Introduction to the Podcast
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Welcome to the Slut Next Door podcast, where we dive deep into desire, unravel kinks and fetishes, and explore the deliciously naughty side of self-discovery. I'm Beatrix Vail, an erotic audio
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Hello and welcome to episode one of the relaunch of the slut next door. And in this episode, I'm going to address this question. Who is the slut next door and why you should listen to her?
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Now, this episode is kind of, well, not kind of, it's a very exciting. You may have heard my podcast before, maybe you haven't.
Erotic Audio Creation: Beatrix's Journey
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Regardless, I thought it was important to start off the season, if you will, with a reintroduction and kind of look at the vision of this podcast.
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So if you have no idea who I am, my name is Beatrix Vale. Like in the intro, I mentioned I'm an erotic audio creator. If you've never heard erotic audio porn, I highly suggest And you can go to the link in my bio to kind of educate or introduce yourself to me as a audio content creator. I am very passionate about the world of audio porn. I think that, you know, I'm not sure as I've only been in it for a few years, but
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feels like it does get bigger. So it's exciting for me to open up people to that world because it is a very special type of porn to me. I like to think that audio porn is pretty perfect for people that are intellectually driven like their their kings and their sexuality is very Based like it in the mind. That's always how I've been like I'm I prefer to be mentally stimulated than anything else I can be physically stimulated with no kind of you know, intellectual ah stimulation, but it's not
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It's not as deep when that mental stimulation is there. So I think that audio porn really pushes that and I'm happy to be a content creator within it.
Empowerment Through Sexuality
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So I figured I'd definitely go into the story of how I got here. How did I get to this point of creating erotic audios? I would also like to bring up kind of my past as well because I do think it is important to how I got here. So I've always been a kinky person. I've always had some kind of, I call it hyper sexuality. I don't think I've ever been a nymphomaniac. Like I'm not addicted to sex. Like, and I haven't been in the past. It's just, I've always,
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I've always been naughty and I recognize that and the older I got, the more refined um that became. And what I mean by that, I remember being like in my teens and twenties and i was just I was just a slut. And when I call myself a slut, it's not a term of I don't take it as degrading. um I find liberation and empowerment through my slut side. That's a big reason I chose the name for this podcast because I believe
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you know you can be slutty and enjoy sex as a woman and also be this woman that is very very next door uh you know when i when i say next door i mean like familiar and if you met me in real life, you know, if you're standing behind me at the grocery store, and we had a conversation, you would assume that I'm just some regular woman who maybe likes to read or take long walks on the beach, you wouldn't, you wouldn't pick up that I, I am a slut.
Exploring BDSM and Online Sex Work
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Yeah, so when I became older, the older I got more refined and what I mean by that, I started understanding myself more and more because I can remember being younger and thinking you know, my sexuality, even though I fed it regularly, I did have a little bit of shame there. Like, you know, is there something wrong with me because I'm wanting things that aren't normal, you know? Um, so, but when I got older and when I discovered the world of BDSM, it was eyeopening and it felt so safe because
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i I was learning terms and vocabulary that resonated with me, like that gave me definition to something I'd been feeling for years. And I just felt recognized and seen, even just educating myself through BDSM.
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and you know I I've never held back on exploring that side of myself ah because the interesting thing is that I'm a pretty introverted and very low-key calm person ah But the sexuality inside of me is the complete opposite. That person is not introverted and low-key at all. i was She's very, she's wild and and crazy in the best ways.
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anyways, so I Like I said, I just didn't hold back. I I've been to or I've partaken in local BDSM communities like Lifestyle BDSM they call it where you know, I wasn't in sex work at that point I was just doing things that felt good and that were fun. I even went as far to immerse myself and the Swinger lifestyle as a single person. and So I dated couples and I went to, you know, these Swingers sex clubs and it's just a wild crazy time.
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And then, ah you know, I've always, especially, and unfortunately, I would say in the past five years, I found it necessary to always have a side hustle. You know, that's just how life became to be. It's hard to, it was hard to survive and not have that extra income. so I was doing this one like side hustle and I was sick of it so I go online and I search up side hustle ideas and I come across this article that
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A woman was explaining how she sells her used panties. And I was like, oh, that's awesome. That sounds really fun. And let me check this out. And so long story short, I found this website that's just dedicated to women selling their used panties.
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and set up shop there and I start realizing it was way more than the panty selling. A lot of the customers there wanted sexting or phone calls or videos, pictures.
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ah very fetish-based services. you know it was just it was The door was wide open and I was like, oh my gosh, I found my calling. And I had so much fun and I was making pretty good money.
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and ah You know, at that point, too, I had no idea that this world of online sex work existed. No clue. I just knew, of course, porn. And that's it. I didn't even know phone sex hotlines still existed. So, you know, I just kept educating myself and and I discovered Night Flirt. And I was like, oh, here's... a platform just for phone sex. Oh my goodness. And I knew because I had done some phone calls, phone sex with the panty selling and I had a blast. Like it was so much fun. And so I was like, okay, well that sounds like fun. Let me let me create a profile there. And at the time I was working a full-time job and I was worked from home.
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And I was very naughty employee. I decided to turn on the night flirt hotline and just see what happened. And so the first day I just kind of juggled my regular work and I was taking calls here and there. And oh my God, it was like more fun, more excitement. I loved it. I made so much money and I kept ah kept doing that for a good week.
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And it was consistent. And I did something crazy. I mean, it was actually pretty freaking crazy that I did this. You know, I was like, you know what? Screw it. I'm going to do this full time because you know what? I love it. I'm having fun and I'm making more money than I was with my regular job.
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So for a while there, I was working full time doing phone sex through Night Flirt. And I just cut and just kept learning and kept
Transition to Full-time Audio Creator
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educating myself. And within Night Flirt, I would see people would be selling audios. And I was like, oh, that's cool. That's like phone sex, but I have more control. And so I kind of played around with that. And I loved it even more than phone sex.
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um so I just kept developing that in and learning and learn that there's a whole freaking world of audio porn and Here I am now. um You know, I decided to really put a lot of research and a lot of time and a lot of learning into erotic hypnosis because like I said before, I'm very driven mentally um when it comes to sex and I love manipulating the mind um and pressing buttons and
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using my words to seduce, you know, just the whole mind fuck element is super hot to me. So it was a very exciting ah niche for me to look into. And yeah, and so now I my recent goal was to go full-time audio and I reached that last year. I was so thrilled um because as I honestly I love phone sex but my my joy is in creating audios. I've learned that I am a creative person and
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Artist if you will and I need to be creative. I need to create and I love to create so um So yeah, so that's how I got into this kind of business. It was just a series of Fortunate events and I've never been so happy. I I'm a big proponent for sex workers. I think that, yeah, we make people come, but I think even more than that, it's a it's a healing job. And we're also providing people with intimacy and human contact that some people just don't get. um you know And i I just feel like it's way deeper than
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than making you come, which is really a great thing. I mean, that's, you know, I love making people come, not saying that's not important, um but you know, the the deeper level of it is really special to me. and And I do believe that this is work. I do believe that people need, not everyone, but there's a lot of people that need ah porn and sex work services and you know there shouldn't be swirling amounts of shame behind it and it honestly I do struggle with that you know because if I'm out in public and I don't know anyone I'm not going and if someone asks me what do you do i I'm just gonna say hey I work from home I'm a freelancer or something like that
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Um, because unfortunately I wish I was different. Um, I, I get afraid of judgment, but underneath I feels very confident that I am doing things that are important and this, this is a valid, uh, job.
Relaunching the Podcast: Reasons and Reflections
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So next we're going to talk about what is the vision of this podcast. And also I think it's important to tell you why I'm doing this podcast. So I'll start with the why. The why I want to do this podcast is I have a lot to say.
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i And as I mentioned, this is kind of a relaunch. I had done a couple seasons, I believe before, and loved doing the Slint Next Door podcast. I actually put it down because I was getting very burnt out.
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And I was working very hard on building my own personal brand, if you will. I was really building and putting a lot of energy into my erotic hypnosis and I was finding doing this podcast was very heavy and like heavy on my schedule. And it was just giving me negative things. And this, I don't know if this is bratty or not, but fuck it. i I don't like doing things that I don't want to do. um ah So I was like, if I don't feel positive about something, it's hard for me to do it.
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ah especially when I like I'm my own boss so I get to choose what I do and what I don't do um so anyway I just got burned out and
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I had a lot of enjoyment doing it though. Like I knew that people were liking my podcasts. I love doing my podcasts. It was very, it's funny because I'm sitting here, talking I feel like I'm talking to myself or talking into the void.
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and it becomes almost therapeutic for me and then I learn about things as well. I learn about kink and fetishes and ah it's just overall, I had a blast and I'm just, I'm happy to bring it back. um But I have a lot of things to get out because, you know, I like to unpack kinks. Like if I, if someone says, hey, I'm into small penis humiliation,
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I want to know the why behind that. I want to know all the things that lead someone to that. Those things fascinate me. And so I do this naturally, unpacking kinks. And I know that ah other people like to do that too, so why not do it together?
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And if I can create a platform where sex and kink are shown in a bright, understanding, safe light, I'm all about that. I'm also a people person and If I can help you understand why does XYZ turn me on, you know, because I've been there before where I'll see something important. I'm like, oh my God, why did that turn me on? and
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i I need more. you know And that's such an interesting space to be in. And I feel like there's not a lot of places where you can turn to, to get a ah clear answer. And so, you know from my perspective, I love helping someone answer that question.
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And i'm I'm a big proponent of self-discovery through kink and sex because I look back at my journey um personally through kink and sex and kink and sex isn't everything about me but it's a big part of me and I've recognized that I've discovered parts of myself and I've gained confidence and self-understanding and
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This is going to sound kind of cheesy, but almost an, an enlightenment when I have allowed myself to discover my sexuality. And, you know, sometimes that is with people, but a lot of times it's by yourself, you know, we, and that's a big mystery too, is why, you know, we are complex individuals.
The Human Experience and Pleasure Design
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And why were we designed with this very pleasurable, you know, we can bring ourselves pleasure. Other people can give us pleasure, but we've got this, these spots between our legs that feel really fucking good. And it feels good to hit things over and over mentally. So that just leads me to kind of,
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I think this is part of the human experience, sex and the behaviors behind kink. I'll just say it's all fascinating to me. And that's what this next door is for me, is is almost like a...
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I don't know if I want to say expose say or love letter to kink and sex. I do glorify these things through this podcast um because it's a note and i I want to do it intellectually, respectfully, and in positive ways as well.
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So with this podcast, you'll definitely hear a lot of kink unpacking. I like to focus on one thing at a time. And really, when I say unpack it, just kind of looking at the how the the what the why, the who, you know,
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How do I partake in this? What does it look like? Just unpacking it, really pet picking it apart and analyzing it. From the original slot next door, I definitely had guests, but I will tell you, that is going to be a very occasional treat. And I'm sorry if that is,
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um bums you out and it does bum me out a little bit but just schedule wise it's easier for me to get behind my mic you know when you have a gas there's a lot of preparation there's schedule alignment it's um it's a whole process and You know, I have Slut Next Door is a extracurricular for me. um I'm still very much involved in my Beatrix fail.
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brand if you will and I'm always creating content so slut next door is just um a little extra bonus so I'm trying not to get get myself into where I was before where you know I was burning myself out so um occasional guests those will just be nice little treats um another thing I wanted to head on is If you're completely new to me, why should you listen to anything I have to say about kink and sex?
Understanding Kinks and Fetishes
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Well, I spend every day almost like balls deep inside of kink and I have for a few years and
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That's allowed me to really understand who this particular kinkster is in this um section of kink. Like like for example, a gooner. I know a gooner inside and out. I know the different types of gooners and I can pretty much identify the type of Gooner you are with a couple back and forth statements that we both make. um So I feel feel like an quote unquote expert and and kings because I am within them every day and I am very confident on that I know them. You know I do a lot of
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I like to call myself a sex dork because I and I've always been this way even before I was a sex worker. I like to read about sex. I like to research it. I like to know all the things about sex and kink. Another reason why you should listen to me is I have a very down to earth ah approach to sexuality and what I mean by that is I strongly believe that kink and fetish are I might equate it to like when you if you're like a gamer or
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You are an avid movie consumer, you know some kind of hobby. you know we got We turn to these things because we need an escape from our day-to-day stressful lives.
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You know, and I feel like kink, porn, sex are the same. Now, that's not to say that, you know, some people get a little bit too wild with with porn, like when I mean wild, addicted, like truly addicted. But in the same hand, people get truly addicted to video games.
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um And so my approach to porn, sex, kink is very down to earth because I feel like a lot, and especially in today's and well American society, there's a lot of A lot of believe that kink and sex are these evil things, you know, and porn is just so, so freaking evil. yeah I strongly do not believe that. And we will definitely dive into that in this podcast. um You know, another thing about me.
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is I have, I definitely don't consider myself a switch anymore. But when I was in my 20s, I thought I was submissive through and through. I was like, you know, this is who I am. This is who I'm, like I said before, it gave me, it gave me words to explain the things that I was feeling for many years that I was confused about.
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And the older that the older I got, the more and more I pulled away from being submissive and switched. And now I don't want to ah sexually submit. um This is a whole episode as well.
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I only feel sexually submissive around like huge, I'm talking huge ah male parts. ah That's the only time I want to be sexually submissive, where if you wouldn't have known who I was in my 20s, complete opposite woman. um So I am confident in who I, who I am now as a Dom. So I know both sides of the coin. And sometimes I like to argue that people that are switches or, you know, have been switches like me, um, make the best Kingsters because we, we know both sides. And here in the Slutnik store, you will find,
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high interest and lots of passion ah within the psychology behind kink.
Future Episodes and Conclusion
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So if that's your thing, definitely stay tuned to this season and I'll go ahead and tease the next episode plan. I definitely have episode two plan to talk all about erotic audio, like everything about it. um And some things that I also have on the agenda for future episodes, definitely going to talk about cuckold, chastity,
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premature ejaculation, fetish, gooning, porn. it i'm I'm excited, but I'll definitely tease you with those, but I would love to know what would you be interested in hearing about on the Slut Next Door? Wherever you're listening to this, you can comment within the app. just Also, so you know, this will be streamed to YouTube, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Apple Podcasts, all over the place.
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ah So please just choose whatever works for you. But ah yeah, comment if you would like and tell me what kink, what fetish or topic or theme are you excited about? So I hope that I have answered who is to slut next door and why the heck should you listen to her? And next week, we're gonna dive into the topic of erotic audios.
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And that's a wrap for this episode of The Slut Next Door, where we dive deep into the raw, unapologetic truths of human desire. If you loved what you heard today, make sure to subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a juicy moment.
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Want to connect with me outside the podcast? Click the link in my bio, where you can find lots of juicy content and options. Until next time, I'm Beatrix Vale, your slut next door. And I'll see you in the next episode.