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Speaker: That's why he's just like pushing them those pleated pants to the to the breaking point is busting out those pleats. He's he's catching printing those pleats, dude.
Speaker: He is, um honestly, I think a lot of the the fluid, and I think a lot of his weight um is attributed to the fluid in his ankles. Yeah, or the typess of fluid down there.
Speaker: Or the diarrhea. That's just being held barely in place by a, ah you know, a totally saturated depends. His nappies.
Speaker: He's basically sitting on a waterbed at all times.
Speaker: Hey everybody, welcome to another episode of growing up Christian. I'm Sam. I'm Casey. And I got some life updates. You're familiar, you know, a little bit. I'll share with the, the, uh, listenership. Um, I've had a fucking roller coaster of a couple of the past week and a half. Um,
Speaker: So two weeks ago on a Wednesday, I received an email from a social worker for one of my, for a student that I worked with last year.
Speaker: And i had kind of helped facilitate the move from our school to a new school when his, um, when this kid's, uh, track is changed from reunification with mom to, adoption.
Speaker: Um, he was in DCF custody and there's, um I'll spare a lot of the personal details for the sake of, you know, no i don't I don't want to get in the weeds. um Not that it would be, not that I'd mention names, but oh i'll I'll refrain, I think. um But lot of issues um on mom's side, lot of challenges, I should say. And DCF had moved from a goal of reunifying them with
Speaker: His mom, he was a first grader last year. He's going into second grade this year. um And and place we're replacing him with a pre-adoptive family. um That family seemed wonderful. I had a lot of interaction with them while we prepared to...
Speaker: change his school and have him be introduced to this family stuff like that. So that all happened. I forget i don't even remember when, uh, sometime in the second half of the school year last year.
Speaker: And two weeks ago, I got an email asking to talk about the student and that social worker, had asked asked me over the phone if I'd be interested in fostering this kid because they've changed his track back to reunification.
Speaker: um That's super rare, very unusual. I have a lot of questions still about why that would happen. um that's usually a fairly That's usually a permanent decision because that's a bit of a roller coaster ride for seven-year-old to be like,
Speaker: hey, this is going to be your new family. You're never allowed to like live with your mom again. to Just kidding. ah This family that you've been living with for months and months and months actually isn't going to be your forever home.
Speaker: We're going to replace you with your mom at some point. And... um I don't know. i'm dode it's It's a lot. um But anyway, of course, they reached out because I have I have said on multiple occasions when students have been emergency removed from their homes that I would take them so they could go with a familiar person.
Speaker: i had considered but my wife and I had considered for a while getting back into foster care. But You know, I had a baby a year ago. of That's, you know, having a baby's a thing that takes up time and effort and resources and energy.
Speaker: um CPS tries to avoid this option because Sam's house is a kill shelter. Yeah. You know, my kids are ah nine. My oldest is almost 11.
Speaker: la And then my my other foster son is 23. He still is me. He's he's my kid, too. um So, yeah, um I was. But we said yes, of course. And he moved in a week ago today.
Speaker: And it's just i it's been a very draining process. seven days. and he's great. This kid's great. He's getting along so well with my kids.
Speaker: But there's just stuff that you don't even think about as like having to sort through. um You know, I was his school adjustment counselor. My relationship with him and it was in a professional level was very supportive and whatever. like that He only saw a particular side of me, which is someone who didn't lose their patience, who kept it cool, who.
Speaker: would like, you know, emotionally supportive, things like that. And of course, that's my goal in life is to be that way. ah But At home, things are different. And I'm different with my kids like with my kids. Like, you know, my son might be goofing off. I'm like, what are you doing? And I'll just kind of, like, be abrasive in the way that I talk. Because anyone who listens to me here knows that I can be abrasive in the way that I talk.
Speaker: It's just what I do. And so no one in my, none of my kids ever think anything of it. And I'm noticing, like, I'll be like, I'll say something to one of my kids to the effect of knock it off or,
Speaker: what are you doing? Or I'll just be sarcastic with them and make fun of them a little bit. And he kind of looks at me with like these, what is this guy doing face? Like, and I'm like, when you have another kid in the middle, you're like, i want him to feel like part of the family. I don't want him to feel different, but we don't have a really, like we're shifting from, you know, me being his adjustment counselor where I was always calm and cool and, in and, and, ah that's the word I'm looking for.
Speaker: o Punctual? it's Yeah, sure. No, it was somewhat impersonal, right? Like, he doesn't really get to know me. My job is to get to know these kids and understand how they like how their brains function and and what they need and how i can support them in school. So, like, it's a very one-way street for the most part. Like, I build relationships with the kids, but not in the not the same way you do when someone lives in your house and sees you...
Speaker: Yelling at your kids jokingly. And then he's just like, I've never heard this guy yell in my life. ah Like, I don't yell at school. Sometimes I'll get like, I don't really yell at my kids. My kids don't think I yell at them either. But like, just typical dad shit. You know, I get grumpy. I say things like I'm grumpy sometimes. And he doesn't spank, but he does pinch. Yeah. So anyway, it's just, it's weird to throw something new into the mix. Cause you're just like, I'm trying to like, I want my kids to feel like everything's normal. I don't want them to feel like I'm, you know, and then acting different just cause someone moved in and making it feel like things aren't the same anymore. Cause that's hard on them. But I want this boy to feel like,
Speaker: like part of the family but you got to ease them into it and also like you know normal house our normal house rules and expectations are unfamiliar to him uh i don't have to tell my kids what to do really other than go to bed like my kids are great kids they don't fight they understand like oh if i want to play video games i need to ask sometimes i say no they say okay can i use my tablet no you've had enough screens go outside and play that kind of stuff Uh, and then you bring in a new kid and like, I come down and that's like six in the morning. He's just like play already playing, playing video games and shit. And then you're just like, what are you doing? Like, why are you up so early? Uh, in this house, we asked to play video games, which is might sound silly to some people. I don't know, but, um, it,
Speaker: My kids don't play too much. Like they'll never like play for like they're never going to sit down and play for six hours straight. This kid will. This kid will sit down and play video games for six hours straight if you let them and never go outside.
Speaker: But as soon as you make him turn it off, he goes and plays Legos with my kids for three hours and you don't hear from them. So like, it's just weird having to like sort, almost sort out in your own head what your house rules are. Cause I don't have to think about them. They've just naturally come to an understanding that this is the expectations around here.
Speaker: um And that's you kind of by accident to some degree, because i don't have kids that I've had to like enforce strict rules with because they just do things. they're just good kids that do what they're told. So it's, it's, it's been a lot.
Speaker: ah It's been, you know, and I started work back up too. So now I'm like, roll it into the school year so anyway that's it that's uh apparently a 10 minute update uh but it's been a fucking roller coaster that's for sure you always find a way to add another thing i i know it's crazy it's about time for a new pet yeah i draw the line there uh jill's begging me for like always asking to oh what if we got a main coon cat now I'm like, well, that I support.
Speaker: i So that's where I'm like, I i kind of do want one because they're cool. They are cool. They're like a few thousand dollars. And so I'm kind of like, look, we can get another free cat.
Speaker: But if you want a Maine Coon, that's more of like a dog replacement animal. When one of our dogs dies, we can talk about replacing it with a Maine Coon and and then and then not getting a second dog until the Maine Coon dies 20 years later.
Speaker: Yeah, I'm more of the type to like, let's get a Maine Coon, which means let's go online and find ah ah unlicensed breeder who sells cats with Maine Coon-like traits.
Speaker: $300. a hundred dollars yeah my ah My cat that died a little over a year ago was very Maine Coon looking. Like like that that real like fluffy furry chest thing. All gray. like it All of his features were... it just looked like a miniature Maine Coon.
Speaker: um it's Super friendly in the way that like a Maine Coon usually is. You know you throw a ball for him and he gets it and brings it back kind of shit. A lot of those characteristics. But he was small. so i mean Possibly some of it in there, but I don't know.
Speaker: Our cats right now, their favorite thing is to like find a cicada and bring it in and give it to them. And they just go nuts chasing it all over. Oh, God. I can't believe you would bring one into your house like that.
Speaker: Why? Because they have sticky feet. That's true. I forgot you have sticky feet. Ugh. I It's funny because they'll pick it up and it starts screaming, you know, but it's like in their mouth.
Speaker: So you can just hear it as they're waddling away going. who i can't. Once bugs are big enough where if you like where you where they actually bleed, like I know they if you squash them, like if you squash an ant, you're just like, whoops.
Speaker: like once they're big enough to like pop, you know, when you feel, it when you would feel yeah that pop, like when you apply the right amount of pressure intentionally be and then they explode, like, and you shatter their exoskeleton. That's just, once bugs are big enough to just like actually like leave a blood trail, I'm out. Say ow.
Speaker: Yeah. I don't, that's like, if I was like anywhere where tarantulas exist, right? I, i there's i don't think i could kill one i don't think i could kill a tarantula if i had if i had to i guess i'd figure it out but like the idea of stomping out something with that much body mass is horrifying to me yeah you halfway expect it to go oh god yeah it feels too close to like stomping on a chipmunk
Speaker: The only ones that I'll like actively kill are brown recluses. We have it's that time of year. So there's a lot of brown recluses here. Oh, you have brown recluse season. That's terrible.
Speaker: Yeah, there's a lot in my garage right now. Really? Every time you move something, you got to look and make sure because they're everywhere. Have you been bitten by one? I don't know. If I have, then I didn't react to it.
Speaker: Yeah, i buy um our assumption is that my brother-in-law got bit by one. This is probably 10 years ago, but... um And it did that like – it got that like black circle in the middle. and then it Yeah, like necrosis. Yeah, and then it it started to expand. It ended up being over like getting over the size of like a silver dollar, and it was completely swollen, big like welt around it. It was it was disgusting.
Speaker: That's like the plot of – there's a Frank Peretti book where if you had sex, you'd get a big – oozing black sore over your heart and it would just get bigger and nastier until finally a dragon ate you are you serious yeah but it's called the oath that's what the oath was yeah that was a that was a book about abstinence I remember the main character gets the big mark over his heart, which is like an omen, like, oh, the dragon's coming for you or whatever. so he just rebranded the Scarlet Letter.
Speaker: Yeah, pretty much. Cool. It's the Scarlet Letter, but with dragons. Yeah, the pussy hole. It's the Game of Thrones version of Scarlet Letter. You basically got an necrotic poison sumac. Yeah.
Speaker: That's so dumb, dude. I think my mom had that book. i i I feel like I remember the oath being out on our coffee table or something at some point. um I didn't know it was... ah like i didn What's that? There was a movie that came... I don't remember the name of it.
Speaker: But it was just one of those... It was just it was a movie where if you had... Like it was like, Oh, it follows. Yeah, it follows. Yeah. That's a good movie. It was great, but it just feels like a shittier version of that because they like make it about the ethics of sex rather than just an interesting story.
Speaker: Yeah. Well, leave it to, uh, leave it to the crew. Yeah. Find a way to make it lame and dumb. I read, i can't remember if i mentioned this before. I read a book,
Speaker: It was like i was 21, 22, probably 20. Yeah, I would have been like 21 at the time um on recommendation. It was a Christian author who wrote like horror thriller books. And it was I don't remember much of.
Speaker: I don't remember much of the plot. And I remember reading through it. And for the most part, up until the end being like, Oh, this is interesting. Let's see where this goes.
Speaker: And then like, they there's just, they couldn't land the plane. You know, you try to land the plane with some message about accepting Christ as your personal savior. And it just fucking ruins every story. i mean, it even ruins the new Testament. I don't know why, but they yeah. Yeah.
Speaker: That, not really in there like that. I mean, I guess Paul kind of like threw it in there later, but you know, Christians ruined the Bible more than anybody. Well, you know, there's really government's not doing a great job with it right now either.
Speaker: Was it Tim LaHaye that wrote that, uh, the, the thriller about the secret agent that, uh, you know, has a, has a, a gay affair. What? Crack breacher.
Speaker: Crack breacher. Yeah. Oh, man. I didn't hear a word you said for the last three minutes because I was just cooking that up. You're stupid. So dumb, dude.
Speaker: I'm... I'm...
Speaker: so dumb du yeah um but like ah ah Well, speaking of, you know what? I don't i don't know if if you have some last minute thoughts we can hold off on this, but speaking of Crack Breacher, I have some ah i have some letters to read.
Speaker: Yeah, dude, let's do it. All right. Let's hear from 238 Pound Don. yeah So some of you might be familiar with a lovely young sycophant named Natalie Harp.
Speaker: ah Natalie Harp. Graduate of our alma mater. Oh, no way. She's a Liberty grad. How old is she? 35, I think. week I lived in Virginia while she was there. Yeah.
Speaker: I was working at Liberty while she was like a freshman, probably. It's crazy how close you came to someone who actually factored into God's plan. Yeah. I don't know. Johnny Moore, he's he's he's behind the scenes, but he's certainly ruining the world for God.
Speaker: I haven't checked in on him in a while. Is he still running like the ah the the feed all Gazans board of peace organization or whatever it was that he was pretty sure he is. I'm also pretty convinced his eyes are ocular implants.
Speaker: Yeah. Yeah, he was he was running a food bank in Gaza that doubled as one of those, like, ah you know, like those old timey fair games where the ducks pop up and and you'd have to shoot them with the little pellet gun to get a prize? Yeah. It's basically that for Israeli soldiers. Yeah. That's so disappointing.
Speaker: ah it's It's always, like, too disappointing where it's, like, hard to laugh. but Yeah. I mean... know He's going to be spit roasted by the devil someday.
Speaker: So there's that. i Honestly, God might get in on that. I'm all for it. A little, uh, a little, ah a little, a little God and devil, uh, Eiffel tower situation, you know, just, yeah.
Speaker: Even so God, God, God wants his revenge too. Sometimes you're, you're the, you're the patch of, of black hair in the middle of the like redneck yin yang tattoo.
Speaker: yeah What's the redneck yin yang tattoo? don't know. I feel like a lot of guys had yin yang tattoos. when We were kids. Oh, just rednecks with yin yang tattoos. Okay. I didn't know if that was a thing. That was the thing that you would know about because of your demographic and geographical location.
Speaker: I'm sure there's plenty of yin yang tattoos around here. Yeah. what What do you, what common redneck tattoos? What do you, what do you think? What's a, what's a very common tattoo that you would see in, in Kansas?
Speaker: Oh, um, I think Eagles are pretty common. Around um and gas the flags gats in flags, flags. Yeah. The what's the snake, the don't tread on me. Yeah. Lag. on Dude, that's bad. That's a terrible tattoo idea. Probably the most common like redneck tattoo now is just text that says something really stupid.
Speaker: We the people. Yeah, i've I've seen. Yeah, I've seen a lot of forearm. We the people tattoos in the past few years. They're um around... Dude, in in Massachusetts, the amount of people with a Boston sports logo tattooed on them is...
Speaker: It's going to be a notable percentage of the population of tattooed people in this state. Oh, God. Or just like the matt or like an outline of ah the state or something like that. you know That's a demographic where like at least 30% of them, like Dave Portnoy, played an active part in their bankruptcy. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker: dave Or he played an active part in them thinking that they could start a food review channel. yeah They're like, I'm going to review all the gelato spaces in Boston. And then it just some a Italian creeper dude with a greased back hair. You know, um I think you could still make fun of Italians like that. I don't know. I don't know what rules are anymore.
Speaker: They're wide enough. Yeah. I think they've been widening. I feel like like when everything is just so bad, like the the last thing on anybody's mind is the way you make fun of somebody now. It's just yeah, we have we're we're heading towards a great a second Great Depression. I don't think I don't think anyone cares if I make fun of Italians. Yeah.
Speaker: No, no, it's probably fair game at this point. Anyway, Natalie Harp. So this is from the Daily Beast. um I don't know if they had like they were like the ones who first obtained the letters. But on this page, it has like it has a copy of the letter, like a picture, but it has like a Daily Beast watermark behind it. So I don't know if they're the ones that broke this, but I'm going to read through a little bit of article, too, for context.
Speaker: ah Natalie Harp's intimate letters to Donald Trump are being revealed in full for the first time, showing her spilling her heart and saying she is unworthy of him. um The Daily Beast is publishing them amid swirling questions over the national security implications of 35-year-old Harp's status as 80-year-old Trump's most significant gatekeeper.
Speaker: even being used as a conduit to the president by foreign leaders. That's crazy. It's crazy how many people in this administration have a seat at the table of power without they like, like,
Speaker: without any, like no one elected them. no one confirms that. Like how many people you can just hire without anyone having a say in it is, ah is actually kind of crazy. Like we're, we're actually, if he's done anything, if Donald Trump's done anything, it done any good, it's showing us all the areas that on paper, our democracy was going to fall apart.
Speaker: And yeah, we have to, we have to write some new rules very fast when this is over. Like, uh, actually you can't just hire any dipshit to be, uh, you know, the business ambassador to the Saudi empire or whatever the fuck Jared Kushner is like, you Oh, you can't do that.
Speaker: I forgot to share this, but it's kind of along the the same lines, but you're in bed with the Saudis too. I'm willing to be. the yeah So we had a an election or a primary with a ballot initiative on August 4th. This is like ah ah a piece of good news, actually, um in Kansas. But there was a ballot initiative that they were seeking to change the way that Supreme Court judges in the state of Kansas were –
Speaker: nominated slash elected. so what they so currently there's like a panel of like 300 um lawyers and people in you know the the criminal justice industry and stuff that nominate candidates for the Supreme Court, and then they're they're voted on from there. What this ballot initiative was seeking to do was throw that system out and just have them like directly elected by the populace via the ballot
Speaker: which I can see why you could try to sell that. Like if you're just a regular person, you go, it's democracy. And you go, I like democracy. That's a good thing. But then i i I'm ah very aware of why that would go wildly wrong.
Speaker: Yeah. I mean, at first glance, that was my thought is like, well, wouldn't it be better if we vote on the person? And then you then you realize like how stupid and dead end democracy is when people can just like pour millions and millions of dollars into like specialty elections and stuff like that. So it was really like basically like, why don't we just put.
Speaker: that the Supreme Court up for the high, the the whatever party is willing to spend the most money on ad ad revenue and things like that for them. So, but it got voted down kind of like the abortion thing last year by a, by a wide margin. It was like 62% voted. No.
Speaker: So that was awesome. People in Kansas pulling through, man. There was a wow state. It was about that high when we when we voted on the ah the abortion ballot initiative like two years ago too. And this is why if you don't if you don't redistrict and gerrymander, Republicans won't ever win anything ever again. Like 60% the population is like against a lot of their dumb ideas.
Speaker: Like they just are. They just – I don't know. That just sounds like a bad idea. Like you might be able to sell some people on it if you're going to pour enough money into it. But like – who we There was one state that had... What state had the... Oh, it was for was it was who's Virginia, right?
Speaker: Yeah. yeah When they did the... People voted to redistrict, and then they were just like, actually, your vote doesn't matter now. We're actually not re it redistricting. Yeah, it's kind of like the Democratic primary.
Speaker: Yeah, right. And then there was another there was another state recently that had the people vote on an issue, and they were just like... Actually, we're going to like ratify it in our state constitution differently. Like they just democracy is just it's just pretend in a lot of ways. Like it doesn't have to be. can work.
Speaker: It if people don't put their finger on the scale. yeah Like when people say, ah we want to have a primary and you go, no, we're just putting this candidate in place.
Speaker: You don't get a choice. Or when they say, when you say, people say, look hey, we really like this Bernie Sanders guy. And they're like, no, everybody's going to drop out and endorse his opponent.
Speaker: You know, like when you don't put your finger on the scale, like people can make the right choice. You just can't make it for them. You know, right. Yeah, there's enough. There's enough thinking people where usually the better idea outweighs the bad. But there there are there's a big asterisk on that statement that we don't have to get. Yeah, but there is usually um just so everybody's like in case you aren't familiar with Natalie Harp. So she's Donald Trump's personal assistant, right? I mean, she's like, is that her title is personal assistant? I think.
Speaker: She spends more time with him than anyone else in the government or otherwise. She's glued to his side 24-7. She carries around a large satchel that looks suspiciously like a diaper bag, especially if you're talking about big diapers.
Speaker: The kind of diapers a 238-pound wears. He's 238 pounds? That's what the media reported. The White House doctors said this week. who They're very concerned about his sudden weight gain because he's put on 14 pounds since the election, bringing him up to a stout 238. Yeah, it's also saying that he's 6'3". Well, yeah, I mean, that goes to 245 if his diaper's full.
Speaker: Yeah. ah
Speaker: That's why he's just like pushing them. Those pleated pants to the to the breaking point is busting out those pleats. He's he's catching print in those pleats, dude.
Speaker: He is, um honestly, I think a lot of the the fluid, and I think a lot of his weight um is attributed to the fluid in his ankles. Yeah, or the types of fluid down there.
Speaker: Or the diarrhea. That's just being held barely in place by a, ah you know, a totally saturated depends. His nappies.
Speaker: He's basically sitting on a waterbed at all times. Yeah.
Speaker: Anyway, ah Natalie Harp, she is ah she's a she's a total loser. um It's it's kind of weird because that dude this is why we live in hell um and why like everything that mattered to people like to Republicans at some point was just all a ruse. Right.
Speaker: Because I recall a time in my life when said president, Bill Clinton got his little peepee sucked in the oval office. And that was, uh, that was, that was massive it as it should have been. That's a, that's a bad thing to do.
Speaker: You are the president. You shouldn't have some aid or assistant or whatever, ah giving you Israeli honey pot. Yeah. It's just like, yeah,
Speaker: That was an okay thing for people to be mad at. What's annoying is, ah turns out a lot of people actually didn't care because, I mean, let's be honest. this now There's not a lot of real ethics in Washington. But now we have all these like all these stories coming out about Natalie Harp. And it's like ah Fox News is sent. they they're They're like acting like they are absolutely positively disgusted and shocked that anybody would have untoward assumptions like this. Like, oh, goodness.
Speaker: You have to be a dirty pervert to think that that would be happening. It's like, ah no president who's been married. ah What? Three times. And most recently to a Romanian sex trafficking victim. And, you know, uh, has that, uh, you had that little tryst with stormy Daniels and, uh, has been credibly accused of rape multiple times and has been actually convicted of rape at least once. He's tortured nipples all across the Caribbean and Eastern Europe.
Speaker: he He's a monster. He's a monster. And they're just like, I can't even believe you would suggest that such a moral and pious man like Donald Trump would ever consider having sexual relations with a younger woman who works for him. that is beyond to the pale. It's like, get the fuck out of my face. I can't stand your fake outrage. Your guy that the moralism backstage and at the, at the, the teen beauty pageant. So he can like ogle, you know, 15 year olds or whatever.
Speaker: He just brags. Hey, when you own it, you can just go back there. And there's no parents. No one's there. You can just tell everyone. to You can just go back there. Fucking he's a pervert. He's a disgusting old fucking pervert. And there's nothing more disgusting than a pervert.
Speaker: That's 80 years old. That just is du undeniably more disgusting. I if if you get past a certain age and you still have a sex drive, it becomes offensive.
Speaker: Like RFK. Yes, exactly. Like ah RFK. And also when you have this crazy double standard like ah RFK does where it's like the guy who actually went – who actually fought league who fought against the use of glyphosates. I think he sued or like he had some sort of like – um he had some part in a lawsuit.
Speaker: He did a lot of really good environmental stuff. Yeah. yeah like he had a problem He had a problem with glyphosates and now, which is like the ah roundup. Right. So then, and now also he's like, we love glyphosates. Like glyphosates are great. It's going to be awesome. Everyone's going to be healthy. And he just keeps making these crazy decisions. ah You know, there's that video of him like swimming with his,
Speaker: grandkids and sewage. Uh, you know, he's done all sorts of weird shit to animals, tons of weird shit with animals that he finds, uh, allegedly. I mean, these are stories. I don't know what the data is on whether ah him cutting off a raccoon dick or beheading a whale or, ah putting a, uh, felching a reporter. Like, and he's like, I love how it's, um, dude, that's so funny that he did like bro is concerned about,
Speaker: shit that's like made up. Like he's pretending like he cares about health. And then he just like, but while he bathes in sewage, it's like, it's, we can't have like, what's something I'm trying to think of something that he banned, you know, um he did the cereal thing. Right.
Speaker: Yeah. So it's like, I, he wants to like ban, you know, certain food dyes and cereals all good. That's the one thing. That's the only thing I can think of. That's like good that he's done. I feel like they're cool. If he banned E. Coli from imported beef, He's not worried about that. Well, why he's not worried about coli? Because he doesn't think anything bad can happen when you suck a liquid out of somebody's butt. He doesn't.
Speaker: And that's where I was going with this. At some point, you notice a pattern of behavior. you know He's like, E. coli? That's not even a big deal. god But God forbid we have certain food guys in our cereal.
Speaker: That'll make you mighty sick. But you know what won't? Sucking his own load out of a butthole.
Speaker: That's nuts. That's nuts. He's always knee-deep in sludge when you think about it. And I don't like to shame people's sexual kinks. I'm not here do that. do, actually. I don't want to know about some of them. I'm good not knowing. If I have friends out there that like that, I don't need to know that. I don't need to know a lot of things about people's sex lives. That is a very, like...
Speaker: genns that was a very Gen Z thing for a while, which is like coming out to your coming out to your parents as someone who likes to dress up like animals and have sex in the woods. See, thought that was a millennial thing. Is it a Gen Z thing? ah Maybe. it could be millennial. maybe it was i could It could be millennial. I could be like...
Speaker: you know, forgetting how old I was when that was really popular, but it it probably was a millennial thing. was just like, uh, I need you guys to know that I'm X, y and Z. I'm a, uh, exhibitionist, furry,
Speaker: this and that. And then theyre it's like their parents like I don't need to know that. I don't. You know what? Let's just make a pact. Now, as your parents, I'm never will never talk to you about the thing. I'll never talk to you about the things I like to do to your mother. I'll never tell you that if you can just shut the fuck up and have sex in private and not make it something for everybody. yeah I don't. Who needs that? Yeah.
Speaker: Just do your thing. Anyway, let's get to these letters. um all right natalie harp okay i have to zoom in on this one okay dear mr president i think that this was after the uh cargo no no no i don't actually know what this is in relation to and maybe it'll become clear as you read it but it's not really about what it's in relation to it's about the obsessive content yeah yeah the spirit of the the letter Dear Mr. President, I'm sorry. i thought I was the only one left behind last night and had no idea Margo's car was also pulled over and sent back to the airport.
Speaker: Since I was alone in the van outside Customs without my passport, I panicked. and should have just called Secret Service instead of you. I also am sorry if I was an embarrassment walking to the course in Scotland. The first day I was told there were no carts, and people walked, which is why I walked.
Speaker: the sick That was like a big setup. It's like, oh, sorry, bitch, no carts. oh Oh, look how dumb she looks walking out of the golf course. The pictures are embarrassing.
Speaker: The second day, I was specifically asked by, i forget his name, but one of the main people who worked there. if i that Dude, can you tell me a lie is more obvious than, I forget their name, but they're one of the main people at this big thing.
Speaker: Like... Yeah, and you know who cares a lot about these details is Donald Trump. Yeah. Well, we know he's a man who cares about the details. He's always dotting his I's and crossing his T's.
Speaker: he Uh, I forget his name, but one of the main people who worked there, if I continue walking and tell any other girls who would head out there to do the same, to spare the course and more carts, if there's anything else I have done to cause you trouble, please forgive me. I know that some people have said I haven't been texting them back and there have been some international cell issues. John was having technical issues in the plane too. So ask me to help him out.
Speaker: That might have been only a portion of the letter. She's a great storyteller. Yeah, she can really make him up. right. Nope. Now I got the whole thing. ah What do you suppose, who was he playing golf with in Scotland? I forget who it was. i i don't know.
Speaker: i mean, imagine you're like another world leader and you're guilted into playing golf with this just, like this shell-less snail of a man. Well, and he only cheats. He...
Speaker: he he The way he, like... The scores that he says he gets at his age are, like, PGA level... Like, the, like, Kim Jong-un lore.
Speaker: Yeah. Dude, it's that. That's some dictatorship shit, is to, like... On his golf course, he like all he does is like just launch it into the woods. and some it's just The woods are just lined with a bunch of idiots with golf balls in their hand, and whenever they hear it hit, they just throw a golf ball back out onto the green. That's what they do. like it's just They fudge his numbers, and ain't he always wins. he has ah All of his wins are only at mara lago mar Mar-a-Lago.
Speaker: Everything else, he has atrocious scores. Mr. President, you have 98% approval rating in Tel Aviv.
Speaker: Yeah. So trot that one out on your next speech. Everybody will love it. Yeah.
Speaker: Natalie carries on. I want things to always be right between us. I also know I've been distracted all week, forgetting to eat throughout the days. i Trump likes that. He likes when women don't eat.
Speaker: And forgetting to sleep. Who forgets to sleep? you're lie You're so full of shit. Even forgetting to sleep and only catching a couple hours at a time. it's like, oh, that's how hard I work for you. I never stop thinking about you, so I am always awake doing whatever I think you might want me to do.
Speaker: It's just gross. I haven't been myself dwelling on the past in the pain of losing my dad. Oh, here we go. Daddy issues. Gross. Yeah.
Speaker: And I started letting the remarks of people who haven't bothered me before get to me. Not because I care what others think, but because I see myself being lowered in your eyes.
Speaker: And good opinion. That is the fear, you see, because I never want to bring you anything but joy. I'm sorry I lost my focus. You are all that matters to me.
Speaker: I don't want to ever let you down. Thank you for being my guardian and my protector in this life. That's what I wanted to use this card for. When you saw me at the cash register and once again did what you didn't have to do and gifted me with mementos of this trip of a lifetime, a coming of age, I will return a better person. I have to sign off now.
Speaker: She's like 30 years old at the time. Yeah, is this is some like infantilization shit. I have to sign off now as the cars are leaving. i See you soon. um This is the type of woman who if Trump was like, hey, I need you. i need you to back over this person with your car and make it look like an accident.
Speaker: Absolutely. She would do it immediately. No question. I have no doubt in my mind that she would kill for him because he's a cult of personality. He's essentially a cult leader. People who still like him are in the cult. And to sing praises like that, that is how cult leaders steal men's wives. They do shit. It's like the adoration.
Speaker: He's proud about that. Yeah, the adoration. Any... ah any No human should have that level of adoration for another person. No one. if i If I wrote a letter like that to my wife, you need to get me in therapy immediately. If my wife wrote me that letter, I'd be like, I don't trust you anymore. i don't I'm scared, frankly. i think i might I think there might be some murder-suicide thing in the future.
Speaker: ah i don't think you're an individual anymore. I think you're just happy to be a pawn or a tool. like I don't... No normal person wants another person to talk to them like this. And if they like it, they should be in prison because you've done something fucked up.
Speaker: Yeah, absolutely. It's it's it's literally like, you know, when you read stuff, ah it's like Manson family stuff.
Speaker: Yes. And it's what's so weird is he has like a small cadre of people that are actually this. Like, I think Pete Hegseth is this to an extent, you know, where like it's just mimicry and performance. It's like whatever you want me to say, I'm going to say, you know, everybody's kind of forced to do that. But there's a difference between some of the people who are just like spineless ladder climbing scum And people who are like devotees.
Speaker: And yeah, I don't know. There's not very many of the devotees anymore, but the ones that are left are the scariest. Yeah, they're particularly psychotic. She has one more letter that I think is even more unhinged than that one.
Speaker: I don't see. I don't think I've heard this other. I heard that one. All right. I think I've heard the other one. Dear Mr. President, Now this is a note I wanted to write, but the apology needed to come first.
Speaker: I have learned so much about my... Yeah, I have learned so much about myself on this trip. I always knew coming home to my roots would be enlightening, but I had no idea how much.
Speaker: For the first time in I don't know how long, you forced me to unplug. Oh, dude, he forced her to take the butt plug out? That's crazy. ah you You would think it's one of those ones with a button that he can, you know, like it's got a remote in his pocket where it vibrates, but it's just shocking. or it It just shake weights inside of you. Yeah.
Speaker: We could be out on the course. Sorry, ah thought there was a connection issue. um We could be out on the course with no machines and even forget what time it was. I didn't have to be human printer.
Speaker: What is that? That's in quotes, human printer. That's what the media apparently refers to her as. Okay. She carries around printed out articles for him to read. Oh, like stacks of them. We're supposed to believe he's she's carrying around articles that he can read rather than diapers. And and it was crazy because we know he can't even he can't even like read good. There's no way he's reading articles.
Speaker: um He doesn't even read his own defense briefings. They have to make him like Transformers trailers out of like drone footage for him to pay attention to it. Michael Bay directs his daily like briefing videos.
Speaker: He only watches like the he he's like, i I think I know what you're saying. But can you can you make it an A.I. like bowling strike style video? That's what I need.
Speaker: yeah
Speaker: I love those. They're so funny. um All right. She says, I could take time to enjoy good conversation and still get all my work done at the end of the day.
Speaker: I hate to keep stopping. What work? But, like, this is weird shit. It's like, we could have such great conversation, but I still get my work done. I know how much you value people who do work for you. Like, it's just crazy.
Speaker: What work does she have to do other than like packing more like a trail mix in her, in her diaper bag and like pruning the, the, the stuff out from under her fingernails.
Speaker: She has, she has to swap out the raisins in his trail mix for chopped up prunes. So no one can know. um I even got my work done at the end of the day. In fact, I even had time to take a long morning and evening walks to enjoy each sunrise and sunset, though I did forget to eat and sleep.
Speaker: ah With so much thinking time, I confess, i did it did have a slightly negative effect at times that I know you picked up on, but at the end result, I believe will be worth it.
Speaker: I had no idea how rapidly I was approaching burnout and started to envy those whose only job, in quotes, seems to be to talk with you and look pretty.
Speaker: I want that job. So many times I'm just trying to stay afloat with all that's coming in for you. I look like a hunchback who didn't have time to freshen up.
Speaker: At least you know what I should look like. ha, ha. Plus, I miss the days when you used to call during my talk show days and we'd talk about everything and nothing.
Speaker: I want to get back to that synergy. We shouldn't have to talk about work all the time. I've always felt like an in-betweener. Somewhere between staff and those you enjoy talking to on the plane or at dinner. because that's who I used to be to you when I was a quote-unquote talk show host.
Speaker: As much as I hated that job. I wish I could hear every conversation, because that's when you're having a good time, getting away from it all, at least for a few moments.
Speaker: But after going through all of this self analysis, my conclusion, I need to reunite my past self with my current into a better version who will make you proud.
Speaker: ah And please, when I fail you, will you tell me? You're absolutely right to cuss me out if I need to be. This is daddy shit. This is daddy shit. If I was a bad girl, please, please spank me. Like, it's such weird fucking infantilization kind of shit.
Speaker: Well, and it's like, dude, this would be... If you were on the receiving end of a letter like this, and you were normal like, this is...
Speaker: just this You would file restraining order. You would file a restraining order if you got this. Like, even if it wasn't like to the point where you were like, oh, this is like worrisome, crazy. Like, this would be exhausting to deal with.
Speaker: Right. Because all this is is like her baiting him for all the things that she wants, which is like, I just want to I just want to live in your mouth. Right.
Speaker: Yeah. You know, like i want to want you to have, you know, one of your big ill-fitting suits. I just want to like just slide right down into the breast pocket and then I can just be there all day. want to be me your little sugar glider.
Speaker: Yeah, like this would be so exhausting to deal with this person all the time. But such a lunatic that like he he clearly loves it.
Speaker: This is i Does this even really seem like the type of like woman that a womanizer like him would keep around? it's I think because he loves the adoration. He loves being loved. I think he also likes like tacky, you know, like a tool calendar pinup lady types. Like yeah Melania. He likes Melania type women. Like this chick's a nerd in different areas. He's getting his needs met in different areas. i think he genuinely likes...
Speaker: I two things about it. If I had to guess, he loves being loved and he, I think he also loves being able to be dismissive of someone who loves him so much and not give her the attention. So that that's what I think. I think it's like, I want this bitch to want to suck my nuts real hard, but I'll, I'll never like, I might let her like, you know, I might let her like blow my little peepee here and there, but like,
Speaker: i have no I have no doubt she's blown him. She's holding his ankles up so she can change his diaper. She can wipe his bottoms. yeah but She rims him in the change after she changes changes his dye dye.
Speaker: it ah She blows a raspberry his table. She goes, who's a clean boy?
Speaker: That is such a vile thing to think about. Yeah, I think he gets off on like making her like want him more. That's what I think. um I'll close this out, ah but it just continues to get more desperate. So ah let's go through the last couple sentences. You have the absolute right to cuss me out if I need to be when I deserve it because no one knows or cares about me more. Like even that big mistake. He doesn't care about anyone but himself. She actually believes that like he cares about her.
Speaker: Thank you for always being there for me. I'll never forget when you made that promise to me after losing my dad. And I know how happy he is right now that I did get to go to Scotland and Ireland as he always wanted for me. Like who always wants that for the the only, Oh, my dad's always wanted for me to go to these two countries. like What are you doing? You're a liar. Yeah. You could buy an $8 plane ticket or something. yeah How much of the ah of the Scottish culture do you think she soaked up when she was running alongside the golf cart?
Speaker: sheila She showed up with one of those little plaid floppy hats with a pom-pom on it. ah
Speaker: She does seem like she would show up in an in an absurd outfit, like an absurd, like ah yeah like what Donald Duck would play golf in and just embarrass him. Like she just just, she picked out the the the Scrooge McDuck outfit.
Speaker: is ah it's Dude, she she comes out with like a full, she doesn't know. She's like, She goes window shopping. She's like, that looks great. And she picks like the men's garb for like the kilt. And when you play the bagpipes and shit, she's like, how was I supposed to know? It looked like a trash. Everyone made fun of me.
Speaker: doesn't know anything. She's just like a big, dumb idiot who just follows him around, just huffing his farts. Yeah. You know, if you run out of teas, you can always hit the ball off my forehead. Yeah. I'll hold it for you while you drive it.
Speaker: Just hit your fingers. yeah wouldn't this be actually blows the fingertips off with a nine iron of a driver i don't know golf i just said the first thing that came to my mind it's close enough dude wouldn't it be like uh it would be such a great like movie ending to this if he like was so embarrassed by all the media coverage he started like distancing him from himself from her and like treating her really coldly and she finally snapped and like murder suicided him
Speaker: That would be incredible because at that point, my dream would come true and he wouldn't be a martyr. Like, that's that's my big fear of him getting offed is, like like, the wrong person does it and he's a martyr. But if it's just, like, for the sake of – if it's just, like, that love, murder, suicide classic shit, not a martyr, just looks like a pussy after that. Everyone's like, oh, wow, that's not – what a – Did not go out in a blaze of glory at all. This is so insane. It's insane. Let me, ah let me just, there's like one sentence left. I'll just close it out here.
Speaker: Uh, dad's so happy. He always wanted me to go to Scotland and Ireland. That's the only thing he ever talked to me about when we were kids. That's the one thing he said when he was dying. Uh, my, on his deathbed, he said, please, please go to Scotland and Ireland. That's all I've ever wanted.
Speaker: ah then she says, I'll none of that, uh, to be clear, just for the sake of protecting my credibility. um To modify a classic, I could not have parted with you to any anyone less worthy.
Speaker: but don't even know what that means. And I will add, it is I who is unworthy. Always, Natalie. P.S. My hands looked worse in Scotland and Ireland because cold turns the old scars purple. Still on the road to recovery.
Speaker: ah man, dude. She just wears me out. It's a lot. It's a lot. It's bad. She is a nightmare. She doesn't have friends. I think last sentence is her saying that, like, she's implying that her dad, like, gave her away almost like a bride to Donald because he was the only one worthy the responsibility.
Speaker: And what was the bride price? What did he pay her dad?
Speaker: don't know. Just paid off the hospital bills. directly responsible for having one of his, uh, secret service agents clamp down on the oxygen line.
Speaker: Yeah. They're going to mix, they're going to mix his ashes into the concrete when they pour the big gaudy arch. ah
Speaker: Oh God. These people are pathetic. You're a pathetic human. You honestly, you don't even like there's a, there's a, There's a low that you can dip to where it's impossible for anyone to feel even sorry for you. And she's reached it.
Speaker: Like, that that's a special level of... It's just really a pathetic. Yeah, it's pathetic. like It's something that is like so beneath a person of 35 years old. Yes. If you're a teenager or something, like I don't know, you're processing a lot of emotions and stuff. For you to be a full-fledged adult, someone so successful too that they've been a talk show host on One American News Network. Dude, you know, this is and a little self-respect. Right. Right. You climbed the mountain.
Speaker: ah And this is like 13 year old deer diary shit. This is the kind of stuff you write that you don't want anyone to ever see the light of day. This is a this is your Christian dating post. about how like God told you this guy was the one, but now he's dating Becky or whatever. Yeah, Becky Falwell? Their their courtship is going. Yeah, it must be one of Trey's friends. That was like r slash Liberty University, like half the complaints from men like from women was like, I was dating this really nice guy, and then Becky Falwell blew him at a sleepover. I don't know what to do.
Speaker: it The crazy summer that I played bass in Get Up Soldier. Get Up Soldier. Oh, my God. What a dumb band name. That band sucked. Were you at the – what was like the talent show that they did? They did like ah America's Got Talent Liberty University style. Did you ever go to that?
Speaker: No, I didn't in protest because they wouldn't let us play, that's my band play. But they let Get Up Soldier play. I was mad. it dude, I can't believe they didn't. Cause there was a lot of kids at Liberty that were like metal kids too. Like there was no re that that would have been, that would have been fun. That would have been cool.
Speaker: Yeah. Yeah. Probably it would have been a bad performance, but it would have been cool to say. And a little bit embarrassing later on, you know, when you, cause you'll, when you see videos of like, when you watch America's got talent and someone does metal on it, you're kind of a little embarrassed that you like metal, you know?
Speaker: Yeah, definitely. Metal in the wrong environment is it's embarrassing. It's it just is like what are we doing? This is not what this is for. It's like once in a while when like America, ah like American Idol would do the tryout show and there would be a guy in like trap pants come in and do and scream for his audition.
Speaker: Yeah, there's that there's a ah classic one of someone doing a Silverstein song. Oof, yes. I think I remember that. It's pretty... It's hard to watch.
Speaker: And their faces, like the the judges' faces while they're doing it is just like... Like a little shock, a little like interest. There's some intrigue, but it was, I'm like, can you not, can you not represent music like that to people like this in that way? It doesn't have to happen. We don't need that.
Speaker: And then look, when I was like 17, I would have done that. I would have wanted to do that to be like, everyone's going to be like, whoa, this guy likes crazy stuff. Like you would have like, you would have like, as a 17 year old be like people, you, you would like drive through campus with like just blasting fucking suicide silence.
Speaker: So that way people would be like, Whoa, who's that guy? You know? thats Yeah. That was your fantasy. Yeah. That people were like, man, wow, that's that's extreme. Yeah. Whoa, you like what you like underground stuff.
Speaker: Even Paula and M.U.L.A. you're listening to Screamo right now? and you're like, ah bro, it's not Screamo. It's actually Deathcore. It's Deathcore.
Speaker: God. Well, can I read you a Reddit post that it was i felt was a very fun? Yes, today. do Please do. Actually, can we do a quick pause? Now that i have 17 children, I do have to go check on them because my wife's in bed and it's 950.
Speaker: Yes, absolutely. OK, so this post caught my eye. Still banned, can't comment, but this is in the Christian Dating Advice subreddit.
Speaker: That's the best one. I went on Christian Dating today just to like peruse. It was just a bunch of people ah ah like with their pictures. Profiles? Using it like a dating app?
Speaker: Yeah. And one of them made me laugh. It was this girl, you know, I probably made to late 20s, something like that. Just the first one was like her in the park. Big smile. like Nice picture. Like, she looked good.
Speaker: And then there was like, then you like scroll like then then the there was three images. So you go the next one and it's just like. I don't know her. It's just a regular picture. And then you go to the third one and it's like, it looks like a fucking stock image photo. And she's just sitting like that. You would like some LinkedIn stock image shit. She's sitting like at a table with like her hands on the keyboard looking like she's working.
Speaker: And I'm like, are you, are you looking for a boyfriend or applying for a job? Yeah. It is funny, the characters that pop up in all of these ones. You know, like there's a there's a lady I found on TikTok that sings hymns.
Speaker: Oh, God. Or not hymns, of psalms. She's just like singing songs. So she's got like some random like duty free beat playing behind her or something. And she's like, it's like the most awkward like church girl singing. Like everybody had a girl that sang like this in their church that would just drove them crazy. But she's like,
Speaker: It's of flat. It's like this weird falsetto. Like there's no syllables. There's no consonants in anything. She's, it's just like this floaty amalgamous, like, and she's like dancing and stuff. It's, it's,
Speaker: Awkward church girl to the max. I love it. So this is by hoodie kid 30. And, uh, this one threw me for a loop. I found it very, ah very fun.
Speaker: Not a perspective that you get much on these. I do appreciate it. It's not a good perspective, but it's different. but i I appreciate a unique perspective on Reddit because there's a lot of like carbon copy, like horseshit on Reddit. p Oh, everyone's saying the same thing. Well, first of all, you need to confess your premarital sex to your pastor and you need to seek Christian counseling immediately. It's like, shut the fuck up.
Speaker: Give me something interesting. Yeah, I don't care how wrong it is. It could be it it could be advice that ruins somebody's life. Give me something interesting. Yes, I really am getting sick of anything that devolves into talking about porn on these. I'm just I'm tired I'm so tired of I can't look at them anymore. I'm bored. It's exhausting. It's like it's a pretty I feel like we plumb the depths of Reddit Christian porn addiction recovery. And like, yes, like what else is there? Unless you get something crazy. Look, don't get me wrong. If you're like.
Speaker: If you're like, you know, Christian furry, something like that. I'm, I'm pulled back in. You got me. It's gotta be a unique angle. Yeah. Give me an angle. Oh, my husband and I kind of not on the same page sexually. not sure what to do. It is like, which one of you is addicted to porn. Yeah.
Speaker: Yes. Oh my God. You guys the worst. Anytime, anytime a guy is interested in doing something outside of missionary position,
Speaker: All the Christian writers like he's looking at porn. you're like, no, he's a guy and he saw a hole and he asked if he could fuck it. You don't need you don't need porn to get to that point. Yeah.
Speaker: Now, that is not the case over on the Mormon one. The Mormon one's wild. Yeah. they're dealing with a different shit over there. It is interesting how much different it is because they talk about stuff there where you're like that never would like that question.
Speaker: There wasn't there. There isn't a like conceptual like like there's no. what's How am I trying to frame this? it's It's not, a like, there are certain things that they're talking about in Mormonism that are so far outside of, like, the Christian paradigm that has been set up to talk about sex, where it feels so far out of, like, left field, where you're like,
Speaker: but Even I, very far removed from evangelical Christian sexual ethics, am like, holy shit, people are thinking about that? in Yeah.
Speaker: That way? that's the question I didn't know those questions about sexuality or sexual engagement existed. The LDS sexuality subreddit is like diet casual encounters on Craigslist.
Speaker: Seriously, like a PG 13 version of that. It's like literally half of it is people like soft pedaling like a couple swap. Yeah, that was one of the ones we did, I think.
Speaker: Yeah. Well, that's not what this is. they're they're They're fine with soaking, but then they have questions about like anal soaking. Like what? So, um, hoodie kid 30 says, a keep asking.
Speaker: Oh, he has been here before. Okay. Where do y'all women get this entitlement from that y'all supposed to be approached? I'm genuinely asking. Because if a submission is an approach, and y'all women desire to submit to your man, then why don't y'all approach?
Speaker: Y'all complain no guy wants to come to you because y'all are literally putting a worldly trope and making it biblical. Hold on, I'm already confused. A submission is it's It's submissive to approach?
Speaker: He views it as like, if you are approaching someone with a romantic interest, you know, like asking to buy him a drink or something like that, you are, in doing that, submitting to them.
Speaker: Because, I guess, because they're in control of what happens next... or you've shown weakness or subservience by being the first to show interest? when At what point does he start discussing his rape fantasies?
Speaker: Talks a lot about submission. um It's a little jumbled here. So there was a post from a woman I saw that said she only dated guys she had to ask.
Speaker: I saw nothing wrong with that. Those guys may be missed out. But on her end, she did nothing wrong. And I'm just thinking, why does she feel like she needs to be approached?
Speaker: Oh, because the world says so. so i don't know that one flips so many different directions i mean it's pretty biblical too it was it was literally men who were approaching other men asking if they could buy their daughters i mean that's that's what april said ah that was it does it have a name no you get to name it that's the thing Old Testament female.
Speaker: Yeah. So he says, i saw a woman, I saw a post from a woman who said that she only dates guys that she approaches first. He didn't see anything wrong with that.
Speaker: Then he said, those guys may be missed out, but she did nothing wrong. I guess implying that the guys rejected her because she approached them. Right.
Speaker: But then he says they didn't realize that they were passing on a submissive woman. They thought they were passing on on a a forward woman. Their mistake, I guess. Yeah, big mistake.
Speaker: um So he says he thinks that the idea of like men should be the ones to approach a woman first is a worldly concept. That's a worldly concept projected onto the church, and it's not biblical. These people constantly make assertions without even giving the smallest answer.
Speaker: like most like base level, like data point to support anything. Like they're not, yes they make a claim and they do not, they don't even put in a Bible verse to back it up. They just make the claim. It's crazy.
Speaker: He sort of does here, but... Okay, all right, we get it. It's there, okay. We believers gotta stop taking worldly norms and making it normal for us, because it's not.
Speaker: I got my heart and mind shattered from just approaching women, so I knew it was wrong after I only got rejected until a certain point in my life. So he got rejected a lot, and that's how he knew that...
Speaker: He shouldn't be the one approaching. It should be women approaching him, which that to be gathered from root rejection. I don't agree in concept, but I do agree in principle that this man shouldn't.
Speaker: be approaching anybody and that if he doesn't, no one's going to approach him and he won't have to ruin anybody's life. So I'm going to, I will just pretend that I agree. So that way he can't ruin somebody's life.
Speaker: This guy is certain to be a pest. Yeah. Yeah. um Okay, I just started dealing with women who do submit to me, a.k.a. they ask. It shows me a complete 180 than the negative things I dealt with growing up.
Speaker: No entitlement, no ego, no unhealthy expectations. Plus, you submitted. No games. It's really a subconscious... Something, I guess. Yeah.
Speaker: It's bizarre. ah It's really a subconscious manipulation tactic by thinking we're supposed to approach. And I'm speaking for the church and the Bible.
Speaker: Oh, he's speaking for the entirety of the the church. That's incredible. Women are are subconsciously manipulating you into thinking that you need to approach them when in fact in doing that you are submitting to them.
Speaker: and was yeah And this all goes back to the Garden of Eden when Eve manipulated and lied to Adam to make him eat the apple. And because that's a true story, women are bad.
Speaker: Yeah. Yeah, you have that genetic sin history. yeah it's Yeah. It's in your genes. um And I'm speaking for the for the church and the Bible, not the world.
Speaker: Bring any of that worldly stuff, I'm going to troll you. I don't care about what quote-unquote history shows, quote-unquote what your grandma and pappy did, etc., etc. I don't care.
Speaker: Showcase... ring gold and Maybe, maybe. Is this a 17-year-old Twitch streamer? it's I mean, it's it definitely has that vibe.
Speaker: Showcase a story, scripture, line that says y'all women are so y'all womans art to be approached. I literally think in getting to know more and more that since first meeting is the foundation, you got to do it right.
Speaker: All the way, biblically. I guarantee this whole dating scene will change for the better if we actually go off the Bible and not worldly tropes.
Speaker: Step one, men stop approaching women, for that goes against Proverbs 31.3, which don't know if you know that one by heart. Proverbs 31
Speaker: the Proverbs 31 woman. Okay. That's what I want. Yeah. Which is what it's stupid. I mean, it's just like what evangelical men, they they, they, they chalk that, that chapter up to being the pinnacle of womanhood.
Speaker: Um, and what it means to be a godly female. I don't know. It's it's not good. Should we read Proverbs 31 together? Should we take a moment to dive into the word?
Speaker: 31.3 says, do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings. So I think he's taking some liberties with that one. And he also requires that women call him king.
Speaker: Yeah. I'm sure that factors in at some point. there's our snake stuff There's 31 verses here, but let's just... look I think it's really important that we do take a moment...
Speaker: to highlight what it means to be a godly woman. So let me just, let me just get through this real quick. It says, uh, the sayings of King Lemuel, that sounds like someone from the Book of Mormon, actual actually. Lemuel, that's a very, uh,
Speaker: Mormon name, uh, an inspired utterance. His mother taught him. Listen, my son, listen, son of my womb. Listen, my son, the already I'm getting, uh, Joseph Smith, right? This one. No, I'm getting Navy vibes from, uh, Ocarina of time.
Speaker: No. The fairy? Is it Navy? Navi? don't think I've ever played it. Oh, man. Every time she had something to say to give you like a hint in the game, it would go, listen!
Speaker: That's it. People who played Ocarina of Time will get it. um my my litter box is in my basement my cat took a disgusting shit that's all i can smell that's driving me nuts disgusting shit i'm looking i'm like i'm like i'm i was looking around to see if there was just like a shit on the floor next it's it's so strong dude it's like you're in the oval office right now It's like you're you're you you're like Natalie Harp at the moment. Now I know exactly how Natalie Harp feels about 17 times a day.
Speaker: You just open your mouth so it fully permeates. ah Do not pretend. Do not spend your strength on women. We already read that one. It's beautiful. Your vigor on those who ruin kings. It's not for kings, Lemuel. It is not for kings to drink wine, nor for rulers to crave beer. This is the NIV version, so it's very English forward.
Speaker: lest they drink and forget what has been decreed and deprived all of the oppressed of their rights. Let beer be for those who are perishing. Wine for those who are in anguish.
Speaker: Let them drink and forget their poverty and remember their misery no more. That verse is going in my bio. and Next time anyone gives me shit about how much I drink, I'm like, well, the word of the Lord says to let the poor drink and forget their poverty and remember their misery no more.
Speaker: I'm in the pretty good. I'm in the i'm I'm not I'm not Epstein class. And if you're not Epstein class, you're poor. Teach your foster son that one. We don't have to read all this.
Speaker: But if you're curious, ah verses 10 through 31 is the epilogue, and it's the wife of noble character. ah Noble character. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. All right, I won't do it. I really want to, but I won't because who cares?
Speaker: Well, to finish this out, it says, step one, men stop approaching women, for that goes against Proverbs 31.3, and it rejects the lessons you're supposed to grasp from Adam and Samson.
Speaker: I can get more biblical if needed, but I'm just trying to make it plain first. and Where does the whole men approaching things come from? i think So the lesson from Adam and Samson is don't ask women out on a date.
Speaker: Oh, no, he actually brought up my earlier jest, the lesson from Adam, which is that women are manipulative. That's what he's doing. So is he saying that Adam did it correctly? He's saying Adam dumb fucked up when he ate the apple. and Listen to that bitch.
Speaker: Yeah, I guess so. I'm not sure I see how it ties in. And Samson... Well, that's Christianity as a whole. It's just never really knowing exactly how they tie. I mean, they're just... they just Did Samson ask Delilah out or did she approach him?
Speaker: Delilah did approach him. Now, let's be. Okay. Delilah approached him and got real horny for it. And then was like, then cut his hair because he's a little cuck simp bitch. But Adam, on the other hand, is he calling God out? Because if God made Eve for Adam and then Eve pursued Adam, then really God's kind of on the line for this.
Speaker: Yeah, I don't see how it connects the way that he's saying it is. But but it does, because evangelicalism is very, like... ah Eve was manipulative. Oh, women have been manipulative ever since.
Speaker: i've had i've had I've heard that several times from from women, actually. From women who don't take themselves that seriously. or i don't know. So he did get some responses, and he responded aggressively to a lot of them. That means he knows a real post.
Speaker: So somebody says, okay, stop approaching women and see how that that works out for you. My least favorite person on Reddit, a Berean Christian, responded, people nowadays just want to complain instead of making stuff happen.
Speaker: Hoodie Kid responds to him and says, I can't make a woman like me. Tried that in my younger years, clearly. Plus, I'm not just quote-unquote people nowadays. I'm a man of Jesus Christ, and I follow the Bible.
Speaker: I just ask him, where in the Bible do other believers see that we're supposed to do this? now Not no freaking man up or that's history BS. Yes, I will get vulgar if you're BSing me. Like I said, hopefully this is your last reply.
Speaker: Oh, my God. But it's a variety Christian. So, of course, he wrote a huge response, which I'm not going to honor with or with by reading it. It's I that I'm a man of Jesus Christ.
Speaker: God, it's this is like this is just plug and play personality. Like you're not you're not real. You're not an authentic, real individual, with your own thoughts, your own ideas. You're just... you You're just... you're you You're the embodiment of reaction.
Speaker: You're not a like there's There's no... values or scruples. It's just, I'm, I'm like the, Oh, don't, I'll get vulgar. And then he'll, you know what he'll do after that? When someone goes, that's that very Christ-like. i'll be like, I recall Christ flipping tables and Paul using some vulgar language when he talked about your righteous, your, your works being that is a filthy rags, which was actually kind of a swear for having a period. You're like, shut the fuck up. I'll say cusses.
Speaker: Cuss. Cuss. Hmm. I knew I didn't like him. Well, ah he does have one fellow soldier in the trenches with him, so a guy named Wealth Friendly.
Speaker: Oh, another incel. Yeah. Wealth Friendly. He seems cool. He fell for an MLM within the last 60 days. He responded to a Marine Christian and said, Solomon was a king, ergo, he must go to his subjects to lead them. The two mothers sought out him.
Speaker: Leaders can inspire followers to follow them, not walk up and demand followers. I'm pretty sure Solomon, is that David? Who's the the concubine addict?
Speaker: It doesn't even matter. Solomon was the one that had like a thousand wives. Yes. So let's be clear. They didn't all come to him. They were not all like, please take me as your sex slave. he was like, you're mine, you're mine, you're mine.
Speaker: lot of diplomacy going on there. there's There was a car dealership in Michigan called Sundance Chevrolet, and there was a man in the cowboy hat that talked really fast that did all the commercials, and he'd go,
Speaker: Hey there, folks. I'm Terry Hanks from Sundance Chevrolet. We make a meal on an automobile. You bring out whatever, we'll take it on trade. And they would take like chicken coops and, you know, ah cured hangnails and, you know, pickle jars and anything you had, they would take it in on trade and then money launder you into a bad loan that couldn't afford or whatever.
Speaker: I think there was a lot of that happening in Samson's or in Solomon's kingdom. it So Avery and Christian responds. I agree. Just look at how Jesus led by example. His goal going to the area was to do ministry, but he also called all of his disciples to follow him as he was doing it because because.
Speaker: when he was doing it, who became his bride, the church. Basically, Jesus was on his mission for God as the primary thing he was doing. He exemplified leadership, ambitiousness for God, confidence, and all other things, drawings drawing lots of men and women toward him, even though he didn't have a good appearance, at least from what Isaiah says. Christian men should be doing things that Christian women would want to join them on.
Speaker: Wealthfriend says, so you can absolutely have women approach the man. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. What, what do you Chimes in the argument over something.
Speaker: So me, like this is what's annoying about Christianity Is that as soon as one person thinks that that comes up with an idea and they base it on their interpretation of scripture, they immediately get like wildly prescriptive with it and act like everyone needs to do exactly what they're doing and think the way they think. It's just like, I can't think of a more insecure faith.
Speaker: No. it's Seriously, it's like that. It's like I read the code between the lines and now everybody needs to jump on board with my whack job interpretation. Yes, it's so bad. It's embarrassing. Like they feel even they don't when you're like in this like group, like when when everyone thinks this like similarly, even if people are challenging him, they're all still operating within like certain parameters of what's acceptable for. discourse or debate. And it's just, it's just a big, all of this is like all self sock shit. That's all it is.
Speaker: Hoodie kid is at least fun because he's like barely pretending to, uh, to quote scripture or anything like that. so he responds to one of them says, I have, and it's very far in between mingling with women, but I have the best combos and the overall quote unquote relationships with women who approach me because of things like I said above,
Speaker: women probably already see you and give you grace of being a leader when they approach. So all I got to do is my part, which I do. Hence why- Which i be a leader. What do you lead, bitch? What do you do?
Speaker: You sell insurance. You sell insurance, dude. you not not You're just, you're entry level work from home. Like you're just a guy. Like what is this? I lead. They they recognize I'm a leader. You are desperately simping for people to think you're relevant or important or have any sort of like, you oh, wow. Sorry. Being ambitious isn't a value that people care about.
Speaker: Oh, no, if you ambitiously fail your entire life, then you just look like a fucking loser. Like, yeah, you're better off like not having ambition like me. Then you can't be a loser if you don't try to win, guys. Jesus Christ. And look at me. I'm married with 37 children. Who cares? The fake leadership thing is very annoying.
Speaker: Yeah, it's like not everybody gets to be in charge. And, you know, like i don't want to. You have to expound on leadership as being like, oh, well, and you know, you lead in your particular circle. So you lead your home towards Christ and a godly whatever. and it's like it's just all a bunch of fluff. It's meaningless nonsense. And that's the problem with church, evangelical, non-denominational church is that like.
Speaker: They act like leadership is like this thing you earned or whatever. It's like the guy who's in charge barely has four year college degree. Yeah. And he's completely socially inept. He just started a church because he said God called him and people showed up like this isn't.
Speaker: He's running a church. Isn't like being, they'll compare it to being like a CEO. Well, it's like, it's like running a bit. No, it's not. It's you say shit that people already agree with and they give you money to keep telling them things they believe. So that way you can buy a building that nobody actually needs. And then you can put a playground on it later and say, you're calling it a children's ministry and that you're going to have the community use it. It's like,
Speaker: You're not making real business decisions. You're just deciding how to spend free money. Any fucking idiot can do that. And half of them like free money, I could spend it a lot.
Speaker: Really good. Half of them, too, are like so socially inept and like they chose this line of work not because of some like grand like I'm going to reach the community and stuff with like half of them just wall themselves off from normal society using this job.
Speaker: you know like I'm a leader because I delegated my elders to deal with everything that makes me feel funny inside. I found like I was looking at the r slash pastors subreddit today. That's probably a good one. a lot of fucking...
Speaker: just wallowing and complaining about how lonely it is at the top yeah it is oh it's some tedious misery it's hard to build real authentic relationships when everyone just wants to get close to you so they can have proximity to power and authority fuck you fuck off Yeah, like ah the two guys on the leadership committee that give 90% of the church's budget, they don't they have strong opinions over how it gets used. you know They want to support their little pet projects, and how do I not do that? And this, that, and the other. It's like, why does anybody want to be a part of one of these things? like It just sounds awful.
Speaker: it's like Dude. It's like the party planning committee on the office. Yeah. Dude, I just thought about this ah in connection to current events for the first time right now.
Speaker: When I was a kid, I went to a church and it when I started going there, it was like a small startup. It was like just past them being a home church and getting their first building at like the town's local community center. Yeah.
Speaker: And then they built a building and it was the first they wanted to have a gym in the building. So first what that they did was they just built up a gym with the steel walls, right? Like a classic,
Speaker: like, um, like warehouse type look to it. Um, oh, and boy, did we revel in, you know, people being like, oh, well that's nothing crazy. And they're like, well, you don't know the whole plan, whatever. Then they built a whole nother building onto it. instead So instead of doing church in the gym, then they built the sanctuary after they had the more money that, you know,
Speaker: Whatever. They did it in phases. um But the pastor of that church before he retired, he he was Canadian. And he was like, i don't know, whatever company he was in, I heard was on some Forbes list. He was like some CEO or CFO or something really high up. um and And he he retired from there.
Speaker: And everybody at the church was like... I found it a like a bragging point to be like, you know, he he worked real hard. He was a real hardworking man. he He was really smart because he was super successful in business. And now he works in this church. He doesn't even take a paycheck.
Speaker: Who does that sound like? And I'm making this connection now that like, oh, my God, these people were primed to want to vote for Donald Trump. oh, he was successful in business and now does this thing for the common good and doesn't take a paycheck. That's what people said about this pastor all the time. He was you know nice on the surface. I know stories about him now. I go you're an actual fucking dickhead. I ah i don't respect him.
Speaker: I don't care. And also, I'm sorry, if you were like... it Maybe Canada's different than the United States, but I'm sorry. If you were like a CFO for some major company then you you and you retired, like...
Speaker: I'm not saying this definitely happened, but given his, the the stories I've heard about his like behind closed doors, shrewdness, which is just, I'm in charge and I'm an asshole is kind of like, you know, synonym for shrewd in this sense. But like, there's a better chance that he made his fortune off of like cutting pensions and laying people off before they could collect theirs. Like, was it a publicly traded company?
Speaker: Yes, it was. Yeah. So that's that's what it was. Likely. Yeah, it was something along those lines. So it's just like whatever. But anyway, I just that that all just kind of like started clicking is like all these values that we place on like success and leadership. It's Americans just value. It's so someone who concocted a good enough scam to get a leg up.
Speaker: That's the best that most of us can aspire And it's like, this guy, this guy made it. This guy has a Plymouth Prowler at home. Okay. When he talks, we listen.
Speaker: All right. And when he says, give a faith offering, and that shouldn't be a part of your normal 10% offering. This is above and beyond. You sow a seed, brother.
Speaker: And then God gives you a dental miracle. And you can't, and the only reason like, Uh, it's funny because like all these talk about like worrying about immigrants, stealing your job. It's like, if that's the job you want, you really don't have to worry about an immigrant taking it because we don't, we don't let people succeed that high. If they have an accent, we just don't.
Speaker: Not really. Unless they're Japanese or Chinese, then maybe, but like not. What about Vivek dude? You're right. You got me. Some people are just so smart.
Speaker: Or Kash Patel. He doesn't have an accent. but he They can beat the societal norms, you know. He's brown, though. like Yeah, you're right. There are some people. There are some people who are just, you know, they might not be white and they might not have an accent, ah but they are just they're just such upper echelon people, you know.
Speaker: that Like Kash Patel. He's clearly upper echelon. he He earned it. I mean, let's be honest. He earned it. Modern day Dick Tracy. o More like Dick Tracy.
Speaker: Oh, that's two in the hole for me. Modern day Dick Van Dyke, baby. Okay, so ah so still in that response, okay? He says, ah women probably already see you and give you grace of being a leader when they approach. So all I got to do is my part, which I do. Hence why every woman I have talked to left me.
Speaker: I was willing to see them grow. They just keep chalking it up to me being weird or they are quote unquote the right fit, not my fault. I'm waiting on God like Bible says.
Speaker: I'm waiting on God like Bible says. and i got give And I gave examples that I can go into further of why I stopped. Talk about some okay stop.
Speaker: I don't know you, homie. Same way you don't know me. I already lived that lifestyle. If you got to use worldly tropes to. i i had asked if this was the original poster, and I realized very quickly that it was based on how dumb he sounds when he writes. Yeah. ah It's so funny how he like, he'll juke you so hard in a sentence. And it's, I think it's because he can't organize his thoughts. he he's hely so He's like, I show up and I'm going to be a leader and blah, blah, blah. And that's why every woman has left me.
Speaker: he what He talks like he speaks. english he's He talks like he learned English as a child, only watching Malibu's most wanted. Yeah.
Speaker: So here's a ah lady responding. Okay. She says, the ladies, just a response from the other side. I've made the first move every single time and I've yet to have my first relationship.
Speaker: I'm a woman in my mid thirties. It really goes both ways. Not all men like an assertive woman. Not all women want a passive man. It will always depend on the individual person, not a generalization of the entire gender.
Speaker: And that's a pretty reasonable response, right? Yeah. Pretty good perspective. being A little bit of a nothing on a little bit of a nothing burger, but that's better than all these other assertions, which are wildly false. You walked a line between falsehoods that make you, like you know, you are, no one can really claim that you were wrong, but you didn't, you're not really right either. hey right right right hoodykin's a leader so he's not gonna take this like non uh non-starter sentence sitting down he says well in my i this is he needs to be careful before he's too unfair because she did initiate and that is true let's see how he leads in this situation after she submitted by talking to him How am I passive? Don't put these words on me that you don't know. If you asked, you know, I would have said no.
Speaker: And this whole comment is irrelevant. That's because you clearly went for guys who are part of that worldly mindset too. You're doing something quote unquote irregular when they don't even realize that's exactly what they wanted. oh very aggressive.
Speaker: Who are you calling passive? No, no, no. You're very defensive. Yeah.
Speaker: She says, dude, it was an example of unusual gender types. I wasn't specifically talking about you. If this is how you react to a simple misunderstanding, I'd hate to see you mad. Yikes.
Speaker: Which she didn't respond to. Yeah, of course not. And she nailed it. He's an unsafe person when he gets angry. That's very clear. This guy says, men are leaders. We initiate and find a wife. You have to lose the apprehension or offense if your overtures are not received. Keep working on being a good husband and man of God, and the Lord will provide.
Speaker: The Lord will provide a woman to you. that sounds like That sounds passive. I think he's being passive again. You gotta take the bull by the horns. Yeah, he just likes to use the English language in a way that's always convenient. This is a different guy that said that. Oh, okay. My bad, my bad. Another lady responded. She says, I'm a woman, and I want men to approach me, but I'm not shy to approaching guys, though when I approach, it didn't generally work out.
Speaker: he Hoodie Kid responds, wrong type of guy. Women approach me. But then they get to know I really follow the Bible. And my lifestyle alone is a mirror up to them. So it doesn't go far, especially when they find out I've been celibate since birth. Most women don't like that. Shocking. And I'm not going to change myself for that. I believe and have too much faith in the Bible and Jesus Christ.
Speaker: i No one... I don't think this guy realizes how many people fucked in the Bible. i don't think he's really landing. I also red flag for any guy who goes, I follow the Bible.
Speaker: Yeah. Women approach me and they get cold feet because I'm a mirror up to them. live that life. If you follow the Bible, all I know is that you're an inconsistent, wishy-washy, proof-texting piece of shit. That's all I know about you. And that's all I need to know about you. Like, if someone goes, I follow Jesus, i go, I'm interested in learning more about what you mean by that. If you say, I follow the Bible, I go, oh, you're on a choose-your-own-adventure.
Speaker: There's no, you can't, like, the Bible says everything. The Bible literally says everything. you need it to be. At least Jesus is more like Jesus. Also some contradictions in the what the gospel writers say Jesus said. But for the most part, there's a solid through line that gives us a pretty good idea.
Speaker: of who Jesus was based on what we've been told about him. There's a lot of consistencies. And I go, I like that guy. I could get on board with some of that. But if you're just saying the Bible, it's like, what do you even mean by that, dude? you just yeah That just means you're to quote it whenever you want to rape somebody. That's all it means.
Speaker: Oh, man. hate this person. I was I was trying to I was seeing if I saved this one, this post that I saw the other day. ah it was so good, though, because it was like this.
Speaker: It was a lady who's like a on a life coach, influencer, consultant chick. And she's like, you know, about life coaches ever. She made this interview that one.
Speaker: Oh, yeah. She made this whole long slideshow about how like like if you have expensive taste, it's because God gave you expensive taste. You don't have an unrealistic standards. You have an eye for for quality and ah this and that like your lifestyle.
Speaker: God gave you that impulse and your lifestyle and income will rise to that level to. me oh My God, that's so... And then she was selling life coaching sessions and stuff on her page, and she'll help you like sculpt your social media what outreach. Why do they... Dude, what drives me absolutely fucking crazy is that someone will say that about... like We all know material, we all grew up being told material possessions can easily become an idol. It's sinful to pursue them and blah, blah, blah. Sometimes God blesses you and then you need to use that to be a blessing to others. But it's okay if you spend a little on yourself, as long as you know you're tithing at 10% and you're giving away more on top. like And you hear all the rationalizations, all the excuses. And then that she goes, for her to be like, oh, you know, if you feel this way, it's because God gave it to you. Unless you're gay, then you'll burn in hell for all of eternity because God didn't make you feel that way. He only made you like, gay you only made you like Louis Vuitton. Yeah. And wanting to get a fucking Ferrari and a fucking, uh, I don't know. Cars tried to come up with another one.
Speaker: I wish Jeremiah was good enough for our help us out. Ferrari is fine. Uh, but like these people are, it's just pathetic. It's pathetic. God cosigns everything until it's inconvenient for them. These people have no fucking value. They have no, there it's just the, okay. To use a biblical example, all their shit's built on sand. It's all fucking houses on the sand. Like you have nothing. It's so, what?
Speaker: You're not real. You're not even real. I don't even think, I think you, I, you might exist in real life, but on Reddit, like I almost, I want to believe that on Reddit when they say this shit, that's just them soft launching for like how to see how it goes on whether or not they should try to be that person in real life. And then people on Reddit are like, you're an idiot. And they're like, probably shouldn't say that out loud in my actual community.
Speaker: Yeah, i I don't I mean, i could realistically see this guy doing that sort of thing. This is like a this is him pitching like his ah like personality that he's storyboarding to see if it helps him get dates or something like that. yeah like like it's the It's the Bible version of that. Andy, but Andy, what? Andy Elliott. It's a Bible version of Andy Elliott. If Andy Elliott went like.
Speaker: evangelical this is what we'd get it's just this is this is brain rot dude this is if the internet didn't exist like the you know what i'm wrong the internet didn't change anything this is the inner this is just steak oil sales you just get to see it a lot more this is john goodman selling bibles and oh brother where art thou this is this has been around forever big john two core I do like that he, ah this guy, he's got so many weird ideas that he throws in though. Like he's like, ah my lifestyle is a mirror to women. So it doesn't go far, especially when they find out I've been celibate since birth. Most women don't like that, but I'm not going to change myself for that. I believe and have too much faith in the Bible and Jesus Christ. It's like you're posting this in the Christian dating subreddit.
Speaker: Like women rule out people who haven't been celibate since birthed here. he says, I'm also a woman who follows the Bible. It's a lifestyle for me.
Speaker: I think it's amazing that you're celibate. And so am I. What do you mean by wrong type of guy? He says, that's that oh she pursued. He says, you're most likely going with guys who go against what I'm talking about. And then in parentheses, the Bible.
Speaker: right and Oh, my God. The worldly trope, too, of, quote, unquote, approaching a woman is manly. You did something, quote, unreg, irregular to them, and they were repulsed, told another reply to this. And the men don't even realize that that's what they wanted in the first place. The world tricked them out of their position.
Speaker: How do you call it a regular? It's no it's not irregular means not regular, not normal. He's saying that a woman approaching a man is irregular and most men that's irregular to them because they've been tricked by the world into thinking that they're supposed to approach women. But it's that doesn't make it irregular. This is what's so stupid about this fucking idiot is it's not irregular. It's regular. You're saying the irregular thing. The irregular thing is that thing that people don't do or believe in. Like, why you these people who act like what the Bible, what they think the Bible says is what's normal. It's like now you're just pretending words mean whatever you want them to. Normal is whatever most people do.
Speaker: This other commenters, it is fun to watch. I feel like you rage baited me with this guy. you You're going off. I can't stop, dude. It is fun to watch like the bad ideas spiderweb in different directions. because like This guy says, ah like this is such ah ah another just like, where are you getting this idea? He goes, because women find rejection even harder than men do, they take it really personally and and and obsess over it, I think. This is what they say anyways. Yet statistically, women easily forget men from past relationships and truly don't care or think about them, while men might pine after a lost love for all his remaining life.
Speaker: So since men are discarded so easily from a woman, why is initiation of a relationship so difficult? Really hard to start one, really easy to ditch a relationship afterwards. It's like, what are you basing that on? that That is so many words to tell us that you can't get over your ex and she doesn't like you. Yeah, and she discarded me.
Speaker: That's so many words. Oh, man. Yeah, this guy, he's special. I might follow his his personal account just so I could catch some of his other posts. I didn't look through his other posts. You should.
Speaker: He's big on this. He's big on this. a shock oh shock he has a theme oh wow it's that people just get like find some hill to die on so they can like pine for relevancy He's really mad that Falcon is the new ah that got the Captain America shield.
Speaker: He rants about that. Okay. True Christian. Bitterness slash anger. america Does anyone have advice how I could work on decreasing the bitterness in me of people? I was really not respected, so to speak, growing up.
Speaker: Bullied, not included in things and events, etc. I don't want this anger in me, but I constantly feel it out in public. oh my God, this explains so much. But I don't want it there. I want to please the Lord. And I know having all this built up anger, tension and bitterness doesn't help that at all. So I'm male 22, which this was two years ago. So he's 24.
Speaker: ah Asking what a what can a young man in his 20s who was bullied when he was younger and now receiving a different type of interaction with people, but still feeling those negative feelings when he was younger cost to an extent. That's really all the feelings he knows. Wow, what a sentence. fact The fact that he doesn't recognize his need for women to pursue him stems from him being bullied as a child is and and to develop an entire theology around it.
Speaker: That's what Christians get to do. they get to be hurt they get They get to take that chip on their shoulder and develop an entire theology around it. using the Bible in whatever way they want. Like, I'm sorry you felt sad that you were left out, but for you to feel important, you need women to reach out to you. Like, that's your fucking problem, dude.
Speaker: that The Bible has nothing to do with it. Go to fucking therapy. this is where you actually murder somebody. This is a weird like Christian version of the guy who ah approaches who aggressively like approaches a woman at a club. And when she doesn't respond favorably, he like calls her a lesbian.
Speaker: Yeah. Stomps off. Yeah. Like, yeah yeah, that's what this is. It's like, you're not rejecting me. I'm rejecting you. You didn't fire me. I quit. Yeah.
Speaker: Good. Now we don't have to pay you unemployment. yeah that's ah That's a <unk> clever trick by TV shows. Yeah, right. oh TV shows always simping for the man.
Speaker: That's right. So, yeah. um Hoodie Kid, we wish you well. I don't. i hope you i hope it I hope an Acme anvil falls on your head tonight.
Speaker: there's I think about that so much. There's so many people that I just would love to see an anvil fall out of the sky. and just smash them into putty.
Speaker: it Like a big old puddle. Just like, just leave, you know, certain leaders of certain Middle Eastern countries just like, ah it looked like somebody patched a ah pothole with with red slime.
Speaker: I think. Oh, yeah. yeah Just done sorry. i'm I'm so predisposed to thinking of the Middle East in ah a post 9-11 way that I forgot that there's a ah country. One true democracy there that we. Yeah. Yeah. I forgot about that one.
Speaker: It's yeah. I realize now. sorry that got lost on me. Well, um that was fun. So, yeah. Yeah. ah Thanks for rage baiting me, asshole.
Speaker: You're welcome. This is just me being mad at this guy that I don't know, but I want to meet. Dude, he needs a he needs a Natalie Harp.
Speaker: That's what this guy needs desperately. I'm inviting him on the podcast. He has the audacity and arrogance to do it. Tell us about your theology about why women need to approach you. Oh, you were bullied as a child?
Speaker: oh where where now you need to find people who love you for you so 24 year old celibate man you have unlocked the key to godly relationships tell us a little bit about that yeah yeah what a cool guy so he's cool well thanks everybody for listening and uh we will see you next time
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