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Hello y'all, how goes it?
Tyler's Controversial Role in Love is Blind
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I gotta talk about the shitty men of season 7 of Love is Blind and I cannot talk about how terrible the men were without talking about Tyler.
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the man in the middle of one of the most controversial seasons of Love is Blind.
Tyler's Hidden Truths
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So, Tyler has three kids. He has a son and twin daughters. On the show, or sorry, to get onto the show, Tyler did not specify anywhere in his application that he has children.
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So he either lied by omission or he lied flat out and said he doesn't have kids. Regardless, Tyler got on the show and on the show, he would talk to Ashley, his now wife, saying, how many kids you want? I want six, blah, blah, blah. How cute of him to say he wants six when he already has three.
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So I don't think he was lying there. He's already halfway there.
Family Man or Facade?
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So Tyler also has lawsuits against him. He owes $30,000 to his baby mama.
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He is in debt. He doesn't make a lot of money. So he went on Love is Blind to make money to provide for his kids. On the show, Ashley says to Tyler, so do they would they know how
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what you look like and he goes I don't know. He said I don't know even though there are multiple photos and videos of Tyler with his kids, Tyler being the doting dad, Tyler posting on social media about his mini me, Tyler saying like dope dad, dope son, things like that, wearing apparel like that.
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Tyler wearing matching pajamas with his children and his baby mama. So Tyler claimed that he was a sperm donor, but then Tyler's baby mama, she was married to a woman and that woman. Now her ex wife said that Tyler's baby mama Bry cheated on her by sleeping with Tyler and getting pregnant with his son. And then
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sleeping with him. I'm not so sure I think she slept with him all of the three of the kids she had she conceived by having sex with Tyler she used to have sex with Tyler Tyler used to have threesomes he used to have threesomes with his baby mama and other people he used to like basically be really engaged in like parties where everybody's
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Sleeping with each other three sums with his friends and randoms or whatever.
Social Media Backlash and Gender Dynamics
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I hope Ashley could keep up but anyways That aside Tyler is the father of three children the doting loving father of three children He has cut off his baby mama and his children To go on love it ever since he's been on love is blind. He hasn't been in communicate He hasn't had much communication with them except
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He did reach out to his baby mama, saying how his fiancรฉ looks nothing like anything he's ever dated before. I don't know what that means. And he wanted to meet up with the baby mama. Or someone. He wanted to meet up with someone to have sex with them. I think. I'm not so sure that's clear in the text, but after he was engaged and living in an apartment with his fiancรฉ, he was texting
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another woman possibly trying to smash. So Tyler abandoned his three children that he clearly seemed to love and adore on social media. He abandoned them for love is blind. Now everybody knows that once you go on love is blind, you're going to get followers and then you're going to get sponsorships and brand deals. However, as I've said before,
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or every slash everybody knows those deals. They're more for earlier seasons of the show. Like the show has kind of worn off as far as the benefits that you can get from the exposure. Especially like you have to be likable and I don't know Tyler.
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is going to be likable considering his backstory. And on top of that, Love is Blind is really more advantageous for the women. Women move products. Women, we are the consumers of the household, single or married. Women are the ones who make a lot of
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buying decisions, a lot of purchase power, like literally sales, like women are very coveted demographic. So females who go on these shows, they definitely have the deals and the men, it doesn't, there's no comparison in how many deals a man, how many ads a man has versus how many ads a female has who's on one of these shows.
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So Tyler went on this show because he's 30 grand in debt. He doesn't have money. He has three kids.
Reunion Show Revelations
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He saw this as an opportunity to make money which he specifically said to his baby mama and his baby mama Bri was happy for him because she just knew okay, he's gonna make money so Ashley found out that he has three kids and
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And Ashley was told that he was just a sperm donor. As I already explained, that is not the truth. Tyler basically went on the show as a master plan. So when Ashley and Tyler were at the reunion, Ashley said that Tyler is, he was a sperm donor and that his sperm donor's wife left
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his baby mama and so when so when Tyler's baby mama became single
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Tyler stepped in to help out the baby mama. This is garbage. As I've already explained, Tyler was actually sleeping with the baby mama. The baby mama was married to a woman, but Tyler was also sleeping with the baby mama. And Tyler had stepped, quote unquote, stepped in before the, or while the baby mama was married and after the baby mama was married, he didn't step in to help the baby mama.
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because she was single he stepped in because he actively wanted to be a participant in his children's lives from day one i think i heard something about tyler filed for custody of one of the kids or all the kids like tyler wanted to be a parent he was not a sperm donor
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but Ashley wants to run with that narrative because it makes her feel better. When Ashley was on the Nick Vile podcast, she said that she would not be with a man who has kids because that's quote unquote, that's not the life that I want for myself. And here she is with a man with three young children. So had she known that Tyler was the father of three kids, she wouldn't have gotten engaged to him. That's a huge problem.
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And the reason why it's a problem is because Tyler has been keeping his distance from his kids to go on the show.
Future Predictions for Tyler and Ashley
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The show, it's a long con, as I've said, for him, allegedly. And now he was a finalist on the show and he got married. Guess what I think Tyler's going to do?
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So let me go through and read the rest of my notes before I give my prediction on what Tyler, what I believe Tyler will do. So Tyler at the reunion, he said that he spent the holidays, he spends the holidays with quote, all my friends and their kids.
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Now the problem with that excuse is that Tyler and his quote-unquote friends and kids were all in matching pajamas because they're all related because he was an active parent and he wasn't a sperm donor. This lie, it's kind of good, but it doesn't explain the matching pajamas. That's a problem. Friends are not wearing matching pajamas with their friends' kids. Sorry.
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Next we got, let me see here in my notes. Tyler says, I don't owe anyone an explanation about my wife. And if she's sitting here with me, then he wipes away a non existent tear. And
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And he just, he didn't even continue the sentence cause he's an idiot. So then Ashley says, who do you think has better insight on what's going on? Social media or me? Bitch, obviously social media. Like obviously social media has the receipts that you don't want to acknowledge and accept as the truth. So social media has better insight.
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You're up there looking crazy. So Ashley claims that Tyler is a bad actor when he said he doesn't know if he.
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If his kids know what he looks like, that was a staged part of a conversation that Ashley concocted to kind of like quiet the public to make it seem like he really is a sperm donor and that he wasn't an active parent and participant in his kid's lives. Like that's pretty pathetic. We didn't need that question. That question is going to stay with Tyler for the rest of his children's lives.
Impact on Tyler's Children
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His kids have a father who disowned them on Netflix and they will always be able to access that footage. He ruined their lives in a way by saying that his kids would not reckon, don't know what he looks like.
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That is hurtful. That is so painful. The same man who is wearing matching clothes, matching PJs, taking y'all out on excursions, spending time with you, is disowning you? These poor children, they're very, they're small, but they're gonna find this shit out. It's terrible. So,
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Then I see I put in my nose that Tyler starts breathing heavier. Like Tyler seemed really uncomfortable with Ashley speaking on how he's a sperm donor and shit like that. Like, because he knows it's a lie.
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And Ashley said that it was hard for Tyler to remove himself and not be involved. I would hope that it would be hard for a father to quote, remove themselves and not be involved in their young children's lives. So this is my prediction. I predict that Tyler will leave Ashley so that he can be an active
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so he could restart being an active father to his three kids again. I say this because Tyler loved being a father. He was yanked away from that because it's his master plan to make money off of love is blind. So he was yanked away from that. That is going to breed a lot of resentment.
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because he's not talking to his kids, he's not seeing his kids, and it seems like that's what Ashley wants. It seems that Ashley doesn't want Tyler to be involved in his kids' lives because Ashley wants to go with the whole he was a sperm donor story. And I think that Tyler's gonna leave Ashley because he wants to be a dad. He seemed to really enjoy it. His kids are absolutely gorgeous. They're cute. He probably misses the shit out of them.
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I think like Tyler ghosting his baby mama and doing all these theatrics. It's just temporary. I think he's just trying to get his bread up. He's just trying to get his money and then once he gets it, I do see him leaving Ashley. Why? Tyler said that, you know, he was asked what do you love most about Ashley and he said I thought about this and it's unconditional love. I'm sorry. That's not a good answer. Like I
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pay so much attention to how someone describes how they feel about someone and why they feel a certain way about someone. And if you listen closely, a lot of people are giving a lot of cliches. A lot of people are basically quoting shit from movies and TV shows. They don't mean it. When you talk about how you feel about someone, it should be so incredibly specific and not vague and not broad.
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And if it's vague and broad and sounds like something you've heard a hundred times, it's disingenuous, period. Like unconditional love is not a reason to say that you love somebody. If anything, you should say you have unconditional love for your partner, right? Like it shouldn't be, well, I love that they love me. That's why I love them. It's not a good reason.
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and never will be. So that answer was very problematic to me. That was a red flag to me. And then secondly, Tyler said, you know, this is till death do us part. Again, where is the originality in saying your marriage is until death do us part? Like, did he write that on his way to the fucking reunion?
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The man can't say anything that sounds sincere. He seemed very, very nervous. He don't want to be there. He's faking it. He is going to leave Ashley. And I don't know how much money he wants or how much money he plans on getting or whatever, but the public is not happy with his behavior. Him rejecting his kids on television.
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I mean, you have to have the public on your side. If you want to have your love is blind appearance, turn into something
Reality TV Clout Chasers
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more. And if you want to make money from it, you can't be acting like Hannah and Irena and Jackie and all these other people who have so many haters. You can't do it. So do I think Tyler could make at least 30K to pay the back child support? Absolutely.
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But this is not, like he's not gonna make retirement money. He's not gonna be the next Lauren and Cameron. That's not happening. Cause he's a liar and the public hates, hates, hates when these people are liars. So then Tyler said, you know, this is till death do us part. And it's like, okay, thanks for, thanks for the original
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Line the original description This man is is halfway out the door as far as I'm concerned. I think he is halfway out the door I think Ashley is up there really looking stupid or was up there looking really stupid He said that he spent the holidays with Ashley's family, which is also a red flag. How come they were not with your family Ashley? or sorry Tyler so
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I think Tyler has a lot, I don't know. I'm gonna take that back. I was gonna say he has a lot of shit coming, but he doesn't. I hope that he will choose to be in his kids' lives, and I'm not gonna put this all on Ashley. I really hope that Ashley did not tell him it's me or them. I'm hoping that's not the case, but this whole, like,
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There's a lot of problems with Love is Blind. I enjoy the show because it's like a social experiment. We are all like basically voyeurs in a focus group just watching and predicting who's gonna like each other, who's gonna stay together, who's gonna marry, who's gonna split. It's a fun show and the concept is genius but there
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The show is attracting way too many clout chasers, way too many fame hungry people. And what's really sad is when you get somebody who is on Love Is Blind for the right reasons and they are paired with somebody who is not. So I believe that Ashley is on the show to find a husband, which she did. And I do not believe that Tyler was on the show for any other reason to make money because his text to
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Bri, the baby mama, pretty much convey this.
Tyler's Past and Compatibility with Ashley
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So there you have it. You have a man who is broke, who doesn't have any money, who's pretending to have money, who hid his children.
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who disowned his children on television who is into threesomes and I don't know if Ashley is down with the threesomes but it's like if Tyler really is a freak and a whore and he's like trying to play husband all of a sudden it's another reason why this shit ain't gonna work it's another reason why he's gonna leave Ashley like
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I don't want to be right about this, but then I also do because I don't believe Ashley is worth him staying away from his children. And I feel like she doesn't, she already said that's not the life she'd want for herself. I don't think she wants a man with kids. This is messy.
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And it's so messy that Love is Blind, like they were not even talking about what everybody was saying on TikTok, but they did that like a season, no a few seasons ago. They talked about some dumb ass TikTok rumors, but they just did not address like all of the drama that's associated with Tyler. Look,
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The man is garbage, as I've said, just like some of these other men. And with Tyler, it's difficult. Like I like to, if I'm talking about these people being pieces of shit, it's important for us to identify their abuse, to identify their dysfunction.
Audience Perception of Tyler
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It's important so that we could spot that
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in our everyday lives not just on the show but Tyler was there acting perfect because he's going for that bag he's trying to get that bag so I can't like list the other examples like I did with Ramses and Tim because Tyler is being fake and I don't know how badly this is gonna blow up in Ashley's face but
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I'm telling you, once somebody hits you with those cliche lines, it's never a good sign. I actually, for a project that I, or an assignment that I had, I rewatched Michelle Young's season of The Bachelorette, and so she was the third
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Black Bachelorette and I watched her season. The man that she got engaged to at the proposal, everything out of his mouth was a cliche. Like everything out of his mouth was an original and he dumped her. They didn't last long. Like I'm telling you.
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So that is the only, I guess, one of the big main red flags takeaways from Tyler's story. If a man or a woman is feeding you lines from movies and TV shows when they talk about how they feel about you and why they're feeling you and why they love you and how in love with you they are,
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Run for the hills. It is doomed. That bomb is tick tick tick tockie. Oh boy. I don't know. This damn show. And I didn't even watch the season. Shout out to TikTok.
Social Media vs. Full Season Experience
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I didn't have to watch. I got my cliff notes on TikTok. I got my cliff notes on Twitter.
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And I was entertained, but I just, I chose not to support this season because I was like, I don't like the cast. I saw the first episode. I was like, I do not like the cast and I need to in order to devote my time to it. So.
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Anyways, my prediction is Tyler is going to leave Ashley and I think he's gonna take about two years to do it. He wants to get his bread up. He's not leaving now, but I think he will be leaving in about two years. That's my prediction. And I wish Ashley the best. I wish Ashley would leave him sooner before he dumps her because she's wasting her time.
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all right y'all that's it for this one i might do more love is blind but i'm so late the love is blind discussions that i don't know and i'm so like grossed out by like stephen i already quickly gave my thoughts on stephen and nick in like the last episode
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And maybe I will do a toxic women of love is blind. I don't know. I will have to think about it because Hannah is the one that's just glaringly obvious. And I just, everybody has kind of already said everything that needs to be said about Hannah like 9,000 times. I'm going to go look her up again on social media, see if this whole plan of hers, which clearly
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she lost weight so that people would talk about it to help make herself more famous. Clearly that was just a gimmick and a plan of hers. Let me lose weight so I could go viral for getting skinny. Anyways, I don't really have too much to say by Hannah, because like I said, it's like really beating a dead horse, but actually I might, I might.
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because I do think that men need to stay away from women like Hannah. So I could do an episode talking about how for me to watch how she was behaving, female to female, I have some thoughts. Anyways, I will talk to you later. Thanks for listening. Bye.