In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I share a coaching story about a woman who broke up with a good boyfriend over an unspoken expectation. Fortunately, she was able to repair things but their disagreement revealed a lot about how her anxiety has dictated many of her past relationship interactions.

I’m not at all defending bad behavior; I’m reminding you that the good men who take on the job of “boyfriend” want to please you but they can’t always do things the way you want. If you’ve ever been frustrated that a man should have known what to do without you actually saying so, this episode will help you communicate with men so they WANT to do better.

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He’s Not a Mind Reader

Are you rejecting yourself before men ever get the chance? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I explain how limiting beliefs can sabotage you.

“I’m a single mom.”
“I’m divorced.”
“I’m too old.”

These thoughts are partially true but they’re not universally true.

Dating isn’t about convincing everyone to want you; it’s about finding one man who loves you unconditionally..
Through real-world examples, I explain why limiting yourself is self-defeating and believing in yourself is the secret sauce to any future partnership.

If you’ve ever assumed some guys are “out of your league,” this episode will challenge you to think bigger.

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Stop Rejecting Yourself

I spend most of my time answering questions about dating and relationships. Today, in this special Ask Me Anything episode of the Love U Podcast, I answer personal questions about my biggest fears, my childhood, my unrealized dreams, and a bunch of questions about being Jewish. If you’ve ever wondered who I am outside of “man who gives dating advice,” this episode shares things that only my wife knows about me. Hope you enjoy.

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Ask Me Anything

Women think they understand rejection. Most men live in it.

In this episode, I get into why men and women experience rejection so differently — and why that gap matters more than most people realize.

Men initiate more. They get ignored more. They absorb visible rejection on repeat.

Women deal with rejection too, and it stings — but because it happens less often, it tends to hit harder when it does.

The episode digs into how sheer exposure shapes the way we handle rejection, and why most of those gut-punch moments have less to do with you and more to do with odds.

Women Don’t Know Anything About Rejection

You slept with him. You got attached. Now you’re stuck trying to “make it work” – even when it’s clearly not working.

In this Love U Podcast, I explain why smart successful women get trapped in long-term relationships with men who never earned their commitment. If you’ve ever felt like the relationship depends entirely on your effort, this episode is your reminder that love shouldn’t be this hard.

You Don’t Have To “Make It Work”

Most men double down when they upset their partner. Evan apologizes — even when he doesn’t think he’s wrong.

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz shares the emotional skill that makes his marriage work — and teaches you how to bring that same maturity into your own love life.

This isn’t about giving in. It’s about leading with empathy, staying connected, and choosing peace over pride, every single time.

I Say I’m Sorry. Even When I’m Right.

You loved him.
You tried everything.
But the relationship still fell apart.

Now he’s back. Promising he’s changed. Saying this time will be different.

In this Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz explains why recycling exes rarely leads to real love — and why it’s better to move forward than revisit what’s already failed.

If you’re caught between hope and history, this episode will help you make the right decision.
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Why You Shouldn’t Recycle Your Ex

Kate had four FaceTime dates scheduled. All four men flaked.


She wasn’t angry at herself. She was just demoralized and ready to give up on dating altogether.


In this Love U Podcast, dating coach Evan Marc Katz shares what happened when Kate took a step back, depersonalized the experience, and flipped the script.


If you’ve ever felt exhausted by the dating scene, this episode will help you reset your expectations and keep moving forward — with compassion and clarity.

When They Flake, Don’t Give Up

The world feels like it’s falling apart: inflation, politics, AI, you name it. But here’s the truth: while you can’t fix the chaos out there, you can build peace and love in your own life.

In this Love U Podcast, I share the inspiring stories of Debra and Jackie — two smart, successful women who stopped doom-scrolling and started focusing on what they could control. Their reward? One got a new boyfriend. The other has a new fiancé.

If you’re tired of anxiety and ready for love, this episode will show you how.

The World’s a Mess. Your Love Life Doesn’t Have to Be.

What does science say about why we love the way we do? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Justin Garcia, Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute and author of The Intimate Animal, to explore the real forces shaping modern relationships.

We talk about how hookup culture has evolved, why Gen Z craves connection more than casual sex, and how dating apps and AI are changing human instincts. If you’ve ever felt like something about dating today feels off, this conversation will help you understand why—and how to navigate it.

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About Today’s Guest:
Justin R. Garcia, PhD, is an award-winning evolutionary biologist and authority on the science of sex and relationships, specializing in modern romance, dating trends, and sexual behavior. He has served as Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University since 2019, where he leads pioneering research and global collaborations. He is widely published in academic journals, he serves an advisor for Match, and frequently contributes to major news outlets such as the New York Times, NPR, and the Wall Street Journal. He is author of The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, and Why We Live and Die for Love.

Where You Can Find Justin:
Website: https://kinseyinstitute.org/about/staff/executive-director-justin-garcia.html
Instagram: DrJustinGarcia
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justingarcia/

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