to move away from acting.
00:38:58
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haven't moved away completely, but it was a big letting go phase for me that I worked through with my psychologist to mentally and emotionally detach from the version of me that was an actor.
00:39:11
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So the version of you that was in this job and that wanted this job for the past five years and worked so hard for it, how can you let go? Journal, meditate on letting it go, on getting so excited about the myriad of opportunities that you know ah waiting for you because you said it.
00:39:27
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You know that the universe is guiding you toward another career. So how do you get back on track with alignment? It is figuring out what you want next, what this future version of Laura Lee wants and deserves.
00:39:39
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um Again, journaling and meditating is going to help you the most here, getting really clear on the future version of you. How do you wanna feel if you're not sure? If you're not sure on the what, the exact job, right?
00:39:52
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Then how do you wanna feel? Do you wanna feel free? Do you wanna feel powerful? Focusing on feeling those emotions, then what you are doing is you are actually letting go and you're trusting that the universe will bring you the things, the opportunities, the people that will have you feeling fulfilled and powerful and free, whatever I said,
00:40:11
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it will bring that to you in the form of an opportunity, ah person, but you don't have to know what that opportunity or person is.
Career Paths and Personal Alignment
00:40:19
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So there's quite, there's some layers within your question, Laura Lee, but I think it's going to take some meditation and some journaling and it's going to take doing that just a little bit consistently and allowing your mind to kind of like be open to what is next. But I think you're actually going through that stagnant kind of quiet, frustrating part now, which is actually so exciting because you could be around the corner from a really big breakthrough. I hope that helps.
00:40:45
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Okay. Jutta or Jutta. I'm so sorry if I'm saying that wrong. I'm so new here and I have not listened to the earlier podcast episodes. I hope that's okay. All you said resonated a hundred percent in my so situation. That is absolutely fine.
00:40:59
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um Christy. But I have an interview for a better job on Thursday. And everyone, just so you remember, Christy was the one that she wanted to apply for the job 12 months ago that her friend was going through too. So Christy, the Smiley's are sending you so much good energy and love and all of the things.
00:41:21
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Yay. Okay, CJ. So I've been applying for jobs that aren't in my dream of culinary, but pay very well and have been getting either denied or not hearing back. And I think it's because it isn't going to give me the passion that culinary does, but I don't really know. CJ, you answered your own question.
00:41:38
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The universe is not giving you this because you are meant for so much more. And you, I believe, correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you have a belief that your culinary job is hard to get because why aren't you going for them?
00:41:57
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Why are you going for these other jobs? Is it just because they pay better or then you have a belief that they don't pay much so it's not going to give you what you need? So you need to switch your mindset. Getting this culinary job may pay less but money is just energy.
00:42:11
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You could end up making more because you might start a social media page around what you're doing for your job and that might blow up so you might Start a side hustle as well as having your dream culinary job.
00:42:24
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You then have to look at how this culinary job will make you feel. That is worth so much more than any money could ever be. You will probably feel so proud of yourself for getting this job, so fulfilled, so excited to show up to work.
00:42:39
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every single day, then that energy is going to overflow into so many different areas of your life and you are going to manifest so much more, whether it is money or people or other experiences.
00:42:51
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So you answered your own question. You're amazing. Story. Genuinely, I'm still stuck on finding clarity in what I actually want. I find myself constantly changing my mind.
00:43:03
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Story. I was there. for so many years. And I don't wanna say that to make you go, oh, it's gonna take me years. It's not going to take you years because you have the knowledge through this course um that it does not have to take you years and it does not have to be hard.
00:43:22
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Do you, I can see you so you get you can nod to me if you like, do you kind of have a belief that getting clarity and finding what it is that you want is going to be kind of hard because it's feeling hard right now? Yeah, so there you go.
00:43:36
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So I think the problem here lies in your perception. So your perception is that it's going to be so hard to find out what I want to do. So we need to change that.
00:43:47
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And then everything else externally will change around that. I promise you, i was there. And the other thing outside of that, the thing that helped me the most was meditation. And I know that people don't really like this answer because it's kind of me telling you you need to do the work to get there but that work doesn't have to be hard it might take you one meditation meditation is a practice and I have been so good at meditating where I used to go into a different world within five minutes but now because I haven't been practicing and allowing myself that time i can't so I know how powerful it can be
00:44:23
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um But yeah, gosh, I was like here, there and everywhere for so many years, pulled there by other people's opinions. Maybe I'll try this because it makes this person happy. um I'll apply for this job, like CJ said, just because it makes money then and maybe I'll find my passion through that. No.
00:44:41
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You are worthy of living out your life where you know what it is that you want and you can get there. And I promise what's exciting is when you get there, when you understand what it is that you want, everything will flow very easily and open up for you. It did for me.
00:44:56
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So it will for you. Okay, Dani, how do you stop thinking about your desire and just let it go and trust the process? I've been manifesting something for a few years and feel like if I don't do anything about it, then nothing is getting done.
00:45:10
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I have trouble letting go of the control. Big one, Dani. And I bet everyone go back and love heart Dani's message if you have been here before. I have been there before many, many, many times. The love hearts are flying in, Dani. Look at that.
00:45:24
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So a few things. I feel like there's a few parts to this. Because you've been manifesting it for a few years, I think you're probably losing faith as to like, if it's ever going to happen.
00:45:37
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So you have been in that like pause or that unknown for a very long time, but I think why it's not manifesting is you have said you have trouble letting go of the control.
00:45:48
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so I bet you kind of like jump in and you might like ask again, or you might, like you said here, I feel like if I don't do anything about it, then nothing is getting done.
00:45:58
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You're actually right there, Dani. So are you taking actionable steps to get to where you want to be. Are you taking actionable steps to get to this desire?
00:46:11
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Actionable steps, remember, must feel good. must feel exciting, must feel passionate and flowy and just not forced, I guess, is what I'm trying to say.
00:46:23
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For so long within my dream of the acting industry, I was taking action that felt very forced because I felt like, well, if I don't do anything, nothing's getting done.
00:46:34
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However, if I look at Pass Around a Smile now, the action I take feels so different. So, Dani, I'll just scroll down. Oh, gosh, there's a lot of questions. All right, I'll answer them a bit quicker now. Dani, can you...
00:46:47
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actually, we'll come back. Dani, take your time. I want you to answer my question now for you. i want to know have you been taking inspired steps within this few years to get to your goal?
00:46:59
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o have you been completely like letting it go? And for those who are not watching on the live, I'm doing the little bunny ears, because sometimes we think we are letting it go by not doing anything like stepping aside, but We still have to be realistic. We still have to work toward our goals, but it has to feel good. It has to feel exciting and not forced. So, Dani, I feel like I kind of need your answer to keep going.
00:47:21
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Whether I answer your question on the live if I have time or whether I answer it in the community or message you, whatever, but please, like, just pop that in the chat and I think I can help you a little bit further. But I hope...
00:47:33
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the kind of journey to get to the answer helped you. And I hope that everyone is getting something else outside, like from everything that I'm saying to individuals on here. I hope that you're taking it because this information might be helpful for you now. It might be helpful down the track, but just let it all flow over you.
00:47:50
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CJ, I know I said it in the Facebook group, but I absolutely love you, love the course and love your energy. Since starting the course, I feel more myself, happier, bouncy and dancing, just enjoying everything. Oh my God, thank you, CJ. That honestly makes me so happy. Okay, oh, thank you. Millie, how do I know when I am receiving a sign slash synchronicity and how do I know what to do with that information? Thank you for all this valuable information and your eye-opening perspectives. Thank you, Millie.
00:48:16
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Good question. Okay, so I would say when you're receiving a sign or a synchronicity, whatever it is, whenever it is, whatever form it comes in, it is a sign or synchronicity. Don't overthink it.
00:48:31
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um The only time I would question if a sign or a synchronicity was like a sign or a synchronicity was if you are actually being like, okay, I'm going sit here and I'm going to stare out and I'm going to search for that butterfly I asked for. Where is it?
00:48:49
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Where is it? like Okay, I'm looking here. I'm looking there. The butterfly's not coming up. That I would say not the way to go. And that is kind of like, yeah, you're you're trying to control that sign coming to you.
00:49:01
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Outside of that, it is a sign, it is synchronicity, trust it. Now you're asking, what do you do with that information? Okay, sometimes signs can come in confusing ways. Like you might see the color purple over and over and over again. I'll use an example. My friend, she came to my first ever Pass Around the Smile event. She was not spiritual. She was not a meditator.
00:49:21
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But we did this meditation where I said, um you know, just allow a sign to pop up. Just trust what comes up and a sign will come up. And she came up to me after and she was like, Cleo, I did it wrong. Like it didn't work because when you said like, see a sign, I just saw a giant inflatable like cartoon strawberry.
00:49:41
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And I was like, just trust it. I was like, that's your sign. Just trust it And she's like, okay, whatever. Anyway, I can't remember. it was so long ago, a few weeks, a few months later, she was really struggling for inspiration for her next like project at work.
00:49:55
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And she opened up a magazine and there was a giant inflatable cartoon strawberry next to a page that had all of the ideas and creative direction for her next project.
00:50:09
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So just trusting that the information will come to you, I think, Let's say if it is the sign of ah could the color purple just keeps popping up. You don't need to know what to do with that sign straight away. Trusting that you will know and it will become really clear to you in a week, in two weeks. And saying to the universe, I keep seeing purple. I know you're trying to show me purple, but please now amp it up and show me what you mean. Ask. If you don't ask, you don't get, right?
00:50:37
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Hope that helps. Sam, thank you. Gemma, sometimes doing the work, whatever that looks like, feels like a slog or too hard. It annoys me and I fall out of consistently showing up. How can I shift that? In particular, consistent journaling slash gratitude writing. Gemma, oh my gosh, I can relate so much.
00:50:57
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I have, I, I'm ashamed to say this as the creator of Passed Around the Smile, but lately meditation seems like a chore for me and I hate it.
00:51:07
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I hate that it feels like a chore for me. I don't hate meditation. I hate that it feels like a chore because I used to absolutely love it. aye Honestly, you're probably going to get annoyed at my answer. It's a practice. It's a habit. It's something that you want to do every day.
00:51:22
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You will start to feel the effects, you will start to get better, that will start to feel good and start to integrate into your life easily and effortlessly. And I'm a testament to that. For three years, I was meditating like every day and for long periods of time.
00:51:37
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um I do also hear you when you're saying um doing the work feels like a slog or too hard. We also want to find that line where we aren't forcing it because if we're like, oh, i have to meditate. all right, I'm going to sit here and close my eyes and meditate. That's not the right energy going into it, is it?
00:51:55
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So we want to before that kind of work on our mindset. I get to meditate. I get five minutes to close my eyes and breathe. How lucky am i So really changing your mindset. And then if you go back, I actually had an episode with Gina Cleo on the podcast ages ago. you listen to it. Yes, we got thumbs up.
00:52:15
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So she talked about habits and what she talks about is the trigger that happens before the habit. So maybe I think you need to work on the trigger that happens before the actual habit because the trigger for you is I don't want to do this. This is a slog. This is hard work. So I think that's what needs to change.
00:52:33
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And I think that episode will really help you. Okay. Amazing. I'm going to keep moving on. So I get all your questions. Okay. Meredith, I thought I'd try to manifest something small just to see what happens, but I caught myself every so often wondering where, how, and if it would happen, which of course it didn't, or is it still to come?
00:52:49
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I'm frustrated with myself for not being able to let it go. i think I was too excited to see if it could work. So I kept thinking about it. Can you please go over again about letting go of the outcome? Does that make sense?
00:53:01
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Yes, it does make sense. So Meredith, I think that you... We're trying to do what I have said in the past where you're like, okay, Cleo says to manifest something really small and something that I perceive as easy to show myself that, oh, I manifested that $5 note so I can now manifest anything that I want, right?
00:53:20
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I think you are focusing too much on that second half where it's, Well, if I manifest this $5, I know that I can manifest anything that I want. But Meredith, again, I could be off here, but what I'm feeling is that that idea is unachievable.
00:53:37
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You don't think at the moment that you can manifest anything that you want. You don't believe that manifesting, say, $20 million dollars is going to be easy. So you're kind of blocking yourself from manifesting these small things because you know that if you prove to so to yourself that you can do it, it means you can manifest anything.
00:53:55
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In answer to your the end part of the question, how do I go about letting go of the outcome? Focus on the feeling, not the thing. Focus on the feeling you would get if that thing manifested.
00:54:07
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So would it be pride? Would it be excitement? Would it be relief? Let go of what it is and focus on the feeling. Okay. Hi, Cleo. I was wondering if it's normal to have asked for something, but then somehow get a message from the universe that something else is important to ask for.
00:54:23
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When I did the, when I did the listen to your heart meditation, I only received messages for what is important for myself, such as spending more time being creative and more self-care.
00:54:34
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But then after listening to episode three on allowing, I somehow realized that I hadn't asked for more nurturing connections, which is something I've been trying to focus on lately and felt that it is important to ask for too.
00:54:46
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I then went back to week two affirmations and incorporated it into my manifestations, which felt really good and aligned, but I'm somehow worried how i how could I have missed that in the beginning?
00:54:58
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Did I do something wrong? Does that mean I maybe wasn't clear enough? Usually I don't have to incorporate this as well. Usually I don't have incorporate this as well scenarios and I ask and let it go and that's it.
00:55:11
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Firstly, Alessa, like huge, like, wow. Like to have this spiritual awareness, I guess, is like huge and amazing. So just pat yourself on the bat, on the bat, on the back everything.
00:55:25
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having this awareness, like that is incredible. um I don't think that there is anything wrong with realizing that you want something else or need something else down the track. What I actually see that as is your dream developing and showing you what you need to help you achieve that dream or something better.
00:55:48
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So I don't think this is putting you off track. I don't think this is wrong. I think this is actually helping you in the fact that you then went back to week two and incorporated it. It's not going backwards.
00:55:59
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You're learning more. If you want more nurturing connections, Those nurturing connections that you all of a sudden desire or realize that you need are going to help you so much in what it was when you kind of what what it was that you wanted in the first place. I think it's all connected.
00:56:20
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And I think you may be thinking about it too much. Like all of this is great awareness, but I think like this is actually a really good thing. So I don't really have too much advice other than like kind of just go with the flow. Like you're receiving signs and advice, I guess.
00:56:39
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support from the universe saying actually you need more nurturing connections to help you become this version of you that has this dream and yes it might be that or something better i hope that helps let me know i have manifested in the melody i have manifested in the past but no now i was not fully falling into it so is it harder to ask for it again or should i just move on and then did i have melody can you post this again cleo has missed it oh Okay, no, I'm here. Okay.
00:57:09
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This is a really, really good one. So basically, Melody's saying, if I've manifested in the past, but I know now that I wasn't fully falling into it, is it harder to ask again or should I just move on? It's a really good question because I've been there and I am am going to admit I have been unsure of what to do.
00:57:28
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Can you ask in a different way that suits the version of melody that you are now that's different to the version of melody back then? Can we differ the stages of life that you are at so it feels different, new and refreshing?
00:57:41
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Can we even refine the dream a little bit, make the dream a little bit different? And almost in your journaling or your meditation, kind of just declare to the universe that you have grown and you have changed. Yes, you are asking for a similar thing or the same thing, but you want it for different reasons because you are this different person now and you've realized like if you get clear in your head as to why it's important to ask again,
00:58:05
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And if you feel confident that it's okay to ask again, you're not just wondering if the universe heard you, that there is actually changes because you weren't falling right into it, you weren't surrendering, you weren't giving it your all, then I think that's absolutely okay.
Reevaluating Desires and Manifesting through Feelings
00:58:19
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But it has to be like super clear in your mind that that's why you're asking again. Does that make sense? Story. Oh, another question I've thought of. What are your thoughts on just manifesting a feeling versus opportunities or material items?
00:58:34
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I do a mix of both stories. So i um I really love manifesting specific things and opportunities because it makes me feel so excited and powerful. when those exact people, opportunities, whatever come into my life.
00:58:47
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But I have found it's easier to manifest when you just focus on the feelings because so often we want something that is actually not right for us. And what we're doing by focusing on the feelings is we are letting the universe have a say.
00:59:03
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And that's how Pass Around the Smile was brought to me um because I focused on the feelings instead of what, because I didn't know what. Hope that helps. All right.
00:59:14
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Cleo, you missed the one above from Melody. Oh, thanks, mom. Yep, got it. Thank you. CJ, I really thank you for that. I heard your answers to the other job-related questions and realized I did answer my own question. You giving clarity is beautiful. Thank you so much. I've been starting to post my culinary projects online, making videos about it. Oh, my God.
00:59:34
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Oh, wow. I thought of doing a series called Cooking with Cello Phoenix. That is so exciting. Do it. Do it that's it. That's amazing. This is amazing. Melody, if I have manifested in the past, but I know... Oh, sorry. That's the one. Yeah.
00:59:47
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Danielle, lately, all of the things I have manifested have ended up not working out well. E.g., I got a promotion, but then ended up having... to lead a toxic team. I manifested and bought a bigger house, but it's now taking lots of time and money to manage a bigger house.
01:00:02
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I have just manifested a new job overseas starting in January, and I'm worried that this will also not work out well and that I will regret taking the new job. Wow, Danielle, thank you so much for sharing that. That's a wow.
01:00:14
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That's really amazing. And this is going to help so many, so many smileys. It's already sparked a lot of like ideas and feelings for me. So thank you. I want you to do a little deconstruction. This is what I do um when there's something off, there's something not quite right.
01:00:33
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I fully deconstruct what I did and what I did differently other times. Now I try and work out why it didn't work. So I want you to do a full Clio pass around smile deconstruction. I want you to get out your journal and I want you to write about the promotion when you were manifesting that promotion How did it feel? Were there any elements that felt a little bit off? Did you ever feel uncomfortable in your tummy? It may be hard to remember.
01:00:58
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Did you ever feel anxious? Did you ever force it a little bit? Did you send, you know, too many emails to try and make the promotion happen? Do you think you forced this promotion into your life with the house?
01:01:09
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How did you feel when you were manifesting the house? What steps did you take within the law of attraction scope? What steps didn't you take? What did you miss? Did you focus on gratitude? Did you not focus on gratitude? Do a full audit of how you manifested the first two and I want you to see if within that there is anything that felt off and then I want you to compare it now to this job that you have manifested overseas.
01:01:38
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Now, I don't want you to freak out if you then find some similarities between the last two manifestations, processes, and this one because the job is coming and you are obviously worried that it's going to work out, like that something's going to happen like it did the other times.
01:01:55
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You dictate your future. Your belief of something's going to happen and I'm going to regret taking the new job because in the past, my reality has been I've manifested something and I've regretted it for X, Y and Your belief of that is strong.
01:02:14
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So you possibly could manifest this not going the way that you want it to. So it's just about undoing that belief, which is powerful. You can do it. It's not attached to you.
01:02:25
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Sorry, you're not attached to that belief. So it's about undoing that. You've already done the hardest thing. You've already acknowledged that you have this fear. So many people will go through their whole lives not actually understanding what their fears are.
01:02:38
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So this is amazing, Danielle. Huge. I'm excited for it you. You now dictate from now to your future. You change the reality. Start visualizing how incredible this job is going to be.
01:02:50
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Okay, Millie, that helps so much. You are right. Trusting and not overthinking are so important. Thank you so much. Okay, CJ, so I think this will be our last question. If anyone has any like burning questions, put it in.
01:03:04
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Otherwise, this will be our last one, I think. I have a question. i don't write as much anymore in my books, but I love creating graphic audio sequences, which are like audio movies or episodes.
01:03:16
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And I had the inspiration from this course and another group called Everything Is Right About You. I started recording it and the idea just feels so empowering. And I feel this is my way of journaling and meditating to manifest what do you think?
01:03:29
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The first episode, I plan on calling where your mind goes, your life grows. CJ, this is incredible. You are doing things that feel empowering and exciting for you. Keep doing it.
01:03:41
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And yes, this absolutely can be your way of journaling and meditating. If it feels good, if it lights you up, if it has you gaining clarity and like we all experience things differently. So if meditation and journaling doesn't work for you,
01:03:56
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with how I do it, that's okay. Like it doesn't have to. If you find something else like CJ has that you can do that gives you those same kind of like relaxation feelings, letting go of resentment, guilt, pressure, bringing in the beautiful feelings of, you know, excitement, joy, gratitude, then amazing.
01:04:17
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Alessa, thank you so much. That makes so much sense with my dream developing along the way. I love that perspective. I'll have to i'll have more trust and let it go. Try not to think about it too much.
01:04:28
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Melody, this series has really excited me and where it will take me and my future. Thank you so much. Okay, we have another last question. So this is going to be the last one. Alessa, just one last question. I love this series so much and I definitely want to come back to it when I need inspiration. When would you recommend coming back to it? Good one.
01:04:46
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Alessa, when you have the desire to listen to it again, listen that in itself is a sign. If you're like, if you have the idea, I want to go back and listen to Cleo's course again, that's not forcing anything because you have the desire and it feels good.
01:05:03
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So whenever you feel... This was so fun and inspiring. Would love to see more live podcasts in the future. Yes, and Story and everyone else who is joining from overseas and Australia, of course. Like, I'm just so grateful for you guys. I honestly have the best and most amazing community.
01:05:20
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Last night, I was lying in bed and I was kind of thinking about this morning and I was like, why am I not nervous? Like, I just didn't feel nervous at all. And I was like, well, it's... because my community are like my friends and everyone is just so giving and vulnerable and kind. And honestly, thank you so much.
01:05:42
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Thank you for being a part of my community. Thank you for doing this course, Make It More Than a Dream. It was so fun. Get involved on the Facebook community or the Instagram broadcast channel, wherever it is.
01:05:55
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You saw the amount of you that want things and that are manifesting things in this chat is it is electric. It's inspiring. We can all help each other no matter where we are in the world.
01:06:06
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So let's keep connected. Tell me your stories. What are you manifesting? I think there is going to be some really cool things manifesting in the next few weeks for all of us. Share it. Shout it out to the universe because remember when you receive the thing you deserve it and you are allowed to shout it from the rooftops.
01:06:27
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Cleo, thank you. Your answers were spot on and have given me a better understanding of the letting go process. Letting go, guys, is such a big part of it. This course has been so good. I've got so much out of it. Your beautiful infectious happiness is the best way to start the day. I'm looking forward to what lies ahead and future podcasts. I've says said it before, but you are such a treasure.
01:06:45
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Meredith, you are a treasure. Sam, thank you. Jutta, thank you. Steph, I see your love heart. Alessa, thank you so much for creating a magical space to help us manifest our dreams. Oh, Emily.
01:06:56
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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you for all your messages. I'm seeing them and I will go back and read them. And I'm so thankful this episode. I think I might upload it straight away now to the Pass Around the Smile podcast.
01:07:09
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Thank you Let's chat. Let's stay in touch. You guys are amazing. one Now I don't feel like I need to like sing my little outro.
01:07:20
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Thanks guys. no
01:07:27
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Wow, my smileys, I cannot believe we have come to the end of our manifestation challenge, Make It More Than A Dream. I am so proud of you guys for showing up for yourself. I am so looking forward to hearing about the shifts, big or small.
01:07:39
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And yeah, it's just been an absolute delight to guide you through this little series. Just a reminder that all three... extra optional downloads are still available for you to grab for yourself. All the links are in the show notes. You have the work booklet, which will guide you through all of the four weeks.
01:07:57
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There is so much good information in there. It will really help you supercharge your journey and really bring those aha moments, especially through the journaling prompts and the powerful questions to ask your cards.
01:08:08
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Then of course, there is the Oracle Card Coloring Book. There is also the Ritual Soundtrack, which is an all-in-one 25-minute experience to really get into that relaxation of manifesting, asking, surrendering, journal prompts, relaxation, music. It's all-in-one and I guide you through it all.
01:08:27
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Thank you again for coming along for this series. I will see you back on the podcast soon.