Can funeral content be funny, entertaining, and even a little outrageous — while still respecting death and the people who are grieving?

This week on The Glam Reaper Podcast, Jennifer sits down with Dan the Funeral Man, funeral director, funeral home owner, and the man bringing urns and caskets to the social media runway.

What started as an attempt to make funeral service more approachable took an unexpected turn when a simple video of Dan walking with an urn went viral. That led to urn fashion shows, colorful caskets, funeral fashions, and eventually a pink casket video viewed millions of times — bringing conversations about death and personal choice to people who may never have willingly engaged with a funeral home before.

Along the way, people who are grieving have found unexpected moments of joy, while others are choosing their urns and talking about their funeral wishes years — hopefully decades — before they’ll ever need them.

Jennifer and Dan also explore a bigger question facing death care: as cremation rises and attitudes toward traditional funerals change, what does the funeral home of the future need to look like?

For Dan, changing funeral service means meeting people where they already are — and yes, sometimes that means TikTok.

PS — did you see when Dan and Jen met in NYC during NYC Fashion (Urn) Week??

Key Topics

• How Dan went from being squeamish around death to becoming a funeral director
• How a viral urn video created Dan the Funeral Man
• Urn fashion shows, colorful caskets, and the 27-million-view pink casket
• Whether humor belongs in funeral service
• Criticism from within the funeral profession
• Using social media to make conversations about death less intimidating
• Direct cremation and the future of funeral homes

Quotes from the Episode

“This is changing death care for the good, for the future.”
— Dan the Funeral Man

“It’s not always thankful work, but it is compassionate work.”
— Jennifer Muldowney



Timestamps:

[01:42] How Dan Became “The Funeral Man”: Dan shares how his grandmother’s death sparked his curiosity about funeral service and led to his first job inside a funeral home.

[05:03] Dan recalls staying up all night to reconstruct a young man so his mother could see her son the way she remembered him.

[07:49] Dan shares his journey through different funeral homes and how he eventually fulfilled his goal of owning Stark Memorial Funeral Home.

[14:18] Dan explains why he created Dan the Funeral Man to reach younger people, make death care less intimidating, and show a different side of funeral directors.

[17:40] From Urns to a 27-Million-View Pink Casket: What started as a few urn videos grew into a full runway, with Dan’s pink casket walk taking his social media presence to another level.

[27:23] Dan reveals why being called “just a salesman” by another funeral director bothered him and explains the real reason he started showcasing urns online.

[31:57] Dan discusses the rise of direct cremation, changing attitudes toward traditional funerals, and why funeral homes will need to adapt to survive.



Connect with Dan the Funeral Man
Website: https://www.starkmemorial.com/
Instagram: @danthefuneralman
TikTok: @danthefuneralman
Email: Dan@danthefuneralman.com



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The Mortician Who Made Urns Fashionable: Dan the Funeral Man on Death, Humor and Going Viral

How different can funerals really be from one country to the next?

After meeting Federico during her travels through Europe, Jennifer Muldowney brings the conversation to The Glam Reaper Podcast for a fascinating look at how death care works across borders. Federico, General Manager of Funeral Pass, shares what happens when someone dies away from home and the work involved in bringing them back to their country.

Jennifer and Federico then take us inside Italian funeral culture, where even neighboring cities can handle death differently. They explore why funeral homes are still limited in places like Rome, how the process differs in Milan, and why Catholic traditions remain deeply connected to Italian funerals. 

But underneath all these differences is a shared question: how do we want to be remembered? Federico reflects on his own wishes and why, despite working in the funeral industry, he would choose a personal, non-religious ceremony for himself. 



Key Topics:

-How international repatriation brings loved ones home after death abroad
-Why funeral traditions can differ so much across Italy and Spain
-Why funeral homes are still uncommon in parts of Italy
-How culture and religion continue to shape Italian funerals
-Why Federico believes funerals should celebrate the life of the person



Quotes from the episode:

“For the person that lost the loved one in a different country, it is a difficult moment.”
— Federico



“It didn’t matter if you were atheist or didn’t believe in God. If you died, you automatically went to church.”
— Jennifer Muldowney



Timestamps:

[01:25] What Happens When Someone Dies Abroad?: Federico introduces Funeral Pass and explains how his team handles international repatriation, helping bring loved ones home after a death overseas.

[03:42] Where International Repatriation Happens Most: Federico shares the countries and regions his team works with most, from Europe and the United States to South America and Africa.

[05:04] Why Language Matters When a Loved One Dies Abroad: Federico explains how speaking multiple languages helps families navigate unfamiliar laws, cultures, and emotions during an already difficult time.

[10:06] Why Funerals Work Differently in Italy: Jennifer and Federico explore Italy’s unique death care system and why traditional funeral homes are still uncommon in some parts of the country.

[16:26] What Happens After Someone Dies in Rome?: Federico walks through the process, from keeping the body at the hospital or home to the viewing, church ceremony, and burial.

[24:17] Why Most Italian Funerals Still Happen in Church: Federico explains how Catholic tradition continues to shape funerals in Italy, even as more families begin exploring personal and non-religious ceremonies.

[26:08] When Tradition Matters More Than Personal Belief: Federico shares how some families still choose a church funeral even when the person who died was not religious.

[30:38] Jennifer turns the question on Federico, asking what he would choose for himself after years of working in death care.



Connect with Federico Fabozzi:

Websites - www.funeralpass.com

Email: info@funeralpass.it



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When Death Happens Far From Home: International Repatriation, Funeral Traditions and Grief

What happens when someone challenges a funeral law that limits what families can be told about their options?

In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Lauren, a community death care advocate who found herself at the center of a legal fight over death care in Indiana. 

Lauren also shares the story behind the complaint that led to an investigation and a cease-and-desist order telling her to either become a licensed funeral director or stop her work. Instead of walking away, she connected with the Institute for Justice and challenged Indiana’s restrictions on First Amendment grounds. 

Lauren explains why she believes grief and love are two sides of the same coin and raises an important question about whether using AI to recreate loved ones could change the way we experience loss.



Key Topics:

-The Indiana funeral law that limited conversations about death care options

-How a cease-and-desist became a First Amendment legal battle

-What Lauren’s legal victory could mean for choice in death care

-Why grief and love are deeply connected

-How AI could change the way we experience grief and loss



Quotes from the episode:



“Grief and love are twin sides of the same coin. You love deeply, and then the price of that is grieving deeply.”

— Lauren



“We’re not here to police people on death and dying and grief. We are here to educate.”

— Jennifer Muldowney





Timestamps:

[01:21] Why “Death Doula” Doesn’t Fully Fit: Lauren explains why she prefers “community death care advocate” and why community matters so much in death care.

[05:51] Why Death Doulas and Funeral Directors Sometimes Clash: Lauren breaks down the tension between the regulated funeral industry and the more grassroots world of death doulas.

[08:51] Why Death Care Isn’t Just for Professionals: Lauren challenges the idea that caring for the dying and dead should belong only to professionals.

[13:43] Funeral Directors Aren’t the Villains: Jennifer pushes back on the narrative that funeral directors are the “bad guys” while death doulas are automatically seen as the caring alternative.

[19:23] When Funeral Laws Take Away Choice: Lauren explains how costs and legal requirements can leave grieving families with fewer options than they realize.

[20:12] The Indiana Law That Changed Everything: Lauren reveals how state law restricted who could talk about cremation, green burial, funeral costs, and other end-of-life choices.

[25:05] How It Became a First Amendment Fight: Lauren’s search for help connected her with the Institute for Justice and turned her case into something much bigger.

[28:46] What Needs to Change in Death Care Now: After the legal battle, Lauren explains why she wants more collaboration between funeral professionals and community death workers.



[32:49] Making Death Care Less Intimidating: Lauren introduces the Shroud Doll, a hands-on tool designed to make shrouding easier to understand and learn.





Connect with Lauren Richwine:

Websites - https://deathdonedifferently.com/

Email: lauren@deathdonedifferently.com



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She Was Told to Stop Talking About Death—So She Took the State to Court

What happens when the people who care for grieving families are carrying trauma of their own?

In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Michael from Funeral Professional Peer Support for an open conversation about the mental health challenges that often go unseen in funeral service. Michael shares his own story of childhood trauma, depression, PTSD, and the moment he finally reached out for help after years of struggling in silence.

They also explore the emotional weight funeral professionals carry from responding to traumatic deaths and then supporting the families left behind. Michael explains why this work can stay with you, why finding therapists who truly understand funeral service can be difficult, and how peer support can give professionals a place to talk with people who understand what they experience.



Key Topics:

-Why mental health struggles often go unseen in the funeral profession

-How unresolved trauma can affect someone years later

-Why asking for help can become a turning point in recovery

-The emotional weight funeral professionals carry while caring for grieving families

-Why funeral professionals need mental health support from people who understand their work





Quotes from the episode:



“When you start talking to people, you realize you’re not the only one.”

— Michael



“Funeral professionals have to take care of themselves while taking care of others.”

— Jennifer Muldowney





Timestamps:



[03:31] Why Mental Health Can Feel So Isolating: Michael reflects on realizing that the struggles he thought were his alone were being experienced by people around the world.



[04:13] The Personal Story Behind Michael's Mission: Michael opens up about childhood trauma, substance abuse, and the mental health struggles he carried for decades.



[09:11] The Gaps in Mental Health Support: After being diagnosed with depression and PTSD, Michael explains why finding the right professional help was surprisingly difficult.



[17:43] Why Trauma Can Lead People to Helping Professions: Michael and Jennifer explore why people with difficult pasts may feel drawn to careers centered on helping others.



[21:06] What Recovery Looks Like Years Later: Michael shares the tools he now uses to manage anxiety and difficult days while continuing his healing.



[27:07] The Trauma Funeral Professionals Carry: Michael explains how funeral professionals face traumatic deaths and then continue supporting the families left behind.



[36:17] Who Takes Care of Funeral Professionals: The conversation turns to burnout and the emotional burden of constantly caring for others through their darkest moments.



[39:45] Why the Funeral Profession Needs to Change: Michael challenges the idea that funeral professionals should simply endure trauma and keep going as if nothing is wrong.





Connect with Michael Dixon:

Websites - www.funeralprofessionalspeersupport.com

Email: partnersottawachair@gmail.com



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When the Caregiver Needs Care Mental Health in the Funeral Profession

Can families really care for a loved one at home after death, and what exactly is a green burial?

In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Fawn from Glendale Nature Preserve to explore one of the fastest-growing movements in modern death care. Fawn explains what green burial really means, how it allows the body to return naturally to the earth, and why more families are looking for environmentally conscious alternatives to traditional funerals. She also shares the remarkable story behind Glendale, one of the first green burial preserves in the United States, and how it helped inspire the growth of hundreds of similar sites across North America.

Jennifer and Fawn discuss the role of funeral directors, the value of home funerals for some families, and how green burial offers both a meaningful and affordable alternative while supporting land conservation.



Key Topics:

-What green burials are and why more families are choosing them
-How home funerals work and when families can care for a loved one themselves
-Why understanding funeral laws helps families make informed decisions
-How green burials provide a more affordable and environmentally friendly alternative
-The importance of pre-planning your funeral and documenting your final wishes





Quotes from the episode:

"We're not promised tomorrow. Working in the death care industry, I can tell you it can come at any moment.

-Fawn



"People are afraid of just planning. They think they're going to last forever."

— Jennifer Muldowney





Timestamps:

[01:39] Inside One of America's First Green Burial Preserves: Fawn introduces Glendale Nature Preserve and shares how it became one of the first green burial sites in the United States, helping pave the way for hundreds of similar locations across North America.

[03:37] What a Green Burial Really Looks Like: Fawn explains how green burials allow the body to naturally return to the earth without embalming, metal caskets, or burial vaults while helping restore native ecosystems.

[08:25] When You Don't Need a Funeral Director: Fawn explains how, in Florida, families can legally care for and transport a loved one themselves by following the required paperwork and legal process.

[14:39] The Unexpected Story Behind Starting a Green Burial Preserve: Glendale's founder shares how preserving a family farm eventually grew into one of America's pioneering conservation cemeteries.

[20:04] Choosing Your Final Resting Place in Nature: Rather than assigning numbered plots, Glendale allows families to choose meaningful locations throughout the preserve based on personal connection to the landscape.

[26:14] Why Every Adult Should Have an End-of-Life Plan: Fawn explains why creating a will, documenting funeral wishes, and organizing important information can make life much easier for loved ones.

[27:13] The Biggest Reason People Avoid Pre-Planning: Jennifer and Fawn discuss why so many people delay preparing for death despite having free resources available, and why taking action today matters.





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Websites - glendalenaturepreserve.org

Email: hendricksfawn@gmail.com



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Planning for Death Is One of the Greatest Gifts You Can Leave Behind

What makes a meaningful funeral or memorial service, and why are more families choosing celebrants to help tell their loved one's story?

In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with funeral celebrant, retreat facilitator, and spiritual counselor Rev. DiAnna Ritola to explore the deeply personal work of guiding people through grief, remembrance, and healing. DiAnna shares how growing up around funeral homes shaped her relationship with death, how she found her calling as a celebrant, and why honoring every part of a person's story matters more than creating a "perfect" service.

Jennifer and DiAnna discuss why vulnerability is essential during grief, the unique challenges celebrants face, and how collaboration helps families navigate one of life's most difficult moments with compassion and authenticity.



Key Topics:

-Why personalized funerals create more meaningful goodbyes

-The importance of pre-planning your final wishes

-How funeral celebrants help families heal through storytelling

-Psychedelic therapy and its role in end-of-life care

-The legacy we leave through the stories people tell about us





Quotes from the episode:

"If you know your time is limited, you get the chance to prepare to meet the unknown."

— DiAnna Ritola



"Why then do you leave your final chapter to be written by somebody else?"

— Jennifer Muldowney



Timestamps:

[01:43] DiAnna introduces her work as a funeral celebrant, retreat host, spiritual counselor, and psychedelic therapist, sharing how each role supports people through life's biggest transitions.



[04:58] DiAnna discusses her training as an end-of-life doula and why psychedelic-assisted therapy is emerging as a powerful tool for people facing terminal illness.



[06:27] Jennifer shares the excitement around her upcoming Ireland retreat while discussing the growing interest in healing-focused retreat experiences.



[09:17] DiAnna shares how becoming an interfaith minister unexpectedly led her into officiating weddings, funerals, and celebrations of life.



[14:16] DiAnna explains how allowing families to be vulnerable during funeral services creates opportunities for healing and genuine support.



[17:18] Jennifer discusses the importance of pre-planning to ensure people are remembered according to their identity, wishes, and authentic life.



[20:27] Jennifer shares real examples of why documenting your wishes can prevent unnecessary conflict and ensure your voice is honored after death.



[21:02] DiAnna explains how seasonal gatherings, rituals, and community create space for women to reconnect, heal, and support one another.



[23:25] DiAnna shares how she works alongside individuals to design meaningful ceremonies tailored to their unique life challenges and healing journeys.



[26:12] Jennifer and DiAnna reflect on why supporting families through life's most emotional moments remains one of the most meaningful careers they could imagine





Connect with Rev. DiAnna Ritola at:

Websites - Diannaritola.com
Email: Revdianna@diannaritola.com





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What Will They Say About You When You're Gone?

What does a death doula actually do, and why are more families turning to them during some of life’s most difficult moments?



In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with death doula Nicole to explore the growing role of death doulas in end-of-life care. Nicole shares her journey from a career in human resources to supporting individuals and families through the dying process after experiencing the loss of her mother and aunt. She explains what a death doula does, how the role differs from medical professionals, and why emotional support can be just as important as physical care.



The conversation dives into legacy work, difficult family conversations, caregiving, hospice support, and the challenges families often face when navigating death. Nicole also opens up about her earliest experiences around death, how those moments shaped her calling, and why helping people find comfort, connection, and peace at the end of life has become her life's work.



Jennifer and Nicole also discuss the evolving place of death doulas within the funeral industry, the growing need for end-of-life support as populations age, and the importance of creating space for every professional involved in helping families through loss. 



Key Topics:

-What a death doula actually does and how they support families

-Why Nicole left corporate HR to follow a calling in end-of-life care

-The importance of legacy work and preserving family stories

-Why end-of-life caregiving takes a village of support

-How unresolved relationships can affect the dying process

-The growing role of death doulas in modern funeral care





Quotes from the episode:



“If you’ve never been with a dying or deceased person, how can you call yourself a death doula?”

— Jennifer Muldowney



“It takes a village to raise a child. The same could be said for taking care of a dying loved one.”

— Nicole Hoover





Timestamps:

[01:08] From HR to Death Doula

Nicole shares how losing her mother and aunt pushed her to leave corporate life and follow a calling she never expected.



[06:44] Nicole explains how simple words like “you’re loved and supported” can bring comfort at the end of life.



[08:44]Nicole talks about legacy work and why families should preserve stories before it’s too late.



[13:09] Jennifer asks a bold question about experience, training, and what should really qualify someone for this work.



[14:39] Nicole explains why families need more than medical care when someone they love is near the end.



[18:43] Nicole shares her early experience in a nursing home and how it shaped the way she sees death today.



[23:15] Jennifer and Nicole discuss the hard truth about getting paid for work that is deeply emotional and personal.



[25:01] Nicole opens up about the very different deaths of her mother and aunt, and what those experiences taught her.





Connect with Nicole Hoover at:

Websites - www.deathdoulanicole.com

Email: Nicole@deathdoulanicole.com





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Why More Families Are Turning to Death Doulas for End of Life Support

In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Lauren Carroll to explore the growing world of psilocybin and its role in healing, grief work, and end-of-life care. Lauren shares how an unexpected health diagnosis led her to try psilocybin for the first time and how that experience became a turning point in both her personal life and professional path.



Lauren opens up about the emotional journey she experienced, the fears she carried about her children and mortality, and how psilocybin helped her process grief in a completely new way. 



This conversation goes beyond mushrooms and psychedelics. It explores trauma, personal transformation, spirituality, ancestral connection, and the ways people search for meaning when faced with loss, fear, and uncertainty. 





Key Topics:



-Psilocybin and its role in grief and healing

-How a health diagnosis changed Lauren’s life

-What happens during a guided psilocybin retreat

-The connection between trauma, fear, and emotional release

-Why mushrooms are gaining attention in end-of-life care





Quotes from the episode:



“Crying is a form of relief.”

— Jennifer Muldowney



“When you’re a healed person, it’s a lot harder to have somebody control you.”

— Lauren Carroll







Timestamps:



[02:18] The Diagnosis That Changed Everything: Lauren shares how a health scare led her to explore psilocybin for grief, fear, and healing.



[03:01] The Journey That Changed Her Life: Lauren describes how her first psilocybin retreat opened a new path in her work and personal life.



[04:14] Psilocybin and End of Life Care: Lauren explains how she hopes to support people facing death, grief, and major life transitions.



[07:55] What Happens During a Retreat: Lauren walks through the retreat process, including support, care, and integration.



[10:47] Can Someone Leave Unchanged?: Lauren shares why even difficult journeys can lead to deep healing.



[15:21] Facing the Fear of Leaving Her Children: Lauren opens up about the fears that surfaced during her own journey.



[18:49] Why Lauren Dedicated Her Life to This Work: She explains why psilocybin became a major part of her mission.



[21:59] Where Psilocybin Is Legal Today: Lauren discusses the current legal landscape and growing interest in this work.



[25:21] Why Mushrooms and Death Work Connect: Lauren shares how mushrooms relate to decomposition, ancestors, and transformation.



[28:25] The Power of Microdosing: Lauren explains how smaller doses may support daily emotional well-being.



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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/la-mort/





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What Psilocybin Can Teach Us About Death, Connection, and Letting Go

In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with André Archimbaud to talk about losing both of his parents just hours apart during the early days of the pandemic. Andre shares the story of moving to Austin with the hope of caring for his mother and father, only to realize within days that their time was much shorter than anyone expected.

What followed was a painful and deeply human goodbye. André opens up about being by their side in their final hours, reconnecting with family over the phone, sorting through their home, and carrying the weight of two losses at once. He also reflects on the years of family distance, the late-night text that helped him reconnect with his father, and the love letters that helped him understand his parents in a new way.

André’s story invites us to think about reconciliation, forgiveness, and whether the distance we hold onto is really worth the time we might lose.



Key Topics:

-Reconnecting with family after years of distance and unresolved conflict
-Losing both parents within hours of each other during the pandemic
-The emotional weight of regret, forgiveness, and second chances
-What grief teaches us about love, family, and reconciliation
-Finding meaning and healing through memories left behind



Quotes from the episode:

“Grief does not end. It’s a lifelong journey.”
— Jennifer Muldowney



“Grief is a moving target, and there are times when it is really on top of you.”
— André Archimbaud



Timestamps:

[02:00] Reconnecting at the End: Andre shares how he reunited with his parents after years of family distance and moved to Austin to help care for them during the pandemic

[05:10] Realizing Time Was Running Out: Within days of arriving, Andre discovers his father's health was far worse than expected and that both parents were nearing the end of life.

[08:05] A Final Moment of Clarity: Andre reflects on his mother's remarkable lucidity during her last days despite years of serious illness.

[10:26] A Beautiful Goodbye Amid Tragedy: Family members share memories, stories, and support during an emotional 15-hour vigil as both parents approached death.

[17:18] Searching for the Rosetta Stone: Andre explains how he hoped to uncover the secret behind his parents' decades-long marriage despite its many challenges.

[23:50] Rebuilding a Relationship Before It Was Too Late: Andre reflects on the final months he spent reconnecting with his father and understanding his parents in a new way.

[29:35] Bringing Them Home Together: Andre shares how his family organized a joint funeral in New Jersey and fulfilled his parents' wish to be laid to rest together.

[34:15] Grief Is a Moving Target: Andre reflects on how grief changes over time, appearing in unexpected moments years after a loss.

[36:05] Reconciliation Starts Within: Andre closes by sharing how healing requires not only reconnecting with others but also confronting your own choices and regrets.





Connect with André Archimbaud at:
Websites - https://clearlynowmedia.com/
Email: aaa@clearlynowmedia.com



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25 Years Apart: Family, Regret, and One Final Reunion

What happens when losing a pet feels like losing part of yourself?

In this episode, Jennifer Muldowney sits down with Adam Greenbaum, founder of Love Baxter, to talk about the kind of grief people often struggle to explain out loud. Adam shares the story of Baxter, the dog who stayed beside him through the hardest years of his life, from building a company to the quiet moments most people never see. When Baxter suddenly became sick, Adam and his wife spent months fighting to save him, only to lose him days after being told he had “beaten” his illness.

What makes this conversation powerful is not just the story of Baxter. It’s the reminder that pets become part of our routines, our identity, and our emotional safety. They are there through loneliness, stress, heartbreak, and joy without judgment or conditions. And when they’re gone, the silence they leave behind can change everything.



Key Topics:

-Why losing a pet can feel as painful as losing a family member

-Building emotional support systems for people grieving the loss of a pet

-The hidden reality of pet grief that most people do not talk about

-Creating better guidance and resources for families facing pet loss

-Understanding the deep emotional bond between humans and their pets



Quotes from the episode:

“There’s no funeral, there’s no blueprint, there’s no community rallying around you when your pet dies.”

— Jennifer Muldowney



I spent my whole life trying to be good enough… and in that moment, I realized I already was.

— Adam Greenbaum





Timestamps:

[02:24] Baxter’s Rescue Story: Adam shares how he found Baxter in a neglected home and brought him into his life.



[05:13] Fighting to Save Baxter: Adam opens up about Baxter’s final months, the costly treatments, and the heartbreak of losing him days after being told he was okay.



[08:04] Why Love Baxter Exists: Adam explains how he built Love Baxter to connect grieving pet owners with support, guidance, and trusted resources.



[10:23] When Pet Owners Are Left Alone: Adam talks about the gap between saying pets are family and actually supporting families after loss.



[12:03] Why Pet Grief Feels So Invisible: Jennifer and Adam discuss how pet loss often comes without leave, rituals, or community support.



[19:20] Turning Pain Into Purpose: Jennifer and Adam talk about helping grieving families because the work truly matters.



[29:13] Listening Before Selling: Adam shares why death care should start with understanding the family, not pushing services.



[34:46] Helping Children Through Pet Loss: Adam reveals that many families search for guidance on how to help kids grieve a pet.



[36:56] Honoring a Pet the Right Way: Adam ends with a reminder that saying goodbye to a beloved pet should be handled with care.



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Websites - lovebaxter.com

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When Losing a Pet Feels Like Losing Family

Jennifer Muldowney (@muldowj2) · Zencastr

Jennifer Muldowney (@muldowj2)

The Glam Reaper podcast is about telling human stories of life, love and loss through the lens of the funeral world. Without death we never lived. The existence of grief proves love also existed and through life and love we experience loss. We want to tell YOUR story. Reach out to us: www.theglamreaperpodcast.com