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ASK IT LIKE YOU MEAN IT ~ EP 2 ~ Make it More Than A Dream
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A Manifestation Challenge with Cleo Massey from Pass Around the Smile. Welcome to episode 2, ‘Ask It Like You Mean It,’
Download the ritual soundtrack, colouring book and the Make It More Than A Dream work book here!
The ritual soundtrack is a powerful 25-minute ritual led by me, Cleo! This immersive experience weaves together guided meditations, journaling prompts, and affirmations designed to support you in manifesting your desires. A first of its kind in the wellness space, this ritual blends multiple spiritual tools into one seamless soundtrack, helping you to reset, realign, and reconnect on every level. It’s your 25-minute escape into clarity, calm, and manifestation magic.
This is the booklet which will guide you through the 4 week course. Check the description of week 1 here for more information on the booklet.
The colouring book features outlines of some of my Pass Around the Smile oracle cards ~ ready to be brought to life with colour, creativity and intention. An inspiring escape to help you switch off, surrender, and let go as your manifestations unfold.
In this episode, we explore a powerful question: Why are you whispering your dreams instead of declaring them?
I dive deep into how to ask from a place of alignment and confidence ~ not fear or scarcity. We talk about how to ask, when to ask, and who to ask, and we unpack the common mistakes many of us make when we shrink our desires out of fear of failure, judgment, or our own potential. We also explore the way we perceive our dreams, and how it's not the Universe or the Law of Attraction that sees them as big or difficult ~ it's us. That perception alone can create resistance and block the very thing we’re trying to call in.
When you ask loud and clear, you’re affirming: I know who I am, I feel worthy of what I want and I trust that the universe is listening.
You'll hear why the feeling behind your ask is just as important as the words ~ and how to shift from a hesitant hope to a bold, clear declaration. I also share how to handle asking for multiple things, when it may be too much, and how to stay grounded in your truth and what you deserve.
This week’s optional extra is a 20-minute ritual soundtrack ~ featuring guided meditation, aligned journal prompts, and beautiful music to elevate your mindset and help you manifest with more ease and intention. It’s a nourishing, all-in-one practice you can return to whenever you need to reset, realign, or reignite your belief.
Don’t forget to check in with the Pass Around the Smile Instagram and our Facebook group (links below) ~ share what’s landing for you during this manifestation challenge, ask questions, or simply connect with others on the same path. And if you’re ready to go deeper, download this week’s optional extra and give this challenge your full energy.
Let the magic begin, Cleo xx
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Transcript
Introduction and Podcast Corrections
00:00:00
Speaker
Hello, my smileys. Just jumping on and adding in a little extra voiceover here at the start because I made a little mistake. I also added in a little voiceover at the end just because the logistics of this challenge, it's just a little here, there and everywhere. So I just want to keep you up to date.
Add-ons and Immediate Availability
00:00:17
Speaker
um I probably should have been a lot clearer about the optional add-ons, the downloads. So I'm talking about the booklet that a lot of you have already downloaded that takes you through the whole four weeks.
00:00:28
Speaker
I'm talking about the coloring book and the ritual soundtrack. So I had planned to drop them weekly as we went on in the course, but you guys are so into this. You're so dedicated that I've had a lot of emails and messages from you guys saying that the links in the booklet weren't working because you wanted to download the coloring book and the ritual soundtrack early.
00:00:48
Speaker
I'm so excited that you guys are so enthusiastic. So what I am doing is I am just going to make them all available now so you can download them when you want, get stuck into it.
Utilizing Intuition and Personalization
00:00:58
Speaker
Um, but also i originally was going to make the coloring book week twos exercise and the ritual soundtrack week threes exercise, but I have decided to swap them because I think that you guys are so ready for the ritual soundtrack and I think it suits week two way more. So when we get to week three and four, it's really about easing up, letting go surrendering the real fun, fluffy stuff.
00:01:21
Speaker
So In your booklet, it will say the coloring pages on week two and the ritual soundtrack on week three. I would swap them. In saying that, I want you to also use your intuition and do the downloads, the extra stuff when you want, when you feel you need it, and come back to them as many times as you need to as well.
00:01:42
Speaker
All the links are in the show notes. You guys are amazing. I will get into this episode now.
Podcast Theme and Community Vibes
00:01:48
Speaker
And there was one more thing. Oh yes, I say this at the end, but I'll quickly say it now. Included in the ritual soundtrack is to ask for your desire. So if you are wondering when or how you're going to ask, maybe save it for that ritual soundtrack because I think it will really help you.
00:02:03
Speaker
Pass Around the Smile is like your go-to friend, the one that lifts you up and backs you to the end. She's there to guide and inspire, challenge and teach, and remind you that your best self isn't out of reach.
00:02:14
Speaker
Self-development, manifestation, self-love and more It's time to trust the process more than ever before.
00:02:22
Speaker
Welcome to Pass Around the Smile, the podcast. I'm your host, Cleo Massey, and I am so glad you're here. Let the magic begin. Hello, my smileys, and welcome back to the Pass Around the Smile podcast, episode two of the Make It More Than a Dream series, my manifestation challenge.
00:02:42
Speaker
And boy, is it a good one. I'm excited. I hope you're excited. The energy within the community at the moment has been electric. I've been hearing what you are saying. I've been seeing what you're writing. I'm replying to everything. Remember, when you have a question within this series, write it in the Instagram community channel or the Facebook community group, I will answer everything. i am here to help you, to guide you, to inspire you.
00:03:08
Speaker
And I am trying to show up as the best mentor, I guess, that I can throughout this course for you, because I am so passionate about what I've created within this course and And I'm so sure it can
Progress, Comparison, and Clarity
00:03:21
Speaker
work. I'm so sure it can create shifts, a hot moments, big realizations for you, which is why I'm just like, I'm so excited to get my message across and make sure it is heard and understood and make sure that you guys are putting in the real work to create the real change.
00:03:36
Speaker
I have already had a couple of you write in that you have either had realizations or you've let go of something in week one, or you are feeling more clear as to what it is that you need to manifest or actually want for your life.
00:03:50
Speaker
And do you know how happy that makes me? Oh my gosh, guys, so happy. I am so proud of you. And if you are listening to this going like, oh, I haven't had any of that yet. Like I'm falling behind. This is not working for me.
00:04:00
Speaker
I'm not doing a good enough job. no No, no, no. Yes, you are doing a good enough job by just tuning into this podcast and listening. You are treating your mind and the messages, everything that I'm saying, the journaling prompts that you do, the meditations that you do will wash over you how and when they need to. We are all on separate paths. We are all on separate journeys.
00:04:22
Speaker
The last thing that you need to do is compare to anyone else, whether you know them, whether you don't know them, whether you're comparing to me, no comparison is allowed during this manifestation challenge because comparison was one of the biggest things that had me feeling so clouded.
00:04:41
Speaker
Going back to week one, obviously, we're talking clarity is power. Gaining that clarity so we can actually free ourselves to move forward is one of the most important steps. And for so so long, I was feeling so clouded because I was living in other people's worlds. I was trying to do what other people were doing because it looks like it made them happy or it looks like it made...
00:05:03
Speaker
their business successful, or that looks like it made them lose weight or getting that particular thing, piece of clothing or handbag or car made them, you know, feel abundant.
Personal Growth Enjoyment and Flexibility
00:05:13
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And I was just, I was not focused on me, on what I actually want, on what is true to my values and beliefs. When we gain that clarity, when we know who we are, what we want, we move forward. Like I'm just imagining myself floating on some ice like skating forward, free flowing, effortless.
00:05:33
Speaker
It feels good. It feels easy. And it gets to feel like that for you. None of this has to be hard work. I want to drill into you guys that this is supposed to be fun.
00:05:45
Speaker
Yes, I ask you to get uncomfortable and dig deep at times. Yes, that's where the real change comes from. But no, this does not have to be something that you are working on every minute of the day. You do not have to meditate for hours. You don't have to journal on topics that have you crying and purging for hours. Like,
00:06:07
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This gets to be what you want it to be for you. You get to make it fun. You get to make it enjoyable.
Manifestation Techniques and Self-Reflection
00:06:14
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And when we are enjoying life, when we are coming from a place of enjoyment, our manifestations match us at that same vibration.
00:06:24
Speaker
at that same level. And that's what we, you know, gravitate to. And that's what we attract more of into our lives. So it's all, it's like a big wheel. It's all, it's all connected.
00:06:34
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Now I did want to say, if you have listened to episode one, clarity is power. If you, are now coming onto episode two, but you don't feel clear, I want you to go back and I want you to listen to the episode one on Clarity is Power again. And I want to make sure that you are doing the real work before you continue.
00:06:54
Speaker
Now, you don't have to feel like the most clear, energetically aligned person in this world to move on to episode two? Absolutely not. I have a hundred percent manifested things before when I haven't been like completely a hundred percent clear.
00:07:11
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I'm not saying we have to reach for unachievable things here. We are human. Yes, we can feel clear some days. Yes, we can feel clear on some topics, but then other topics or other areas in our lives may feel totally clouded and that might need months of work.
00:07:26
Speaker
Or maybe you you know, feel a lot more clearer than you did, but you're comparing yourself to someone. Maybe you're comparing yourself to me who last week in the episode, I said, we pass around a smile. Now I am feeling so clear. I'm feeling so focused. I know exactly what to do. I know exactly where I need to go.
00:07:44
Speaker
Maybe you're like, oh, I don't feel like that. So I can't move on to episode two. That's not exactly what I'm saying. Now you will know, my smileys, you will know if you put in the work, if you put in enough work to move into episode two. Now, again, I'm not saying that you needed to spend time hours and hours on episode one, on the workbook, journaling, meditating, doing all of that. Because if you are forcing all of this self and spiritual development stuff, that's not that's not how it's meant to go.
00:08:13
Speaker
Yes, sometimes getting into a meditation can feel like, you know, hard work or maybe the journaling does still feel like a bit of a chore for you. Again, I'm just trying to be realistic and relatable. That is normal.
00:08:24
Speaker
That is okay. But did you make an effort... to do things for you. Did you put time aside for yourself because you deserve that time and because you are giving this four week challenge a real shot?
00:08:39
Speaker
Everyone's real shot is going to be different. A mom of three's real shot is probably going to be different to a single young person in their twenties. So it's going, you're going to be able to input different you know amounts of time and energy into it. And that is okay.
00:08:55
Speaker
But listen to me, Close your eyes, maybe. Not if you're walking or driving. Maybe just don't close your eyes. Just listen. Are you proud of what you did for week one?
00:09:08
Speaker
Do you feel like it was enough to gain complete or more clarity than you had? Be honest with yourself. If the answer is no, I want you to stop this episode. I want you to go back and listen to episode one again.
00:09:23
Speaker
Take yourself on a walk, play it while you're cooking dinner, whatever it is, but really try and tune in to the lessons, to what I'm saying and let it really sink in. Did you do what I asked of you? Did you take a look, an overview, a little bit of an audit of your life and look where you're giving your energy, who you're giving it to, what you're giving it to, where it feels yucky, where it feels like you're giving too much, where it feels like you're not giving enough?
00:09:47
Speaker
Did you get the booklet? Now you don't have to, of course, it is only $4.99, but if you got the booklet, did you do the journaling prompts? Did you ask your cards the specific questions? Did you do the meditation I suggested?
00:09:59
Speaker
Did you read my real life examples and see and feel how you could kind of then apply that to your life? If you gave it a real shot and you are feeling a little bit more clear or totally clear, then welcome to episode two, which is ask it like you mean it.
Episode Two Teaser and Mind Understanding
00:10:16
Speaker
If you need to do a little bit more work, please go and do that work and make sure that you are answering the journaling prompts that I suggested and the other things that I suggested in the podcast, make sure that you are answering them honestly and then you will be ready to move on. Again, you don't have to feel like the most clear person in the world, so ready to move on.
00:10:33
Speaker
You still can manifest when you are feeling a little off, when you are feeling a little, you know, down or lost or whatever it is. But the more that you allow yourself to dig deep, to understand what's going on in your mind, the more you will move forward freely with clarity and with power.
00:10:56
Speaker
Okay. So let's get into episode two, ask it like you mean it guys. This is an exciting one. Now it is following the similar kind of steps, which I have probably taken you but through before. If you have done my online course, a guide to happiness or manifest magic, or if you've just listened to the past around the smile podcast for a long time,
00:11:15
Speaker
This is essentially the step of ask. But what I found was that myself included and a lot of my community, you guys, my smileys, we were asking quietly.
00:11:28
Speaker
We were almost whispering what it was that we wanted for a few reasons. I think the biggest reason comes down to self-worth because we didn't truly feel worthy and deserving of what it was that we were asking for.
00:11:44
Speaker
Whether we thought there were other people that were better suited for the job or for the person or for whatever it was that we were manifesting, or maybe we felt guilty asking for something when there are other people in the world starving when there are people in the world that are in war at the moment it can be so heavy and negative to think about these people around the world right now and what they are going through and it can be really hard to ask for what it is that you want and feel worthy of asking for that when you already have a house or a phone or a healthy loving family i totally get that and i struggle with it as well
00:12:27
Speaker
And I'll come back to how we can kind
Fears and Confidence in Manifestation
00:12:31
Speaker
of combat that. But for now, I'm just kind of stating some reasons as to why we might be whispering our desires instead of stating them out loud, clearly, boldly, with passion, with excitement.
00:12:43
Speaker
Another big reason is because simply we are scared of failure. We are scared of judgment. We are scared of disappointing ourselves. We are scared of disappointing others. So we think if we ask quietly, the universe might not hear and then we might not have to actually do the thing that's scary because that thing creates change or creates, you know, uncomfortable feelings of nerves or maybe that thing that we are asking for isn't actually going to serve the people around us because it's different or maybe it means you moving away from the person that you love or, you know, leaving a job where all your friends are at. There's so many reasons as to why we might be asking quietly.
00:13:26
Speaker
And what I want to say to you is it's time to stop asking quietly. but If you are serious about what it is that you are wanting to manifest into your life, it's time to ask boldly.
00:13:38
Speaker
Another thing that I think we as a collective fear is actually our own power. If you listen to the Pass Around the Smile podcast, you know that you are a powerful being. You know that the power of your mind has the ability to shape and change your reality, right?
00:13:57
Speaker
You know that. We know that. And sometimes that can be scary. Because we know that if we really give this a shot, if we really work on our mindset, where our values and beliefs are, what it is that we want, visualize it, create it into our lives, then we've actually created it. And while the thing that we want is obviously so exciting and we genuinely want it, because why would we ask for it if we didn't want it?
00:14:23
Speaker
It doesn't mean it's not scary because usually these things that are exciting come with change or with a big amount of success, or maybe we open ourselves up to more judgment.
00:14:37
Speaker
If we're you know wanting to start a YouTube channel or wanting to start a podcast or wanting to start a business, so we have to start showing up on social media, online, on radio, whatever it is.
00:14:48
Speaker
So maybe that's a part of why you are asking quietly because you are actually scared of your own power. But if you're scared of your own power, you are going to continue to live a life that does not completely serve the person that you were put on this earth to be.
00:15:04
Speaker
Who were you put on this earth to be? What were you put on this earth to do You should be able to answer those questions now because we went through the week one of Clarity is Power.
00:15:15
Speaker
Now, don't get me wrong. You still might answer... These questions that I'm asking you with trepidation, with fear, with anxiety, that's normal. You don't have to be so like bold and clear. This is exactly what I want. and I'm going to go get it. I'm going to chase my dreams unapologetically.
00:15:30
Speaker
Let's be realistic. We're human. We get scared. And that's okay. That's okay. I guess I just don't want to like go. um just, what's the word? Like I know toxic positivity, I i don't subscribe to.
00:15:45
Speaker
And I really try to watch myself with that, but I'm kind of talking about like toxic confidence almost because I don't want you guys to think, oh, I have to be so confident and so clear and so bold and so loud about what it is that I want for them to materialize. You don't.
00:16:07
Speaker
I'm just kind of taking you through what I know works and you get to grab whatever level within the teachings that I am bringing you that fits in with your life.
00:16:19
Speaker
You're loud, you're clear, you're bold, you're confident is going to be very different to this person's over here. Okay. Okay. All right. All right. So you want to be asking through a place of alignment and confidence that feels right for you. And no excuses though, to be like, oh, it feels right to me to ask really quietly because I'm a shy person.
00:16:43
Speaker
No, no, no. I still want to push you a bit. I still need to push you a bit. I'm doing... it's It's my job to tell you that you are good enough, that you are capable enough, that you are the best person to live your dreams. And if you don't ask them from a place of confidence and alignment, you will not get them.
00:17:03
Speaker
So we have the clarity now, right? We know what we want. We know what we need. We know what we
Clarity and Co-creation with the Universe
00:17:08
Speaker
crave. And we feel clear and focused to move forward. We're not looking next to us. We're not looking at the news. We're not looking at social media.
00:17:16
Speaker
We're not letting other people's expectations or opinions sway us because we know what we want. We know what is right for us. And what can help you if that kind of mentality is making you feel too, like maybe a little bit claustrophobic because maybe you are like, look, i I do really think I know what I want and I think this feels good, but you still have, you know, the fears and the limiting beliefs coming in. That's totally fair enough.
00:17:42
Speaker
I'm the same. So what I like to do at the moment with pass around a smile, while I say i am so focused, I'm so clear, I know exactly what I want and need to do to bring me happiness and to build my business at the same time.
00:17:54
Speaker
I am telling the truth there because I did the work to get to that mentality. However, there are 100% days where I come in and I feel anxious or I feel off or I feel out of alignment.
00:18:07
Speaker
So what I like to do then is I like to have a little affirmation that's something like, I do know what I want and I am clear and I am focused, but I'm also open to change. I'm open to guidance and I'm open to change.
00:18:22
Speaker
better things if something better is on the way to me or available to me soon. Because for years, and I've mentioned this already, I was chasing a dream that wasn't right for me. I told myself that that dream was right for me. So I always like to just leave it open to the co-creation of the universe who I believe in,
00:18:43
Speaker
to help me, to guide me, to co-create with me as I might not actually know the best way forward. Feeling me? Are you feeling me? I hope so.
00:18:55
Speaker
All right, let's move on. If we don't ask, how do we expect to be heard? Now, whoever you believe in, right? Whether it's the universe, source, energy, God, Buddha, a deceased loved one, maybe be a pet that you believe is in heaven, whoever it is that you believe in, you probably see them as these like magical beings, right? Because they're not really here in our physical reality with us.
00:19:18
Speaker
They're kind of around. We can't see them. Maybe we feel their energy. Maybe we see their colors. Maybe you're that intuitive. Maybe you're not. That's okay. But we see them as these magical beings, right? So sometimes we expect that they will be able to read our minds and that they will just bring us what we want so we can just go on, live our lives, party, enjoy, ignore all the real work we have to do because that's uncomfortable and that takes effort.
00:19:44
Speaker
My angels know what I need. My angels know what I want. But we have to let them know that we are ready and that we are ready.
00:19:55
Speaker
agreeing with them, that we are co-creating with them, that we are accepting that what they want for us, we want as well. So we are open, we are ready. You need to communicate that for them, yes, but for you mostly.
00:20:11
Speaker
I really do believe that when you start boldly saying what it is that you want, it is so much more likely to happen. For so long, I was asking quietly about many different things.
00:20:25
Speaker
A, because I was lacking clarity. I didn't know what I wanted. So I was asking for a million different things. I was confused. I was here. I was there. I was everywhere. I was being swayed by other people's opinions. But I was also asking for a lot of things because I wanted to just kind of like plant them all and then hope that the universe took what was best for me and ran with it and gave it to me. And while I really like, I don't know if there's like a word, cause I'm pretty sure I, I'm pretty sure I came up with this. I don't know if I did, but you know how, when we want something, we will very quickly
00:21:04
Speaker
go to all of the things that could go wrong, right? All of the things, the situations that could happen that would be so bad, that would be so embarrassing, that would be so humiliating and um we we wouldn't be able to get out of it. It would be the worst thing. And we imagine them, we see them happening, whether it's this person saying this certain thing, whether it's a bad review, whether it's raining on the day or whether the camera doesn't work or whether we lose the files, whatever it is, we think of all of the things that could go wrong, right?
00:21:36
Speaker
In a few, not a few, it was like ages a podcast ago, I kind of, again, I think I came up with this, but I could have got it from someone else like subconsciously, who knows? But I want kind of come up with a name of it because it's almost like a method or an activity or I don't know what it is. Maybe you guys can help me out with how I can like name this and actually make it like a thing that I talk about with you smileys, because I reckon we all do that. What I just said about the negative spiraling, but we can all do this instead.
00:22:05
Speaker
So the positive spiraling, the opposite. When we want something, I think it's really cool to think of all of the different things that could go so incredibly right. Oh, it was in my Manifest Magic course. Now I'm remembering.
00:22:20
Speaker
So what if your boss called you and said, we want you to go to New York next week and we want you to work with, you know, this incredible singer.
Positive Thinking and Outcome Focus
00:22:30
Speaker
Maybe you are a musician and we want you to co-create and write a song with that person and work with that label.
00:22:36
Speaker
What if your family called and said, we have decided to take you all on a trip, a skiing trip to Japan, we're paying. What if you won a million dollars?
00:22:47
Speaker
What if you won a prize home? What if you got accepted into the best university that you could ever get accepted into? Go like crazy amounts of positive, even if it seems a little bit ridiculous to you. Like here's an example.
00:23:03
Speaker
Let's say that you are going for a job, ah job within your work. What's it called? A promotion, you're going for a promotion, right? That's your desire, but you're like, I accept this desire, but I also accept something way better.
00:23:18
Speaker
So then let's go ridiculous. So let's say you don't actually get that promotion because you get poached from an agency in, i don't know, Switzerland, who are absolutely obsessed with you. They want to pay you triple what you get now. They want to fly you over in first class.
00:23:39
Speaker
They want to put you up in a castle and they want you to also create a podcast alongside the work that you're doing. And they're going to set you up with with a studio.
00:23:50
Speaker
The podcast will be edited. um And then when you get there, you meet the love of your life. He is from where your your hometown is. And then you marry him and then you fly home and you start a family.
00:24:04
Speaker
Now, This isn't ridiculous. This could happen, right? But what I'm just trying to get a point across that when we can spiral so negatively and think of all the things that could go wrong that are so ridiculous and not going to happen, why don't we do it in the opposite way?
00:24:19
Speaker
Now, I know I'm kind of going a little bit off topic here from the ask it like you mean it, but all of this is going to integrate into the whole process. manifestation method. And I just want you guys to start thinking differently.
00:24:32
Speaker
I want to give you as much juice as I can in these podcast episodes. Please, if this is resonating, if this is exciting you, let me know as well. I really like to hear it. It does help me to keep creating content because I'm the kind of person that feeds off other people's energy.
00:24:46
Speaker
If you are liking this message as well, send it to a friend, send it to a family member you care about, because maybe this will excite them. So back to what I was kind of talking about and when I started going off on this tangent is what I found that I was doing before I got really clear was I was like planting all of these ideas when I was asking and hoping that the universe would just pick one.
00:25:08
Speaker
Now, this isn't necessarily wrong, but it isn't necessarily right either. Not that there's any right and wrong. The way that you manifest is perfect and the way that I manifest is perfect. But sometimes some things work for us and some things don't.
00:25:23
Speaker
What I was doing is, yes, I was coming up with all of these different exciting things that I might want and I was kind of like planning them and being like, ohh this could happen, that could happen. But what I was doing in the process was I wasn't clear on exactly one or two or even three things.
00:25:40
Speaker
that felt really good and really aligned. Instead, I was just putting them all out, hoping that the universe would do the work for me. So I was being a little bit lazy, I guess you could say.
00:25:54
Speaker
Again, I don't want to say don't do this because i think it's great to do this. I think it's great to come up with all of the different things things that could happen or that you might want, but I don't think it should happen in this ask step.
00:26:06
Speaker
I think it should happen later. So we'll talk about it in maybe episode three or four. We'll see when it comes out, when it feels right. But when you're asking, if you are unclear about what you are asking, the universe is going to be unclear right back.
00:26:21
Speaker
They are going to feed off of that energy. Now, you need to check in on your energy when you're asking. So let's use my example. I was asking for all these different little things, but I was asking quite quietly because I wasn't sure.
00:26:33
Speaker
I was like, this would be really cool. That would be really cool, universe. I might ask for this through my journaling. I might ask for this other desire through my meditation. And when I'm on my gratitude walk, I might ask for that. other one and see which one the universe hears and thinks. And I'm just going to go off and enjoy my life and not think about any of them. And in some instances, that can be a way of surrendering. And I have manifested incredible things by literally just saying it, dropping it, leaving it, surrendering.
00:26:59
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And going off. But I manifested that thing because it was so in alignment with my values, with my beliefs and with where I was at, my desires, my frequency, everything was in alignment and everything has to be in alignment for that to happen to you.
00:27:15
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So you can ask for a lot of things at once if you are super clear on what they are and why you want them. I wasn't doing that.
00:27:26
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I was asking for quite a few things at once because I didn't know what I wanted and that was really confusing me and I would forget what I asked for so I would ask for it again in a different way and how the universe responds to that is with confusion.
00:27:43
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We want to ask with clarity, with power and with a whole lot of self-worth. Next week is all about alignment. I keep wanting to jump into it because it's so important but...
00:27:55
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we We won't. We won't just yet. Now, I do want to pop in right now that I was actually going to, in week two, make it the Oracle Coloring Book, but I have changed it.
Ritual Soundtrack and its Benefits
00:28:05
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I think you guys are ready.
00:28:07
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I want to do the hard, not the hard work, but the... I guess the bigger work now in week one and two, and then I want week three and four to feel really exciting and like we're letting go, we're enjoying, we're allowing things to come to us. So today's optional extra is the ritual, the 20 minute ritual soundtrack. I'm so proud of this. I'm really excited. It's 20 minutes of me guiding you through
00:28:41
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specific journaling prompts as to what we've been talking about in this whole manifestation series. We will be moving into elements from week three in this ritual soundtrack. And I know we're not at week three yet, but you guys are ready. I know you are. And it is it's easy to follow along because I'm talking to you, but this ritual soundtrack will serve as like a 20 minute thing that you shut off from the outside world and you get it all in one.
00:29:08
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You get the meditation, you get the journaling prompts, you get time to just be and think and stare off into space. And then you get like when you come out of it, you you've done you've done it all. I'm so excited about it because I actually haven't seen anything like it online.
00:29:24
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it kind of came to me in a shower a few weeks ago. I was like, i would love to sit down and have it all in one. Cause often I'll find myself doing a meditation and then like trying to find the right journal prompts and then, you know, coming out of it. So I'm on my phone, I'll see a notification. So I'll click on that. And then I'm like, I want to just be in like a ritual, but I've kind of come in and out of it. I don't know what to do, what to focus on. I'm going to do it all for you within that 20 minutes. And And i think I've decided, well, I have to decide right now.
00:29:54
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I'm just going to make it $4.99 again. Honestly, going to be completely honest. It is worth more. It is worth way more. It took me a long time to write. I've written it all. I haven't recorded it yet. So it could be a bit under 20 minutes, could be a bit over.
00:30:09
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It's going to take me a long time to record and edit. It's worth more. A lot of energy went into it, but I would rather you guys do it. You will get to keep this forever. This 20 minute ritual, it will be something that you will be able to revisit when you are feeling lost, stuck, when you're getting stuck into old patterns, old belief patterns, when you're feeling negative, when you're feeling unclear. I want this ritual to serve as something that you can go, you know what?
00:30:33
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I have 20 minutes. I'm I'm going to spend 20 minutes on my soul right now and know that when you finish that 20 minutes, when you come out of it, that you will feel so relieved, excited, refreshed, clear.
00:30:48
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Yeah. I'm really, I'm really excited about it I'm really passionate about it and I really think it will help you. So if you're serious about this guys, if you are serious about changing, manifesting incredible things, then this ritual soundtrack that is the links in the show notes, it's really going to help you. All right.
00:31:04
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So let's move on. So if you are asking for multiple things, as I said before, what can happen is you kind of forget what you asked, how you asked, when you asked. You're like, when did I ask for that? It hasn't come. Like, did I ask two years, two months ago, two weeks ago?
00:31:19
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So what I want you to do is to get really, really clear, which you did in week one as to what you want. but now I want you to get really clear on actually how you're going to ask and check in with how you feel.
00:31:32
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What's your vocabulary? We don't wanna be asking for things like, I don't wanna be broke anymore because the universe treats it like a Google search, it hears broke. And that, I don't wanna feel broke anymore,
00:31:45
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Like that just focuses on the lack, right? Broke. So instead it's, I, you know, i am so thankful for the abundance of money that is free flowing to me. It feels better. It's positive and it's exciting. but What's another example? um Something like, I hope I don't fail.
00:32:01
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That reinforces the fear. So watch your vocabulary and watch the energy when you are asking. So to switch that, it would be, I am so competent and I am good enough to achieve this goal or to receive this manifestation.
00:32:18
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Keep it positive, keep it light and check in with your energy. How does your energy feel when you are asking? If you feel desperate or needy, there's something wrong with the way that you're asking.
00:32:30
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Or there is something wrong with the manifestation in itself. Maybe you believe that it's too big and hard to attract. Remember that the universe, energy, the law of attraction can't tell the difference between big or small.
00:32:44
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I've said this a million times, but I kind of just like it as an example. And I've put another example in week two of the booklet. Again, if you haven't downloaded the booklet yet, the work booklet, it's $4.99 as well. It's got so much good stuff in it. I'll put that link in the show notes as well. So the example that I use and I've used on the podcast a million times is that the universe can't tell the difference between a casual job at a fast food chain versus the CEO of a really successful company.
00:33:11
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The universe, law of attraction, the energy around you doesn't care what it's giving you. Nothing's big, nothing's small, nothing's easy, nothing's hard. But it is easy or it is hard. If you believe it's easy or if you believe it's hard.
00:33:23
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I put another example in the booklet, which is why I kind of went off on a tangent just now about the booklet. But basically when you're asking, you need to believe that, you know, what you are asking for, you can attract because it's easy. It's going to be fun. It's going to be light. If you believe that it's hard, if you believe that it's big, if you believe that it's going to take you years, you get what
Methods of Manifestation and Energy Levels
00:33:45
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you believe. So how do you ask yourself?
00:33:48
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And who do you ask is a question that I get asked a lot from you guys. How to ask, it it depends what you want to do. There is no right, there is no wrong. You can write it in your journal.
00:34:00
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You can sing it while you're driving in your car. You can meditate on it and ask in your meditation. You can say it as an affirmation in front of the mirror.
00:34:11
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You can voice note it to yourself as like a a voice note to your future self. You can write a journal entry as if you are living a day in the life that you would live if you had manifested your desires already. That could be a way of asking.
00:34:27
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But all you need to do is you need to check in with how you are feeling when you are asking for this thing. If you are feeling desperate or needy, as I mentioned before, the dream might feel too big for you or you might be asking for it for the wrong reasons. You might be asking for it to prove something to someone so that competitive energy comes in. If I need this because I need to prove to this person, I can do it.
00:34:53
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Or maybe you're asking for something because you are jealous that other people have it and you don't. Again, the energy around the ask of that desire will be off. It will not be in alignment with what it is that you want to attract.
00:35:06
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You will not attract it. We need to feel really good and light, clear, excited when we are asking for our desires. When we actually get to the point of asking, we want to be in a high vibration.
00:35:22
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We want to be feeling really good. So if you know that you have something coming up that you are just going, you're so excited about, you're going to feel really good. Let's say that you're going to a dance party with your friends. Let's say for me, when I'm like dancing with my girlfriends, when there's music on and we're all laughing and singing,
00:35:40
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It is one of the greatest feelings. I actually used to purposely leave my manifestations to ask until I was on that dance floor and I'm like losing myself in the music. I'm having so much fun. And then I would just ask in my mind, still loud, clear and bold, but asking in my mind, the universe, my angels, like this is what I want. And I'm feeling so good.
00:36:01
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My vibration is so high that it becomes so much more possible to attract what it is that you want to attract at a faster pace. And like, it's just, it feels good.
00:36:13
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So think about vibrations. Like when you are vibrating high, you are vibrating the same people, the same opportunities that are vibrating on that high frequency.
00:36:24
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It's energy attracting energy. There is so much science that backs this. If you are ever feeling a little, you know, you're losing faith, this is all feeling too good to be true. Google the science behind energetics and matching our frequencies to the frequencies of the manifestations that we are wanting to attract. Sorry, that was a mouthful, but you can always rewind and literally just type...
00:36:47
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what I said into Google and the stuff that will come up is it's mind blowing. So really check in with how you are feeling. Are you asking out of fear, out of lack, out of desperation, out of neediness, out of jealousy?
00:37:00
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Well, then that's not the right energy. Are you asking out of excitement, out of elation, out of optimism, out of joy? Then that is the energy that you want to be embodying.
00:37:11
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So that's how to ask and when to ask. What about who to ask? You ask whoever you believe in, no right or no wrong, as long as you believe that there is something, an energy, a power out there that has your back, that you feel guided and supported by.
00:37:27
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i do want to say, if you are in a season of your life where you're just not ever really gaining those high vibrational moments where you are just feeling so in alignment when when you're feeling on top of the world, I don't want you to think, well, I can never ask or I'm going to have to wait months to ask for my desire.
Trust and Boldness in Requests
00:37:45
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Not at all. It's just if you know you have something coming up or if you happen to be having a really good day, ask in those moments. Yes, I really feel like it supercharges your manifestations.
00:37:57
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But if you just need to ask when you're feeling a little bit optimistic, Do that. That's still amazing. But I don't want you to ask when you are feeling super negative or super down. I would really wait. i would work through those emotions, wait a couple of days or a couple of weeks to then ask when you are feeling that little bit better.
00:38:15
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So I touched on this a little bit before about when we ask for like a lot of things, trusting that you've asked to like, just let it go. but what if you're just asking for one thing, right?
00:38:26
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You ask for it, let's say, through your journaling session. You're feeling really good. You've you've got you've gained the clarity in week one. you You know exactly what you want. You do my you know soundtrack ritual. And during the soundtrack ritual, you're feeling so in alignment, so clear. You're connecting with your higher power. You write it in your journal. You ask and you're like, ugh.
00:38:43
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We'll talk about this more in week three, surrendering and letting it go. But it's very often that we will get to a point where we think, I might just need to ask again a little louder and a little clearer because I don't think the universe heard me.
00:38:58
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That's why I want you from the very start to ask seriously, boldly, passionately, because then you know that the universe has heard you. If you're asking quietly, whispering it, the universe has still heard you, but you're just putting out that like a lack of energy So that's why you need to ask from like a bold and clear place from the start. And I promise you, if you do, the universe has heard you. Now, if you're asking quietly or whispering or just telling yourself, maybe I didn't do it loud enough, so I'll do it again.
00:39:30
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it really, honestly, I don't think it works like that. I've done it. I've done it a million times and it never has worked out how I've wanted it too if I didn't ask properly in the first place. Now, I don't want like, you're obviously learning now. So you may have asked quietly in the past for what it is that you want. And you now know that you have to gain clarity and ask boldly. Yes, perfect. And definitely ask again in this good way.
00:39:54
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But after that, after you know that you have asked boldly and passionately, you do not have to ask again. Why? Because if you are asking again, it's It puts a lack of trust out to the universe to be like, I don't think you heard me how I wanted you to hear me. So I'm going to say it again. And then you're switching over from an energy of faith and trust to an energy of desperation and fear that you didn't hear me properly.
00:40:19
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And you don't have that trust. And when you don't have that trust, you're not like a free flowing co-creation kind of being with the universe or your higher powers, are you? So when you're at a restaurant and you ask for what you want, you don't ask twice, right? I mean, unless they've forgotten your order and then that kind of defeats the purpose of what I'm talking about. But, you know, it's not like you go, oh can I please have the carbonara?
00:40:42
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And then they walk past again. and You're like, oh, do you, like five minutes later, do I, I, can I please order the carbonara? They're like, you already have. So treat the universe like you are placing an order.
00:40:54
Speaker
Ask once boldly, clearly, and expect that you will receive that thing. I have three statements that I think will help you start off asking, like the ask.
00:41:06
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Wait, just going to say them and then it's going to make sense. So you can journal this, you can say it out loud, but this is how you can start the sentence of asking for what it is that you want. So you can say things like, I am open to dot, dot.
00:41:21
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I am ready for dot, dot. or I trust that dot, dot, dot. They are three ways that you can start off your asking that feel really good, open, exciting.
00:41:34
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And it's kind of just a way of like just opening up that free flowing conversation. It's not super like strict or serious. It's just like, I trust that you know, this beautiful person that I'm wanting to manifest into my life is going to come. I trust that this opportunity, I am open to you know, a job that takes me to Sydney or, you know, whatever, whatever it is.
00:41:59
Speaker
It's just kind of like it opens it up a little bit more. It feels a little bit more free flowing. Now, when you ask loud and clear, loud and clear, what you are affirming to the universe is that you know who you are, that you feel worthy of what it is that you want, and you are trusting that the universe has heard you.
Handling Limiting Beliefs
00:42:19
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So when you ask boldly and clear, can you now see and feel how powerful this will be received from If you ask boldly and clear and you are like, I know who I am, I know that I'm worthy and I know that you've heard me universe, how good does that feel? It feels succinct, it feels clear, it feels exciting, but it's still letting the universe go and do its thing.
00:42:43
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You're not like in a state or a feeling of contraction. You're in a state and feeling of expansion. And that's what we want to focus on. Remember that the feeling that you get when you ask means more than what you are actually asking for.
00:42:57
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Focus on the feeling. Make sure that you are feeling open, that you are feeling excited, that you're feeling optimistic, that you're feeling trusting. Yes, we are human. Those limiting beliefs are probably going to try and come in. That ego that's sitting on your shoulder might try and talk you down or talk you out of it.
00:43:13
Speaker
It is normal. It doesn't mean that you're doing it wrong. It doesn't mean that you have to go back to week one. Trust that the work that you are doing is paying off and you are getting better and better each day. Trust that shifts are coming, that changes are coming, that things are making sense.
00:43:28
Speaker
things are falling into place because they are if you believe they are. Give this your full go, your full attention. If you have the booklet, week two, you've got your journal prompts, you've got your specific questions to ask your cards, you've got overviews, read over it, let the information sink in.
00:43:45
Speaker
You've got some actionable steps to take and now you all have the opportunity to do this ritual soundtrack. That honestly, as I said, I'm proud of. It's powerful. Give yourself this 20 minutes to create the change, to treat your mind.
00:43:59
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And it will really give you a shot of actually getting there. And you can do this ritual as many times as you want. You can keep coming back to it. Now, remember, if you are asking for more than one thing, are you feeling scattered?
00:44:13
Speaker
Are you feeling all over the place? do you want five things at the moment and it's feeling really quite confusing as to what one that you want first or as to what one is more important for you right now, then that is a sign that maybe you should simplify it. Maybe you do need to go back, listen to episode one again, or maybe do the journaling prompts from episode one from the work booklet and really get clear.
00:44:35
Speaker
You can ask for five things at once. You can, if you are clear, if it makes you feel excited I'm asking for a few things at the moment. I'm asking for ah a huge dream of a podcast that I'm wanting to be invited as a guest on.
00:44:51
Speaker
I also have the home that we have been manifesting. And then i have some other little work goals. So I have a few, but I feel really clear and excited about them all.
00:45:04
Speaker
And I know that I've asked, so I'm just letting them happen and I'm taking actionable steps that feel good working toward them. Luke and I have been talking about gaining clarity on a heap of our goals and talking to someone about it, whether it's your partner, whether it's you know a family member, a friend, or whether it's just someone in the past around the so smile community,
00:45:25
Speaker
You can post in the Facebook group being like, hey guys, I don't have an accountability buddy. Is anyone keen to jump on board? I'm sure there will be someone. I'm sure there will be someone. And if there's not, I'll be your accountability buddy. ah By the way, ah now that I've put that out there, I'm like, I won't have time to be all of your accountability buddies because I'm putting my all into this course right now.
00:45:46
Speaker
But post in the group. Let's keep chatting. Let's get excited about this. Now, do I have anything else I need to tell you? Let's see. Okay, I had one more note written down. Are you asking for something,
Living as Desired Self and Feedback Encouragement
00:45:57
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right? Which you probably haven't asked yet because you're waiting to hear this. You're waiting to work on it in the workbook, do the ritual soundtrack. Great.
00:46:02
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But are you asking for something and then expecting to move on living your life, how you've been living it and expecting to manifest that thing just because you asked differently?
00:46:13
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This is why it's important to continue on to week three and four, because I am going to teach you the tools, the manifestation method that I i now use, that I have changed, that I have tweaked.
00:46:24
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And I'm going to guide you through the next steps, because what I've found is that people think that once they ask, they've done all the work and now they just go off and they live their life how they used to live it.
00:46:39
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But how does the version of you who has what they are wanting, Show up. Are they doing their manifestation? Are they meditating? Are they doing their rituals?
00:46:50
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Are they taking time out for themselves because they feel worthy? You are not going to manifest the job that you want if you are not showing up in small ways now.
00:47:01
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as the person who has that job. The person who has that job feels worthy, feels confident, feels super capable. Well, you need to feel worthy, confident, and capable now.
00:47:11
Speaker
What does a worthy, confident, and capable person do? They probably meditate. They probably put time aside to do their journaling. They probably do things that make them feel good because they are worthy of time for themselves.
00:47:24
Speaker
Yes, they give love to others and you know they're still kind and loving beings, but they set boundaries. So think about that. That's just a thought. I don't want to overwhelm you because I'm going to take you through the steps.
00:47:36
Speaker
There's no pressure. All of this is going to wash over you how it needs to. But I want you to now, not right now, just when it suits you whether it's tonight or tomorrow or this week, go to your booklet, do week two.
00:47:49
Speaker
The links are in the show notes to the booklet and to your ritual soundtrack. Please let me know how you feel after the ritual soundtrack. I'm so excited for the feedback on this. Because I think it's going to be really cool. And then maybe if you guys like it, I should make more on specific things, like a specific one on love life, on career, on feeling worthy, on self-love, on forgiveness.
00:48:10
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Let me know. Anyway, you guys are amazing. Let's chat. That is week two done. Week three, next week, we'll be dropping Saturday morning. It's all happening. Yay.
00:48:20
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Hello guys. It's me again. So soon I know, but in the meantime, I went and recorded the ritual soundtrack, which, oh my gosh, I am so proud of. And I think you guys are going love, I think it's going to be really transformational.
00:48:32
Speaker
Two things I wanted to let you know, it actually goes closer to 25 minutes rather than 20, I kept saying 20 minutes. And the second thing is that within this manifestation ritual, I include the asking of your desire.
00:48:47
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So i just wanted to give you kind of a heads up because you might want to save your asking for this ritual and do it within the ritual. I think it will be really powerful because you obviously get to a really relaxed and positive, powerful state of mind within this ritual. And then i guide you through asking.
00:49:06
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Of course, if it feels natural outside of this ritual to ask yourself, Definitely do that, whether it's through meditation or you're on a walk or journaling, whatever feels right, but you know that you have this ritual to come back to to, ask for your desire whenever you need. So you can come back to this ritual many times over as well to kind of separate your desires if you do want a million things at once, as we kind of do sometimes. You can use it separately over, you know, a few weeks to come back to it and kind of separate your desires.
00:49:37
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um Or you might just have the one. And I know I said you don't want to ask twice because you want to know that the universe has heard you. But if you are in a kind of state of mind or a phase where you aren't as positive as you want to be or you aren't clear, you might need to go back and ask when you do have the clarity or the confidence or you are in a more powerful state of mind. So just two FYI's, 25 minutes, not 20.
00:50:03
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And it does include the asking of your desire within the ritual soundtrack. I hope you enjoy. oh and the link to download is in the show notes, of course.
00:50:23
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