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Speaker: Welcome to the Slut Next Door podcast, where we dive deep into desire, unravel kinks and fetishes, and explore the deliciously naughty side of self-discovery.
Speaker: I'm Beatrix Vale, an erotic audio creator, and your guide to all things kinky and curious. So let's begin.
Speaker: Today I want to talk about something that sits behind a lot of my work but doesn't always get discussed openly and that is custom audios.
Speaker: I get questions about them fairly often. How do they work? How should someone request one? How much detail to include?
Speaker: And what actually happens once a request comes in? Now, I should say right at the beginning here that every creator approaches customs differently.
Speaker: Some creators work from fully written scripts that the listener provides. Others have a completely different process. So what I'm sharing here is really my approach, how I personally handle customs and what has worked well for me over the years.
Speaker: So I've been creating custom audios for quite a while now, and honestly... I can count on one hand the number of unhappy custom customers I've had, at least that have let like let me know they were unhappy.
Speaker: And that's something I'm really proud of because customs involve a lot of trust. I mean, someone's handing you an idea that usually exists only in their own imagination and they're trusting you to turn that idea into something real.
Speaker: So for me, customs have always felt a little like collaborative storytelling in a way. The listener brings the fantasy to the table, the concept, the spark of the idea, and then my job is to unpack it, design it, and then build an experience around it.
Speaker: And I genuinely, Love doing them. I really do. I'm not candy coating that. My listeners come up with some of the most creative ideas I've ever seen.
Speaker: i mean, sometimes I read a request and immediately start thinking about how the scene went and would unfold, how the psychology works, how the pacing should feel.
Speaker: And it's almost like solving a puzzle. where all the pieces are someone else's fantasy. So in this episode, I'm going to walk you through a few things.
Speaker: Why custom audios exist in the first place. What actually happens when someone commissions one from me. Some tips for ordering a custom if you ever thought about it.
Speaker: And then a few behind the scenes stories about memorable requests that just have really stuck with me. Now, before we get into the episode, I'm going to do my little segment where I begin with explaining one thing that's currently making me feel like a goddess.
Speaker: And i can't remember if I've brought this up in the past, used this as one of my ah goddess moments, but I just can't help it because I'm coming Off of the weekend right now and Sunday, i went out and just wandered around the forest, basically.
Speaker: um The weather is improving. Spring is springing. And so that's very exciting, of course, to be out um not having to wear a coat.
Speaker: But there's something for me personally when I am outside in nature, especially in the forest and especially when I'm near a body of water as well. um Yesterday i was near a creek and it just I just feel like I'm home. Like I am in my element and it it just makes me feel like a goddess because I feel like
Speaker: I am, and this is going to sound corny, like one with nature. um i remember, so like I said, I was at this creek and the creek went for a bend, to like it did a total turn. And in that turn, there was just this really pretty view of this wall of rock on a hill. And...
Speaker: it almost made, it didn't make a cave, but it almost did. And I remember thinking to myself, like, I want to live right there. I want to sleep right underneath that rock. I want to be there. i want to live there.
Speaker: And so... i i also have nature to think because it is one of the ways that I do ground myself as well.
Speaker: i spend a lot of time in my head between writing scripts and recording and communicating with my people. you know It's a lot of heady headty work where
Speaker: find myself just a bit overwhelmed sometimes with, you know, just juggling all the things and then pulling on that creative string continuously and so I really need those moments where I do ground myself and you know that's really another goddess moment too is being able to recognize and to pull from that nurturing energy of just being a nature just Enjoying how beautiful it is feeling how just almost zen-like it is.
Speaker: i love it. i could just spend all day every day in the forest. I really could. um So with that said... let's talk about custom audios. And we're going to start with why do these things even exist?
Speaker: So I think that pre-made audios and what I mean by pre-made are audios that are written and they aren't they don't have anything to do with with your specific idea. Like you didn't request the idea. you didn't commission the idea.
Speaker: But I think pre-made audios are designed to work for many people. I think there's a lot of people out there that never feel the need to order a custom audio. They just enjoy and any pre-made that's given to them and that's great.
Speaker: I think for some people though, they recognize that their tastes are so specific or maybe even niche or... they they want some kind of control in the...
Speaker: audio process and I think that that's you know one of the reasons that custom audios or even custom videos exist of course for customs it's a great way to support the creators that you want to support that you're fans of so that's you know another reason why they exist But i think one of the big reasons is to allow someone to target very specific desires.
Speaker: You know, being able to say, this is what I want to hear. This is what I want to come alive. And, you know, if you request it properly and if the creator um takes your prompt and and makes it exactly to the T of what you requested, you're going to get what you wanted. Yeah.
Speaker: You know, I think sometimes customs exist because some listeners have fantasies that only exist in their head and nowhere else. So they've looked around, they've poured through content, and they've been able to safely say there is not one piece of content that...
Speaker: hits my fantasy. It gets close, but not exactly. You know, I've, that makes, that reminds me actually, I've had many cuckold theme custom customers come to me and say, you know, I've, I've,
Speaker: I've taken in so much cuckold content and i don't know why, but all cuckold content just wants call me a loser and wants to talk about my small penis and, you know, treat me like a piece of shit. That's actually not what I want.
Speaker: Or... I feel like there's another very, oh, ah premature ejaculation fetish. I hear a lot actually that, you know, all pre-jack ah content just wants to call me a loser and that's the reason I pre-jack, you know, there there's a lot more to it than that. Oh, I just thought of another big one, sissy content um or even hypno content, like,
Speaker: I've seen out out in online spaces in the hypno community that, you know why is all hypno sissy based? um I think they're not looking in the right places, obviously, because ah I would say sissy is one of the least hit on topics in my content, actually. But um sissy content,
Speaker: I've heard from a lot of people into this kink that, oh, there's you know so much sissy content, but none of it is really positive. None of it encourages me to do this. It all wants to call me a loser.
Speaker: So I think that that's another reason why customs exist. um I also see customs as a way for for you to become almost like a director of a movie.
Speaker: And like their favorite, your favorite artist becomes the actor in the movie. So you get to like pretty much direct your your favorite artist tell them exactly what you want and they'll most likely provide it But think all in all, customs are just a great way for you to receive content that is specifically for you, made specifically within your fantasy. It's a great way to bring a fantasy alive that you've always sat with for a long time, or maybe it's a new one, but it's a great way to bring a fantasy alive.
Speaker: um So now let's talk about what happens in my world when someone orders a custom. So before I really get into that, I'll explain my my process, like my world as a content creator.
Speaker: So I've mentioned this before. right now I am commission-based. So most majority of the content that I am creating is a custom.
Speaker: um Except for like, especially right now, ah my Y series is not a custom. But pretty much everything else, um full sessions and activities, and audios that I pull out or put out are customs.
Speaker: um I do offer two types of customs. I offer a custom Hypno and then I offer a custom Femdom roleplay, basically a file that's not Hypno.
Speaker: So just a regular audio if you wanna call it that. And this specific a component to my world is something I grapple with all the time, even to this day.
Speaker: Like I've seen people say, okay, customs are closed, meaning they're not accepting any customs at the moment. um They put a cap on what is ordered per month.
Speaker: And have thought about that, but I've noticed, I was actually looking at this the other day, like sometimes my custom requests are flooding in and then there will be months where no one will order one.
Speaker: um I was looking at my hypno list and that actually happened, I think it was... a month or two and no one had ordered one, which is fine because that allows me to get caught up in the, in the queue, I call it.
Speaker: But, uh, for me specifically, like, I'm just going to be up front with you on the lead time. And that's how I do it. You know, I, I could say, oh I'm only going to take two or three or four customs per month.
Speaker: That's that. i'd rather I'd rather accept them at any time and then just be upfront with, oh, this is going to take a month or this is going to take four months or this is going to take a week. you know It just is based on the current cue. My hypno cue is always full. It takes me a little longer to produce those. like Writing that script is very complex and detailed And typically hypnos are longer, um as in like some hypnos are 50 minutes long. um So that's going to take a lot longer to write. It's going to take longer to record.
Speaker: And then there's the editing process, which can be um can take a lot of time as well, where... On the other hand, the Femdom roleplay audios, typically i just record my voice and that's that. you know Maybe there might be a sound effect or two, but typically it's just a a very quick creation to to make those.
Speaker: So let's talk about what happens when someone orders one. So i I have a form that people fill. It's pretty pretty simple. um For me personally, I just need to know how long do you want the file?
Speaker: i may ask you if it's hypno, like what's your preferred induction? if you have a preferred one, um Give me your general plot or prompt.
Speaker: um I like to know your arousal trigger words. So like those are words that are going to make you like super weak. Like you love hearing those words. It always produces some kind of physical response in a positive way.
Speaker: And then I like to know pet names and names you you like to refer to me as and names you like me to refer to you as.
Speaker: Trying to think if there's anything else. Oh, um name mentioned. So like for me specifically, i will I will say your name throughout the whole file. um I do charge a little extra for that. And what I do is I just go through the audio and I edit that person's name out whenever i release it, like say in my clip store, for example. So I have a version without the name.
Speaker: um I also offer ah a an exclusive audio. So like no one else will hear that audio except you. That does cost a little more than the typical ah because, you know, I truly am just doing that for you and you only.
Speaker: So i have the customer fill that out. i look at it and I decide if it's something that I am willing to do.
Speaker: And then I get with the a customer and I say yes or a no. i accept your prompt. i if I have questions about the prompt, I don't ask them at this stage because um Sometimes I do just to make sure that I have a good idea of what generally they're requesting. But typically if I have like a clarifying question, I'll wait until I'm ready to work on your script. So like for example, right now,
Speaker: I believe my hypno customs are like on a a two to three monthly time, probably more three. um You know, so if you order a custom now in March, which is when I'm recording this, and three months from March...
Speaker: is March, April, May, like sometime around June. So like if I'm asking you questions in March about your prompt and then three months pass by, it's June, and then I've got all this like conversation that I have to track down in and the email thread or in the Discord DM, I've just learned i've learned the hard way to save the conversation about the custom until I'm ready to write it.
Speaker: So I look at the prompt. I decide if it's something I want to do I say, you know yes, I'll do your prompt. Here's some like general like the lead time. Here's how this process is going to work.
Speaker: um And then they pay for the custom ah or not. And sometimes I do allow people to put down like half a deposit.
Speaker: And then right before i go to deliver it, I deliver a little preview. just to prove to the person that I've done the script. And then they send me the the other half of their payment. And I'm more than okay to do that with people because there are some bad actors out there as in other creators that will take someone's money and then they never provide a custom. And I hate that.
Speaker: I hate that for people. That has to be so frustrating. So i have no issue like taking the half deposit and then the rest of it later. ah So once that happens, you know, once they get into the queue, as I call it, ah when I get close to coming up to their spot in the queue, I send out a message and I say, hey, great news. I'm about to start working on your script.
Speaker: And then I send them a script outline. So let me actually back up. So before i write a script outline... I take their requests, always call it a prompt. I take their whole request and I i physically type every word out. I've always been the type of person if I write or type something out, I'm i'm more likely to remember it.
Speaker: Like I just get in it, if that makes sense. um My reading comprehension is just fine, but there's just something about the the manual typing or writing that just helps me. So I i like actually write out every word, which is really silly, but I do. It's what I do.
Speaker: And I also do that because some people, when they type out their prompt, they write in a way that I wouldn't write. So sometimes I might like reword and not to sound like pretentious, but like fix their grammar a little bit in the prompt.
Speaker: So like I just have a ah better understanding of what they're asking And then I'm thinking about their prompt as I'm typing it out. And I'm kind of fleshing it out in my head, making a mind movie of it.
Speaker: And so I'll take that o that prompt. And i just, i kind of think about the arc of this potential file. So like where it begins, where it ends, how we're going to get to the end. I think about what what this person is trying to feel or experience in the file.
Speaker: And I keep that really close and and really just kind of outline how that arc is going to look. So for me, I i think in very basic level, beginning, middle, and end. Now the middle is often pretty complex when it comes to the arc, but that's the first step is thinking about for me, that beginning, middle, and end. And then I just take that middle and I'm parsing it out into the arc of the story.
Speaker: um And so I'll make this this outline and i make it, you know, my my mind is called like customer friendly, um where I'm not talking about the specifics of the, you how I'm going to hypnotize them. I'm really just giving them the outline of their prompt, like, oh, here, like X is going to happen, then Y is going to happen, then Z is going to happen. Okay. And so I send them that outline and I say, hey, look at this outline. i want you to approve um or make suggestions to this outline. Is it following what you were envisioning with your custom?
Speaker: And so that's kind of something new I've been doing maybe within the last year. And again, I kind of learned from experience that like I just go into it more confident when the person's telling me, yes, this is exactly what I wanted. um Or they might say, yeah, you're close, but can we please add in, you know, this?
Speaker: um Or can we remove that? Yeah. So yeah, so then I've got an outline of a script that someone has approved and they're happy with. And i just begin writing. I write the script.
Speaker: And sometimes it's going to flow out like...
Speaker: a flood and sometimes it will take a little longer. and the same thing with unpacking or or really planning the arc of the story. Sometimes it's not so easy, but sometimes I can take a prompt and i'm like, boom, I know how I'm to do it. um Yeah, just depends. And as I'm writing the script, again, I'm thinking, I'm still thinking about what the listener is feeling and in every step of the script.
Speaker: That might be my empathy shining, being able to know how people um, um
Speaker: I think that does really help when you're creating a custom is considering how that person wants to feel, how they should feel.
Speaker: and that is honestly guiding a lot of my words, how I want them to feel. And it's also guiding the way I talk to them too. um You know, and another thing that's,
Speaker: pretty challenging with creating customs is really just files in general in general is there's like a fine balance between
Speaker: fantasy and believability. And what I mean by that, like that's something like, I don't know if I overthink this, but there will be sometimes like, okay, let me give you an example.
Speaker: I'll be creating, say, a shrinking hypnosis. So where the listener is shrunk by me, i become, you know, well, I don't become anything, but I become larger to them, but they shrink down into, let's say, six inches.
Speaker: And like, that's something that would never happen in real life, right? But while I'm creating this story, i do still concern myself with, hmm, would it but be believable if blah, blah, blah? Like, I'm still thinking,
Speaker: In this like super wild story, is this still going to come across as believable? um And I don't know if I'm explaining that right. like It's taking...
Speaker: it's taking this fantasy world and still making it somewhat believable to me is like something I, um I don't want to say struggle with, but like I, i grapple with it a lot. Like how can I make this, I guess that's what it is. How can I make this feel real in this file? Because I know this person wants this to feel real in the moment.
Speaker: So that's another thing that I noted that is super important to me. um I will note that taking taking someone else's fantasy and making it come alive, I think does involve maybe some kind of empath behavior. I really do think it does because i I've heard other creators say, oh my gosh, it's just difficult to do customs. I don't know what they want. um
Speaker: And I think maybe that is a skill or a... yeah strength perhaps that someone may or may not have the ability to step outside yourself and put yourself in in the listener's shoes and and i you know crafting something you think they would they would want to experience.
Speaker: um So yeah, so then ah I have a script and then I record it and I edit it and I deliver it. So that is what happens when someone orders a custom.
Speaker: um Now I am going to talk about why I personally love doing customs. And again, not candy coating this is something I love doing.
Speaker: i I began this episode talking about listeners having wildly creative minds and that is one of the biggest reasons.
Speaker: My goodness, I get so excited. over what my guys give me for customs. They're so unique and they're so fun. And I'm like, I would never think of this. Like i i do kind of have a fear whenever I do pull away from being commission-based I don't know if I could produce like the great content that that my customers give me. i know i I know I have some good ideas, but man, they just some of them have the best ideas. And that's one of the reasons I love doing their customs. um
Speaker: Another reason is i genuinely feel joy bringing someone's private fantasy to life. Like that is so exciting for me. i get to be this imprint, at this memory that, oh, Beatrix brought that to life for me.
Speaker: And, you know, I'm going to remember her forever. That that just brings me a lot of joy. um And plus, I love making people happy. i mean, that look at the work I do. i i like bringing people pleasure. it brings me pleasure.
Speaker: Another reason i I really love doing customs is they really push me creatively. um Because I won't lie, like some customs are super easy um and some are more, don't want to say difficult, but like challenging.
Speaker: Like I... It'll take me a minute to really feel confident with their prompt, confident with the story arc. And I love that. I love that feeling of being pushed creatively.
Speaker: um it just makes it makes things more ah exciting, I guess, professionally. You know, i also love... i love... And it's just, I think, why I love doing erotic audios, period...
Speaker: is I get to step inside someone else's shoes Like as a character. So like, you know, for example, if I'm playing someone's a fantasy wife in a cuckold audio, I get to be a cuckoldress in that moment. I get to be someone else. And that just feels really fun for me.
Speaker: um Because when when I am recording, when I am writing the script... I do, a part of my mind is becoming that person. Like I am becoming her, whoever's speaking. And so that's, that's just, ah it's something that feels good and that's fun.
Speaker: um Customs also feel like they're solving a puzzle. it's like taking someone's prompt and then like putting all these pieces together and and then making them come together cohesively.
Speaker: Sometimes it just feels like a puzzle and that that's fun. um So now let's go into the tips that I have for you.
Speaker: so If you've ever been wanting to order a custom from me, or maybe you have ordered one and you've always worried if you're doing it right, or maybe you want to order a custom from another creator, maybe some of these will be helpful for them as well.
Speaker: Um, so let's get into the tips. So my first one, my first tip is tell me your fantasy.
Speaker: Don't just tell me the actions. Okay. I came with a specific example for this. Okay. So, um, Instead of telling me, I want humiliation, okay, a better way to do that would would be saying, I like humiliation because it makes me feel small and powerless. Okay, and why does that help? So if you say, I want humiliation,
Speaker: Well, there's different reasons why people like humiliation. um You know, if you said that, I most likely am going to provide something to you that kicks ass. But what's even better...
Speaker: With the second example is now I know that you like feeling small and powerless. So guess what I'm going to do? I'm going to make you feel small and powerless to the nth degree.
Speaker: and um So the more... Especially like the more, always say, give me your buttons. The more buttons I have to press, I'm going to press them so hard.
Speaker: um So if you if you're making me guess a lot, then i might press your buttons. I might press them a little bit. But if you give me your buttons, I'm gonna press them a lot.
Speaker: um My second tip is tell me the tone that you are envisioning for the file. So it is really helpful when someone comes to me and says, i want you to bring your sweetest mommy dom vibes or I want you to bring...
Speaker: I want you to bring mommy dom vibes while you are delivering hardcore degradation. I want you to bring humiliatrix and no sweetness at all. So like the if you give me the tone, again, I'm not guessing.
Speaker: I'm going to know exactly what you're wanting. ah Knowing the tone that you want for the file is great and and it's okay if that tone changes because I've gotten that request a lot. So I want you to start this way, but I want you to end this way um because guess what I'm going to do? I'm going to start that way. I'm going to end that way. it's just There's no guessing.
Speaker: So I think that should have been a tip in itself. Don't make a creator guess, unless Unless you want to be surprised, I mean, that's fine. But if you have a specific fantasy, then give the specifics. Don't make them guess.
Speaker: um Tip number three is to mention your limits and boundaries that are relevant to to your request So what I mean by this is, let's say you're requesting a cuckold file.
Speaker: If you don't like small penis humiliation, mention that. If that's a limit of yours, mention it because small penis humiliation can come up a lot in cuckolds. If you're requesting a cuckold audio, maybe you don't need to mention um a limit of mine is pain, like actual like physical pain, or maybe I should bring up another one. um If you're requesting a cuckold file and you're like...
Speaker: you know Oh, this is a cuckold file that's very mind-fucky. I just want you to talk about how you want to fuck other men. and then you say, you know a limit of mine is don't don't leave bruises on my body.
Speaker: Well, you know, a cuckold file most likely isn't going to involve leaving bruises on the body unless that's part of the plot you requested. So when I say like limits and boundaries that are relevant, like things that most likely we most likely will come up in a file. Another great, like this is specific to me, if you don't like the word mommy, tell me, you know, um because I am not going to use it.
Speaker: So when you're requesting a file, just think about the things that you don't like, a limit of yours within your fantasy.
Speaker: um My next tip, and my guys are very good at this, very good at this, and I think that like I'm so, so thankful for it.
Speaker: Patience. Patience. i Again, I've learned this the hard way a long time ago, is to be um very open and clear about the wait time and to be very clear about the process. Because I can think of this one person that, um oh my gosh, they would like email me every day.
Speaker: and they had order ordered a file like a week before. do you have my file done yet? Is it done yet? Is it done yet? Are we close? Like, oh my God, there it will drive me crazy.
Speaker: um For one, you're taking away my time by me having to respond to you in email. And then secondly, you're making me not want to deliver anything to you.
Speaker: that's That's one thing I've i've noticed. Like, I do not mind ah all. Like, trust me, trust me on this, please. If you send me an email and you say, Hey Beatrix, um, there is no rush at all. I just want to get a good idea of how much longer it is to my file.
Speaker: No problem with that. That's a quick little check. Hey, you know, two more weeks, whatever. um, But if you like the first guy and you're like, is it done yet?
Speaker: Is it done yet? It's almost like, are we there yet? Are we there yet? I start to get a very annoyed feeling with you. And so when I'm creating the file,
Speaker: I'm not going to feel too warm towards you. And ah and I'm going to like really, really not feel excited about doing your file.
Speaker: Or I might be in a rush. And why would you want a rushed file? Why would you want that? You want my best work. So, you know, don't don't um push me. Don't...
Speaker: um you know make me feel like time is an issue because then I feel rushed and that's no good. ah So just patience. you know And I understand like you ordered a custom and you're excited about it.
Speaker: totally get that. Trust me. And that's why I have no issues communicating like, hey, it's going to be ah maybe a month longer if if you need to ask. No problem with that. It's the pushiness that it just gets really frustrating as a creator.
Speaker: um I had one person recently tell me, you know, hey, sorry, here's the wait time. I know it's a bit long. And they must be also in the field of content creation because they were like, hey, no, I get it. Like some days you're like you can't rush art or something like that. And I'm like, thank you.
Speaker: Thank you so much for that. Because yeah, if I'm feeling like if I'm having a bad day, if if I'm not feeling my best, I might work on just writing or I might work on admin stuff for the day. I'm definitely not going to record because you won't have my best self.
Speaker: So my next tip, this is a big, big tip for me because this is, I would say, a question i get a lot, okay? how much information do I give?
Speaker: And this is like tricky for me to explain. So I came again with ah with a specific example. So hold with me for a minute on this.
Speaker: So my tip is don't give too much information. Why I say this is tricky because i do like information.
Speaker: i love information. The more details, the better. but Not too much information. I know that makes no sense. So let me just give you my example, okay? So let's say you go to a restaurant, okay?
Speaker: And you know exactly what you want. You want pasta. So the waitress comes and they say, um yeah, yeah what what would you like? And you're like, I want pasta. Okay.
Speaker: and you say nothing else. That's way too vague. Like what kind of pasta do you want? What kind of sauce do you want? What, you know, maybe even a better example is, hey, i you you're in front of a chef, and they get to cook you anything in the world.
Speaker: And you're like, okay, I want pasta. Well, if you say that to a chef, there's I feel like thousands of different varieties of pasta and sauces that that could be created. So that's like way too vague.
Speaker: All right. Now a better way obviously would be like, okay, chef, here's what I want. I want um a spicy pasta and I would like garlic and seafood and a particular type of cheese.
Speaker: Boom. That chef is knows exactly what you want. You told them the type of pasta. You told them the flavor. You told them the protein. You told them the cheese. Guess what they're going to do? They're going to make you an amazing pasta dish.
Speaker: Now, Here's another example. Let's say that you're sitting in front of this world-renowned chef and you say, okay, you said, I wanted the spicy pasta with garlic and seafood and the particular cheese.
Speaker: But then you say... But here's the thing, chef. I want you to do one and a half teaspoons of garlic at the fourth minute of cooking um the sauce. And then I want you to, you know, and you throw in some other weird thing.
Speaker: That's like way too restrictive. Now you're taking the art and the craft away from the chef and ah why don't you cook it?
Speaker: Because um you're telling me exactly what to use and when to use it. so That was my example I brought to the table for this because this is really hard for me to explain like what's too much information and what's too little.
Speaker: Think about this example. Okay. I want pasta too vague. ah I'll bring it to erotic terms. I want cuckold hypno too vague.
Speaker: The sweet spot is I want spicy pasta, bow tie with garlic, and I would like shrimp, and particularly the little tiny shrimp, and then I would like Parmesan cheese.
Speaker: Boom. You've got in it the specific... pasta dish that you spelled out for the chef let's put it in erotic terms i want a cuckold hypno i want you to role play as my girlfriend i want it to feel like you're talking me into it for the first time but you know whatever all the little details that make sense for the story. And then the bad example, going back to the cooking.
Speaker: So you say, I want the pasta, but you know at four and a half minutes, I want you to add just one teaspoon of garlic. And then i want you to take that pasta and then instead of draining it, I want you to rinse it and vinegar. I don't know.
Speaker: I should have came up with more um examples in that, but too restrictive on the chef. Or here I'm going to bring it to the erotic terms. So I want a cuckold hypno.
Speaker: And when you're talking to me about I'm i want you to I want you to raise your voice and I want you to say, here's the paragraph I want you to say. And then i this is what I want you to be wearing. And then 30-minute mark, I want this to happen. And then, you know, ah so you kind of get the idea. It's like it's putting it's putting too many restrictions on me and it it's so stressful.
Speaker: you know When I'm trying to produce something and you've got a laundry list of things that are... It's not giving me the ability to produce your file.
Speaker: um it's putting me into a box where if you give me exactly what you want, I want the pasta with garlic and the shrimp and the cheese, you're giving me a playground to work within.
Speaker: Like I know exactly what you want. I know how you want to feel. i know how I know the tone you want me to have. So there, I hope that helps. I feel like maybe it didn't, but I hope it did help.
Speaker: All right, let's move on to the next tip, okay? Tips for ordering customs. Please do not worry about being judged, especially with me.
Speaker: i And I know like probably everyone would say that, but seriously, i have a very open mind. And if I'm going to be honest with you, the weirder, the better. um I feel like many people that come to me with their customs, they've told me they worry they worry their fantasies like too weird or I feel like they get too embarrassed or they think it's too complicated.
Speaker: and trust me, you are most likely not going to shock me. I've heard I've heard a lot of fantasies between doing custom audios and phone sex. I've i've heard it all.
Speaker: You're not going to shock me. In fact, the more boring you are, the more, i don't want to say shocked, but... the more I'm just like, okay. The weirder it is, the like better because I'm, I don't know, I'm just, I've always been like that. I i like it weird.
Speaker: um So yeah, don't worry about judgment. Please do not, especially with me, I can speak for me. I am not going to judge you. My next tip is trust the process. And I know that's really, really hard.
Speaker: I know that's hard. And it's hard for me to say it thinking about the people, the unhappy custom customers I've had in the past because they did trust the process and I didn't i didn't deliver. But, but...
Speaker: but I will say i Like, okay, I'm thinking of the recent one that wasn't particularly happy and told me about it.
Speaker: i I tried to offer. I tried to offer what, like here's the thing, I'm not going to rerecord it. <unk>ll I'll just go ahead and say that. If you're not happy with your file, I'm not going to rerecord it because that, especially a hip note, like I remember, i think this one was like 40 or 50 minutes. Like that's, that is so time intensive. If you want to pay for it again, maybe I'll even give you a deal on it as well.
Speaker: Um, You know, there's other things that I may offer if if you're not happy, like maybe I'll offer you a free file that's in my library or maybe I'll offer you a discount on my subscription site or you know, whatever. Because I i do take it it so personally, like I do, it does affect me if you're not happy. um But, you know, and I think I meant to mention this way early in the episode, a very common thing for creators is to say, I'm not, I don't give refunds. Because what's to stop people from requesting a file, they receive their file, and they love it, but they actually lie and say, well, I don't like it, can I get a refund?
Speaker: Then they just got a file for free. They got their fantasy that to come alive for free. I worked for free for hours upon hours because I had to give their money back. yeah So that's generally why people don't do it. So you are having to trust the process. And for me, if you aren't happy, I will try my best to to make sure that we can do something to ease the pain of you not being happy.
Speaker: Um... Actually, that was my next tip was most creators don't offer refunds. So there you go there That's when I was going to mention it. So that's why my my final tip is just knowing that um most creators do not offer refunds.
Speaker: And that's because, like I said, um what's to stop everyone from coming back and say, well, give me a refund. I didn't like this file. When they did. And then the creator created that refund.
Speaker: fall for free. So last little bit, I kind of thought about um particular customs that that stood out for me.
Speaker: um And honestly, i could spend probably hours on Going through my catalog and talking, giving little tidbits about different customs I've done.
Speaker: um Maybe I'll do that one day. But I definitely pulled out ones. actually looked at my clip store and I looked at the covers and just... looked and browsed at them and thought about ones that stuck out as customs. um So I thought about a few things that I didn't expect to love creating.
Speaker: So like the person sent in the request and I looked at it and I thought, I'll do it. You know, I have no problem with doing this, but I don't think I'm goingnna like it personally. I don't think like I'm going to have fun.
Speaker: So the first time that I saw the request for for my pet transformation, i was like, m and okay, fine, I'll do it.
Speaker: But it wasn't until i started writing it that I was like, this is actually, for one, hot and powerful. So if you don't know my file, so this particular file was the guy was like, hey, I want you to transform me into your obedient Doberman dog.
Speaker: And you know, I do it because i like you want me to be your loyal pet.
Speaker: You want to dehumanize me. You know, there's there's no sex involved. There's no like like furry thing or like any weird animal stuff.
Speaker: What it was is it really broke down the the power dynamic and the...
Speaker: Not objectifying. Like turning someone into a pet. I mean, we all, like many doms use that word. Like, hey pet, you know. um Yeah, it's just that that one i just that one definitely sticks out in my mind of I really didn't expect to love it, but I did. i loved creating those files. um And I think a lot of people have enjoyed those files. There's multiple parts and...
Speaker: Like I said, it had nothing to do with um any animal like play. it was more like the mental mindfuck of you wanting to turn into a horny dog.
Speaker: My horny dog, you know. ah Yeah, it was it surprised me. okay so another another fantasy, well, I guess I should say part of a fantasy I didn't expect to love creating was the first time i got a request for baby talk.
Speaker: So when I first got it, I was like, okay, fine, I'll do it. Like, fine. um But I, the first time I did baby talk, I was like, holy shit, this is hot.
Speaker: like And it was hot because it was, was, I don't know. It's just, it's so, it's so messed up. Like to be, to be talking like this, but also like giving you hardcore humiliation in that voice.
Speaker: oh my God. I love it. I have so much fun doing baby talk. I can't even, it's so fun. It does hurt my voice. I'm not going to lie. Because I'm talking like i'm like i'm definitely changing my voice. But ah love it.
Speaker: Love it. Now,
Speaker: this is another one. When I got the request, I was like, okay, fine, I'll do it. But I don't think I'm going to like doing this. It was diapers.
Speaker: so I did not expect to love creating diaper content, but guess what? I do love creating diaper content because it's just, I don't know. It's just, ah it's so, it's so messed up.
Speaker: Like, and it's, I guess it's kind of like the baby talk in a way. Like it's, it's so shocking um And I just, I love humiliation too. um But you know, not all my diaper content is humiliation. Some of it's like pure encouragement.
Speaker: And that like I love too because I'm encouraging something that is so private. Like I would assume that most diaper lovers are not public at all with their love. So I'm getting to hit on something that's so private to you and so like so kinky and so messed up. um Yeah, I did not expect to love diaper but I do. Yeah.
Speaker: I was trying to think of customs that felt like really personal or kind of like prove how personal they can become.
Speaker: And i immediately thought about the couples i've or the customs I've done for couples. Those have been super rewarding because for one, like I am helping two people enhance together. You're like, I'm, I'm helping them experience something together. And, you know, it it really honestly is very,
Speaker: it makes me feel special that people would trust me and that, like that a husband would trust me enough to make a foul for their wife like that or to trust me to listen together, you know, letting me in their bedroom because that's what they're doing, you know. um That's...
Speaker: was really special to me and like really that definitely came to mind when I tried to think about how you know personal customs can be um then I thought about some particular files where I thought you know what my boys are so creative and so amazing here's why through their amazing custom requests. So I thought about Porn Mother's AI corruption.
Speaker: i loved that concept. I was like, this is so fun. This is so creative. I loved like, ah again, it just like I mentioned earlier, it pushed my creative buttons in the best way. um This one was a recent one Mommy Dom's Weakest toy What a fabulous prompt that was. It was like, I'll give you the general synopsis if you don't know. So it's basically like you envision you are one of my toys, but the other toys are like dildos and vibrators. You're like you're the only human toy, but you are objectified as one of those toys. And so I i use you. i decide to use you out of all the toys one night.
Speaker: And then I give you one of my toys to use on you while I'm playing with you. And it's almost like i it's almost like I cuck you with the toy because I talk about... um you know, this dildo, it doesn't whimper. it doesn't come too quickly. It doesn't it doesn't whine and beg. It just gives, you know? So like, it just was the most creative prompt. One of the most creative prompts like I've had in a while. And I, yeah, I was like, how did you think of this? This is just so creative. I would have never thought of that.
Speaker: um Another recent one is Nightfall Trans. So this was like, um so the listener is a knight like back in medieval times and there's this cult of women have men, like they actually like lure men into their, what people think is a cult, but actually they're a coven people. And there's like this pentagram that they etch onto the man's chest. And every time it's rubbed, he immediately becomes obedient.
Speaker: And so like, again, just this this story, like I would have never thought to do this. And to me, it turned out to be such a good file and so creative.
Speaker: Again, post my creative buttons. It was a challenge for sure. Yeah. um Another recent one that showed how freaking creative my boys are, Pussy Hex, which is another kind of witchy one where um the the listener is...
Speaker: i I believe at the beginning they're believe they're kind of conditioned to just become obsessed with pussy, right? So it's just very pussy-centric. But then i reveal that I'm going to shrink them and then put them inside of me.
Speaker: And so... um i would I would say like any of the shrinking files too are just so creative. My goodness, they're so creative.
Speaker: And i love that. i love when people give me a challenge like that. I'm telling you, I could just sit here and go on and on about. I could go through every file and tell you what I love about their ah about their request.
Speaker: Now, here's where I think this gets really fun as So, okay. So imagine requesting a file from me. That's your personal fantasy. And then it becomes a fan favorite. Like you get to watch it become other people's favorite files. You get to even watch people request a part two of your file.
Speaker: That I feel like that has to be so cool as a as a fan. um And don't know if my if my guys feel that way, but like I get excited for them, if anything. But... um i And I actually can think of who this was, i think.
Speaker: Obviously, I'm not going to name who they are. But I can remember the first pre-Jack file that was requested. And i mean, thank goodness they did because now I'm just the pre-Jack goddess. I mean, now that's one of my most popular ah kinks that I do. i think I have a lot of pre-Jack encouragement fans and I can remember the first file that someone requested for me.
Speaker: So we can all thank them. <unk> Round of applause for them to, you know, have Goddess Beatrix display that she does pre-Jack content well. Yeah.
Speaker: Another one that I thought, you know, oh, this became, I think, a fan favorite. And this was someone's request. Mommy's Little Loser. That, you know what, that may be the first baby talk file too.
Speaker: that I'm thinking of. Yeah. So we can thank them too for pushing me to do such a i fan favorite unique file and then also introducing the world to Beatrix's baby talk.
Speaker: Yeah. Beta pre-jack virus. That was a commission file. m Tit addict trans. I mean, I could just keep naming just things that you know people adore and they became um fan favorites. Okay, here's another example. So I have a um long, long time fan that requested a femdom roleplay file.
Speaker: right? And it was released a while ago and someone requested that file to become a hypno, like another whole person. How cool, like I would think it would feel really cool to be the person that originally requested that file and then to see that someone requested it to be made into a hypno. How neat. um And maybe...
Speaker: My guys don't think that's neat, but I think it's neat. um So I'm going to wrap it up there. i hope that, my goodness, I did not mean for this podcast to be that long. i thought this would be a quick one actually. But I hope this helped answer any questions. um I hope that I kind of covered all the important things about ordering customs. Again, for me, it's one of my favorite it's one of my favorite things about being a content creator because I love doing them so much. I get to make people's fantasies come alive and then they turn into these amazing ah pieces of work that I get to put in my catalog
Speaker: that I know I'm proud of, and I hope the person that requested it is proud of it too. So with that said, um i I'll go ahead and plug too, if you've ever wondered about order ordering a custom audio for me, I make it really easy. You can go to missbeatrix.com and
Speaker: and there is a um sub page called custom audios and you can see on there the femdom, the non-trans and then the hypno custom and you can look at the form and the prices are on there and you can order it and I'll be in touch with you about it um so Also, if you don't even know who I am and you just stumbled across this podcast episode, I leave a a page in the episode summary description where you can check out all the places that I post content free and not free. um So you can sample some of my work.
Speaker: um just click on that link. And as always, thank you so, so much for listening. And thank you for providing me with an outlet to produce your kinky fantasies. Until next time.
Speaker: And that's a wrap for this episode of The Slut Next Door, where we dive deep into the raw, unapologetic truths of human desire.
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