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Human Design to Guide Our Lives and Career | with Carlie Young
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Have you ever wondered what Human Design is really all about or wanted to take a deeper look? On today's episode, we invited our soul sister, Carlie Young, to give us a functional, in depth look at how we can use Human Design to support our lives, our careers and gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and how we interact with the world.
Connect with Carlie on Instagram @carlieyoungfit and find her online at http://www.heartandcoretraining.com
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Transcript
Introduction of Carly Young
00:01:20
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Welcome to the b Beyond Aesthetics podcast. We are so thrilled that you're here. i am your host, Tiffany orr This is my beautiful co-host, Jessica Peterson, and we have the most exciting guest for you guys today. We cannot wait to introduce you to her. And Jess is actually going to introduce her in our bio, and we're just going to dive right in We're really, really excited to have you here, Carly.
00:01:45
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Yes. Good morning, everybody. So today we do have such a special guest. This is our friend Carly Young and Carly is a holistic wellness mentor, Reiki master teacher, human design guide, and IFBB figure pro who helps them and heal their nervous systems, reconnect with their bodies and build strength from the inside out.
00:02:06
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She is the founder of heart and core training studio where fitness meets energy work, intuition, and conscious living. With a background in competitive bodybuilding and over a decade of coaching experience, Carly bridges the gap between discipline and softness, blending strength training, somatic practices, Reiki, and human design to create sustainable transformation. Her work is
Connection with Hosts
00:02:29
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especially focused on trauma-informed healing, midlife wellness, and helping women release burnout culture in favor of aligned embodied living. Welcome, Carly, to be Beyond Aesthetics. Thank you. Thank You're so welcome. We're so honored to have you today and the connections that we keep making just keep coming. And I just want to tell everyone real quick, like how you and I quote unquote met is at the event. um
00:03:01
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What was that event called with Marty again? It's like I'm blanking on it. oh Do any of us remember? I know we talked about it so much on the podcast, but so the event on March 22nd, where I did the the presentation for Beyond Aesthetics. So that's where I met you. And it was crazy because I was walking around the room just putting my business cards and stuff on everybody's tables. And Carly said hi to me. And I said hi to Carly as if I knew 110% who she was because I really believed that I did There was such
Journey with Human Design
00:03:39
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a strong familiarity with Carly that...
00:03:44
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I really was I I'm still kind of in shock at that moment that i didn't know you or had never met you, had never had a conversation.
00:03:54
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But we instantly clicked and started talking about human design. And it was driving me crazy for a while, actually. And then I think it was maybe that next week that I put two and two together. And I was like, oh my gosh, that's Carly, you know, from the bodybuilding world. Of course, I know who Carly is.
00:04:13
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And you had added me on Instagram literally later that day. And I was like, oh my gosh, I finally made the connection. And so that was really cool. And then, um, you know, you were the one who helped, uh, or worked with Marty and her team and did the human design class. And we were coaching one of her girls at the time. And it was life changing for her. I mean, their feedback was just so good. And then crazy enough, come to find out your my friend Kara's sister in law. And then this morning, yeah she's like, my godmother's from salmon, Idaho. And we're like, of course.
00:04:55
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course. So we have all of these really crazy connections and it just feels like you're meant to be in our circle. So we're really excited to have you here and to dive into getting to know you because I'm fascinated with your background and I want to hear all about it. And we also just want to know like,
00:05:16
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you know, who are you? Where did you come from? We love to just hear about the story behind the woman and, you know, where you came from, where are you now? Where do you want to go? and just share with us anything that comes to you, what's on your heart and, and let us into who's Carly, who's Carly Young and what are you, what are you all about?
00:05:39
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Wow. Thank you. Thanks for that. The last questions that you said just brought up so much for me because you said, who are you and where do you come from and where do you want to go?
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and it's such a crazy time for me right now because I would imagine you ladies and't know that we're in our Chiron return as a collective.
00:06:01
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no And so Chiron is shifting, but it's also my personal Chiron return. And so the energy of Chiron is the wounded healer and it is showing what has been working for the last eight years is no longer working.
Understanding Human Design Charts
00:06:16
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And so those questions are huge for me. There's been so many shifts in my business. So I'll back up and talk about kind of where I did start, how I got into what I'm doing, and then the synthesis that has happened since finding some of these energy practices. Um, i let's see, what's the the beginning, um would be when I quit drinking.
00:06:45
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And so that is now almost 16 years ago. Congratulations. And thank you. That took me on this path of rediscovery into myself and a big spiritual journey as well. And that's when i really knew that I needed to find something else for myself and kind of find myself again. And I got into bodybuilding.
00:07:11
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And from there, got into coaching bodybuilders and then really just started ah personal training on ah full level. It was never just about the body.
00:07:26
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I found a lot that when people come into bodybuilding, make changes in the body. It's going to bring changes in mental and emotional. And there's so many things or areas of life that come up when you're on that transformational journey.
00:07:46
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And then ah adding in human design and energy work happened because of the way that I'm made. So
Exploring Energy Types
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as we talk and dive into human design, you'll find that we have profiles and this is how we show up in life. This is our ah kind of our character in life, what we embody in every aspect of what we learn and what we do. And I'm experiential by nature and then teach others what I've learned through my own experience.
00:08:21
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And so when I found human design, it really just gave me permission to embrace the pieces of me that had been pointed out in detriment throughout my life. And that would have been starting with being diagnosed at six years old with ADHD.
00:08:39
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And now understanding that my energy is the busiest of all human design energy types, and I'm supposed to move quickly do two or more things at a time, pivot, change, be wild and expressive. And it really was just the permission. And then I started just incorporating it with my clients. And the more that I read charts for the people that I already knew, family members, um my partner, i just started finding that it hit for every single person. And there was aspects of it that they were like,
00:09:18
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what?
00:09:21
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What's happening? This is, this is woo woo. And like, yeah, yeah.
00:09:29
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And so then it just started really integrating itself into my practice because I was able to tailor the way that I moved with that person based off of how their energy works and to embrace the way that they were meant to operate instead of creating resistance because we're not all created the same.
00:09:52
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And so to have a blueprint that shows us the way that we're meant to interact, it really helped me to coach them on an even deeper level. Wow. So I don't know where I'm going with this. And that's totally fine.
00:10:08
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Well, it's totally fine. beat It is totally fine. We're into it. Keep going. Whatever flows. Let's just, yes, let's keep going. Cause I'm already so intrigued and fascinated.
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but
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um the The cool thing, what's coming up to share is that I would imagine that it came up for you guys that this is something that's completely niche for you to be doing, to be creating a podcast around estheticians, but creating it in a manner that gave them like a ah ah rounded perspective of themselves. but then that also helps them to grow their business. And that's what I found with incorporating different things. Everybody would have said that you're supposed to stick to one niche. You need to only do this.
00:11:07
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And, you know, even when i entered the ah wellness and fitness industry. I was approached by different companies and corporations about creating programs around just specifically sobriety.
00:11:24
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And I don't didn't know why then, and I know why now. I just knew that that wasn't what I was supposed to be doing. yeah I was supposed to be multifaceted and helping people in all different areas because we all have different things that affect us.
00:11:47
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It's yes. I mean, i think we're both so into what you're saying because that is where Beyond Aesthetics was born. it if It's the exact same thing. You know, we're we're working
Improving Interactions through Human Design
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with estheticians or I was working with them for for years as an educator.
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and then I'd sit down and have conversations with a solo esthetician and quickly realize what you're saying. I'm like, ah you're being held back in you know this particular area because this other area of your life or, you know, just, it is so multifaceted. There's layers to everything. And I really like What you're saying, i mean, when you're working with someone in fitness, you can't just work on the body without everything else coming to play. And that's how we feel about an aesthetics career. You can't just work on the career without all of these other things coming into play. So it's so in alignment with where we've come from and exactly what Beyond Aesthetics is all about is the esthetician as a whole person.
00:12:51
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Having support. for estheticians, for you as a human and in your career, because it does all go together. Absolutely. So we feel it so much.
00:13:03
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Yeah. And I was thinking about this this morning because you ladies know that all things are energy. Everything is energy. And so knowing that you're working in an environment one-on-one generally with someone and touching them.
00:13:18
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Yeah. There is so much to that. There's so much emotion that can come up. There is vulnerability that can come up. You exchange energy because there's such an intimate connection when you're in someone else's aura.
00:13:36
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And the more that you can understand that, then the more that you have the ability to stay centered in your own energy because we can be affected by others.
00:13:46
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Yes. Big time. Absolutely. Big time. So how do you incorporate human design with your clients? Like what does that look like for you specifically?
00:14:02
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That's great question. It usually just depends on the person and what we're doing, but i'll just pull their chart out and start talking to them about how their energy is meant to interact. People get really curious about it when we start from an outside in perspective. So I didn't know if I should screen share, but I think I'm just going to hold something up. You said a lot of people don't actually see this. So I'm going to talk as succinctly as I can to share the information. And then if anyone's interested in having their chart ran, I am happy to do that. And we can just share info at the end to where they can contact me because I love this.
00:14:44
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I have such a passion for this because it's given me again, permission to not only embrace the way that I'm made to interact, but because I'm doing that, I feel better. Yeah. I feel so good.
00:14:59
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So I pulled up your ladies' charts, and we're just going to use those as ah kind of an example. Let's see. Who's this? This is Tiffany.
00:15:13
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Okay. So this is a human design chart. And as you'll see, oh, okay.
00:15:21
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It's super in-depth. Yes. And the reason being is that it is a synthesis of ancient wisdoms. So it is a combination of astrology, the Chinese I Ching, Kabbalah, and the chakras.
00:15:37
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okay Okay, so the beautiful thing that I really love about the guy that went out and channeled or downloaded all this information is what he said. He said, the information was always here.
00:15:52
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the collective is now ready to hear it. That's why I'm receiving the information to channel it and to bring it to initiate change.
00:16:04
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but That gives me so many chills. And that was in 1987. So, and and that is how I feel like so many of these stories start. This guy goes out on this mystical journey by himself and the wilderness. He comes back and it's like, Whoa, you're not going to believe this shit. So true. but So what he was saying when he came back
00:16:28
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at the time that our soul enters our body And when we're born, we are imprinted with genetic information.
00:16:39
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And it is planetary particle implantation. It's the same thing that happens when you're born under a specific sun sign. So ladies, you're cancer. So when you were born, the sun was receiving information through cancer.
00:16:55
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And that is the astrological stars, right? And so that is the birth and death of stars, which they are calling, it's it's called neutrinos. And those neutrinos imprint at that time.
00:17:09
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It
Profiles and Incarnation Crosses
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actually is happening all the time. This is why we're affected by Mercury retrograde and full moons and you know different transits as things move. But at these times,
00:17:24
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This is when you receive your information. And there are 64 different gates. b
00:17:37
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Okay, so I sometimes will get ahead of myself. I'm going to back up. The planetary particle implantation will show here. This is where all of the planets were at when you were born. Okay, that is on the right side of the chart. It's black. If it's in color. And then the left side of the chart is your design side. That's where all the planets were at when your soul entered your body and it's red.
00:18:02
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Okay. Out of those, there are 64 different possibilities of. genetic or energetic expressions.
00:18:13
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And the Chinese knew about this and they wrote about it in what's called the gene keys. This was written over 3000 years ago, long before they knew we had 64 codons in our DNA. Okay.
00:18:27
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That's the kind of information that when people say, this is woo, I just go, well, here's how it works. So take it and experiment and see what you think. Yeah.
00:18:38
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So when we fill in all of those gifts or gates for Tiffany, we get this. Okay.
00:18:49
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So there's nine different centers in your body graph. As we fill in those gates, you will have hanging gates or you can create a channel. Where the channel comes together, you have definition in that center.
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So those are the ones that are colored in. oh Your defined centers are where you have definitive energy and how you show up in the world.
00:19:16
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Okay. Your open centers, which are white, are where you take in energy from outside of yourself and amplify it like a gift. It's kind of the lessons that you come to embody. Okay. Okay.
00:19:33
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All of that, to be said, creates this container of energy. And there's five different energy types in human design. And Tiffany, you are a generator.
00:19:47
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Okay. oh hu Jess, because Jess is a manifesting generator. I'm also a manifesting generator. Then the other three energy types are projectors, manifestors, and reflectors.
00:20:04
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okay Generators and manifesting generators are the most prominent of the energy types, making up high 30 percentiles in each of those because they have consistent workforce life force energy.
00:20:19
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And so we need workers and energy. ah Projectors are the next most, um I guess, populous in the energy types, about 18 to 20%. And then manifestors, ah about 8 to 10%. And it just fluctuates according to what's needed. And then reflectors are 1%. because they have nothing defined, nothing colored in. Everything is open. They're pure reflection of the people and environment around them. And they have no
00:20:58
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inner authority in their body telling them how to make a decision. And so they are meant to wait 28 days before making a decision, a full lu lunar cycle. Wow. Isn't that wild? Yeah. I'm trying to think of anyone I know that could be a reflector.
00:21:16
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I'm sure there's someone, but it would, it would track like those people who just can't make a decision, who cannot stand by like anything. They've got to be a reflector, right?
00:21:28
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I mean, possibly. Okay. You know, because then we can come into what the conditioning is, what they've been. And so here's what I would love all of your listeners to take away in this is that some of it's going to hit for you and some of it might not.
00:21:44
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The best thing to do is to experiment. And we can talk about what that experiment can look like in the beginning with just your type, which is generator. And then we're going to talk about strategy and authority. So I just told you the reflectors authority is no inner authority. So they have to wait a full lunar cycle. So let's talk about the generators. Okay. Okay. listen in Yeah. Generators, their strategy in life is super simple.
00:22:17
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Wait to respond.
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Wait to respond. Wait to respond. What does that mean though? Does that mean process it? Does it just mean wait for intuition? Great question. of Then we defer to your authority. So the way that you know is in response is how your inner authority tells you about what you're being offered, shown,
00:22:45
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what you're responding to. And so for you, you have sacral authority.
00:22:54
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She's um there goes the sacral. And so the sacral answers in the moment, uh-huh or uh-uh. It is pure generated response from the body.
00:23:06
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It will feel like an expansion when it's a yes. I just got like, it feels really good because I'm also sacral and it will feel like a contraction when it's a no.
00:23:19
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A gut response. Yes. Yes. perfect So someone with sacral authority or even someone like Jess who has sacral, she has a defined sacral, but she is emotional authority.
00:23:35
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And we'll go into that nuance in a second. Someone with a sacral does best with yes or no questions. Open-ended questions can feel, aa overwhelming.
Coaching and Business Applications
00:23:49
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Like, uh, can I have some options? Uh, And that's what I'll say to my partner. Can you help me to, do you know, can you help me to figure this out with a few yes or no questions or a few clarifying questions for me? You know, like, what do you want for dinner? i was just thinking that, like, what for dinner? Would you like to have steak? Mm-hmm.
00:24:10
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Right. Yes. but And the more that you listen to your sacral in those small moments, because it is possible through conditioning to kind of override the body. Yeah.
00:24:25
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Right. Because we feel like we're supposed to go to the mind. So it is possible to override that. But the more that you listen to it, a small moments or start to kind of prime it, then the louder it's going to get. And the more you're going to notice that. Okay.
00:24:39
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Okay. So super simple for you, Tiffany. I didn't say easy, it's simple. Just noticing when, when life is happening or, you know, when you're thinking about business, waiting to respond
00:24:59
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and then deferring to your authority, which is your sacral. Okay. Okay. So it's not going to respond is, can be hard for me.
00:25:10
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ah it was just going to say, right. Because we've been taught that we need to push and we're supposed to hustle, especially as a business owner. And so here's the beautiful thing about waiting. It doesn't just mean doing nothing.
00:25:21
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What it does mean is you get to be doing things that you love. And the more that you are doing things that light you up, it is going to ignite the fire in your sacral which will burn really hot. And then people are going to be drawn to you and then you get to respond.
00:25:39
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Okay. Okay. i love that. My whole head is just like, tingling right now. I'm tingling from head to toe right now. Cause it feels so good. Cause when you feel that that's alignment, that's like, okay, that feels true.
00:25:57
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Even though it can feel like hard, I'm supposed to wait, do nothing. No, I didn't say like, please don't do nothing. Do things that you love. And especially as a sacral being,
00:26:09
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being in your body and moving. So I don't know if that means nature, dancing, working out. It's not in the mind. it is in the body move. Then clarity will come. Things will happen or be in your space.
00:26:26
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Yeah. Right. You love your space. Be looking at your products, smelling your products, hanging out, looking at your calendar, seeing what's open, you know, the stuff that you love to do. Yes.
00:26:38
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yes Okay. I
Integration in Wellness Practices
00:26:41
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needed to hear that actually, actually with both parts of it, like moving my body, liz which I love to do, but we've been bringing up dance. i I grew up a dancer. I love to dance. I haven't danced for several years, even just silly dancing. And I think just like hearing that again and being in my body, my head, And then, um, but also that other side of that way, you said of being in my space. Cause I recently just removed my office back to sweet cheeks and I'm in my space more now in and the last month than I have been in years. And I'm spending time here and spending time with my products and everything in my business is thriving because of it. And I feel like my life is thriving because of it. So yeah, I love hearing that.
00:27:27
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That's so great. So beautiful. Thank you. Thank you so much for sharing that. I'm we pulling my chart. i love it so much. Yeah, you're welcome.
00:27:38
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I'm going to share something else with Tiffany while we're on her chart. I know that we're going from an outside in perspective, but I love to bring in some things that might hit for you. Tiffany, you have an open throat.
00:27:50
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So if we look at the nine centers of the body, the very top one is the head. And then the one below that is the Ajna. And then below that, that square is the throat and yours is open. um What does that mean? It does.
00:28:06
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i'm gonna I'm going to tell you. I'm so
00:28:14
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Having an open throat means that you are not meant to start conversations. And you may have been told your whole life that you were quiet until you get to know her or she was shy or as a child, it could have brought a feeling of not knowing when to interject into a conversation. And so it may have brought like hesitation or blurting, interrupting, um that kind of energy, feeling pressure to speak, especially when in a group. But the best thing with an open throat is waiting to respond until someone says, hey, Tiffany, what do you think? Because then in the moment, your throat, that energy center is going to know what to say because it is open to what is in need needing to be heard.
00:29:04
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At that time. That is fascinating. Do you know, i feel that I feel that even on this podcast, i'm just going to vulnerable right here with you and our listener, but feeling like, when do I need to speak? Cause like Jess is our, is our leader for be beyond aesthetics. love that she's our leader and she does. You do lead the conversation so much and I'm so grateful that you do. And then, but there's times where I'm like, when do i when do i where's my part in this? Right. I think just having that permission and under and knowing that about myself, cause I have, I have been told that my whole life, I was a super shy child. and did It didn't, couldn't feel it or didn't, i i don't even know how to express it.
00:29:48
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Maybe as a kid didn't know when to speak up, couldn't feel like I could talk at certain times. And so that's always just been like a struggle for me. um So that's very fascinating. yeah And so just giving you permission to embrace that because that's literally how you're made.
00:30:08
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You are meant to be quiet until in the moment you respond. And honoring that because your throat's not connected to a motor center. So when you honor that, you're gonna honor your throat and everything that's correlated with it, which is gonna be the thyroid specifically. And it's not surprising that Jess is the leader in the podcast because she has a defined throat. I know you guys are shocked. No, it it is. It's so funny because it's something that Tiff and I have had to work on together because she does feel that way.
00:30:43
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And we're really open and have these conversations and we've worked on it and we've come a long way. But it's so interesting because i feel like Tiffany asks the best questions in the moment.
00:30:54
Speaker
You know, like we'll be the conversation and sometimes we have more defined outlines and it's just like all of a sudden she just... She brings in these questions that are just absolutely meant to be there. So none of that surprises me. Yeah.
00:31:11
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Yeah.
00:31:14
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Love it. I love this so much. see That's why we work so well together. is. You have a lot of differences in your chart, which can bring a lot of connection and a great pairing.
00:31:30
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And sometimes it can bring resistance or a little bit of conflict because your energies interact differently. And that's the beautiful thing. That's what you're here to figure out yeah with each other and in life for sure.
00:31:50
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um Let's see, where else should i just keep going? Yeah. Yes. Whatever you feel like sharing is great. Yes. Her sacral said, hmm, hmm. Okay, so then let's just go into Jess's chart because she has a different authority.
00:32:06
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And she is a manifesting generator. And you guys heard me talk about the other energy types and that there's a manifester type. So the manifesting generator is a combo of manifester and generator.
00:32:22
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And so the manifesting generator is also a Worker, workforce, life force, energy, but also meant to initiate, a manifest. And so they are very busy energy, the busiest of all the energy types, literally meant to do two or more things at a time. So not just figuratively, not just like when you're cleaning your house and you're doing all of the things at once, not just one room, but figuratively, you're doing two or more things at a time.
00:32:58
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Right. yeah And so went with this, yeah, with this energy type, um there's already a little caveat with her. And this is kind of deep, but you're gonna grasp it.
00:33:19
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You guys both are and your listeners are gonna get it. So in order to be a manifesting generator, you need to have a defined sacral and a defined throat, okay?
Reiki and Human Design Synergy
00:33:32
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Which Jessica has.
00:33:36
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If you are a pure manifesting generator, then the throat and the sacral will be connected through this pure manifesting generator channel. Hers is not.
00:33:49
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That is because it is connected this way through the emotional solar plexus. Is this ringing for you, Jess? Yeah, I think we talked about this and when we met. Yeah, for sure. And I actually, it's something I think about all the time.
00:34:07
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So what this means for her is that she is more manifestor with generator properties. Yeah. So she can work and she may have a rest cycles, and needs a little bit more rest, not as busy as a pure manifesting generator and more emotional. And the emotional is what,
00:34:32
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brings a message that you're not ready to make a decision. If you're in the emotion, if you are feeling emotional about it, if you are in a high, if you're riding an emotional wave in a high or in a low, it is not time to decide. The decision comes when clarity comes.
00:34:51
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Yeah.
00:34:55
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And in the moment, you can still receive those guttural responses. Or yes or no, which can sometimes help that emotional wave.
00:35:06
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And so what that means is instead of deciding right now, which Tiffany is like, mm-hmm, let's done, decisions made. You ride the emotional wave until you have clarity, which means you get to ask for time.
00:35:22
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When someone asks you to do something and your body goes, then that means you get to say something like, when do you need to know by? Can I sleep on that? Like, you know, what's my, what's the end time that you need to know?
00:35:38
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And then when it's time, you'll know. Yeah, absolutely. It'll feel like a breath, like is what I've been told. i don't know what it feels like in the body.
00:35:49
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So with someone with emotional authority, I recommend that they journal through their emotions or just notice how they're feeling and then notice what clarity feels like. And it may feel different.
00:36:02
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for different sized decisions, right? Going to a concert two weeks from now or moving orre getting a new job probably are gonna feel a little bit different.
00:36:16
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yeah I would imagine. yeah
00:36:21
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00:36:26
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Jessica has one of my favorite gifts or gates in all of human design. And I love it because learned from experimenting something that I've experienced myself. So I also have this gift and this is the gate of shock.
00:36:47
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And this gate or gift, I use the words interchangeably because they do mean the same thing, is gate 51. And it comes out of this little teeny triangle, which they call the ego or the will center. And the ego is more of like a tribal energy, meaning if it's good for me, it's good for the tribe.
00:37:09
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And I have will energy to make sure that everybody is taken care of. Okay, so a little bit different use of that word than maybe what we see in spiritual community.
00:37:21
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um So this gate 51, the gate of shock, literally uses shock to initiate change and transformation.
00:37:35
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Usually through things that you say or things that you do. Can love to say shocking things just for fun.
00:37:44
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Does this ring? I don't know her very well. tony floppy What do you say, Tim? It's that it does for me. or hu yeah For her. Yeah. Yes. Yes. Usually it's the people around you that are going to notice that. I feel like that's what makes you such a great speaker or presenter in person with like a group or crowd of people.
00:38:10
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Yes. yes but but Yes. And here's the thing is that sometimes it's not even that we've said something dramatic or different than someone has heard before. It is the energy behind it because your energy specifically is gifted to when it is said they feel the need to transform or change.
00:38:39
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You then give them the permission.
00:38:46
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That's a beautiful gift. It's a beautiful gift. Sometimes. It is. Sometimes people do not like it.
00:38:55
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Right. And that's not yours. it's Yeah. it's it's Tiffany knows this about me. It's like every once in a while, though, it like... I say something without even like to me, it doesn't mean anything, right? Like I just whatever and they take it in a in a way and it's it's hard for me to not own that too. So I feel like that's kind of both a blessing and a curse sometimes, but it's usually a blessing. It's usually really good. But every once in a while, i'm like, oh, man, that is not what i not what I said or like not at all what I meant. Definitely not my intention.
00:39:38
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Yeah. So see these gates, they have a gift side and then they do have a shadow side. Now, if you're operating in your gift and you're saying things in kindness to Initiate change and transformation.
00:39:52
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ah Sometimes we can say shocking shit just for shock's sake, is what it says, is what the energy says.
Relationship Dynamics
00:40:01
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Right. But also another piece of your chart specifically, Jess, is that you are a mirror to others.
00:40:10
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And so that part is probably what is bringing in that defensiveness. So you have in your profile lines, which is the character of your type. So we talked about the container of your energy, right? And those are the energy types.
00:40:29
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And then the profile in your human design chart is the character of your type, what you've come to embody in every aspect of what you do. And I was telling you earlier that I'm an experimenter. That's the three. And I'm actually a three, five. And the five is the heretic or the visionary leader. And that is the first number in your profile is the five. And it is literally the karmic mirror. Others are going to see in you what they need to heal in themselves.
00:41:10
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I'm so curious, like how what is coming up for you, Jess? How does that make you feel? already told me this. you this but Yeah, this is, yeah. No, I've thought about it a lot since she said it. And I feel kind of similar to, you know, just before it's like, it can be good and it can, you know, not be good.
00:41:30
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Didn't feel hard. Yeah. Yeah. So I think that it's something that I want to learn more about. Right. So that I can, um,
00:41:41
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um I don't want to say master that gift necessarily, but I think bringing awareness to it and learning more about it would be really beneficial for me for sure.
00:41:53
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From experience, and I've only in this life have experienced this profile, it feels really hard. It feels really hard when people put their stuff onto me.
00:42:05
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as a five. And I also know that that's happening because I'm meant to help or to heal them in some way, even if they get upset in the moment at me. So the more that we can kind of just fling that off and literally Jess, i want you to practice that. If you feel it, when you feel it, just go like this, just fling it off of your body and say, that is not mine.
00:42:29
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It's not mine. And when you do that energetically, generally what happens is someone will come back to you and go, I'm sorry that i reacted that way. And I know that you are kind and that you care about me and you love me or, you know, or not. It may take them time to work through it. And it may be on the flip side that I could have said it a little bit softer. i could have said it in a manner that would have been received differently. And I also know my energy is big. And so it's like, well, am I supposed to?
00:43:01
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tap it down. don't, you know, I don't know. and probably is just situational. It is. And Tiffany knows, like, I just went through one of the hardest experiences of my life with this. And I literally just got back from a vacation last night, trying to like, let it go and to process it. And, and that is really how felt was just that,
00:43:24
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I I'm, it's so important for me to know that I could, I, there's just situations where I can soften it up. You know what I mean? With, and it's always good to know that. And, and that is kind of what I kept getting. it is what I kept getting when I was on my trip and it kept like replaying in my head. I was like, it's not yours to carry, you know, it's, it's not yours to carry. It's reflective of something else that's in them. And you really can let it go and just love unconditionally, no matter what, and keep moving forward. So it is so interesting to hear you say this and like Tiff, what's interesting is that when that happened and I was telling you about it, i was thinking about Carly telling me that that day,
00:44:13
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Like I knew what had happened, you know, and that that's what the situation was, which helped me to move through it too. Again, knowing my human design and that you and I had had that conversation and,
00:44:25
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it It did make it a little bit easier to navigate. And I think that that is the power of human design, like you're saying, whenever we can have a deeper understanding of ourselves, it really does make navigating, especially interpersonal relationships and and reactions, like so much, I don't know, easier, but like you have a better understanding of it. You know, it's one of the biggest benefits.
00:44:54
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Right. You just go, oh, that's just the energy. Exactly. Yeah. That's how it works. That's how it's working. Yep. And it would be interesting to like, no, in like that particular instance that you went through, like what their human design is too.
00:45:08
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And like, so I know we can't know that about every interpersonal relationship we have or interaction we have with people, but it would just be, it would give even more clarity and understanding. Mm-hmm.
00:45:20
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Yeah, it definitely has helped me with my partner and my children and my grandchildren to understand how their energy moves. Yes. um And we can't bend and change the way that we do things in every second. What we can do is when something like that happens, do exactly what you did. Get out of the aura of other people. So you're only in your own energy. clear yourself. And then that's when you can get into your body and understand what's true.
00:45:56
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Yeah. And then it feels less weighty. You know, it's so interesting about that too, since we're having this conversation and Tiffany, I haven't shared this with you yet, but because of that situation, I did kind of, um, over soften and kind of my interactions with people after that have been so different that,
00:46:17
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I was sitting with people who I've known for a very, very long time, you know, very close. And at the end of my time with them, they were like, are you okay yeah It's that like, is everything good? Are you okay? And I was like, yeah, no, I'm good. Like I'm happier than I've ever been. Everything's really good. But it was because now I'm like overly cautious.
Benefits for Estheticians
00:46:41
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you know, and now that's not really resonating either with people who know me. They're like, ah, how are you? And so it's so interesting to hear you say that, that like I, you really do have to, fly yeah. Okay. Sorry. This isn't all about me, but I didn't know it's so great. And that's why you just say and I think it's so important and so interesting.
00:47:04
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You literally have, and I was just looking at it. That's what I was doing. I was opening to this channel that you have between your throat and your emotional solar plexus. And this channel, which is what connects the channel is what connects your throat to the emotional solar plexus. Okay.
00:47:27
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And the reason that part of it is black and part of it is red is that one of those gifts is on your personality side. And one of those gifts comes from your design side. So one, you notice more than the other, which is gift 12, which is literally gate of caution out of the throat.
00:47:51
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And so it is about being cautious when emotions are high.
00:47:57
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And so that channel specifically, when it connects with the other side, which is openness, you're open to the emotion and to feeling through it. When they connect, it is the channel of openness.
00:48:15
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It's deeply emotional and has to wait for the right mood to speak. So maybe just notice that. So when you're cautious, that's because of the mood that's happening and maybe still what you're working through energetically through the emotion. Yeah.
00:48:31
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I love it. And it says here, and I was going to share this with your listeners because it rang so true for me that there is also grace and charm in this energy.
00:48:43
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ah And that is you, girlfriend. Thank you. I received that. It just says that it is char but right timing is crucial for the correct mutation.
00:49:01
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And so... This is how we learn when things happen, regardless of if it's ours or not ours, or, you know, both people had growth in that place, but it's bringing you to embody that energy more.
00:49:17
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hu And so it might just take some time to really come back to center as that pendulum kind of goes like, okay. Yeah.
00:49:28
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Carly, i have a question. Do you like through human design of in your education and what you've been taught and your beliefs? Do we come into this life with choice and authority? Do we choose this human design for ourselves? Like, can you give us your perspective on that?
00:49:51
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What a great question. Yeah, i I fully believe that before we come embodied, that it is based off of karma, dharma, ah genetics, meaning our family lineage on both sides and what needs to be healed and grown through. And that we kind of, I don't know exactly how it works, but we kind of like, you know, pick what's going to happen and then spin the wheel. Here we go.
00:50:20
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And so I'm not sure if then God goes, okay, because of all of that, here's you know how you're made. you know that's That's big. That is big.
00:50:35
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But I definitely believe that we come serve a specific purpose. Mm-hmm.
00:50:46
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And that that is chosen prior to incarnation.
00:50:53
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And that leads me to want to talk about the incarnation cross in human design. Okay.
00:51:04
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And as I say that, I feel like I need to talk about the profile lines really quick for your listeners. So the profile lines come from the degree that the sun was at,
00:51:14
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in your personality and your design side. So when you look at that very first box on both sides of your chart, you will see that there is a little point. Jess says 39.5.
00:51:30
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that's where the five comes from. And then the other side says 51.1. And that's where the one comes from. and then the other side says fifty one point one and that's where the one comes from
Personal Growth and Future Directions
00:51:42
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And so that's the five one that's her profile. That's her character of her energy type and what she came to embody and everything that she does is the heretic investigator. Okay.
00:52:04
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So now let's go into incarnation cross, because this is your true purpose and what you came embodied to do in this lifetime. And this comes from the first four gates in your chart. So your personality sun and your design sun, and then your personality earth and your design earth.
00:52:23
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And those four energies synthesized create your purpose in life.
00:52:32
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And there are three different types of incarnation crosses. And I love that we have the two of you because you each have a different incarnation cross type.
00:52:45
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And Jess, you are a left angle cross. And the left angle cross is literally here to help others in order to help themselves.
00:52:55
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And you are the left angle cross of individualism.
00:53:01
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And I'm going to need to go into this. Here we go. to be able to read because there's 197, I believe, different incarnation crosses. So I don't have that oh memorized. but Okay, Jess. So here is your purpose in life. Are you ready for this?
00:53:25
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Yeah. You are here to be an individual and march to your own drum. Your contribution is the chance you give society to adopt some of your individual elements.
00:53:38
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This will not sit well with everyone. So it may be provoking at times, ultimately leading to change.
00:53:50
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So earlier I had said that you have that gift, gift, gate 51, the gate of shock. Well, it's your son design.
00:54:01
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You are designed to provoke change and others, and it may not feel good for them.
00:54:11
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Tiffany likes it. love it Tiffany actually loves this about me. i do She has to like really, um coach me through it and talk me through it a lot, actually. So Tiffany picked up on this a long time ago.
00:54:29
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Yeah. Yeah. i love I love this about you. It's one of my favorite things. And it's what drew me to you, truly. There we go. I was tell her, like, Tiff, not everyone loves that.
00:54:44
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Those people aren't for you. Yeah. No, it is. It's interesting how Tiffany and I have just ended up in this relationship that we're in because it's like, she loves this about me and has been able to coach me through it. And then like vice versa, when you're saying these things about Tiffany, I'm like, yes. And this is what I love about her. Yeah.
00:55:07
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Right. Then those are your people when they see your gifts and they don't take offense to them. That's really beautiful. Yeah. Yeah. And Tiffany, you're a right angle cross. oh the right angle cross is more interpersonal. So you're literally here to help yourself first in order to help others.
00:55:29
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I feel like that tracks. It sounds selfish, but I do feel like that tracks very much. There's no such thing as selfish. Good. Have you ever listened to Abraham Hicks?
00:55:42
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No. Okay. and we can talk about that for time. And what Abraham Hicks say is, what do you mean selfish? So instead of taking care of me, you want me to take care of you.
00:55:54
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Doesn't that in turn make you selfish? Oh, I need to take care of myself so that others don't have to. That's a difference between like self-absorbed. If someone is self-absorbed or hurting others, very different. yeah But you literally have to fill your cup and take care of yourself first.
00:56:13
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So true. It's a very true.
00:56:19
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i'm I'm laughing because I'm reading Tiffany's incarnation cross and I don't know her very well, but I'm seeing some of the elements of her chart as a synthesis of energy. And Tiffany is um has an idea of how things can be, answers the questions, categorizes, divides, organized. um And so she is the right angle cross of laws
00:56:50
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yeah just Just nods her head. Oh, that's funny. so Let me pull your chart up so I can just touch on this really quick for you and your listeners and tell you what that means. And for your listeners, I mean, they can definitely contact me to run their chart, but also know that when you run it,
00:57:14
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Sometimes this feels like word soup when I say the incarnation cross, but what you can do is take the energies of each of these four gifts, right? I told you it's your personality, sun, design, sun, personality, earth, design, earth. And you just take those four energies and just use one word from each of them.
00:57:35
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Okay.
00:57:38
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And then it's more succinct and simple. Mm-hmm. So Tiffany, let me do let me read your word soup. Okay. The right angle cross of laws, two, actually. You are here to talk about ideal laws and rules of organizational structures. You promote change through your vision of what is possible should the right rules be in place.
00:58:05
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Details of this ideal structure are not something you will spend time on, but you will be inspired to share
Upcoming Collective Shifts
00:58:11
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the dream and speak about how it will make things better. Okay.
00:58:19
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Yep. who That tracks so hard just because I'm like, okay. And like coaching, for instance, I'm like, I've done it. I've lived it. This is what I've learned from it. This is my setbacks. And here's a blueprint for you. This is how you get from X, your to Z. Yes.
00:58:42
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And that also tracks with your profile lines because you are a one three. So you're the investigator and the martyr or the experimenter. So you literally help others because you've done it. And then they want to know how you did it. And sometimes it doesn't work out. The three as an experimenter can have failure losses, right? It's lessons, right? It's feedback. And as long as you take it as feedback and as a lesson, you get to share that. And that's where your power is. That's where your energy is.
00:59:22
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oh my gosh. Now, both of you as the investigator don't get stuck in the investigation, right? You want to know all the things. You want to know how it all goes.
00:59:34
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Sometimes you can experiment too long and kind of miss the boat. So just jump in. Hmm. Ooh, I, uh, I definitely agree with that. Well, and sometimes too, it's interesting because I watch other people do that. We do like as coaches, we're like, okay, but eventually you got to just do the damn thing. You know, you've got to like, you know, the experiment for so long and then just make that decision. And yeah, Tiffany, this is you for like, especially the last, you know, three or four years. Oh my gosh. I know. I mean, always, but man, it is really showing up. Yeah.
01:00:11
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it has come to the surface hard. That's why it resonates so much. Cause I'm like, absolutely. This is me and my life. <unk> I love that. It does hit for you.
01:00:25
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And again, just so that your listeners know, like when you run your type, you may feel like, I don't know. I don't know if that's me. I would just recommend that you experiment, experiment. What happens when you honor your strategy and authority,
01:00:42
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See how you feel.
01:00:46
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See how you feel when you read about what your energy type is and how it's meant to move. And when you give yourself permission to do that, when you give yourself permission to pivot, Jess, and change directions, even mid project, or you know, oh, we were going to go to dinner there, but now I don't want to go over here.
01:01:08
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Give yourself permission to do that. Give yourself permission, Tiffany, to keep going, even when it feels like somebody else learned it quicker than you, because in your linear process, you're going to get there. You're going to get there and you're going to catch up to them. That's just how your process works is it's very linear and you're going to keep going and you will get there.
01:01:31
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If that doesn't hit. It makes so much sense, which like I get frustrated with that, Yeah. And I know that just, I'm a linear person. I know, I know that that's how I like operate and I get frustrated with it. And I do feel like, man, they got there quicker, you know, they got their dream house and I'm still over here, you know, renting my house. I mean, like that kind of stuff I get frustrated about. And, but at the same time,
01:02:03
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that trust and that intuition I do have in my sacral authority, I do know, I know with everything in my being that it is mine, that I will have all of those things that I want.
01:02:16
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Right.
01:02:18
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that's a guidepost for you also with the energy type that you are, you will have a specific theme in life that will tell you um if you're in alignment and yours is either satisfaction or frustration.
01:02:38
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Yeah. So when I'm feeling frustrated, I'm not operating in alignment. is that what you're saying? Yeah, you're probably operating in your mind and I'm not in my single authority.
01:02:51
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her Oh. You're either, you know, pushing or... h ahha What came up for me when you said that they built their dream house and I'm over here. I'm like, yeah, owning a business.
01:03:05
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Yeah. mean And building that. And so when we compare with others, that's also just information for you. When you see that and you have that feeling, it's because you're kind of sorting through life experiences going, that's what I want.
01:03:21
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I want that. And the more that we can say, I want that and I will have it, then that's going to help you to stay in that satisfaction.
01:03:33
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hmm.
01:03:35
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Oh man, this is so fascinating. I am just, I could eat this up so much. I know. Maybe we should have like a series. Cause I think that this is such important information. I think, you know, Carly earlier, you were talking about just estheticians working so closely with people too. And like that energy exchange and all of that. And you and I are very aligned on that and like the nervous system and all that, but like man, i can just see how beneficial that human design can be for all estheticians, especially like solo estheticians. And how do you think, like what would you say might be the one thing when it comes to, let's just say an esthetician working with her clients in the treatment room?
01:04:24
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What would be the most important thing you think human design could do for them just in that particular scenario? Because there's obviously many scenarios that it could help. But what do you think with that, like interpersonal in the treatment room with the clients might be like one or two main things that they would benefit from learning their human design?
01:04:42
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Understanding their environment.
01:04:48
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hmm.
01:04:51
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their environment because we all have a different environment that we're meant to operate in specifically. So that would be really helpful for them. um Oh gosh. Well, that's one thing.
01:05:06
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Did you say one thing? Yeah. What came up for me with most estheticians is kind of what we were just talking about with Tiffany is that in an industry that has a lot of different people, You're going to have a lot of different clients and there's someone for everyone. So if you are outside of yourself and you're in your mind and you're thinking about how somebody else is doing it, then you're not actually focused on yourself and your business. yeah So my suggestion to any of you any, anyone that owns a business, regardless if it's an esthetician or a personal trainer is to get in your body
01:05:41
Speaker
and honor your authority about what you're doing in your business, because it's not supposed to be the same as somebody else's. You need to be embodying your gifts so that you can show up for the clients that are attracted to you, because they're the the reason that they're attracted to you is because of your energy and how it hits for them.
01:06:00
Speaker
Oh, my is crap ah so much. Yes. Cause I'm, and obviously this is in any industry, but the amount of comparison with estheticians is wild and that's a, you know, stay in your lane. Not everybody's businesses are meant to be the same. Not every client is meant to be your client And the more you are in your authenticity and in your own body and really owning your gifts. And i think with human design, learning more about what that really is and experimenting with it, you really are going to draw in the best people for you. And this is a relationship based industry. Yes.
01:06:42
Speaker
So understanding your human design, again, we are talking a lot about how that affects your interpersonal relationships too. And so maybe the next thing would be like relationships with your clients. Number one would be understanding your environment and learning your human design will help you with that. then like learning how best to interact with your clients and how to draw in the clients that you're looking for and not comparing yourself to other people. Man, there's so many avenues that that would be so helpful for beauty professionals. Yeah.
01:07:12
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Mm-hmm. Yes, I agree. i love that. I have a quick question about Reiki. Yes. So, you know, when we keep talking about like your sacral authority, you know, being in your mind, all of that, I mean, then there's got to be a way, I think maybe like at the forefront of our goals would be to keep your chakra centers more balanced, right? Because if you're a sacral authority, but your sacral is...
01:07:45
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out of whack. Yeah. like i Yeah. You're just going to have such a harder time. You know, that is probably where a lot of resistance comes from. And so is that why you were drawn to Reiki or like which one came first or how did the two mingle and mesh together? Because it it seems like the more we talk about human design, I'm like, well, now, wait a second. We're talking about the throat and the sacral and the, you know,
01:08:12
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Yes, there's definitely a direct correlation between the energy centers, chakras, and the energy centers in the body graph on human design.
01:08:23
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um Which one came first for me? i started receiving Reiki probably in like 2012. Yeah.
01:08:33
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Um, and so that came first for me. And then I started learning about human design in 2018. And then i received my Reiki mastery in 2022. So I started being attuned to, um Reiki and practicing myself on myself and others, in 2021 and then received my mastery in 2022.
01:09:01
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I definitely feel like there's a direct correlation. i notice that someone like Tiffany, who has a open emotional solar plexus, can feel a little more overloaded or stuck.
01:09:18
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The energy feels different to people in that solar plexus area, which is directly correlated to digestion, the stomach, Yeah.
01:09:30
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Yes. Okay. and so the more that you can connect to your energy centers and keep yourself aligned, but that is what Reiki does is it ah kind of balances the chakras and creates a more even energy flow throughout the body. And I'll use other modalities when i'm doing energy work on people. I'll do specific like acupressure holds for meridians to help, you know, bring more strengthening and energy in different organs in the body. um
01:10:07
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we do emotional and energetic release through muscle testing, which is super powerful because the body's going to store emotional energetic implantation in the fascia. in specific areas of the body.
01:10:22
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I don't know if you guys have read The Body Keeps the Score or any, yes, yes, yes. Everyone's nodding, yeah. A lot about it, yeah. And so will
01:10:35
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help to release stuck emotional, energetic imprintation to allow the fascia to open and to flow. So it's really powerful. I think that they um help each other a lot. absolutely I use it in my energy sessions as well. So, okay.
01:10:57
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That's really cool. Is there
01:11:02
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one or two more things? Just, we only have a few minutes left. Is there anything else about human design
01:11:13
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that you just really want to share?
01:11:18
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Or Reiki, or how the nervous system now ties into both.
01:11:27
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I love that you said that. This morning, I was thinking of estheticians. And estheticians are working on the face, sometimes hands as well. That is literally where the autonomic nervous system ends, is in the face.
01:11:42
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And if you were to do face mapping or look back at traditional Chinese medicine, they used cadavers thousands of years ago. And what they did was they noticed where those nerve endings ended in the face and then followed them to where they correlated to organs in the body. Okay.
01:12:04
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And so as an esthetician, when you notice that someone has specific breakouts or puffiness in certain areas, that is going to be correlated to an area of the body, which then is directly correlated to those energy centers or chakras.
01:12:24
Speaker
And so if someone is having, i want to say that the edge of the nose here is the stomach area. And so if someone is having tenderness or puffiness here, I'm wondering what's going on in their power center, the solar plexus. Are they digesting life or food well? um Are they giving away too much of their power? Are they doing too much for others? Are they saying nice things to themselves?
01:12:53
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How is their self-confidence? and That's a lot to dissect. Yeah. But it's only layers ma it is all directly correlated. um It really is. So i can't just pick one thing because I just get excited about it. um
01:13:15
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Just start simple. That would be what I would recommend. Run your chart. You can message me
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ah on Instagram or on Facebook. And I'll be happy to run your chart. Start with your energy type and then your strategy and authority and start to experiment with it. Start to experiment with the way that your energy is meant to move.
01:13:45
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I love that. And I do think it is important to have somebody like you go through the chart with them, right? Because so many people will run their chart and then they sort of end there, you know, because they're, they're looking at it and really myself included. I i pulled my chart many years ago and then I was like, wow, I have no idea what to do about this. Yeah. Where do I start, you know? And I it's funny because now that I'm really thinking back about that, i feel like, wow, I really wish that all those years ago I would have dove into that because, you know, we look at how life has transpired now for for anyone. And we're like, hmm, it probably would have been easier to navigate some things. or There are so many things that would have made so much more sense. And so i really have felt so strongly if you
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want your chart, you also need somebody to help you read it You know, someone like Carly, especially, I think what is so unique about you is that you do bring in all of the other elements too. It's not just like, cause there's human design coaches that are just like straight up human design. I think what's really unique about you is that you're kind of like us. You're like, actually, let's look at the whole person, including, you know, the energy centers and it's,
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a more all-encompassing support, I think. And so just running your chart, what I'm trying to tell our listener is just running your chart is not enough. You really do want someone like Carly to go through that chart with you and help you understand it. And that's going to help with your career and your personal life and your physical and all of it. Because I mean, even a part of human design is digestion. Yeah.
01:15:33
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It is. Yeah. Like there are parts of a human design chart that also help you with your physical everything. It talks about your, your digestion. and It's, it's so important to look at that as a whole. I think there's so much to it. And so you don't want to just go at it by yourself.
01:15:52
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Yeah. I will tell you about your digestion, your environment, ye your greatest cognition. Love it. Very cool. Carly, I have one more question before we wrap up. Can you re-highlight what you said in the very very beginning of this episode? about, I don't remember what you called it, but basically what has been working for the last eight years is no longer working. Oh yeah. Yeah. Chiron. Chiron.
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What does that The wounded healer. So for the last eight years, Chiron has been Aries and it's moving into Taurus. And so what that brought up was, I know,
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all of the things that you've been implementing and doing for the last eight years and the person that you became is no longer who you are. And so it's time to shed those things that are no longer working, the parts of yourself that you've healed and integrate them into the new and move forward in a new way. Okay.
01:16:54
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That's beautiful. It reminds me a lot of what we talked about at the beginning of the year right about moving into the year of the fire horse from the year of the snake. it's like kind of a similar energy. It sounds like, which it is life changing to like actually sit down. i know we both did this on new year's or like around that time, like sitting down and thinking about the last eight to nine years and being like, wow, I am no longer that person and, um, shutting and healing. And a lot of things just kind of like wrapped up, you know, and then we're moving forward. So it sounds similar to that.
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Yeah. I mean, all of the energies are working together. we had a completion year yeah and we moved into a a beginning, fresh start. And so the, everything is aligning to embody that energy. And I believe that all of this is happening because we're going to be coming into a shift as a collective.
01:17:53
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Our incarnation cross as a collective is shifting for the first time in 412 years in February of 2027. And that shift, we're already feeling it. And so just like when Jess was saying, you need to have someone read your chart. Yes, because it all works as a synthesis. I can sit and say, you're a generator, you have sacral authority, but What we also know is that when you read it as a whole, then it has information as a whole. And so when we look at our planet as a whole, we've been operating in the cross of planning for the last 412 years, which is all about systems, organization, hierarchy, um
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And what we're shifting into when the procession of the equinox shifts in February of 2027, we're shifting into the cross of the sleeping Phoenix, which is all about individualism, authenticity, individual connection, no longer systems. Systems are crumbling.
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They are changing. They're not working anymore. We're already feeling that anybody else have like just goosies everywhere. Yes.
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And so all the energy works together. And that's what we're feeling as individuals right now is that who do you want to become because of all of the things that you've learned in the last eight years?
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How are you going to use that to help yourself and to help the collective? o I love that. Oh my gosh.
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I love it so much. It's very powerful. You both are so awesome. This just feels so great. i know. So are you. So meant to be. And we really would love to have you back. I feel like there's so many different directions that we could go. And you're just so beautiful inside and out. And so...
01:19:55
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well spoken eloquent and just oh my gosh if you guys aren't watching this if you're listening on Spotify I actually would go like look at Carly on look at her just in the way that she she's beautiful inside and out and she just delivers information with passion and grace and Yeah, you really are like a force and we're so grateful to have had you and so grateful for everything that you shared with us and for our listener. And um yeah, we really, really appreciate you. And we would love for you to share where everybody can find you if you want to give them all of those details.
01:20:33
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Okay, great. Thank you so much. You can find me on Instagram at Carly Young Fit. I do have a website. It's heartandcortraining.com.
01:20:47
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I do host Reiki workshops as well as human design workshops. I host sound baths in the studio. And then I still do individual one-on-one workshops.
01:20:59
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coaching slash personal training in studio as well. And I do one-on-one human design readings. I can do Zoom. i I don't know where this is leading me. i believe that the people will continue to tell me what they want and what's needed. and that's the direction that I'm going.
01:21:18
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Well, i love that. And I think that more and more people are looking for people like you to help them. You know, again, you're really looking at the person as a whole and you offer the energy work and the nervous system and the human design and the physical. And it's beautiful. And it's like,
01:21:37
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perfect. And you are going to be led exactly where you need to be and where you are right now is just beautiful and perfect. You're very called to this. Yes.
01:21:49
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Thank you. You're welcome. You're so welcome. Thank you so much for being with us today and we'll connect soon. And yeah, i just hope that both of you have an amazing day. Thank you for this conversation. i think we'll all just kind of be writing a high for the next few days from this. So So thank you so much. And thank you for our listener.
01:22:09
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We are just so absolutely grateful for you. i will put Carly's information in the show notes and we'll see everyone in the next episode. So have pretty dreams, everybody. And we will talk with you soon.
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Bye. Thanks, Carly. Bye.