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Cozy Chat With Bea | Relax, Unwind, & Updates
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Welcome to a new kind of episode—✨ Cozy Chat with Bea ✨. Instead of diving into a set theme, I’m inviting you to settle in with me for a more relaxed, behind-the-scenes conversation. Think of it like a coffee date where I share little updates, thoughts, and musings from both my life and my creative world.
In this episode, I talk about:
- 🌿 What’s making me happy right now: settling into my new home, enjoying a mindful morning routine, and soaking in the crisp fall weather.
- 🎙️ Creative updates: the files I’ve been working on, experimenting with Notion, and how I’ve been juggling social media and DMs.
- 💬 Community love: checking in with you and asking what you want to hear more of on the podcast.
- 🍵 Random reflections: tea drinking rituals and finding safe, pleasurable ways to slow down.
Sometimes it’s nice to step away from the big topics and just chat. I hope this cozy, unstructured episode feels like we’re hanging out together.
💌 I’d love to hear from you—leave a comment or share what you’d like me to talk about in future episodes!
For more of my content, visit: https://beacons.ai/beatrixvale
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Transcript
Introduction to The Slut Next Door podcast
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Welcome to the Slut Next Door podcast, where we dive deep into desire, unravel kinks and fetishes, and explore the deliciously naughty side of self-discovery.
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I'm Beatrix Vale, an erotic audio creator, and your guide to all things kinky and curious. So let's begin.
Casual updates and personal thoughts
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Hello, darlings, and welcome back to my podcast. Today's episode is going to be a little different. I don't really have a set theme or any kinks to really dive into.
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I just wanted to sit down with you, relax, and just share some updates, some behind-the-scenes thoughts, and probably most likely a few rambles that have been floating around in my head.
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So think of this one as a cozy little catch up. Like we're just hanging out together with some coffee or tea, whatever your beverage of choice is. So sit back and relax.
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And, you know, sometimes it's nice for us to step away from big topics and just talk freely. So I hope you'll enjoy this more casual style because I plan on doing it maybe like once a month with this podcast. so let's see where this conversation takes us.
Settling into a new home
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So I wanted to start with some personal updates and talk about some things that are currently making me feel very happy.
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I am settling into my new home. ah lot of you know that I moved, let's see, it's been little over two months.
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So definitely settled in, but I'm at this stage now where I'm really kind of making rooms, my own decorating, because you know all the yucky unpacking is is done. And I actually like unpacking.
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I've always been kind of a nester. But, you know, it's it's just hard work getting all the all the basics out of the way. So now I'm in the decorating stage and organizing.
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And it's so ah so fulfilling for me because, like I said, I'm a nester. So, you know, some things that I've done, have a lovely front porch and, know,
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I have really made it a oasis of just comfort and coziness. I did some shopping ah my local antique store.
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So it's just filled with old, beautiful things, some new things, plants and I can't remember if I've shared a picture with you guys, like on my social media or within loyal fans, but I've definitely, i discovered that hummingbirds are a plenty here.
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So i had this little hanging win chime. i don't even want to call it a wind chime. Like it'll, it'll ding, but it's mostly decorative and it's got these little hearts on it that they look like and,
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in in the light, like they're, ah I don't know how to describe it it, except that it looks like amber to me. So anyways, i was sitting on the porch one morning because I do like to go out there i'd like sip my coffee and let Lucy out and just enjoy the peace.
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And i heard that sound that hummingbirds make and it scared me at first, but I look over And this hummingbird was checking out that one of those hearts that look like amber, because I think it must look like nectar to them or something. so I'm like, oh my gosh, it's a hummingbird. So I went to Amazon, ordered a feeder, filled it up. And sure enough,
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It only took a couple of days and there was just a flood of hummingbirds. It was kind of insane at one point. They were, and there would be like at least 10 at a time, just like swirling around this feeder. So then I bought another feeder.
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um and yeah, it's been really fun to watch them and just kind of take some time to slow down and watch the hummingbirds feed.
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ah Sadly, they're not coming back because, you know, it's ah recording this episode, it's October. So according to my research online in my area of the country, they start ah migrating south around this time. yeah,
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I think they're going to be gone. but like this morning, there was one that was there first thing in the morning. so Some of them are still around, but, um, but yeah, so the porch, really fun to decorate, really fun to find plans that fit the vibe of my porch.
Embracing the fall season
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Um, currently it's not totally finished, but like this week, some curtains came in, ah for ah meditation room. It's this extra room. It doesn't have a door.
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So I got beaded curtains for the door and, and There's going to be a couch that's coming soon. and but it will be where guests stay.
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ah But the biggest reason it's there is for... all things relaxation. It's coming together so nicely. I mean, it's just a room of peace and warmness. And him it, oh my God, it fills me up with so much joy. um The office, if you follow me on social media or in my loyal fans, you've definitely seen pictures of my office and I'm just in love with it. It makes me so happy because I spend a lot of time sitting in here. So if I'm going to spend a lot of time somewhere, where I wanted to be
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to be nice, you know. um and then the living room is really coming together with some wall art. It's just all these things make me so happy because I'm a nester and I love, I love being in my spaces and feeling
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just that, just that feeling of this is where I belong type of feeling, you know, and like little things make me happy. so Yeah, it's been really fun settling into the new the new place.
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um Another thing that's been making me very, very happy is my morning routine. I've definitely settled into this new routine that is bringing me so much joy. i mean, I just start my day so fresh. So typically...
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Before I started this routine, i kind of just woke up whenever I wanted to wake up or whenever Lucy wanted me to wake up. And it was never like I was sleeping in really late.
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was usually somewhere between 7 and 8. Well, I decided to start waking up a little bit earlier than that. ah It takes me a very long time to get going. in the morning, just going to tell you, um like, don't ever expect me to talk to you.
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If you know, you see me in the morning, I'm not talking for hours. it just takes me a long time to get going. Cause I sleep so deeply too.
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Um, so anyways, i start my morning with some coffee, let Lucy out. I honestly can't tell you what happens during that first, that first, at least 30 minutes cause I'm half as asleep.
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Um, but once I get going, I, uh, I come upstairs, take a shower and you know, kind of get dressed for the day. And then I go straight down to my now meditation room.
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I light incense light some candles. And then I just sit there and I ground myself. with some journaling, i'm reading a little bit, learning a little bit, and then I end that time with some meditation.
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And after that, ah go take a walk. And then I'm ready to start my day here in my office. And it just is a routine that is so cleansing to my soul.
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it feels so lovely. And I'm just so thankful that I have a job where I can work from home. I'm my own boss. So you know, I don't have that pressure of being here at a certain time, you know, making myself look presentable, ah hopping in the car and, you know, rushing off to work. I'm just very thankful and so grateful that I have a job that allows me to have this really cozy and really deep ah morning routine that
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just is really good for my soul. um Another thing that's been making me very, very happy, and it's coming later than I want, but these little teases of fall, I am so damn ready for it.
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ah I don't enjoy summer at all. I don't like being hot. I don't like the heat. I love fall. I actually don't mind the cold. Like I don't care when it gets cold.
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As long as I bundle up, i'm I'm good, you know. So but fall is just so perfect. There's Just ah almost like magic in the air. it's so cozy. So I'm very thankful for that change of season coming. if you already have fall where you live, I'm so jealous.
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um I'm so ready to see the oranges and the yellows and the reds. It's coming soon. I can feel
Social media challenges and fan connection
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it. I can smell it um So next I'm going to talk about and some of my content and kind of my creative side updates my business stuff.
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I'm just going to kind of ramble on about that now. and So ah one thing I took note here to talk about, and you know, it probably is going to be very good for me to talk about this because it gets out of me, you know, it releases for me. So that's a good thing.
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I am failing at social media and DMs, totally failing at them. um it's in a And I'm working. I'm making little steps to get better at that because it does bother me.
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It bothers me. and Why does it bother me? Well, with the social media, I feel like, you know, I started up Instagram and TikTok with a lot of excitement and then it and then it kind of fell to the wayside because it wasn't in my current systems. And when I say systems, I mean my rhythm, my groove.
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I hadn't set up
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you know, and ah kind of started it and then I didn't bake it into my system is what happened. So, you know, that bothers me that that it started and I'm not not feeding it.
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um And the DMs, those, so that bothers me. Because the last thing I want a fan, and I hate saying that word fan, um the last thing I want someone that follows my work, and especially within my subscription site, loyal fans, the last thing I want them to think is that they're not appreciated, cared for, forgotten, you know, and that's, I guess that's a,
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you know, what is that? What is that feeling? It's the whole, I'm thinking like the golden rule, treat yourself as, um or treat others like you want to treat yourself.
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ah That must be something that sits within me a lot. um Because I shouldn't, I don't know. I don't want to say that I shouldn't care.
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um but I shouldn't let it bother me because I know that most of my people know that that is never the case. I know they are appreciated, but it really does bother me and I can't get to them in timely manners. So, you know, I'm trying to find ways to, to do that. And, um,
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You know, I'm so, if you know me and my business, I am a workhorse. I just, I love creating content. That is where my joy is at. That is where my focus is at all the time.
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And You know, when I spend most of my day doing the CEO type stuff and then doing the content stuff, my brain is just completely drained. I mean, think of a sponge and you've just squeezed every ounce of water out of it. That's my brain.
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And so... At the end of the day, it's like, I just can't, I cannot mentally handle going to that DM. I could, and it'd be pathetic.
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You wouldn't get my best self. And I don't want that, right? And then, you know, I have my own life. i have my own stuff to do. um So that's just always, it's always this thing that I'm that i'm grappling with and always trying to figure out how i can, i can manage those because it's important to me to talk to my fans. It's very important to me, actually.
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I want to always have my fingertips in my fans because there's so many beautiful things that happen in there. They, they,
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support me. They empower me. They, you know, speaking from a business standpoint, there's maybe business in there to take care of, like someone's wants to order a custom, you know, there's that in DMs. And then there's the piece that is so important to me that in my brand, I always want to be someone that is genuine, relatable, and someone that you can easily respect.
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And if I, to me, if I'm am not those things, you know, I don't exude those things, then I'm going to fail because i will definitely have failed myself because I have a vision, I have a purpose and a vibe that I want to exude in my work.
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um and And then you're not going to stick around because I do think that we all want to be seen, you know, at that, that's at the core of, a we just want to be seen. And I want to see you, my fans, I want to see you, I want to know you, you know, but I am one person and there are many people um on the other side. So,
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It's good to talk that out. Thank you for listening to that. And um there's no, listen, there is no need for you to message me and say, it's okay. but You know, I know who you are. i Those of you that are so patient and so understanding, I know, i know i know. I'm not saying this to gather up support or whatever.
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um ah it felt important to me to put it out there. And it definitely is something that is on my mind in terms of, of my business.
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um But let's talk about something a little more exciting. At least it's exciting
Organizing life with Notion
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to me. It's a little darky. But um I use Notion. um it is such a big tool in my business. It's like my little hub for planning and everything.
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um So I i had to reevaluate um my kind of planning piece. I mean, the more I do this, the busier I get.
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and I needed ah notion like I've had several notion templates for like my content planning and I feel like I finally found one that's going to stick.
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So let me see if I can explain it. so you know, if you don't know what Notion is, it's, ah
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I don't even know, like a general thing to call it. It's, a day you have databases within it and people use it for planning. People use it for projects.
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um It's a really neat um software. I don't know if you call it software. Yeah. um Anyway, it's I love it. it's It helps me stay organized. And so I created a database that's for, it's called a task dashboard.
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dashboard And so anything that I need to do day to day, input into there, you know, so I'm going to actually pull it up and talk about just a little examples of what are in there.
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so like right now I have like record so-and-so's personalization, plan social media calendar, Email so-and-so on this topic.
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Set up this new project. gi Draft this. Finish planning. Create this. You know, so like all the little steps that I have day-to-day, that's where it is. And then I have a related, that's the term they use, a notion when two databases are connected.
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So I have this connected database that's called Beatrix Content Calendar where i have where I list content that is being produced um currently or in the future.
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And so the task, I can relate them to each of those pieces of content. And it has a date of when I planned to publish that piece of content.
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And yeah, so it just, it works really wonderfully right now. And now I'm i' figuring out as I go that if it's not, if something is not in that task dashboard, it's not getting done. Because I've definitely been conditioning myself to look at that task dashboard and you know, I look nowhere else. That's where I'm looking.
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And so that, you know, see, this is why it's important to talk things out. Cause I just thought if I put in there answer DMs every day, I'm going to do those because seriously, I've gotten to where it didn't take long. I am now conditioned to rely on my task dashboard to know what to do.
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So, uh, So yeah, I've been really excited about that ah personally.
Recent audio projects
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ah Some recent files that I have pushed, well, not pushed out yet, but did I finish it yesterday?
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Yesterday the day before, I finished a file that is called Shrink for Mommy's Magic Milk. And so this was a custom.
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i have a file called Tit Addict Trance. And a gentleman wanted kind of like a part two, but a little different. And so in Tit Addict Trance, it's basically like you worship my tits. And as you worship them, they get bigger.
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They grow and swell. Super hot concept. And so this particular gentleman wanted the kind of the same a concept in a way. So tit worship. However, instead of my tits getting bigger, you get smaller.
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So it's playing on a little giantist. ah kind of play and then by the end of the file you are reduced down to like an inch tall and I decide that oh well you're just gonna be a little bra pet and I'm gonna stuff you in my bra and you're gonna make my nipple hard all the time um so it's very very fun i loved the concept I love when I get to make magic happen in a file and when I get to be creative that's always so much fun
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um I recently pushed out Transed and Milked by Stripper ah Public. And um I think it's gotten some good reviews. So, um you know, if you haven't heard it, definitely go check it out.
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It's a very strong file. ah It is premature ejaculation, but it is premature. I love this style of premature ejaculation fetish, like where and don't really talk about making you pre-jack.
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Like I use my feminine charms, my devious feminine charms to make you come fast because I'm just that good.
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Like that is such a hot energy. um And so that's what that file is. And i it was so fun to make. And I figured it would be a good file to push out to exhibit my my power as a, you know, erotic hypno artist and my skill with the premature ejaculation Yeah.
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Um, something that has been happening outside of my, my will. And like, I wanted this to be my will, but I hadn't really made any action towards it. It's been happening and it's been making me so fucking excited to see.
Building a Discord community
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So, I have a Discord server and I've always had these hopes and dreams that it would feel like a community and You know, it just never, like, people are there, and I i can tell people are are looking and watching it, but it hasn't, like, had a lot of activity until recently.
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Just all of a sudden, in um i started noticing people interacting in there, like, interacting with each other. And it's been so fucking pleasant to see. Like,
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There's always been this weird thing like so when i have these people that are fans, i I have this little fantasy that I want them all to like like each other and get along and be this little community.
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It's so silly. um But it's almost like I would liken it to how a mother would feel knowing that her children are playing and getting along.
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Like I would liken it to that. Yeah. It's adorable. i love to see it because, i mean, essentially you've got a group of people that, you know, are fans of a content creator. Like, more than likely they would all have the same interests and likes.
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And I'm sorry, i would i would enter a contest if I could – that competed against who has the the best fans because I do.
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Like seriously, i have the best people. They're all so smart. That's what I love about my fans. They're very intelligent. They're very in touch with their, like they're emotionally intelligent as well.
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And they're interesting and caring and just the best, just the absolute best. And so to see them like interacting is making my heart so fucking happy.
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um And it's making me feel, because here's the thing, okay? With DMs, like of course, I don't have time at all to have conversations with people.
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like Like if you were to join my Discord and be like, I really like Beatrix, I'm gonna text her and we're just going to chat. That's never going to happen because I just do not have that time patience, you know, and and I don't need friends like that. I know that sounds totally bitchy, but I don't, you know, like I'm too busy for that. um And I've always had this vision that it would be easier for me to share my personality and my server because that way i get to talk to lots of people at once instead of having lots of DMs.
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So I'm hoping like, you know, it's inspiring me to share myself more and my server besides, you know, posting files and promoting and stuff like it's inspiring me to get in there and you know just kind of be me and socialize with you guys so definitely join the discord server um If you're not in there or come, if you're in there and you haven't really checked in, check in because people are interacting and it's so, I love it.
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I love it so, so much.
Seeking podcast topic suggestions
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and So next thing I wanted to kind of hit on, so kind of my
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the skeleton of these cozy episodes, I put in there ah section for community and engagement. And so for this episode, I just want to mention one thing.
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I want to ask one thing. and want to ask you What do you guys want to hear from the podcast? Because I've been kind of stuck.
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I haven't been inspired by any topics lately. So, you know, let me know there's, you know, a particular kink or just a topic you'd like to hear me talk about.
00:30:05
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on this podcast you know I love to unpack kinks and stuff so you know if there's one that I haven't done let me know you can let me know in the comments of this um podcast episode wherever you're listening to you can let me know in the discord server you can let me know in loyal fans um yeah I'm wanting to know what do you guys want to hear what do you guys want to hear more of I'd love to know if you enjoyed this cozy ah episode where I'm just chatting.
00:30:40
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I'd like to know if you didn't like it. You know, I'm not scared to know if you don't like things, but obviously I want to hear good things. But again, again like if something doesn't work, let me know because that is super, super helpful to know.
00:30:53
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i do like to to mold myself to to what you guys want. ah because that's what this podcast is you know I really don't have to do this I'm gonna be honest I don't make money from this podcast like you know it's not this monetization thing it's
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it's
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It is a way for me to, for one, for you to hear my voice. um Two, it's to bring me closer to you.
00:31:30
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you know So essentially this podcast is for you. So I want to know what you want to hear. And last thing i want to hit I'll let you know what the last section is. It's ah reflections ah or just random thoughts.
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So I do want to leave you with a couple things.
Interest in herbal teas and balancing pleasure
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The first thing is a random thought that I am currently getting into tea, drinking hot tea. I've always liked hot tea.
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um I knew I love peppermint tea. There's just something about it I love. um And I am getting into trying out different herbal teas.
00:32:22
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And it's a good thing for me because I do use my voice. so I'm hoping it can just keep making my voice amazing. um But there's there's a lot of health benefits from from herbal teas that I'm super excited to learn about and to use ah for myself.
00:32:44
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One thing that I've been um trying out is some hibiscus tea. um It just has so many ah wonderful benefits to your health and it's really tangy and tart and delicious.
00:33:03
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um So that's really exciting. That's something I've been learning about recently that, um yeah, I'm thinking about putting a little tea corner in my office so I can have tea throughout the day.
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um The other thing I wanted to pull up for this last like random thought and it really is... a challenge for you to think about.
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i and I'm thinking this may become a podcast episode. i don't know. But I think it's very important for us to find ways to sink into things that make us feel good and so safe ways.
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And what I mean by that is
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It's very, you know, because I live in a world of pleasure. i bring a lot of pleasure to people. And so that big that can become addictive. However, I want you to really think about that. So think about that word addictive, you know, because I hear often your voice is so addicting. i feel addicted to you.
00:34:19
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Okay, so what does that really mean? What is addicting mean? Like, can you live without it? Can you function without it?
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Or are you obsessed with it? um Or do you really like it? You know, so, um but really what I wanted to bring into this was want to start pushing more balance. Balance is so important.
00:34:52
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Especially, especially with these, you know, very intense, deep emotions that erotic hypnosis can bring and it things like gooning and porn.
00:35:06
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You know, of course, I'm going to push feel good. Yeah, keep going. And I'll always push that. But if you feel good and you kept going, as in let's just use gooning as an example, if you spent hours gooning, that i i am so for that. I am so proud of you for that.
00:35:27
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But I hope... I encourage you to balance that with something completely opposite. Take breaks. They're good for you.
00:35:39
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They really are good for you. um You know, and I also am ah big proponent for kink acceptance and, you know, smashing, kink shaming. i we hold so much shame that.
00:36:00
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with um sexuality it's kind of for some of us depending on your age it's like or your religious upbringing it's like pushed into you and it's so deep-rooted to be ashamed of your sexuality to be ashamed that you get turned on and I am so for smashing those things um But I just want you to kind of think about the whole thing with balance, you know, and i I'm thinking about it too and how I can encourage that and my hardcore fans, you know, to practice healthy balance and healthy kink consumption because it's very easy to get lost in the pleasure and to just just keep keep hitting that dopamine button over and over and over again
00:36:51
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um But a lot of something is never good. um taking a lot and then taking a lot of something else so to balance it out so um i'm gonna leave you with that and thank you so much for listening if you've lasted this long i hope you enjoyed this little cozy chat with b i hope to do these like i said once a month now
00:37:23
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And um yeah, just thanks for listening. And and until next time, balanced. And that's a wrap for this episode of The Slut Next Door, where we dive deep into the raw, unapologetic truths of human desire.
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If you loved what you heard today, make sure to subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a juicy moment. Want to connect with me outside the podcast?
00:37:59
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Click the link in my bio where you can find lots of juicy content and options. Until next time, I'm Beatrix Vail, your Slut Next Door, and I'll see you in the next episode.