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Speaker: Welcome to Bigger Talks.
Speaker: I'm your host, Eric Bigger, motivator, fitness trainer, and life speaker.
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Speaker: How's it going?
Speaker: Bigger Talks back again with Amina and I. We're here in Life Talks Life Topics.
Speaker: We're talking about the law of attraction.
Speaker: The law of attraction.
Speaker: Like attracts like.
Speaker: Do you guys believe that?
Speaker: Heck yeah.
Speaker: All right.
Speaker: What about opposites attract?
Speaker: I don't know who made that up.
Speaker: I just know like attracts like.
Speaker: Believe that.
Speaker: Thoughts become things.
Speaker: Most definitely.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: What is the law of attraction?
Speaker: There is a simple description of the law of attraction where what you're thinking is what you attract.
Speaker: Manifest.
Speaker: Correct.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: So a lot of people will argue that, well, I wasn't thinking to go through this negative experience.
Speaker: I didn't attract that.
Speaker: You know what I mean?
Speaker: So who did?
Speaker: Houdini?
Speaker: Where's Ward Waldo?
Speaker: Urkel?
Speaker: You're pointing the finger.
Speaker: Take responsibility.
Speaker: No, no, no.
Speaker: You know what's funny, though?
Speaker: What people don't know.
Speaker: That's why information is so important.
Speaker: Because information changes situations.
Speaker: So you wasn't thinking that, right?
Speaker: No.
Speaker: but your subconscious was.
Speaker: It's in your subconscious mind.
Speaker: So whatever you're reading, whatever you believe, your past experiences, the music you listen to, the energy you're around, the advice you get from people, how you talk to yourself, how others talk to you, all that is going into your subconscious, into your body, your mind, your soul.
Speaker: And sometimes things are happening because we're not aware of what's happening.
Speaker: We're not aware that our cousin that comes over whenever he wants to or she is bringing her negative energy or mindset or thoughts into your life.
Speaker: And then you get what she's getting.
Speaker: Right.
Speaker: And you're living her life because you're in that energy.
Speaker: And that's a good point to bring, too, because a lot of times the people that are closest to us.
Speaker: have a specific mindset and it could be your parents, your auntie, your uncle, your sister, your brother.
Speaker: And you start to realize that every time I'm around this person, I'm kind of irritated, but you're like, well, I love this person.
Speaker: It's not them, but it's the energy that you're attracting.
Speaker: That's not on the same frequency level as yours.
Speaker: So let's talk about awareness.
Speaker: First of all,
Speaker: You have to be aware of your emotions in order to function in this lifetime.
Speaker: Your emotions is the transmitter.
Speaker: It's like an antenna on a car.
Speaker: Like that's how you get signal.
Speaker: That's telling you how you feel.
Speaker: So I read a book, Ask and It Is Given, Abraham Hicks Publications, and it made it very simple for me.
Speaker: And this is how I live my life right now.
Speaker: And it says,
Speaker: As I stated before, your emotions is the way you communicate with your higher self, with the source energy, God, whatever it is that you call the higher source.
Speaker: When you are feeling happiness, joy,
Speaker: You're smiling, you're laughing, dancing.
Speaker: That is your emotions telling you that you are connected to the source.
Speaker: Because there are only two emotions that human beings express in this lifetime.
Speaker: And that's love and fear.
Speaker: So joy, happiness, laughter, dancing, anything that makes you feel good, that's love.
Speaker: Anxiety, depression, stress, anger, anxiety.
Speaker: That's fear.
Speaker: So anything that you feel that's negative, your body, your emotions are telling you, you are not connected.
Speaker: So if you start there, then you start to realize like, okay, when I'm with this person, this person makes me very happy.
Speaker: I am connected to the higher source when I am with this person.
Speaker: So I will continue to
Speaker: to share my time and frequency with this person.
Speaker: Now, if you're with somebody else and you're like, I don't feel good all of a sudden, like I love you, but you got a different vibration going on.
Speaker: Then you know, okay, not saying cut the person out of your life, but you know, either communicate with that person about the things that it is that they're going through, or, you know, take some time, protect your energy, do your things your way.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: And I think the root to all of that, those emotions into everything you're feeling good, bad, happy, sad is your thoughts.
Speaker: Your thoughts create your emotion.
Speaker: Your thoughts create your feelings.
Speaker: So based on what you're thinking is what's going to trigger what you're feeling.
Speaker: So if, let's think about it, when I do my boot camp sometimes, people don't even process why they are happy, but they just know they're happy.
Speaker: But if you sit and think about, why am I happy?
Speaker: Like, think about, I'm happy because I'm doing a workout and I'm doing incantations and this stuff is making me happy, right?
Speaker: But if you think about why you're depressed or why you're sad or why you're unhealthy or whatever, what are you thinking about yourself?
Speaker: Mm-hmm.
Speaker: Your thoughts is triggering how you feel.
Speaker: So if you want to know why you're feeling off or you're not feeling your best, go back and think about what are you thinking?
Speaker: Where are your thoughts coming from?
Speaker: So sometimes, being so the person that makes you feel bad or down, their energy, this is something I really got to really take in.
Speaker: Energy of a person, energy of an environment, energy of anything that you're around or that's part of your world, right, can trigger how you think.
Speaker: So if you grew up in an environment that's very negative, your thoughts are going to be negative.
Speaker: You're around a negative person who has bad energy.
Speaker: You're going to start feeling like, why do I feel uncomfortable?
Speaker: Why do I?
Speaker: Because something is not right about their energy.
Speaker: Correct.
Speaker: So sometimes you've got to remove yourself from the place where the energy is not great or safe and go somewhere where it's more fulfilling and it's positive.
Speaker: But sometimes, based on circumstances, we grew up in a negative environment.
Speaker: We are raised by negative parents or people.
Speaker: And we're not aware that we can remove ourselves in a different way.
Speaker: Right.
Speaker: So I know, I remember I should tell my mom, she used to talk to me in a certain tone.
Speaker: And I'm like, mom, I hear you.
Speaker: You ain't got to talk to me like that.
Speaker: I know you want me to go take the trash out and clean up my room, but the way you're saying it,
Speaker: Doesn't make me want to do it.
Speaker: You don't have to talk to me like that.
Speaker: But if I were really giving her the same tone that she was giving me, now I'm tapping to that energy.
Speaker: So now that energy becomes me, becomes us, becomes we.
Speaker: So now we're in a house full of negative energy.
Speaker: So now my thoughts every time she comes around, it's going to be negative.
Speaker: And this is when I was like probably like 10 or 15.
Speaker: But it was a situation that I avoided because I'm like, mom, I hear you.
Speaker: But instead, if I wasn't aware of what she was saying and how she was saying, I just would have gave her the same thing in return.
Speaker: And it would have been on the same frequency.
Speaker: So then no one's getting anything out of the situation because we're feeding each other the same energy and nothing is getting resolved.
Speaker: Nothing is better.
Speaker: So just be aware.
Speaker: Thoughts become things.
Speaker: Your feelings usually come from what you're thinking or what you believe.
Speaker: You're special.
Speaker: You're important.
Speaker: You matter.
Speaker: So your energy matters and what you think matters.
Speaker: In the book, The Secret, there's a young lady who has breast cancer.
Speaker: And she said for like, I think it was 30 days or 45 days, every day she would repeat to herself.
Speaker: Thank you, I am healed.
Speaker: Thank you, I am healed.
Speaker: And then on top of that, she would watch stand-up comedy, funny videos.
Speaker: She would listen to feel-good music.
Speaker: And in three months, the cancer was removed from her body.
Speaker: Because she got it out from changing her vibration.
Speaker: Changing how she felt about it and what she was thinking.
Speaker: So that's why I...
Speaker: encourage and tell people you should do affirmations.
Speaker: This is why I do incantations at my boot camps.
Speaker: Because it's putting you in a frequency.
Speaker: When you say I'm phenomenal, I'm phenomenal, I'm wonderful, I'm great, I'm beautiful, I'm amazing.
Speaker: Like, oh, that sounds crazy.
Speaker: But you're putting yourself in a frequency.
Speaker: It's like speaking it into existence.
Speaker: It's like having a role in acting.
Speaker: You become the character because you're practicing the lines and you're thinking about it and you're becoming it and you are it.
Speaker: Boom.
Speaker: There's the role.
Speaker: There's the character.
Speaker: Same way in life, you got to feed that positivity meter and soul and spirit to get yourself on a higher frequency.
Speaker: So when a negative frequency comes around, your positive is so high that that thing just stays low.
Speaker: And you stay vibrating higher and higher because you're too much in your frequency where that doesn't even matter.
Speaker: You're not even going to attract that.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Because you're not even thinking that.
Speaker: You know?
Speaker: Do you think Barack Obama is going to attract someone on the street talking about, I'm going to beat you up, Barack Obama?
Speaker: Probably not.
Speaker: He's not thinking that.
Speaker: He's not even there.
Speaker: He's not even there.
Speaker: He's not even on that level.
Speaker: You think you're going to see Bill Gates walking in L.A.
Speaker: somewhere?
Speaker: Probably not.
Speaker: Because he's thinking a certain way.
Speaker: You're not going to see him out, even if he is in a nice place.
Speaker: You might not see him unless you're on his frequency.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: And I always say people are always where they want to be.
Speaker: Ooh, hold up.
Speaker: Say that again.
Speaker: Because I think where they...
Speaker: Not need to be.
Speaker: Want.
Speaker: Want to be.
Speaker: People are always where they want to be.
Speaker: When you have this theory in your mind, then you start to think, I'm in this relationship because I want to be here, whether it's good for me or bad for me.
Speaker: Because you're in control of your life to that extent.
Speaker: Yes.
Speaker: So when you want something, let's use the law of attraction in a positive manner.
Speaker: I want a G-Wagon.
Speaker: I want to live in Hollywood Hills.
Speaker: I want to live on the beach.
Speaker: I want to be the president of America.
Speaker: If you think those thoughts, I guarantee you, you will get there.
Speaker: As long as you're like chanting these to yourself every day, as long as you're telling yourself, okay,
Speaker: This is what I want to do.
Speaker: I'm going to do it.
Speaker: If you're sick, keep chanting, I'm healed.
Speaker: I'm healed.
Speaker: I'm healed.
Speaker: If you don't have any money, money flows easily to me.
Speaker: Money flows easily.
Speaker: Money comes easy and frequently.
Speaker: I love money.
Speaker: Money loves me.
Speaker: Yes.
Speaker: I'm abundant.
Speaker: Oh, yeah.
Speaker: I'm rich and wealthy.
Speaker: Come on, bring the money.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Money's good.
Speaker: You're good.
Speaker: So you have to use the law of attraction in positive ways.
Speaker: I didn't know what the word positivity meant until I was 25 years old.
Speaker: A guy I was dating was saying, you need to be positive.
Speaker: And I was like, what's positive?
Speaker: And he was like, well, when you stop complaining and you look at life in a different way.
Speaker: And I was like, oh, because I grew up in the hood.
Speaker: Everybody out there is complaining about their life and what they don't have, what they want, but they ain't never going to get it.
Speaker: It took for me to physically move out that neighborhood into a place like L.A.
Speaker: where the frequency here is so high.
Speaker: And as you know, Wayne Dyer always say, we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.
Speaker: Exactly.
Speaker: It's that simple, guys.
Speaker: So like she said, if you want this type of car, you want to be in this relationship, you want to work in this job, you can have it, but it's all in your mind.
Speaker: Also, when people are sick.
Speaker: They go out and they tell people they're sick.
Speaker: So the more you harp on it and talk about it, you're going to continue to bring the thoughts and emotions of being that thing.
Speaker: Yeah, you're accepting that state of being.
Speaker: So stop.
Speaker: So if you are under the weather or you feel different, because I don't like to use the word sick or ill, stop saying that to yourself.
Speaker: Stop telling everybody else.
Speaker: It's like, are you sick?
Speaker: You know how people will claim it for you.
Speaker: You look sick, Amina.
Speaker: It's like, am I sick?
Speaker: do i yeah i'm sick like no no i'm fine i'm good i'm okay i'm just a little different today i'll be better so you got to kind of talk yourself up to get where you want to be and not what you think you should be based on the reality because even though you might not have the money you want or need you can get to the money but if you always think you're not going to have money
Speaker: They're not going to have money.
Speaker: Right.
Speaker: You're going to be broke.
Speaker: It wasn't until I started paying more money in rent that I started making more money.
Speaker: Because I'm telling the universe that I want more because I'm spending more money.
Speaker: Also, when you think you save money, right?
Speaker: Say you save $5,000.
Speaker: Your mom calls you and says, Amina, I love you, but gas and electric bill is $2,000.
Speaker: My car note is $1,000.
Speaker: I need money for food for two months.
Speaker: Say you give her $3,500.
Speaker: Mm-hmm.
Speaker: But in your mind, you're like, I can't do this.
Speaker: This is all I have.
Speaker: This is my savings.
Speaker: I saved this up.
Speaker: That's fine.
Speaker: I understand that.
Speaker: But what you gotta do, if you're willing to give your money away,
Speaker: If you're not feeling gratitude when you're doing it, you shouldn't give it.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: I don't care how hard it is for that person.
Speaker: So spend your money.
Speaker: Even when you don't have any leftovers, spend it with gratitude.
Speaker: Gratitude.
Speaker: It's like cooking, right?
Speaker: If you cook the food with love and joy and happiness, it's going to feel like it.
Speaker: It's going to taste like it.
Speaker: You're going to be, ugh.
Speaker: And like, ugh.
Speaker: Just like that.
Speaker: So just know the energy you put in your food, you put in your body, you put into life, we'll come back.
Speaker: Yes.
Speaker: What we speak, we reap.
Speaker: Yes.
Speaker: You know?
Speaker: You reap, you sow, you sow, you reap.
Speaker: So law of attraction, we just got to stay connected.
Speaker: Yes.
Speaker: Stay connected.
Speaker: Emotional radar.
Speaker: Yes.
Speaker: In the book, The Secret, they said disease or illnesses cannot live in an emotional, healthy state.
Speaker: Woo!
Speaker: So if your emotional state or radar is really healthy and vibrant, then no disease or illness can come into your way.
Speaker: Do you know what disease is?
Speaker: It's dis-ease.
Speaker: Ease.
Speaker: Ease is when you're at ease.
Speaker: You feel good.
Speaker: So always be intentional when you're giving.
Speaker: Gratitude.
Speaker: And be open.
Speaker: Being open to receive.
Speaker: Oh!
Speaker: Oh!
Speaker: Be open to receive all that's good for you.
Speaker: Believe me.
Speaker: And be positive.
Speaker: Think positively.
Speaker: Yes.
Speaker: And last but not least, you always attract who you are.
Speaker: You attract who you are.
Speaker: If you're looking at the person next to you, that's you.
Speaker: You're always looking in the mirror.
Speaker: So check yourself before you wreck yourself.
Speaker: We got to give them some books to read to kind of follow up.
Speaker: Yes, I say a book, Ask and It is Given by Abraham Hicks, As a Man Thinketh.
Speaker: The Secret.
Speaker: The Master Key System.
Speaker: The Law of Positive Thinking.
Speaker: The Law of Positive Thinking and what else?
Speaker: And The Power of Your Subconscious Mind.
Speaker: The Power of Your Subconscious Mind, guys.
Speaker: Also for a meditation, Deepak Chopra and Oprah have.
Speaker: The energy of attraction.
Speaker: I did it and it works every time.
Speaker: 21 days guaranteed manifestation of what you want.
Speaker: I thank you guys so much.
Speaker: Thanks, Biggs, for always educating.
Speaker: Change your energy, change your life, change your mind and change everything.
Speaker: Law of attraction.
Speaker: Attract what you want, not what you don't want.
Speaker: Always focus on what you want.
Speaker: You get more what you focus on.
Speaker: All right, guys.
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