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Brunch Shenanigans, Election Tension & Family Boundaries
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In this episode of Unsolicited Perspectives, Bruce Anthony and his sister, J. Aundrea, dive into a blend of humor and serious reflection on family, relationships, and the political landscape. They kick things off with a hilarious recount of a family brunch gone hilariously off-script and a wild night that ends at a strip club. From there, they delve into the heart of election season, contrasting Kamala Harris and Donald Trump, examining high-profile endorsements, and questioning the media’s impact on public opinion, especially when figures like Tucker Carlson fuel divisive narratives.
In a thought-provoking discussion on family dynamics, they debate a viral video involving a girlfriend, a boyfriend, and his mother in a car seating dispute, sparking insights on loyalty and relationship boundaries. The episode wraps up with a passionate call to action, encouraging listeners to stay informed, vote, and participate in the democratic process. This episode is packed with laughs, thoughtful analysis, and engaging moments that you won’t want to miss! #election2024 #electiontalk #familydynamics #brunch #unsolicitedperspectives
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Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to Unsolicited Perspectives
00:32 Sibling Happy Hour Begins
01:33 The Birthday Brunch
08:04 Strip Club Adventures
11:52 Overeating in America
22:03 Election Talk: Trump vs. Kamala
30:46 Rally Highlights and Predictions
34:46 The Welcoming Environment
36:05 The Power of Hate vs. Love
38:28 Tucker Carlson's Controversial Comments
42:03 The Importance of Voting
43:36 Amazon and Hypocrisy
46:14 The Obamas' Villain Era
49:30 Reproductive Freedom and Key Issues
57:50 The Front Seat Debate
01:04:04 Unhealthy Relationships with Parents
01:10:26 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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00:00:10
Speaker
Welcome. First of all, welcome. This is Unsolicited Perspectives. I'm your host, Bruce Anthony, here to lead the conversation in important events and topics that are shaping today's society. Join the conversation and follow us wherever you get your audio podcasts. Subscribe to our YouTube channel to watch our video
00:00:32
Speaker
On today's episode, Mr. Sibling Happy Hour, I'm here with my sis, Jay Andrea. We're gonna be dilly-daddling a little bit, then we're gonna be talking about the election, and then we're gonna be talking about
00:00:57
Speaker
What up, sis? What up, brother? I can call it. Yeah, I can. I can see. What you mean you can say, I look that bad? I wouldn't say bad, OK? You don't look bad. You look tired. I look haggard. Yes. OK. Yeah, just because a time last night was had. Yeah, OK. Celebrate not. I made the mistake of calling one of y'all.
00:01:25
Speaker
and
00:01:28
Speaker
Well, okay. so i can hear the time being and ad So, to get an audience an explanation. ah Our cousin's birthday was early this week. that So, I, our cousin, our brother, and our father went out for a brunch. yeah Now, okay.
00:01:47
Speaker
Our cousin wanted to go to a specific restaurant. Cool. Your birthday, we do what you want to do. But it was booked really solid that day, so the earliest that we could get brunch was $2.30. Oh, OK. So I said, hey, guys, why don't everybody come to my house at one, we will do a gentleman's champagne pre-brunch. OK. And hang out before we get to the brunch. I don't know why you had to, like,
00:02:13
Speaker
Masculinize it. you know That's a new word I just made up. Yeah, I can tell, because I didn't know what the hell you were talking about. It has to be a gentleman's champagne, i mean free brunch. Why can't it just be a champagne, free brunch? Because the emphasis is on gentlemen. Like, it's very Herobellafonte, very classy. OK, but it's the same champagne everybody drinks, right? as you say well It's the same Aldi champagne that I drink, but dad brought a Snoop Dogg champagne.
00:02:41
Speaker
which is actually very tasty. Well, I'm going to have it as a mimosa. I'm going to have it after the show. So I will tell you how it goes. But so the plan was everybody get here at one. Guess what time everybody got here? I will say 3.30, 4 o'clock. No, our cousin didn't even make it. He was just like, I'll meet you at the restaurant. OK. All right. Yeah.
00:03:10
Speaker
Our father and brother got here at 215. Once again, the reservation's at 230. Yeah. And it takes 20 minutes to get there. Yeah. So...
00:03:21
Speaker
gentlemen Gentlemen's champagne pre-brunch was not had. We took some shots. I had it. I said, I started at one. Yeah, I was wondering. I was like, did you have it solo? Yeah, I had it solo from one. See, that's the problem. What's your name? You told people the correct time. I never, even on an invitation, do I ever put the correct time. I always put an hour or two earlier. So you ever notice my party start at 6 PM? No, they don't. They start at eight.
00:03:51
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But I put on a six so that people show up at eight. Well. um And I really want them there. I wanted to do that. Yeah. But this would have been, I had a i had a busy morning. I had a lot of stuff. I had work I had to do. I had a lot i had to get my workout in. There was a lot of stuff that I had to do that morning. Yeah. So I was pushing up against the clock, even though I was dressed and out of the shower and ready to go at 12.30. So I gave myself an extra 30 minutes. But I didn't want to say earlier, and then this be the time everybody show up on time.
00:04:23
Speaker
and then I'm not ready. But that's never going to be the time. Well, it it'll be the one time while I do that and then everybody will show up on time and I'll just be getting out the shower and then got to rush to get ready. You know what I've noticed about myself? The older I get, the less punctual I am. And I used to be highly populared because I hated being late, because I felt like we were always late as kids. And so I was always super punctual, or I would get somewhere early. Now it's like the older I get, like the more I'm like, oh, look they'll be all right. Do you know how I know that you ain't lying? How do you know?
00:05:04
Speaker
because routinely you're late, but this morning you was on time. Yes, I was on time. I was one time this morning. I was ready to go. Well, because I had proposed a lot of what we're going to talk about today. So I was like, okay, let me get on my P's and Q's and make sure I've got things written out. So I got my notes. Basically, you knew you was going to have to carry the show after calling me last night. called for just some nonsense, just a random call to my brother. And I heard, it was some 90s jam. I don't even remember what it was. I was like, where are you? Show me what was popping in my head right now. But that was not it. No. And I was like, what in the? And I heard in the back of her, tell Jay we have strip club. And I was like, OK. All right. Well, I'm going to go ahead and hang up.
00:05:54
Speaker
All right, so let me so we we get to brunch late. We don't get there until 3 o'clock. And I'm like, our reservation is shut. So i' I told our cousin who was going to be there, who was meeting us there, hey, go ahead and grab the table, because we're going to be late for the reservation. Yeah.
00:06:11
Speaker
He was like, okay, so he was there, yeah grabbed a table. We had brunch, the food was good. and god Ted's bulletin, little shout out. reg get I love that play. day is it No, I'm thinking out of another place, but Ted bulletin has these homemade pop tarts. No, that's Ted bulletin. Yes, yes. Yeah, they got these homemade pop tarts. If you get there early enough before they sell out, you can get the most delicious homemade pop tart.
00:06:37
Speaker
Yeah, no. They gave our cousin one to celebrate his birthday for free. I love it. And so he gave us a little piece of it. A lot of food. A lot of food. And we'll get into that later. Yeah. But then we come back to my place to have the post.
00:06:54
Speaker
gentlemen the post brunch gentleman's celebration. right But we don't drink any champagne. We sitting up here drinking liquor. Yeah, yes. We drink liquor. I assume so. I assume the champagne was had at brunch and now you all have now moved on. Nope, didn't even have champagne. We went straight to the liquor at brunch because it was three o'clock so it wasn't brunch no more, it was lunch.
00:07:17
Speaker
yeah Honestly, that's like an early supper. ah you really you can You can definitely have you a drink. yeah Well, I mean, you can have a drink once noon hits. Truly, yes, yeah yeah, yeah. Before noon on vacation, but once noon hits on a regular day, if you ain't got nothing to do, you can go ahead and start drinking. That's right that's the unsolicited perspectives with Bruce Anthony, st stamp of approval. Go ahead. Definitely if where your vacationing has a swim-up bar, you can do anything before at noon. Vacation just as soon as you wake up. Yeah. It's not a clock. Yeah. oh So we do that. We come back to my place and we're chilling. Dad leaves, and we're just like,
00:07:57
Speaker
Chilling we just vibe and whatever and I'm like, you know me I get antsy. Yes, like we got to go do something Yeah, like what you want to do strip club? Okay. All right. We go to strip club. Yeah, so we go to strip club and I actually I I had a good time I think they had a good time as well. But this is the reason why I had a good time. Okay, I was macking in a strip club No, and I just want to stop you there. I You were having ah you having a delusion in the strip club, but go ahead. No, no, no. Well, okay. So i've got me that's me and my cousin's thing, is just go to the strip club. That's typically when we hang out, we end up there at the end of the night ah at one of the various two strip clubs. And it really is like a nudie bar, because they don't get totally nude. They got pasties on the breasts. you know yeah They don't get totally nude. And there was one time where, you know,
00:08:53
Speaker
one of the dancers like took a liking to me. well Let's just- How much money did you spend? I didn't spend any money. That's what I'm saying. She took a liking to me. Okay. We hung out after she got off work. We hung out after, went to Dave and Busta's because you know that's my favorite place in the whole world. it Yes. Went to Dave and Busta's and then you know we like legitimately hung out. Okay. Last night, I was strip club macking again and to it a young lady I say young because she's younger than me. A young lady that that I had met a year prior that we exchanged numbers, and I kind of blew her off. She was like, I'm looking through the text strip threads right now. You haven't talked to me in a year. Why do you want to talk to me now? and I was on my romance Mac thing, and I was just like, come find out she lived right down the road from me. So we go you know get together. so and you know I was Mac in the strip club a little bit, just a little bit.
00:09:48
Speaker
How much money is just my face? I mean, on her, none. But in general, too much. OK. I mean, that like I just don't want men to think that that's always a possibility. Like, all like also realize like they're trying to sell you a fantasy. Yeah. Yeah. yeah so ah all I get it. You know, I've been going to strip clubs for a long time. Long, long time. Long time. You know, close to 26 years, okay? I've been going to strip clubs, okay? I didn't mean to yell that loud, but...
00:10:24
Speaker
Actually, I was going to strip clubs at 16 because I had a fake ID. So 28 years. I've been going to strip clubs for 28 years. I love strip clubs. Man, I love them strippers. Oh, nothing wrong with the strip club. Listen, nothing wrong with the strip club. I mean, there's one right down the street from your house. I've been dying to go to every time. I don't know why you just won't, why we're just in a go. Every time I propose it, you're like, yeah, we're going to do it. Nobody, it never happens. You know why? Because I end up, the first thing that I do, the very first night, the first thing I do the first night where I get to your place is order Sonic. And once I order Sonic, night's over. Okay. Yeah, the night's over. I ain't going nowhere after eating Sonic. Night is over. And then after that, it's like I've been drinking all day and I know
00:11:11
Speaker
it's gonna be worse at the strip club. Because it was worse last night at the strip club. And then I came home. Three o'clock in the morning, we go to Z Burger. I don't know if you ever heard of this place. It's like a burger joint. And when we got out the Uber to go to the strip club, I pointed at the restaurant and I said, when we leave out of here, we go in there for the after hours eats. I was like, we going through that. Because I need the, I wanted to get a milkshake and all that. I didn't.
00:11:37
Speaker
i got a burgerheadness I got a burger, half fries, half onion rings. Jay, when I tell you they gave me enough for four people, yeah ah four a family of four could have eaten my meal. yeah and And between that and the brunch, I want to talk about the fact that America just overfeed you whenever you go out to eat. Yes. And let me tell you,
00:12:04
Speaker
It's not lost on people around the world because when I was in Italy, ah specifically, I think, I want to say I was in Rome and I was at the hotel and they had two breakfasts. They had the Italian breakfast and then they had the American breakfast. Okay. When I tell you that croissant was the size of a football,
00:12:30
Speaker
compared to the very normal croissant. Like, everything was huge and oversized. And the portions were huge and oversized. And I was just like, I will take the Italian breakfast. Thank you. Because even as an American, that's too much. Like, that you all think we really eat that much that our croissants have to be the size of the football. And I'm not kidding. I could hold that croissant with two hands.
00:12:56
Speaker
it was It was just ridiculous. And I'm like, what's up with the thing? Right. And they're not all the way wrong. They're not all the wrong. No. Because I went to Sonic. When? Last night. Because I wanted a slush. You look. You're a lot of slushers. I look. There's cracking them slushers. I don't know what kind of water they're using to make the slush ice, but cracking, man. So I love the a great slush from Sonic, OK? I was like, look.
00:13:27
Speaker
ah umm hat I'm a little high. I was at my cousin's house. you know His girlfriend had made some jerk chicken egg rolls, and we was eating them. They all are so good. And and I was like, we had a little bit of a drink and everything. So I was like, all right, but we can give me a sludge, because that's how I want to end my night. OK?
00:13:51
Speaker
Okay. I forgot why I was talking about Sonic. I don't know because we were talking about like excessive amount of of food. Oh, and the Sonic slush I got is this giant 44 ounce, you know the big Stanley cups? Yes, we got you a big gulp sign. Basically what I do is I put it in the freezer and every once in a while I take a spoon and I eat from it, it's slushed and I put it in the freezer. But it's this giant, it's this 44 ounce giant slush for like $3. So it's almost like, wow why not get it? right Because it's like,
00:14:32
Speaker
It's only a a few sets more than the large or the medium. Like, why not just get the boosted size? But then as I'm holding it again with two hands, because it's that giant, I'm like, this is ridiculous. But I need all of this slush.
00:14:48
Speaker
it I need the entire 44 ounces to eat it over the course of several days. Right. Look, too much food. Too much food. It is entirely too much, ah um especially now that I'm you know a year and a half out from my surgery and realizing like just how much I ate before compared to now.
00:15:14
Speaker
And I'm like, oh, I didn't even, you could talk yourself into, well, you got to eat to live, you know, blah, blah, blah. But it's like, nah, I didn't even need that much food. Right. No, you don't. Yes, I do have a smaller stomach. And I eat less than like a normal person would. But like, you truly don't have to finish that giant haystack. It's not not your haystack, not the Tupelo haystack.
00:15:42
Speaker
Like, you don't have to scrape that big-ass bowl clean. but And that bowl was big. Yeah, it was like a 10-inch bowl. It was a huge bowl. And then it was pile-eyed fried chicken. and and It didn't have to be fried chicken. and It could have been grilled turkey. But you make it had to be fried chicken. OK, even when I go and get a Zaxby salad, I'll be like, grill the fried. And I think you know that.
00:16:10
Speaker
This is Atlanta. Don't give me no grilled chicken or my salad. oh Don't piss me off. But you know what though, even after all that partying and then all the drinking, I got so much drinking. I feel fine this morning. like What, did you drink tequila?
00:16:27
Speaker
Yes. Well, that's well, I drank a lot of different stuff. i had I started with champagne. Then I got my brother. He's our brother. He's a very big fan of this Japanese whiskey. So I was like, hey, you coming through? and I have your Japanese whiskey. So I tried that. Yeah, it was all right. It was OK. You know, I had tequila.
00:16:49
Speaker
And then I had some tequila, a lot of tequila. Then the strip club doesn't have a complete liquor license. They can only sell like beer, wine, champagne, and like those high nunes and trunies and stuff like that. So I was like, just give me, oh, they could sell a fireball. So I got a shot of fireball. But did nobody else want to do a shot of fireball with me? No, because it's disgusting. It is disgusting. ah It tastes like big red gum. Yes, which is disgusting. I like big red. We tolerated big red gum because that was the only gum available to us.
00:17:23
Speaker
Yes, it was. That and the green Wrigley. That was it. That was it. So I had a bunch of Miller Lights. I should have got Bud Light yesterday. I should have supported Bud Light. I drank a bunch of Miller Lights and then got home and ate my big Z Burger and my my four-course, my my four-family meal yeah with more tequila.
00:17:44
Speaker
and then laying in bed, phone-macking with the the dancer last night, well, FaceTiming, while I'm drinking more tequila until 4.30 in the morning. I woke up this morning at 10, and um I feel OK. Tomorrow will be interesting, because I've already started drinking. That's because I think you are still drunk. I don't... Mm. Yeah. I think so. I'm sure you ladies and gentlemen, he is is is just because of worse that he was celebrating.
00:18:13
Speaker
not Not every day it sounds like a lot of drink. Oh, no, it was a lot of drinking and no I cannot do this every day No, because we're at an age where we just can't do it and look my feet still hurt from ah last week. Okay yeah but And, uh, you know, I'm struggling a little bit, but we're here. Yeah, we're here. I mean, I just find ah people assume since I have a smaller stomach and stuff goes through faster that I get drunk faster. But actually I found the last few times that I've drank, I didn't get drunk at all.
00:18:51
Speaker
Okay, because that's because you can never tell when you're actually drunk and I do i know when I'm drunk Well, you try to act like you don't yeah, because I want you to leave me the hell alone, but But I know fully I'm fully aware. I'm like Yeah, girl, you can't even stand up like I so like And you drink fast. You'll be like, shut up. Slow down, we drink fast. And a time, I finally haven't had anything to drink that day. I'm also thirsty. Yeah. Being drinking alcohol while thirsty, not a good thing. Not a good idea. All right, that's enough of this dilly-dallying. Everybody, a because I don't want people out there judging me, but we drink a lot. Yes, I do, ladies and gentlemen. I'm a drunk, not an alcoholic. A drunk, there's a difference.
00:19:40
Speaker
Don't say you're more bell blush. I don't think that you're a drunk, per se. You just... I wouldn't say you're a drunk, because a drunk is like a state of being. Like, it's a... I feel like it's a constant state of being. Okay. Oh, uh, mmm, okay. When I see the folks on the street with the bag, do with the old English or something in there, and a bag, and they're in a constant state of inebriation, that to me is a drunk.
00:20:10
Speaker
Well, that's me during, like, on vacation. I mean, that's everybody on vacation. well when i cut Well, when I come down to visit you, I consider that a mini vacation. And I'm in a constant... drinking. Our brother was like, hey, man, you drink it a lot. I was like, I'm on vacation.
00:20:29
Speaker
i literally ah but like you know And then of course, like to me, alcoholism is you can't function. You're not functional. right we like I think a functional alcoholic is just a drop. That's just a drop.
00:20:41
Speaker
best mad
00:20:45
Speaker
yeah I don't know. I don't know. I don't know the actual terms because I'm not a sobriety counselor. And where are we trying to be? Because we wouldn't be good at it. We would be terrible, terrible. I'd be like, just have a little sip. Just spray yourself. You can't have one drink? Speak of which? I saw, it was the last thing and we cut out the dilly-dilly, I saw a hilarious video on TikTok. And it was about how yeah some Black people are the worst people to try to change your life for around. we Yeah. promise You sent it to me. I sent it you. want some bull with that, man. It's my birthday weekend. Why you want to start? Why you want to start it this week? Why can't you start it next week? This is my birthday weekend. Really? But that's true. Like, ah yess it's very hard to get sober around your friends.
00:21:39
Speaker
Oh, it is extremely hard. Speaking of... Go ahead. No, go ahead. You were just getting ready to say something. Ladies and gentlemen, this is... this is the show. i All right, speaking of drinking. Yeah. I saw a dope, dope video of Kamala and Gretchen. Yes. We read the ball having a beer. Yeah. But we're going to get into the election stuff next.
00:22:14
Speaker
All right, ladies and gentlemen, we are a one week away. Yeah. From election day. It's serious. It's serious out here. Like, it's... i i wish I wish this was a simulation. Like, this is real life right now. And the more you hear this man speak, the more unhinged it is. And the fact that it's still ah razor and right it's a to anyone with a little bit of sense.
00:22:47
Speaker
So ah you probably haven't listened to it yet. On the last show, I did a comparative analyst of Trump versus Hitler. Yes. Because that's been thrown around a lot. Yeah. That he is a fascist. that's I don't think that really can be disputed. No. I mean, his own words. Yeah.
00:23:06
Speaker
But the comparisons to Hitler are there are for as far as their rise and to power. But obviously, he's not Hitler. Hitler is one of the worst human beings in the history of Earth. yeah right like He's not there, but he could get there. And yeah, I don't think people really realize how serious it is because people are just like, no, he's not. He doesn't mean the things he says. No, he absolutely means the things he needs. definitely, definitely does. And he was on Joe Rogan, and I don't know how anybody can look at it. And Joe actually was being a better journalist than some of the journalists I see, some of the main
00:23:51
Speaker
network journalist I see pushing back and questioning him and just letting them talk but also like purposely guiding the conversation like say what you want about Joe Rogan as a podcaster as an interviewer he is good at asking your question following up if what you're saying isn't making sense right like wait a minute you need to explain this better to me and he was doing that with Trump and if you watch that interview Trump just, like, doesn't make sense. and what It got so bad. It got so bad. Joe Rogan was like, hey, man, your weave's getting kind of wide here. And he's like, no, let's keep going. over big you know He's like, let's get back to tariffs. No, but before we start, the finish with tariffs. And he wants to keep going with this.
00:24:41
Speaker
Crazy elaborate story or whatever that he's trying to quote-unquote weave the great thing about that interview with Joe Rogan and was well one that it was a negative for Trump, but also the reason why I think it was Joe Rogan performed so well was because he's not a journalist. It was just sounded like a regular dude like, hey man, just let's have an actual conversation here. What is this? What do you think that is? Well, can you explain that? Were you ever gonna show us evidence of that? Well, what does that mean? But can you get, can you tell me what, you know, cause it's just, it just felt like
00:25:26
Speaker
This is like, hey man, I'm just a regular guy. I'm just trying to ask you some questions. Right. And trying to get some answers out of it. And he approached it like a regular guy. He didn't approach it like a political pundit who might
00:25:45
Speaker
elevate Trump because he's a former president, right, to to where they're asking him serious questions and expecting a serious answer. And yeah, they may push him on stuff, but they're not they're not going to... They're still keeping him on an elevated status where he felt more grounded in the interview with Joe Rogan.
00:26:12
Speaker
the Joe Rogan didn't treat him like a former president. He was just like, with two guys having a conversation, with two guys in the manosphere have having a conversation. you know And it I definitely think it was not a successful interview for Trump. And that's good for us because Joe Rogan has the largest podcast platform and everybody Heard him go, heard him laugh when Trump said something ridiculous or heard him say, hey man, that weave is getting kind of wide. Like, oh. And you say as a negative, I don't think Trump can, I don't think there are any negatives for Trump. And this is what I mean by that. Not for people who already support him. People who already support him do not care about any of it. They don't care he's a felon. They don't care he's a sexual predator. They don't care about any of it. Trump is their cult leader and they will follow him off the edge of the earth.
00:27:13
Speaker
What I'm talking about, I mean, it's just the truth. And you're not gonna ever change their mind. You're not gonna, is there some of them that have been persuaded and will vote their conscience or or something like that when we try to appeal to people's better nature. But for the 47% or whatever that all wear use and has always staunchly supported him and twenty sixteen and twenty twenty in in 2018, his picks for, you know,
00:27:42
Speaker
state office and for Congress and Senate um and the people who are supporting them now, you're not going to change their minds. But for the people who somehow are still undecided and who listen to Joe Rogan, which is a huge community of people, not so much as the media is making it out to be, like undecided voters are still like a small percentage of voters, but like... But they're in the most important right now.
00:28:10
Speaker
Yeah, undecideds and independents because, yeah, they could sway the lecture, especially in swing states. i don't I think they probably would have come out with the impression of, I don't know, Trump kind of sounds like my drunk uncle or my mentally declining grandpa. Whereas polling after ah Kamala Harris speaks,
00:28:39
Speaker
When they poll the audience, generally they have a more favorable impression of her after hearing her talk. undecided voters specifically. Undecided voters have a more favorable impression after hearing her talk. People like her after hearing her speak. Even people who still have differing ideologies or political positions from her still have a more favorable opinion of her as a person after hearing her speak. And the same is just not true for Trump. Now, I definitely am biased, right? Like, I'm definitely biased.
00:29:14
Speaker
when ah with what I'm about to say. But if you compare the two candidates as people, and Kamala is just a better person than Donald Trump. Trump is a bad person. He's not just a bad politician and a bad president. like He's a bad person. He's a fellow, a sexual predator. He's a bad person. won i happened He is a slumlord and he's ah it he's just a terrible businessman and a six-time bankrupt. Don't say that to supporters. Everybody swears that he's a great businessman. Six-time bankrupt. like You got to be a slumlord. You got to be kidding me. like he's no He's not a good person. He's a bad person.
00:29:59
Speaker
Yeah, well, and there's a lot of people that support bad people. But also, there's a lot of people that support a Hitler. Just don't make that clear. Yeah, that's the... Yeah, he had a whole... I think about the power. He had a damn near a whole nation behind him, and the ones who weren't behind them were too scared to say that they weren't. So you don't... I don't want to use the word accomplish. You don't.
00:30:26
Speaker
do what he did, Hitler, on the scale that he did it without having an incredible amount of people be complicit in that. And that's that's that 47%. Yep. Everybody is like, well, this won't really happen. It will. But you texted me, and I thought this was funny. You said you went to the wrong rally. I did. I did. I did. Damn it. I went to the wrong rally.
00:30:54
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and Because there was a second rally. I went to the rally in Atlanta. It was a great rally. It was nice being there and feeling the energy and getting a chance to hear her speak in person.
00:31:10
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But damn it, they had another rally in Atlanta. And it was the night I had class. And I was like, it's my in-person class. I'm like, I can't miss it. i I have a midterm next week, right? Actually, a midterm on Thursday now, right? So I was like, I can't i can't go. So I watched the highlights. And I watched it live.
00:31:35
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Let me just go with the lineup, OK? <unk> okay Now, I don't even like this man, but he was there anyway, and he gave a great speech. Tyler Perry, Spike Lee was there. You'd be crushing Tyler Perry. Spike Lee was there? I didn't even say Spike. Spike Lee was there. Samuel Jackson was there. Look at life. Damn Jedi Knight.
00:31:58
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and Bruce Springsteen showed up, understood the assignment, and brought his guitar and performed three songs. And when I say understood the assignment, again, this goes back. Yeah, I'm about to kill Usher. But Usher? But not just that, Lizzo in Detroit. OK.
00:32:16
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Beyoncé, I understand her not performing because she last time she did perform was a 2016 for Hillary and y'all wasted that free Beyoncé performance and didn't get out there and vote Hillary in, which honestly, y'all let not just Beyoncé But the entire country, because who should have four years to draw? So Beyonce's life, no more free concerts. Not to mention, for the first time ever on the campaign trail, Barack Barry the Obama.
00:32:53
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former president came out for that second Atlanta rally. And I said, I went to the wrong damn rally. I bet your chicken tenders was better there too. I bet you they actually got their chicken tenders, which I did not get.
00:33:11
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But I tried three times to get the chicken tenders. If Secret Service said no. or ah But do they actually got their chicken tenders at their second rally. Well, she's been crushing the rallies because the rallies that was in Texas where Kelly Rowland and Beyonce came out, it's just like it was like a concert. She's crushing it. And so our brother was here. He just left before we started filming the show.
00:33:38
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And I was talking to him and I was like, yeah, you know, all this is great. She still ain't going to win. And he was like, do you really believe that? I was like, I always prepare for the worst. He's like, that's not necessarily a good thing. I was like, look, I hope for the best. Yeah. I prepare for the worst. Right. I'm prepared for her not to win. I need you again. I need you to watch Inside Out too. Because I really thought it would give you I was going to do it last Sunday, and I forgot. I got too many shows to watch today. And I'm going to order a Detroit-style pizza, because I'm going to tear into that champagne bottle of Snoop Dogg champagne. But never mind that. These rallies is all over the place, because I'm weaving. My weave went wide, so let's bring it back. These rallies are great. Look, the energy, I hope, I feel like the energy surrounding Kamala
00:34:34
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is more palpable than it even was for Barack. yeah There's just something different. And I've watched on TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter people's reactions when they're going to the rallies and they're just like, it's so... welcoming to everybody. yes And it's just like, why wouldn't you want to be in this type of environment with all these different types of people went from different walks of like getting together and celebrating? like All of that
00:35:05
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The man inside of me, the pure, try to be decent human being, even though earlier I was talking about Macken at the strip club. I try to be a good person. Not to say the Macken at the strip club ain't a good person. Nothing wrong. Macken at the strip club is not a bad man. Yeah, it's nothing wrong. But just, I try to be a good person. I love people yeah and to see the love that is being shown at these rallies, I'm like, oh, that gives me so much hope. But then I turn and I see the other rallies and this doom and gloom that is being cheered.
00:35:43
Speaker
and being supported by 47% and people that I know are smart, people that I know are intelligent are being bamboozled, hoodwinked, run them up, read astray by this gentleman over to the right here and it's like, I don't believe that that's not going to win, I feel like that hatred hatred to me is always more powerful than love. It's sad to say that. That's not that's not how that saying goes. well it's It's actually that love conquers all. so that's Why do you think? Because you brought up, he looked like a Jedi Knight, which by the way, let's be clear, he was on a council. He was not a Jedi Knight, he was a Jedi Master. Yeah, and also we never saw the body.
00:36:30
Speaker
and we did We never saw the body. We don't know what happened to Master Mace Windu. But when you watch Star Wars, they had all these Jedi that were trained in the light side of the Force. And these Sith, but with only two, could take out multiple Jedi's. Hate is always stronger than love. Hate lasts longer than love. Well, you have to remember,
00:36:56
Speaker
And I am no expert. Okay. On hate or love? But you are a hater. On Star Wars. No, I'm an expert hater. I have a PhD in that. Play a hated degree? Yes. But isn't it the point of the Jedi is that they eschew emotion? Yeah, which is unhealthy.
00:37:24
Speaker
Right, but I think it's the fact that the Sith tap into emotion that make them more powerful in the moment. And that was always, to me, the downfall of the Jedi. It didn't feel like a Jedi was about to win until they started to feel some sort of fear or stakes or like some sort of emotional connection that they would tap into and then they would win the fight.
00:37:54
Speaker
Well, that's, I mean, you got to tap it into the dark side. Ain't nothing wrong with tapping into the dark side. See, bring a balance to the force. It's balance, right? It's not all light. It's light and dark. Yo, this weave is going wide, but just bear witness. the This weave is going wide, but you got to tap into the dark side. It's a balance. But the dark side for these people is Tucker Carlson talking about... Oh, bring your daddy home.
00:38:19
Speaker
what What is he talking about? See how I brought that weave back to the dark side of Tucker Carlson? Dark side. We're going to talk about Tucker in a second. But to answer your earlier question, how can you be at a Harris rally and feel all of that love and multiculturalism and unity and not get excited? It was twofold. One, you have to be receptive to love.
00:38:48
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True. Ooh, that's deep. That's number one. And second, when they see that crowd, they see all the people they have to share what they have with. o
00:39:01
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They see people on social services. They see immigrants. They see all the people that are taking away what they feel like is theirs. They don't see unity. They see,
00:39:15
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though The money that the Democrats want to spend is all going to women, gays, black people, and immigrants, and none of it's coming to me. Joe, Joe Schmo from who Who the Hell Love Her? Idaho. Sure. Yeah. If that's the place. Who wants you to be exact? i feel that I feel like they got good potatoes. but So good for them. But like,
00:39:45
Speaker
The Tucker Carlson thing. OK. Y'all, if you haven't seen it, there's really no way to describe it. He likens Trump to daddy coming home, to back to the White House. And then dad's pissed. And and he says to, I'm not sure whom, ah the American people or I don't know exactly who the daughter is, but he says you've been a bad girl and not that you're going to get a spanking, but that you're going to get a vigorous spanking. It was weird. And I was like.
00:40:29
Speaker
um Talk to your kids like that because they're going to need therapy because that's deeply, deeply weird. I don't know who the child was in that scenario. Was it Kamala? Was it the Biden administration? Was it the American people? Was it all of it? I still don't quite get it. I think it's everybody that's against Trump.
00:40:52
Speaker
Gotcha. Okay. Yeah. That line about, uh, uh, he, he's, he's pissed, but he loves his children. He's not going to, you know, be vengeful. Oh, well that's a lie. He doesn't care about us at all. And he's absolutely going to be vengeful. He said he has an enemies list. Yeah. The lie detector determined that was a lie.
00:41:13
Speaker
Yeah, because he does it. he He said that he wants to use the military against protesters. He's asked people in his cabinet who have since publicly withdrawn their support from him why why he couldn't use the military against protesters, why they he couldn't have the police just kill American citizens who disagreed with him. This is the man who said on day one, he'll be like a dictator. like This is not so
00:41:49
Speaker
If you wanna know, a lot of people throw around the term fascist, and I think ah ah very few people know what a, if you take a poll, you'd find very few people know what a fascist is, but it is- Well, if you've written to the last episode, I give a clear definition of what fascism and what fascist is. Go check it out, by the way. Yes, go check it out. But yeah, somebody who's like a dictatorial,
00:42:17
Speaker
personality, a who who wants to use, oh, I don't know, the military to say, ah take CBS's broadcast license away because it doesn't like an interview that they did or ah so over ah pull funding away from ah news media where you have to the point where you have the l LA Times and the New York Times refusing to endorse a candidate leading to ah massive exodus of of staff. And Washington Post. Don't forget the Washington Post. Yeah, and though oh ah am I mixing up the New York Times with the Washington Post, or did both of that both of them refuse to? um It was the Washington Post, and then I can't remember what the other newspaper is, but the Washington Post. I know the LA Times. Okay, then it was Washington Post and l LA Times. And yeah the Washington Post, like, because Jeff Bezos, the editorial board was going to back Kamala. Yeah. He jumped in.
00:43:12
Speaker
and nixed it. yeah So we have billionaire we have two of the richest people in the world. I think they're one in two. I think they're one in two or theyre two of the top five richest people in the world, specifically influencing the election.
00:43:28
Speaker
yeah Okay, you know. that That's fascism, people. But you know what, though? Like, I cannot use Twitter. I cannot use Twitter. Yeah. But damn it, um you can't take away my Amazon from me. I'm sorry. jeff Jeff did something wrong. But you gonna stop using Amazon?
00:43:51
Speaker
Exactly. That's what I'm saying. I said, we share an Amazon account. Yeah. we we we Amazon got faithful customers to tweet. Truly,
00:44:02
Speaker
which people truly. I'm tired of going to the grocery store. I'm just like, I'm just going to order Amazon Amazon groceries. sir I can get my groceries that way. It'll be delivered. Look, it was delivered yesterday morning. I woke up.
00:44:18
Speaker
Got an alert, food was in front of my door, opened my door. food right there. I didn't have to do nothing. So, Jeff, you got us. You got us. But you was wrong for that. I'm just going to point that out. You was wrong. You shouldn't have did it. No. But unfortunately, I'm still going to support your company. With me, personally, there will be no consequences. Nothing. Nothing. Because I'm sorry. Because I'm still going to read The Washington Post, and I'm still going to shop at Amazon. I know. Yeah, y'all. I know.
00:44:52
Speaker
hypocrites, we hypocrites. Come up on another platform. Come up one. And that's the reason why I still listen to Bad Boy. See this weave? No. See how weaved it all in? No. It was wild. And I brought it all back. I got a line. And Diddy definitely crossed that line. OK, Diddy crossed the line. But if Jeff Bezos did what Diddy did, you going to stop using Amazon? Absolutely. I don't believe you. No, I definitely would. I would be on Walmart.
00:45:21
Speaker
alria are oh waba I and I'd get everything from Team Moo. It's all it like, ah listen, I'd have to figure it out. I'd have to figure it out. like I do have a line and did that, yeah, so if it came out Bezos, they would have to oust him completely from the company, remove all traces of him. he's he Actually, he doesn't even run the company anymore. I think they they have other CEOs. he's just i mean He's still on the board, but it's not even... mike guess not Yeah, but I mean, is he like a majority stakeholder? I mean, i mean yes, he's still a majority stakeholder, but you know, there are other stakeholders. The point is he has a say where he can go to the editorial board of the Washington Post and say, no, we're not enough. No, he owns the Washington Post. yeah I'm talking about Amazon specifically, because I don't want to lose my Amazon. bri but good But going back to, to
00:46:19
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we were talking about ah the different rallies
00:46:24
Speaker
and her having all these surrogates speak with speak on her behalf, you know, Samuel Jackson and and and Tyler Perry and Barack Obama. Let me tell you something. The Obamas are not playing with people. Not this time around. And I don't know if you noticed, but I certainly have, as a linguist myself, but...
00:46:49
Speaker
ah Barack V. Obama has been tapping into that AAV. Yes, he has, I know. Nobody's business because I just heard him at a rally talking about Trump sounding like your crazy grandfather. He'd be like, you going to call up your year you year your brother, your sister, your cousin, ah you and he said, quote, you be all like, let me holla at you. And I said,
00:47:16
Speaker
Yes. Not the bee. He didn't put the bee in there. He said, you be all like, let me holla at you. I wrote it. And I said, who is this? he book Look, that's always been him. yeah right That's always been him. People are going to be like, are he's trying to cater to it. No, that's been him and and you know that's him because of the way he acts. Look. Key of Peel. He it beer yeah you nailed it with the handshake and he still does this to this day. we just did it He just did it this summer at the Olympics.
00:47:50
Speaker
where he'll give a white person the normal history and then he'll dap well, so black her. He still does it to this day. like He just got you called out on it. He did an interview on a podcast or something. I was like, you did the same thing. We just walked in.
00:48:07
Speaker
But yeah, they're not playing. I love this this era that the Obamas are in currently. They're a villain era. It's no longer when they go low, we go high.
00:48:20
Speaker
They were trying to hold on to the prestige of former presidents. Yeah. And they realized that's gone. That's gone while he is in the this sphere of politics. Yeah. All civility and you decency is gone. You might as well match that energy. Because Michelle all other than that and her ah her speech in Michigan ah Saturday all but called him ah everything but a child of God. She basically called him a job time turkey. that But a job time turkey. She called him a... I said, God dang. She is fooling no punchers. She is throwing everything. ah She called him a child. what She called him everything but a child of God.
00:49:19
Speaker
And no other way to put it. I love the villain era that the Obamas are in, and they are not playing. And her speech, and I notice a lot of the speeches are all geared towards reproductive freedom. And that's, I think, going to be the economy of reproductive freedom are going to be one of the key issues that people vote on, and immigration
00:49:47
Speaker
immigration, but i I don't think people care. is To me, that seems more like a dog whistle. I don't think people care. Very much a dog. I mean, it is a real issue and the immigration system needs to be fixed. yeah I don't know what the answer is to the immigration issue. I don't have a clue. Especially when we're a country built on immigrants. Yes. That has still a giant statue off of New York City that says, bring me your, what is it? Your coal, your huddled masses, all of that. Whatever it was, you just butchered it. It was something like that. It was sudden your huddled masses. The point is, I thought it was your poor, your hungry, but I might be getting confused. That was probably it. I might be getting confused with one of them commercials with the starving kids. The Christian children's fun. Yeah. The weave is getting wide. Let's bring it back in. Weaves getting wide.
00:50:48
Speaker
No, but she's ah definitely making i don't know that push. She's in the phase of her campaign where they call the closing arguments. So a lot of what you'll see right now is gonna be her her ultimate message that she's trying to get out there and that's opportunity, economy, and reproductive freedom. And and I think that it's dope that she did that rally in Houston.
00:51:17
Speaker
with Beyonce and Kelly Rowland, who both delivered very good speeches. I don't know who their speechwriters are, but they did an excellent job. By the way, Kelly, God, you are agent like firewire. She's that girl, period. To me, she has always been that girl. And they walked out there hand in hand, looking like a lesbian power couple. And I loved every minute of it.
00:51:42
Speaker
but but wouldn't but from that think that statement But I mean, it's not like Kamala Harris is going to take Texas. She's not. But she was there for Colin Allred, who was a congressman who could. Going against Ted Cruz. Very possibly unseat Ted Cruz. Finally, finally. yeah Even Republicans don't like, don't nobody like Ted Cruz. Nobody likes Ted Cruz, except for the people that keep voting for him. I don't think they do. They just don't have no choice. I want to yeah come back on something about Tucker Carlson. It's really funny to me, these hypocrites that have called Trump the worst. He said some stuff that there's audio of him was saying that he's that Trump is an idiot and he's not smart and this and that. And he's speaking that is like
00:52:33
Speaker
I understand like there are some politicians when you are in these primaries and they're doing, they're attacking each other yeah you get the to get the nomination, right? yeah And then when they get the nomination, they're like, okay, well now we're on the same team. right But a lot of times the attacks aren't so personal as you're stupid, you're an idiot, you weren't a good president.
00:52:53
Speaker
And these are off-season attacks. like These are, I mean, you know, off-season. That's crazy. Where it's like, it's not an election year or something. that He's just in the news for some reason. I mean, a prime culprit of that is JD Vance. You call him America's Hitler. Yep, sure enough, dude. I'm tripping off with Trump. I'm like, you hold such grudges on people.
00:53:21
Speaker
These people have said some horrible things about you, and they just come around and be like, all right, I'm gonna ride on the team, and you just accept him in the fold? yeah That doesn't track with, I don't know, he's... He doesn't care as long as you flatter him to his face. And Jamie Vance, oh, I just believed a lot of misinformation. And I know that's exactly what he did. I believed a lot of misinformation out there about you, sir, but I know that you're a good man and be a good person. He just wants power. And the fact that people are willing to sell their souls out for it, these are not people that you won't run in the country because what else will they sell?
00:54:01
Speaker
to have and maintain that power. I was gonna say one last thing about Colin Alred, but I just forgot, it'll just stop. Oh, a vote, vote, vote, vote. Then you've been on that, you've been on that, vote. Vote, it even, you know, I think he's gonna pick up a lot of those Trump,
00:54:26
Speaker
voters who don't like Ted Cruz, who will who will vote who might vote for Trump, for president, but they'll still vote for Colin, for Senator. So he has a chance of picking up a lot of ah ah lot of votes that were.
00:54:45
Speaker
Well, you know me, always hope for the best, but care for the worst. And I just remember Beto. Beto gave eric butto had a lot of energy around him. He did. He did. And he did not win, so old Teddy. Old Teddy be making it through. And you got any more final thoughts on the election? Because people are going to be listening to this, and they're one week away. This is the last time they're going to hear you before election day.
00:55:09
Speaker
I mean, the only thing I could say is all everything that I've been saying, if you're tired of the text messages and the mailers and the people knocking on your door, it's because you haven't voted yet. It will stop when you vote. Now see, unfortunately, a couple of people still use my address.
00:55:30
Speaker
So I still get mailers and people come to the door and text messages, even though I've already voted. But if you want all that stuff to stop, go vote. Go vote. Also, if you live in a state where it could go either way,
00:55:49
Speaker
Get out there and volunteer. Knock doors, make phone calls, send tech whatever. You can always find volunteer opportunities in your area if you care about what's going to happen to this country. And I understand that there are some people who have ideological reservations about voting for either party who may abstain from voting or may vote third party.
00:56:23
Speaker
We got the candidates we got. And if you really want to see more opportunity in this country, if you want to see cease fires,
00:56:39
Speaker
in war torn areas. if you want i would I would recommend working with the person that has some empathy. a You get them in there and then they represent us. So you tell them what you want to see happen. But it starts with the person with empathy. So I would say just think about that.
00:57:09
Speaker
All right, sis, to kind of weave into something completely different. something Completely, this is not part of the weave. No, no. We've started a new tapestry. yeah mean and Not a new tapestry. So I saw the new lace front. What? Say what? This is a new lace front. I don't, okay, yeah, lace front, okay. Weave. Weave, got it. That was, okay, I get it. Got it. Only people that know about weaves was going to get that though, so you had to wait. That's okay, that's my audience.
00:57:39
Speaker
That's specifically your audience. That's specifically my audience. So I saw this video and I sent it to you and I thought it was an interesting topic to talk about. So man and a woman, boyfriend and girlfriend, they have a child and the boyfriend's mother are about to go somewhere. Yes. Okay, so they're getting the child in the car, the girlfriend jumps in the front seat.
00:58:02
Speaker
The mother immediately becomes somewhat belligerent you and say, hey, what are you doing? You need to get in the back seat. I'm not sitting in the back seat. And the girlfriend is like, well, OK, well, I don't really want to sit in the back seat. I don't care what you really want.
00:58:19
Speaker
moving I'm not sitting in the backseat, you need to get up out." And so the girlfriend was like, okay, well, I'm just not going. yeah and And the boyfriend was like, wait a minute, which is not that serious, go ahead and sit in the backseat. Like, no, no, no, no, I'm just not going. And then the mom was like, oh well, you don't have to go, it gets gets a little bit more of an attitude. And then my question was, who was wrong? For my opinion,
00:58:44
Speaker
Typically, I will give up the front seat to an elder and and sit in the back seat initially. and But this is a girlfriend. She's riding a car to put the baby in the back seat. She probably typically, without even thinking, gets in the front seat, not even thinking about it. Right.
00:59:02
Speaker
And the elder didn't have to come at her like that. Right. The elder came at her sideways, and now it's at the point where you're going to come at me sideways. Now you ain't getting the seat because of the way you came at me. If you just said to me, hey, do you mind sitting in the back seat so I can sit in the front seat and be a little bit more comfortable for me? i could We could have that conversation. Right. But if you come at me sideways, guess what? we The conversation we're going to have is that you ain't getting the seat. Yeah.
00:59:29
Speaker
it it ah Okay. My advice, yeah she need to go ahead and break up with him. It's not going to get no better. to yeah great let love you Let me tell you. And the reason why is because it was that serious. And so for him to minimize it like that, like it's not that serious and completely dismiss your feelings in favor of his mom ah with zero hesitation, baby, it's not going to get no better.
00:59:57
Speaker
That's true. It's not. And you're going to be battling with that lady for the rest of your life. It's true. If she had come to her and said, oh, I'm sorry, I get car sick. I need to ride in the front. Or it's more comfortable for me to ride in the front. Yeah, you're right. Go ahead. You can have the seat. And then the girlfriend after coming at you right, the mom comes at her right and asks properly with respect, and the girlfriend has an issue, then the girlfriend is in the wrong.
01:00:27
Speaker
Yes, but you need to respect my position as the girl, as the, this is our family now. This is our immediate family. Right. Yes. We're family. But once he left you, mom came to me and we have a child. We're now his immediate family and you need to respect my position. You're, you're now extended family. Mm-hmm.
01:00:51
Speaker
And that's with um some of these moms, especially with their sons, some of these moms don't understand, especially with their sons. It we have to add attitude to it feels like feels like you're trying to make a point there.
01:01:08
Speaker
Oh, not about us specifically. OK, because I was going to say, our mom is not like that. That was never an issue. No, our mother would never. She don't get involved like that. Y'all are grown. Right. You know, if she doesn't overstep, like, just our mother would never. And she just would never come at somebody that way. Yeah, it was 100% the complete lack of respect the mom showed the girlfriend and the fact that The boyfriend, when hearing it, didn't say, hey, mom, you you don't have to talk to her like that. If there's a reason you need the C, that's one thing, but you don't have to talk to the mother of my child like that. so Like, she's a child. I could tell from the video, and ladies and gentlemen, I would put a link in the descriptions, but I don't know if I'm allowed to do that. Just search it. and you'll You'll find it. And you can watch the video for yourself. I can tell by the video the interaction between
01:02:07
Speaker
the mom and son and the son automatically come into his mom defense, the mom talks to the son like that. So this is the norm yeah in the relationship, to not yeah respect boundaries, to not have respect, right? And and so in because that dynamic has already been established between the mother and the son,
01:02:28
Speaker
Of course he's not going to check his mom for talking to his baby mom's girlfriend like that. And and and what I didn't say is baby ma ah that Mama took a shot at baby moms and saying, y'all not even married. And it's like, okay, you really do not they respect me at all. When she quietly and calmly said, well, I'm not going to go.
01:02:52
Speaker
because I've been disrespected and now wherever we were gonna go, I'm not even gonna be fun to be around at this point. So I'm not gonna go. And when mom kept talking, even year and after homegirl was walking away, not doing not saying anything back, not doing anything back, now you gonna keep talking and continue to disrespect me? Well, you ain't gotta go back. And the boyfriend said nothing,
01:03:21
Speaker
baby girl love time to go because ok it ain't gonna, it's not gonna get any better if he is comfortable with anybody disrespecting you to your face like that.
01:03:37
Speaker
And the fact that he didn't at least check her when she kept talking after the girlfriend walked away, because it was that serious. Don't act like it's not that serious. I wouldn't be upset if it wasn't that serious. Don't minimize the situation. But wait after you did that, and I walk away, and she's still talking, and you're still not saying anything? Okay.
01:03:57
Speaker
okay ah and i think theres is same energy right And I think there's a larger conversation to be had here that this instance just kind of just brings to light is that people don't understand when you choose a partner how important that is. This is what I mean by that.
01:04:18
Speaker
Your partner is the supposed to be the most important relationship that you have. Yeah. But it's above everything else. I remember one of my closest friends when he was a kid, I've told this story before, asked his dad, hey, dad, who do you love more, me or mom? His dad, without hesitation, to said,
01:04:39
Speaker
your mother, I chose to spend the rest of my life with your mother. That's the most important relationship. So yes, we love our moms, we love our fathers, we love our brothers and sisters, our cousins, all that. all We love all of that. But when we choose a partner to spend the rest of our life with, you post a key. Wait a minute, what?
01:05:04
Speaker
It's what it says in the Bible. When you choose a partner, you cleave, or you separate yourself from your family. you are no longer That's no longer your immediate family. This is now your family. And it needs to be the most important thing to you. So if you're OK. People just out here choosing people to be with, right I once had a friend say to me,
01:05:30
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I can have marital bliss with anybody. And I was like, okay, um okay you you might have a legitimate argument with you could have marital bliss with anybody. Yes, I get along with a lot of people. Could I be in a relationship for a long period of time with somebody and just be content? Yes, that is absolutely possible. However, I'm gonna take that commitment the next time, a little bit more seriously. Yeah. A little bit more seriously. I took it. I took it seriously the first time. But you but you know what I mean. I'm going to take that commitment is important. And I think that people just haphazard be jumping into stuff, not realizing that you are trying to choose a partner. Yeah.
01:06:17
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that's going to be with you to the right for the rest of your life. yeah this is This is the most important relationship that you're going to have. And in this instance, where this gentleman It's clearly showing, no, my relationship with my mother is still more important than the relationship with you. You're right, she need to bounce. Yeah, it also highlights another very important thing and that is some of y'all got real unhealthy relationships with your parents. Well, sometimes we all do. Yeah, but you don't, listen.
01:06:59
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You don't owe your parents. you that's not That's not why they became parents. It shouldn't have been for for their kids to owe them back for what they get. No, they're supposed to love you unconditionally and try to guide you to becoming a functional, halfway decent adult. Halfway decent. you Right. And then you're supposed to go.
01:07:28
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you're supposed to You're supposed to leave and and start your own life and keep that cycle going if you so choose. A lot of us choose not to but because we're like, that's kind of hard. but like And that's a lot of pressure and responsibility. okay But if you so choose, then OK, then you continue on that tradition.
01:07:53
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Raising children, but you don't. And there's too many people out here who feel like they owe their parents a debt for being alive. No, the debt is we got bills now. We didn't ask for those. Yeah, we did not ask for those. Okay, but your parents are supposed to teach you and guide you and then set you free.
01:08:20
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It's not a break. And we all have real unhealthy relationships with your parents. Mm hmm. Don't even realize it. maybe this Maybe this conversation will make people aware of how unhealthy the relationship with their parents actually is. You don't owe them anything. You aren't asked to be brought into this world if they tell you that I did this, this, and this for you. You know you don't you don't respect or appreciate what I did. We didn't ask you to do that. right you You chose to bring me into this world. This words your choice. I had no choice in the decision. Yeah. one I am your responsibility.
01:08:58
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that's That's what it is. And so I owe you nothing. I owe you respect. If respect has been given, I owe you respect. But other than that, I owe you nothing. I can love you or not love you. I love my parents because our parents are pretty great you know after you know at yeah have some years.
01:09:18
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No, but I think our relationships with our parents now are much healthier ones. Oh, yeah. That's because we got older, and through therapy, we understood you know boundaries. Yeah, but they had to understand that too. like It's a two-way street. Yeah, it's true. When I say some of y'all have unhealthy relationships or repairs, I'm not blaming you.
01:09:42
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unless you are the problem. But a lot of times, I mean, yeah if in their particular scenario, the child is the one that's that got the problem, then the child's the one that got the problem. But a lot of times it's a parent having an unhealthy attachment to their child. Like that child doesn't owe you the rest of their life. No, they don't.
01:10:06
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You're supposed to set them free, and you're not doing that. And for and you're hindering them by not doing was pretty good, but you got anything else you want to let people know? I know, vote. yeah That's what you always say, vote. No, that was it.
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