Your Biggest Problem In Dating? Fear!

Are you letting fear quietly sabotage your love life? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I uncover how hidden fears—fear of rejection, fear of settling, fear of wasting time—can keep smart, strong, successful women stuck, whether they’re avoiding dating, endlessly swiping, or staying in the wrong relationships. I’ll show you how these fears create paralysis and prevent you from finding the love you deserve. You’ll walk away with practical, mindset-shifting insights to help you date with confidence, trust your judgment, and break free from fear’s grip. If you’re ready to finally move forward, this episode is for you—tune in now.

What You’ll Hear

• Why fear is the most underestimated factor sabotaging your love life
• Common fears women face in dating, from fear of rejection to fear of settling to fear of being alone
• The paralyzing effect of fear and how it keeps women stuck—either by avoiding dating, spinning their wheels, or staying in dead-end relationships
• How fear can lead to self-sabotage by rejecting every man or settling for the wrong one
• Real-life examples of how women let fear outweigh potential happiness and connection
• The hidden cost of not dating, over-rejecting, or staying too long in bad relationships
• How fear shows up in other areas of life (driving, flying, changing jobs) but doesn’t paralyze you the same way it does in dating
• Why you can trust your judgment and develop the skills to confidently eliminate emotionally unavailable men
• The power of believing in your ability to find love and how that changes your dating experience
• How Evan helps women break free from fear, trust men again, and finally get the love they deserve

Full Episode Transcript

Hey, this is Evan Marc Katz, dating and relationship coach for smart, strong, successful women, your personal trainer for love. Welcome back to the Love U podcast where you can learn everything you need to know about dating relationships, sex, and men from a man’s point of view and find a relationship that makes you feel safe, heard, and understood.

Are you sick of those words yet? I sure hope not because they are the ticket to the rest of your life. The reason I do this podcast is because I deeply believe in love. I’m happily married.

It is my chief export in trying to help other people get the thing that I’m so blessed to have.