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Ep:27-From Silence to Sovereignty: Becoming the Sacred Bitch Priestess
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This episode marks the beginning of a new season — and a new chapter for me. I am stepping fully into the Sacred Bitch & Priestess, alive with eros, unapologetic in my truth, and unwilling to stay silent any longer.
For too long, women have been conditioned to fear being called a bitch for speaking up, for saying no, for daring to live in their power. I am reclaiming that word and weaving it with the sacred, because our truth, our rage, our softness, and our voice are all holy.
In this conversation, I share what it means for me to embody this next chapter — a wilder, freer, more unapologetic version of myself — and invite you to join me in breaking free from the silence and fear that no longer serve us. This is not just a season shift, it’s a rebirth.
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Transcript
Introduction and Personal Transformations
00:00:00
Valerie Vazquez
Aloha and welcome to Sacred Self Love. This is a whole new season of this podcast. This is a whole new me. I'm showing up in a different way to these episodes.
00:00:16
Valerie Vazquez
As many of you know, i took a trip to Avalon and I had no idea what it was going to truly unlock within me. i could tell you countless stories of what i experienced there.
00:00:31
Valerie Vazquez
But all you really need to know is that I really, really remembered am. who i am I was shown who I was in ways that I never thought were possible.
00:00:46
Valerie Vazquez
I unlocked my Eros
Embracing Authenticity
00:00:48
Valerie Vazquez
again. That part of that creativity within me and that knowing and that trust of everything that's going to come.
00:00:58
Valerie Vazquez
So I am in the process of really, i don't like to use the term rebranding because um I'm not a brand, I'm a human, and I really want to embrace that part So instead of me waiting until I change the logo on this podcast cover or until I completely curate the perfect Instagram or TikTok or whatever I decide to do to get my messages out, I'm not going to wait for that.
00:01:29
Valerie Vazquez
Because so many times in the past, I have thought I had to do certain things before I could put my voice and my message out. And it is becoming more apparent that We who do bring love to this planet that want to see the good for all do need to step up and use our voices. And I see it in a different way.
Divine Power and Overcoming Fear
00:01:53
Valerie Vazquez
So for me personally, i am priestess and I'm also a sacred bitch. You know, a lot of times I'm going to tell you this story here.
00:02:05
Valerie Vazquez
ah few years ago when I was on social media, i was really angry and I expressed my anger and I was cyber bullied. I was attacked.
00:02:19
Valerie Vazquez
I literally was sent pictures of my precious family with dicks on their forehead telling me to shut up that I was a crazy bitch. And yeah, here's the thing.
00:02:32
Valerie Vazquez
We are not bitches for speaking our sacred truth. I'm not talking about being a mean bitch because I've been that before.
00:02:44
Valerie Vazquez
I have used the power inside of me to hurt others because I was hurt. I'm talking about this divine and sacred power within you that you know that you are not less than as a woman. That is okay for you to use your voice.
Exploring Love and Healing
00:03:03
Valerie Vazquez
It is okay when you have healed the parts of you that have been dominating others through anger, if you've healed that and you've released that and you've let that go and you know that the words that you're speaking are coming from a different type of truth, a truth that is connected, like you've unlocked and you're the bridge, you realize that you are the bridge between Earth and heaven, mother earth, father sky, however you want to look at it, you know you're a bridge and you know that the way that our society has treated women less than is not the truth.
00:03:42
Valerie Vazquez
You know that within your relationships that you have in your life, that it is okay for you to speak the truth from love. Because love is not always soft and gentle.
00:03:54
Valerie Vazquez
Love isn't always rose petals and altars and flowy dresses. As a matter of fact, I really thought that is what I needed to become.
00:04:07
Valerie Vazquez
This soft, feminine woman that's always in creativity and flow and my Instagram page needs to look all perfect and all of these things.
00:04:19
Valerie Vazquez
But you know what? That's not true. that isn't That is not a true representation of what it takes to heal. You can get to those places.
00:04:31
Valerie Vazquez
You can get to the point where you see the signs and the synchronicities and you see all of the ways that you are more than just this human vessel, that you are also this connection, that you have this technology within you, that you are powerful.
00:04:54
Valerie Vazquez
And it takes a lot to strip away those things so that you are like, you're okay to be seen.
Spirituality and Authentic Voice Use
00:05:04
Valerie Vazquez
and you're not living in fear. And you're not living in all of these lower themes that have separated us.
00:05:13
Valerie Vazquez
Honestly, The spiritual community, there are so many things that kept me stuck. And I don't want to regurgitate spirituality, especially from a patriarchal consciousness of spirituality. And I will not do it anymore.
00:05:34
Valerie Vazquez
It is time for us women and men to really start understanding looking at the parts of ourselves that are holding us back from not using our voices and speak up. Of course, I'm saying this in the same week that Charlie Kirk was just assassinated for, outwardly speaking, what he believes.
00:05:57
Valerie Vazquez
I'm not going to go into that right now, but I possibly, i'm not sure, but you could be thinking, oh my gosh, well, I don't want to speak out because I'm, you know, going to be, you know, possibly hurt or you know, there's a lot of fear that is circulating right now.
00:06:17
Valerie Vazquez
And this is exactly what separates us from love is fear. And we've been fed it since the moment we were born.
Healing, Truths, and Emotions
00:06:27
Valerie Vazquez
We have been put into fear by man-made religions and governments that don't actually care about the well-being of its people.
00:06:39
Valerie Vazquez
We've been separated. We are not equal in society's view. If we were, we would be seeing every single man, woman, child that has been hurt, killed, murdered.
00:06:58
Valerie Vazquez
We'd be seeing all of them. And there wouldn't just be one agenda. And there wouldn't just be one God.
00:07:06
Valerie Vazquez
So I and back, but I have evolved. And that's part of what healing does. It allows you to see parts of yourself that were stuck.
00:07:21
Valerie Vazquez
It allows you to see the ways that you're not showing up in your real truth, in your real power.
00:07:31
Valerie Vazquez
So my invitation to you, it will always be an invitation, but to really get real with your feelings and really sit with them.
00:07:45
Valerie Vazquez
Turn off social media if you feel that you are unregulated or if you feel like your system is overloaded. In this day and age, it your system is going to get overloaded.
00:08:00
Valerie Vazquez
So um i was thinking of changing the name of this podcast, but I'm not. Sacred self-love is what you have to do for yourself to unlock your sacred truth, to be okay with speaking up and being called a bitch or being called crazy.
00:08:25
Valerie Vazquez
You're not crazy for seeing through the lies. You're not.
00:08:32
Valerie Vazquez
So welcome back to Sacred Self-Love. It's going to be a whole different show Things are going to evolve. I'm probably going to get a different cover image.
00:08:43
Valerie Vazquez
I'm probably going to go on video because voices need to get out. I'm not going to hide behind anything anymore because the women and men of the world need to know that in order to stop violently harming one another,
00:09:02
Valerie Vazquez
We have to let that rage out of ourselves, like hitting ah pillow and screaming and listening to rageful music or whatever it is you need to do. Let your anger out.
00:09:18
Valerie Vazquez
Let it out, but not on other people. Let it out. You've been hurt. Everyone has been hurt. Stop comparing your hurt to others' hurt.
00:09:31
Valerie Vazquez
Feel your tears. Feel your grief. Stop taking it out on other people. If you feel it come up, yeah, it's there. Witness it.
00:09:44
Valerie Vazquez
Send some love to it, but also let it out. Don't bypass it. One of the things that really fucked me up for so many years on this spiritual path was this, well, that's what your soul chose.
00:10:01
Valerie Vazquez
And I've seen so many people say it. Well, that's what your soul chose. And then because of that, it's almost like this bypass of like, oh, well, I should just be okay with it.
00:10:16
Valerie Vazquez
ah Some people take it that way. No, you still have to feel it yeah, your soul might have chose this and maybe you're supposed to move through these lessons, but it's not just an acceptance and it's not just a turn the blind eye that to any type of abuse or to any type of situation that doesn't serve you anymore because you signed up for it.
00:10:45
Valerie Vazquez
or because whatever you, you, you can believe that. And, and I still do believe that my soul chose a lot of hard lessons and I'm walking through some of the hardest lessons i have ever walked through right now.
00:11:04
Valerie Vazquez
I'm on a roller coaster in these moments and One day I'm crying all day long and the next day I'm raging all day long and the next day I'm okay because I know that this is going to be another chapter.
00:11:21
Valerie Vazquez
One day i will share what this is. But for now, we're moving through it. We are all moving through so much. When I was in Avalon,
00:11:35
Valerie Vazquez
And I was with these beautiful priestesses, these wonderful women,
Shared Struggles and Compassion
00:11:41
Valerie Vazquez
devotional women, devotional to our Mother Earth, devotional to bringing peace and love and harmony back into the world.
00:11:51
Valerie Vazquez
You know, we we did some deep work. We worked through a lot. We cried, we screamed, we bled on the earth.
00:12:02
Valerie Vazquez
We did all kinds of things to release
00:12:07
Valerie Vazquez
And every single one of these women that I got to spend time with have all gone through tragedy, tragic things. And I got back home to hawaii and I went into another circle.
00:12:23
Valerie Vazquez
And all of these women that shared have gone through and are gone going through a lot.
00:12:31
Valerie Vazquez
We're all walking through things.
00:12:35
Valerie Vazquez
We don't need to compare.
00:12:40
Valerie Vazquez
we need to realize that every single woman, every single man has gone through pain in their lives. And no more comparing whose is worse.
00:12:56
Valerie Vazquez
Compassion over comparing. Acceptance over judgment.
00:13:04
Valerie Vazquez
Love over hate.
00:13:10
Valerie Vazquez
Thank you all for tuning in today. As everything starts unraveling, appreciate your support. And let me know in the comments what you think about this this new sacred bitch and priestess.
00:13:29
Valerie Vazquez
chapter that I'm in now. And yeah, it'll evolve, I'm sure, into something else later. But for now, this is where we are. And I am still sending you so much love.
00:13:43
Valerie Vazquez
You're not crazy. You're not a bitch for speaking your truth.