What You’ll Hear:
Evan explains why there is no shortcut to finding lasting love, despite the appeal of quick fixes like dating apps or matchmaking services.
The powerful metaphor comparing winning the lottery to how most people approach love—and why that strategy rarely works.
Why dating is a skill set that, like any other, requires time, effort, and learning to master.
The hard truth: Many people keep repeating the same dating patterns while hoping for different results.
The story of a woman who overcame fear from an abusive marriage, learned how to date effectively, and is now thriving in the online dating world.
The common mistake of assuming the right app or more dates will magically solve your love life.
The dangers of “interviewing” men on first dates instead of having fun and building connection.
Why it’s essential to develop self-awareness to avoid inadvertently turning men off or sabotaging your chances.
The importance of enjoying dating—if you hate dating, you’re unlikely to succeed at it.
How shifting your mindset about dating from a temporary fix to a sustainable, joyful habit can completely change your results.
A crucial reminder that you are the common denominator in your love life, and you have the power to improve your dating outcomes.
Encouragement to stop chasing shortcuts and start focusing on becoming the best version of yourself to attract better men.
Full Episode Transcript:
Hey, this is Evan Marc Katz, dating and relationship coach for smart, strong, successful women. You’re a personal trainer for love.
Welcome back to the Love U podcast. I’m very excited for today’s episode. We’re not literally talking about ozempic.