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Speaker: I don't know where to begin or end when it comes to the toxic men of Love is Blind season 11. I will say that this season gave us the worst contestant we have ever seen in 11 seasons of this show.
Speaker: Robert Feely, Feli, whatever, who cares? This is a man who went on the show and slammed the show as ridiculous and dragged the show's premise.
Speaker: But yet he had the audic audacity to apply to be on the on the show and film the show. And so he put his castmates in a really awkward position because he's there yelling basically about how the show is bullshit.
Speaker: He also... was absolutely horrific to his fiance, Michaela, and basically said he didn't care that it's over.
Speaker: But then he wanted them to walk out together, even though she broke up with him. He wanted the illusion of them still being together. But Rob is insecure. And when someone is insecure and they're with an established woman who has her shit together,
Speaker: Like that's a trigger for them. They're uncomfortable. They really need to be with a broke woman who doesn't have much to offer, at least financially.
Speaker: And in certain areas, whatever areas that spark their or trigger their insecurity, that's they need to be with someone that they consider beneath them, not someone who they consider their equal or their superior.
Speaker: And I think that Michaela, being a vice president of a thriving company, it made Rob feel really insecure. And he couldn't handle it.
Speaker: And that's really that what we need to take away Rob. Rob being the disaster that he is. So episode nine and episode 10 of season 11, like it is really, really shocking TV. I encourage you to watch whether you watch any other episode this season. i just watch episode nine and 10 to see his meltdown.
Speaker: and see his friends, um just to be able to see what everybody online is is talking about and referring to But at the root of it, I think Rob is insecure. He's obviously a complete waste of space loser.
Speaker: And he was triggered by being with a woman who is in many ways out of his league. So it's like, I need, i would love to know the psychology behind this, right? Why do, and both genders do it actually, why do some people pursue and get in relationships with people who are out of their league all the while being insecure?
Speaker: Like you're never going to be happy, but why do they do that? And then they proceed to try to take that person down to their level because they don't they feel uneasy about being with somebody out of their league. like What is the psychology behind that? I would love to know.
Speaker: um I actually spoke about Rob yesterday for probably 40 minutes. So I don't know how much gas I have in my tank right now when it comes to Rob. All I'm going to say is you guys should watch episode 9 and 10 because it is...
Speaker: It's a lot. And I wish I could dissect it right now, but I just, um I kind of want to vomit thinking about this man and talking about this man. You know, as a female viewer of Love is Blind, what is so upsetting, and maybe men feel it's upsetting too, is watching Michaela, someone who is deserving Watching her fall for a man who is dangerous, who does not love her, who does not love himself, who is completely undateable.
Speaker: Watching her fall for someone like this and have to be dis and and be disrespected and humiliated.
Speaker: All because she was seeking partnerships. And that's a very hard pill for me to swallow as a viewer because Love is Blind's casting department, they are here for the theatrics, the antics, and the viral moment.
Speaker: They are not trying to bring Lauren's and Cameron's together, Bret's and Tiffany's together, um Bliss and Zach together.
Speaker: Those are some of the most solid couples. They're not trying to do that. They are trying to get men who are losers and get women who are literal physicians and successful and have them get engaged so that we have a show.
Speaker: And we are getting the same recycled ass arguments, ah discussions every single seat season, honestly. Like kids, People wanting kids or not or when they want kids.
Speaker: It's such a tired debate on the Stan show. But anyway, it's hard to see someone who did nothing wrong receive what Michaela received.
Speaker: We saw it last season with Jessica, who was engaged to Chris, and Chris said that she needs to do Pilates every day. And, you know, basically that he's not attracted to her. Like, we are being traumatized as viewers.
Speaker: And obviously I'm a fan of this show, but I want the casting department to do better. Don't cast people like Rob. Like, what type of psych evaluation are you actually doing?
Speaker: When casting, because at this point, like it's getting to the point where nobody should be allowed to go on this show who hasn't been in therapy for at least the past three years before they get on this damn show.
Speaker: Because we are exposed to like the worst of the worst sometimes. That's what Rob was. Rob was afraid to get canceled by Netflix. And honey, you, you, you're worth fear.
Speaker: Your worst fear has happened. You are very canceled. Like viewers are so upset at Rob and he was afraid of getting canceled because he knows he's a piece of shit. And if he knows he's a piece of shit, he should have never applied to be on this show or sorry, never agreed to be on this damn show.
Speaker: If you are that reckless and if you are that destructive when you drink, you should not get on a reality TV show and you especially shouldn't get on a reality TV tv show and drink.
Speaker: But anyways, I mean... Rob represents a an insecure man, an alcoholic. He never apologized for his behavior. He just gave excuses for it.
Speaker: He's the worst of the worst. And I don't know if you see anybody who... But the thing is, everybody talks about his mask fell off. And I agree.
Speaker: I agree. His mask fell off. Like it proves that you definitely have to not only date someone for a while, but you really have to have them in in every type of setting before you know who they are.
Speaker: Right. Like that is so, so important. um Next on my list, I have John. So John, he is really messy. He told his fiance, Sarah, deal with it when it comes to his beard hair being all over the sink.
Speaker: He also has a, he had a bad temper with customer service. So, you know, I guess Sarah is a neat freak or clean or tidy and John is messy.
Speaker: That, I don't know how many couples are mismatched that way, right? Where one person is tidy, the other person is messy. It is a very valid source of frustration for people.
Speaker: And it's just up to every individual person if they want to make it a deal breaker or not. What I find problematic about John, besides him being messy, like, I don't think his temper is especially like, I don't give a shit about his temper. People are trying to make his temper more of a problem than it is.
Speaker: It's legitimately not that serious. He does not speak to Sarah the way that he spoke to customer service. um People just really dislike him because he's anti-vax and anti-abortion.
Speaker: And of course, those are issues. Those are problems. But I'm really rattled by this man drinking raw milk, unpasteurized milk. That's not healthy.
Speaker: And on top of that, like he has m s and I just don't think he should be doing something as unhealthy as drinking raw milk. um And I just...
Speaker: I don't know. He doesn't do it for me. So i and I'm putting him in the toxic, the toxic men of love is blind because I don't find him sexy. I find him gross and kind of repulsive.
Speaker: um He has a good heart, but like, I don't, he's just not like, he doesn't do it for me. His voice is soft. I cannot deal with that. I need a very deep voice. I just, yeah.
Speaker: It's just, it's giving not my type without being more explicit and rude. Next we got on the toxic men of love is blind. We got Cam. So Cam, yes, Cam is a nice guy, but guess what? Being a nice guy is not enough.
Speaker: And I just, I wonder who he, who he should be with. Like he needs to be with a fellow doormat. He's very quiet. He doesn't say much because he doesn't ever want there to be like,
Speaker: a problem um or an argument. He likes to give a lot of dad jokes. It's like, he still continuously gives a lot of dad jokes and I don't understand it.
Speaker: Like I, like my least favorite humor is dad jokes. ah And that's all he's about. So he is not going to take initiative. He's not going necessarily even let you know when he's pissed off.
Speaker: He's not going to, he's just there. And then his fiance said that she's been paying for everything. you know, he's not ready to get married and have kids, to be honest.
Speaker: He don't got no money. So it's like, again, when it comes to the toxic men of love is blind, if you don't have money, why are you so thirsty to get married and have kids when you don't have money to take care of those kids? So Cam...
Speaker: that That's a really big problem with Cam is that he's not in a position to be having kids. He just isn't. So why why does he want them? And why does he want them so quickly?
Speaker: Right? um Somebody who just goes with the flow and and doesn't ever speak up and is so passive is just boring, draining, and unsexy.
Speaker: So again, that's why I say he's the toxic part of the toxic man of Love is Black. He has a great heart. He actually like sewed dress for a woman before. Like what?
Speaker: That is just, I'm sorry. That is peak romance, right? but he's just not it. We need like, he's not, I don't know. and and the thing is when somebody is like Cam, when somebody is such a doormat, that's who they are.
Speaker: they can't change. They just, they need a fellow doormat, you know? Cause I want to say like, he just needs to learn to speak up, but he doesn't want to He really genuinely doesn't want to.
Speaker: um ah So it's like people like Cam, they need to date within their league and within their league is a damn doormat, right?
Speaker: Because anybody who's not a doormat, anybody who's not passive is just going to want to choke him out. All right. Next, I got Blake. Now, Blake is the one that people are saying looks like Wes Wilson, which is insults Wes Wilson. Like,
Speaker: I just find Blake to be extremely unattractive. um But anyways, Blake lives on boats. He has arrested development. Somebody made it. Somebody posted on threads that it was crazy to watch Blake realize his age in real time.
Speaker: And that was absolutely hysterical. Like, Blake believes that he is a 20-year-old man. He does not believe that he is pushing 40. And therefore, he should want to have kids soon.
Speaker: He doesn't want that. He just doesn't. And he says he doesn't know if he wants kids. Like, Blake has a fun life and he wants to, he doesn't want that to stop at any time. He wants to be partying on boats, on yachts. He wants to be sleeping with people on the yachts.
Speaker: He wants to be traveling. um He wants to be at sea every summer. Like, that's just what he wants to do. and He should have never been on cast on the show. But again, the casting department, they don't know how to do their job properly.
Speaker: But, you know, yes, his job, with his job, he's gone all the time. But there's so many versions of Blake, like Peter Pan syndrome for real. There's so many versions of grown ass men who want to act like they're 18 year old bachelors.
Speaker: They do not care about settling down. Like, Blake doesn't seem like he gives a shit about settling down. um And so it's like, it's up to the woman to suss out what that man really wants and how serious he is because his actions and his lifestyle do not sync up with what he's claiming to want, which is to get married. He doesn't want to get married. He really doesn't.
Speaker: I think he wants to be in a relationship, but then he has all these girls who are trying to sleep with him all the time. So it's like maybe he wants a relationship for when he's not on his yachts and then he wants his side hose for when he is on his yachts.
Speaker: um But he said that he doesn't want kids anytime soon and he doesn't know that he wants kids. And that was so unfortunate because that took Erica by surprise.
Speaker: And so he's also dishonest because he didn't tell her that up front. Right. So i am sorry for this lackluster episode.
Speaker: but I think these men have literally like drained the life out of me because I was so turned up. I, like I said, I spoke about Rob for like 40 minutes yesterday and I'm looking at some of my notes that I wrote about Rob.
Speaker: Um, And yeah, that man gives me a headache. I can't get into it. Anyway, so we have the reunion next week.
Speaker: Is it next week? Next week or two weeks from now. I usually don't update y'all on the reunion, on what happens on the reunion, but anyways, ah Rob, F John, F Cam,
Speaker: F Blake and F the producers or sorry, the casting department, because they keep doing this every single season. They keep casting clowns oh so that we could get viral moments.
Speaker: And Rob, Rob made, honestly, he made Netflix a lot of money. Let's be serious because we have not seen this type of behavior in 11 seasons on the show.
Speaker: So the casting department is doing its job by casting people like Rob, but I want them to focus on well-rounded, mentally sane and stable and financially stable men so that we can get a show where people who are hot, happy, and accomplished, excuse me, marry people who are hot, happy, and accomplished.
Speaker: um Hopefully we'll see that again soon. That's all for now, y'all. I will talk to you later. Bye.
