You slept with him. You got attached. Now you’re stuck trying to “make it work” – even when it’s clearly not working.

In this Love U Podcast, I explain why smart successful women get trapped in long-term relationships with men who never earned their commitment. If you’ve ever felt like the relationship depends entirely on your effort, this episode is your reminder that love shouldn’t be this hard.

You Don’t Have To “Make It Work”

Most men double down when they upset their partner. Evan apologizes — even when he doesn’t think he’s wrong.

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz shares the emotional skill that makes his marriage work — and teaches you how to bring that same maturity into your own love life.

This isn’t about giving in. It’s about leading with empathy, staying connected, and choosing peace over pride, every single time.

I Say I’m Sorry. Even When I’m Right.

You loved him.
You tried everything.
But the relationship still fell apart.

Now he’s back. Promising he’s changed. Saying this time will be different.

In this Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz explains why recycling exes rarely leads to real love — and why it’s better to move forward than revisit what’s already failed.

If you’re caught between hope and history, this episode will help you make the right decision.
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Why You Shouldn’t Recycle Your Ex

Kate had four FaceTime dates scheduled. All four men flaked.


She wasn’t angry at herself. She was just demoralized and ready to give up on dating altogether.


In this Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz shares what happened when Kate took a step back, depersonalized the experience, and flipped the script.


If you’ve ever felt exhausted by the dating scene, this episode will help you reset your expectations and keep moving forward — with compassion and clarity.

When They Flake, Don’t Give Up

The world feels like it’s falling apart: inflation, politics, AI, you name it. But here’s the truth: while you can’t fix the chaos out there, you can build peace and love in your own life.

In this Love U Podcast, I share the inspiring stories of Debra and Jackie — two smart, successful women who stopped doom-scrolling and started focusing on what they could control. Their reward? One got a new boyfriend. The other has a new fiancé.

If you’re tired of anxiety and ready for love, this episode will show you how.

The World’s a Mess. Your Love Life Doesn’t Have to Be.

What does science say about why we love the way we do? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Justin Garcia, Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute and author of The Intimate Animal, to explore the real forces shaping modern relationships.

We talk about how hookup culture has evolved, why Gen Z craves connection more than casual sex, and how dating apps and AI are changing human instincts. If you’ve ever felt like something about dating today feels off, this conversation will help you understand why—and how to navigate it.

🔥 Take my quiz to find out if you’ve been wasting time on the wrong men: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/quiz
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About Today’s Guest:
Justin R. Garcia, PhD, is an award-winning evolutionary biologist and authority on the science of sex and relationships, specializing in modern romance, dating trends, and sexual behavior. He has served as Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University since 2019, where he leads pioneering research and global collaborations. He is widely published in academic journals, he serves an advisor for Match, and frequently contributes to major news outlets such as the New York Times, NPR, and the Wall Street Journal. He is author of The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love.

Where You Can Find Justin:
Website: https://kinseyinstitute.org/about/staff/executive-director-justin-garcia.html
Instagram: DrJustinGarcia
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justingarcia/

The Science of Love – Interview with Dr. Justin Garcia

“There are no good men online.” I know it feels that way. It’s just not the full picture. In this Love U Podcast, I explain how false assumptions are causing you to eliminate great guys before you even get to know them. You’ll learn how dating apps train you to swipe too fast, why minor flaws don’t mean incompatibility, and what happens when you start giving the “6’s” a chance. If you’re tired of feeling frustrated, this episode will help you shift your mindset and start making better choices in love.

Why You’re Ruling Out Good Men Too Quickly

Living apart together sounds like a dream. A committed couple living in separate spaces. More freedom and fewer fights. What could be better? In this Love U Podcast, you’ll learn why this setup appeals to women who’ve been hurt before, how it can feel safer than marriage, and what you might be giving up without realizing it. If you’ve ever thought about having something like a marriage – without the marriage part – this episode casts a few doubts about whether this is ideal as it seems.

Living Apart Together: Does It Really Work?

In this episode, I explain why anxiety is your body’s way of telling you something’s off. Whether you’re walking on eggshells with a new guy or constantly overthinking your partner’s mixed signals, that tension isn’t “normal.” It’s a red flag. You’ll learn the difference between healthy excitement and relationship anxiety, how to know whether the problem is him or you, and what a calm, secure relationship actually feels like. If you’re tired of mistaking butterflies for love (they’re not!), this episode could change everything.

Why Dating Anxiety Is a Bad Sign

Have you ever felt blindsided by a guy who seemed perfect for the first few weeks? He was flirty, attentive, and made you feel special…until you realized all he really wanted was sex.
In this Love U Podcast, I’ll show you how to tell the difference between a man who’s looking for a hookup, a girlfriend, or a future wife. You’ll learn why their early behavior is nearly indistinguishable and how to stop mistaking chemistry for compatibility. If you’re tired of confusing short-term courtship with long-term intention, this episode will give help you start investing in men who are actually investing in you.

The Love U Podcast with Evan Marc Katz