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Sibling Chronicles: Candid Chats on Childhood Fears and Funny Memories
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Join Bruce Anthony and his sister, J. Aundrea, in this special episode of Unsolicited Perspectives, where they engage in entertaining and insightful sibling conversations. This behind-the-scenes peek from their Patreon offers a raw look at their dynamics, featuring candid discussions about childhood fears, evolving personalities, and humorous memories, all sprinkled with laughter. Expect personal anecdotes, a fun quiz that reveals more about their relationship, and some parental advisory-worthy language. Whether you're a longtime listener or new to the show, don’t miss this episode for a taste of exclusive Patreon content, including 'Talking Straight Ish' and 'After Hours Uncensored.' #siblings #siblingconnection #family #funnystories #unsolicitedperspectives
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Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to Unsolicited Perspectives
00:32 Introducing the Patreon Content
01:07 Parental Advisory and Show Details
02:35 Sibling Banter and Unscripted Moments
04:21 Hypothetical Scenarios and Personal Stories
16:45 Sinbad and Favorite Movies
20:46 Sibling Quiz and Childhood Memories
22:59 Childhood Sports Memories
23:25 Career Aspirations
26:39 YouTube Dreams and Hard Work
29:35 Sibling Dynamics and Personal Growth
36:13 Fears and Preferences
41:11 Closing Remarks and Future Plans
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Transcript
Introduction and Engagement
00:00:10
Speaker
Welcome. First of all, welcome. This is Unsolicited Perspectives. I'm your host, Bruce Anthony, here to lead the conversation in important events and topics that have shaped today's society. Join the conversation to follow us wherever you get your
Preview of Uncensored Content
00:00:22
Speaker
audio podcasts. Subscribe to our YouTube channel to watch our video On today's episode, I'm going to be showing you guys a video from our Patreon page.
00:00:38
Speaker
It's one of our after hours on sisters with me and my sis. That's enough for this intro. Let's get to the show.
00:00:52
Speaker
Like I said, I'm gonna be showing you guys a video from our Patreon page. That's patreon dot.com backslash unsolicited perspectives where you can get two shows talking straight ish. And after I was uncensored, that's the uncensored show with me and my sister. That's what I'll be showing you guys today just to give you guys a little parental discretion is advised. We cuss on this show. This is a vulgar show. This is an uncensored behind the scenes.
00:01:19
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show. So just to warn you, parents out there, if you got your kids around, sit in the bed.
Thanksgiving Special: Sibling Conversations
00:01:25
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Or if it's not bedtime, send them outside to go play. Kids don't go outside and play anymore. Send their ass outside to go play because there's gonna be some cussing and shit on this episode. So anyway, this episode was released right before Thanksgiving of 2023. It was just me and my sister doing a whole lot of daily dialing. If you guys enjoy the daily dialing and you guys will enjoy this show. Once again, you can find these episodes on our Patreon page at patreon.com backslash unsolicited perspectives.com.
00:01:56
Speaker
Talking Straight-ish and After Hours Uncensored are two shows that we put on our Patreon page. Talking Straight-ish is $5 a month and you get basically, you know, four shows a month. After Hours Uncensored is $5 a month. You get basically four shows a month. And if you want both shows, it's $9 a month. That's $9 a month for eight shows and it's way more content that you normally get outside of our main show. So if you love Unsolicited Perspectives, you're going to really love our Patreon shows. But that's enough of me dilly-dallying and just shooting a breeze. Let's get to the episode. All right, what you want to talk about?
Sibling Relationships and Hypotheticals
00:02:36
Speaker
brother have and we're singing and we're colored and give you a five. Let's talk about siblings. Since we are that shit, we never brought up the billion thing on the episode motherfucker. Well, I don't think it was even listed on the rundowns. Yeah, oh but I said it in the text message earlier, we won't talk about that and completely fucking it forgot about it when we when I did the rundown. And why didn't you remind me?
00:03:06
Speaker
Um, because ah the moment I was about to like, say something, you started wrapping up the show. Yeah. my watch Well, you saw, you saw the, how much time it was when I do all the edits and everything, we're at an hour. We got to keep them bad boys to an hour. thats We're asking too much time.
00:03:25
Speaker
when it goes over an hour people don't have the attention span for that so damn uh damn we'll have to say that i don't want to i we could talk about it now but too much gets too much good shit gets left on this table that people don't yeah get to see so i don't i don't want to tell me all right right i want to cuss about it okay go ahead let's let's talk about it let's talk about it fuck it You know what, maybe maybe I'll make this a special episode, ah a special Thanksgiving episode that is outside of unsolicited, but just like send it to our most loyal listeners. It's like, hey, this is what you get when you sign up for Patreon.
00:04:08
Speaker
That's what I do. Yeah, maybe that's what I do. yeah Yeah, man. That's what I do. But I sent you something. there was ah It was a meme and it asked, what was it? Because I wish that, you know, you for a billion dollars, you get a shit queued up. Yeah, for a billion dollars, you get a billion dollars, but you can't talk to your siblings ever again. That was it. Yeah. And I said, you know, it's been a good run. Yeah, because you can be bought.
00:04:38
Speaker
A billion dollars? You can be bought. It's a billion dollars. I told you there are certain things that I just, I just, wait a minute, with sibling. Nevermind. Nevermind. Just a joke. That's a joke. That's a joke. Um, if it was cousins, if it was, that if it was. Come on, now that.
00:05:01
Speaker
No stakes with that. The stakes are- And if it's some aunts and uncles. Right. you know The assumption is you're close with your siblings, number one, and and that it would be a real like dilemma to choose between- But it wasn't a dilemma for you. it I would not choose the billion dollars. if Yes, you would. No. If they asked me,
00:05:29
Speaker
Would you take this billion dollars and never talk to your brothers again? No. I think that's because we travel so much so we have a closer bond than a lot of siblings had because a lot of times We were really all we had. Like, we had friends. Yeah, not that we traveled so much. We moved a lot. Oh, yeah, that we moved so much. You know, there was something I remember. Oh, I'm about to bring up personal information. But this is unsolicited. This is unsolicited. Uncensored after hours. Damn, this tequila is hitting. Because I was stumbling over more words. You need to do some vocal warm ups or something. Because maybe it's just coming in cold.
00:06:06
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um Either that or my blood pressure is really high and I'm on the verge of a stroke. this my Is my speech slurred? I don't know. One of my clients brought that up to me the other day and was just like, yeah, you know, I was at the I was because he works in the medical field. He was at the hospital doing his training. And one of the doctors was just like, hey, how do you feel right now?
00:06:27
Speaker
He was like, what? I feel fine. And the doctor was like, you're slurring your words. And to him, he was like, he was talking normal. He took his blood pressure. He said it was 200 over 120 or something like that. yeah And they were like, we need to take you to the emergency room right now. His dumb ass said, oh, I just went home. I was like, no. Like, the only thing I'm worried about is not a heart attack. I'm worried about a stroke. Because I'm not saying people recover from a heart attack and go on and live a good, healthy life. But a goddamn stroke.
00:06:57
Speaker
I've seen people recover from strokes. Yeah, but the likelihood that you coming up with not being able to use a whole side of your body. That's a very severe stroke. Well, I don't. what so I don't want it any anyway. But go back to the the point I was going to make, I remember coming to see you at your premiere for your student film when you were in film school. And you had made friends there. You had made it a community there. Yeah. And we were going to go to an after party. And you was like, I don't want to go to my real friends. I got my brothers here. And I was like, damn, I kind of wanted to go to the after party. But OK, I guess we.
00:07:36
Speaker
oh what I guess we just hang out with you guys. Yeah. And that's what you said. And I was like, shit, I didn't really need to, I don't really need to go. My sister want to hang out with us. Then we go and hang out. There's like, that's cool. i ended but um I ended up taking ah to Brooklyn to a party.
00:07:55
Speaker
Uh, after that, it was, it was shenanigans. It was a, it was your typical hips. Didn't y'all have to stay up all night because you couldn't go back all night. Yep. Cause he wasn't allowed in my dorm.
00:08:09
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but Why wasn't he loud in your door? They just didn't allow visitors after 6 p.m. or something like that okay until 6 a.m. Yeah. From 6 to 6 p.m. No visitors. So, yeah. It's not like we don't have family all in New York that that he could have stayed with. We really did. We called no one. We reached out to no one. I think we literally have a family member in every borough except for Staten Island. Yeah. And we might have family in Staten Island as well.
00:08:38
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That is correct. Yes, we do. and Called no one and we just ran around the city all night. I rushed back home because there was a storm coming and it was the storm because it was a snow in in DC. That's when we had like crazy yeah snow and I was taking the bus back and I was like, I'm going home.
00:09:01
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Cause what y'all talking about? Cause she was like, yeah, we can't stay in my place. I was like, what the hell we gonna stay? And he was like, we just gonna run the streets. No, I'm going home. I was like, and I kicked it with y'all for a little while. I'm going home. Cause this don't sound like this, don't sound like, and it was cold. It was the coldest it's ever been in my entire life that weekend. Yes.
00:09:19
Speaker
Well, it was a New York winter. It was literally February in New York. And we was down in Times Square. And I was like, Yo, I don't think I'm gonna make it. but Yes, yes. It was freezing. But there was. Okay, so there's another meme out there. That's a similar question. You have a button, you're given a button. And every time you press it, you get a million dollars. But a stranger somewhere in the world dies.
00:09:48
Speaker
I couldn't do that. Here's now. Now. Shit. Okay. People die every day. Listen, mortality feet mortality rate is 100%. I don't want to be the cause of of somebody dying. It could be innocent. yeah it That makes it worse. It means that you don't care about life. Listen, they don't go anywhere.
00:10:16
Speaker
You're talking to the wrong person. You're talking to a person that just can't that like, I can't be bought.
00:10:23
Speaker
You know, you know, I have a stalking incident. I'm not gonna get too deep into it, but you have a stalker. And
00:10:35
Speaker
He reached out again, so our father had another talk with him. Recently. Yes. And, uh, but our father said to me, listen, can I text you? I don't know. You might just have to get back with him.
00:10:50
Speaker
sun but but Why do I hate my father? I thank him so much. And also, just to clarify, when we say hate, we actually mean love. fear Yeah, love, love. Because he's a fool. Our dad is a fool. All right, let's get back with him.
00:11:12
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When I said thinking about how much I spent for my dog, which was originally his dog, e but it's definitely now my dog, right? All the money that I spent, vet bills, all that stuff, plus a little extra pain and suffering. If he were to catch up with $1,000, I will have a 30 minute conversation. That's different. That's a 30 minute conversation. How much would it cost for you to have sit down and have dinner? It's the way how much would it cost for you to sit down and have dinner with them for two hours?
00:11:48
Speaker
$50,000. That's it. And all the books you need to put you down. I was out of my life for dinner. I get a meal. Come on now. if fifty that's I'll do that. That's, that's what she's telling me. He's like, look, if you want to talk to me, you want to have a phone conversation. I'll give you a 30, 30 minute phone conversation, but you got cash at me $10,000.
00:12:13
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period. Can you even cash up somebody $10,000 in there a cap at which you can cash up somebody the cap is 10,000. Okay. Yeah. Because it used to be like you can only send some people $1,000 and then it was like $5,000 because they make him bank. They get money. Well, are they getting money? Are they getting money? How are they getting money? Because you don't have to pay for cash app. Yes, you do.
00:12:40
Speaker
No, you don't. Think about every time you do that lightning deposit. ah The lightning deposit, yes. yeah But if you don't do the lightning deposit,
00:12:51
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so out sometimes I'll just do the two days, I'll wait the two, three days, cause because that lightning deposit would be too high. Yeah, if I don't need it, then that's okay. So if you verify your account,
00:13:04
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If you do account verification, you can send five up to $5,000 to Cash App. What's an account verification? What do you have to do to verify your account? Probably send them an ID or something like that? Probably, yeah. But yeah, so he would have to do two transactions.
00:13:22
Speaker
that's yeah yeah but you would have But he would have to do two transactions. I'm sure that's over a certain period of time. Like at be one, I think it's like every 30 days. So you can send and then it send me the other one in 30 days. And then within 30 days of that second payment, I will have a 30 minute phone conversation. No video. Well, you should present them with that. Next time you talk to dad, be like, look, yeah.
00:13:53
Speaker
Go ahead and present them with this. I didn't want to say nothing, but I saw one of my stories. It was a person that I didn't recognize and I clicked up and it was him. So I blocked him. Yeah. Yeah. This time he found me on Etsy. Yeah. Apparently you can mess. So here's how I have my social media set up. If you Google my government name, nothing should pop up except my LinkedIn. Okay.
00:14:23
Speaker
That's how I have it. That's why I go by J Andrea. So that you can't find my social media. But I left a review on an Etsy product that I purchased back in 2019.
00:14:39
Speaker
and And it was on my Google results. And if you click on my name and Etsy, and then you click messages, you can send me a message. Jesus. is Yes.
00:14:52
Speaker
So a sixth warning, I got a message from Etsy saying that I had a message on there. So he, he actually ended up calling dad. Dad reached out to him and was like, Hey, I thought we had to understand you weren't going to contact her anymore. And so he called and apparently it was, uh, I just want to make sure you're not going to do nothing to me.
00:15:18
Speaker
ah No, I got a whole squad around me, son. I'm good. Yeah, I'm good. I can't say nothing on the air because people watch this. yeah we said We should end this conversation about this and talk about something else. But basically, you can be bought. I'm trying to i'm trying to say, like if could I have a sugar mama? It depends on what I got to give the sugar mama. If it's just time, you just want to spend time with me, then OK.
00:15:48
Speaker
if it's my loins yes i don't know what sheep for your new xbox and all of your yeah you rent yll like ah less and lessons ah Unless unless it's Ms. Beverly Martin's old teacher, then, then, then I can work something out with that. It's Trinidad. Ms. Trinidad, that's right. It was Trinidad. So played by Beverly Johnson. But I knew her, in that I knew Beverly was somewhere in there. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, not Beverly Johnson now. That was like 30 years ago. I'm talking about Beverly Johnson 30 years ago. and No, no, I feel you were talking specifically about Ms. Trinidad. Yeah, Ms. Trinidad.
00:16:28
Speaker
yeah okay Y'all need to watch Martin. I don't know why I got on the up oh i was talking about Sinbad during one of my sessions today. And it's a client, and she's black. And she was like, no, I've never seen a house guest. And I said, what? You've never seen a house guest? I was like, that's my favorite Sinbad movie. It's not my favorite, but I have seen it a million. What's your favorite Sinbad movie? Cherokee Kid. No. Cherokee Kid.
00:16:58
Speaker
I don't think I've seen that recently. Why do you think I'm out here in the middle of nowhere? Because I don't want anybody to have me. You know what? I'm gonna watch that on Thanksgiving. Watch it. Yeah. I'm gonna watch that on Thanksgiving. It's my favorite so bad movie. All right. It's better than Houseguest. Yes. Camp Maple Ridge. Better.
00:17:24
Speaker
Okay. yeah Ladies and gentlemen, y'all don't understand. We are huge Sinbad fans. Yes. Huge Sinbad fans. Yes. We had Sinbad send my dad a birthday message on my dad's 60th birthday. It wasn't his 60th because ah we, it was during the pandemic. We didn't, we didn't get a chance. Y'all didn't. I did. But it wasn't his 60th, the 60th we were there. Yeah. yeah Okay.
00:17:54
Speaker
Yeah, we paid for a Sinbad to send our dad a message. And it was hilarious just as Sinbad does. i did I gave him just so little information. Like I didn't even tell him my old dad was turning because he was like, I don't even know how old you're turning. She didn't even tell me. Just the little thing that I wrote.
00:18:16
Speaker
And he just knocked it all apart. You can't tell us nothing about something bad, period. Nothing bad? You can't tell us. You can tell us everything good. Nothing bad. He ain't pay his taxes. So what? His taxes didn't need to be paid. The government, the government should let him live for free because he is America's treasure. Yes. America's treasure. So how you doing? This is my first black girlfriend.
00:18:41
Speaker
What was that from? yeah always and media media man That's right. That's right. That's right. Brings that up all the time. That is his favorite line. but do set yeah brett like Appreciate the opportunity.
00:18:56
Speaker
Meteor Man, Meteor Man is hilarious. The most hilarious scene on there. That is funny. But the most hilarious scene on there is when he jump out the window to go flying and they look up in the sky. where it see He's all low to the ground because he's afraid of heights. Meteor Man is hilarious. If you have not seen Meteor Man, please go watch that. um was sorry And the whole thing that I wanted to do for this episode was of my ADD. What was the whole thing? And you're just sick ways. Sicklins.
00:19:26
Speaker
Oh yeah, that's right. We're going back to siblings. Well, we still talking, but this was sibling movies that we watched growing up that we love. ah I might care about that. I mean, they care if they're watching this, they care about learning more about us. That's true. They find us interesting. Yeah. i don't ah There are people out there legitimately are like, I want to hear your opinion on this view. They do. But really, it's they just like us. That's that's really all it is. Oh, it's just cool. I don't know why. We're jerks.
00:19:55
Speaker
Well, when I think about my favorite podcast, they can almost talk about anything. I just like them. Yeah, that's true. So people follow who they like. And then if you have something interesting to say, then they will rock with you. But I don't know if there's anybody out there in TV or media or anything. And it's just like, I just want to hear what this person has to say. No, they like that person. And they also want to hear what they have to say.
00:20:26
Speaker
are What were some of the other sibling stuff that you wanted to talk about? Because we got 12 more minutes on this show. Well, I found a little quiz. It's not little, it's actually 55 questions, but we're not doing no 55 questions. We're doing five. Okay. If that depends on how long we talk. We're probably only gonna get through one question. Probably. But it's 55 questions all siblings should be able to answer about each other. Oh, shit. Yeah.
Sports Memories
00:21:02
Speaker
I don't think we gonna pass this. You you know us yeah better than we know you. and let me Let me rephrase that. You and our brother know each other better than either one of y'all know me. And vice versa.
00:21:21
Speaker
You keep it pretty close to the vest, you know, like... Okay, but but friend okay we'll start with a softball question. What sports did they play growing up? You played basketball. It's not a boy sport. You had one football season. I had more than one football season. And you hated but still went to karate for a little bit.
00:21:51
Speaker
I like karate when I was a little kid. I did not like it when I was in high school. Right. Yes. You played soccer, softball. You tried to play basketball. um It's not a sport, but you stepped. Yes. That was it. I did gymnastics.
00:22:12
Speaker
I forgot about gymnastics. Then they put me on the high beam and I said specifically, you need to put me on that low one because if I fall off this, I'm leaving. I fell off. Gymnastics, you were super young. Yes. i was like I was like five or six and I fell off that high beam and I collected myself and I walked over to mom and I said, let's go. Because I warned them.
00:22:40
Speaker
I warned them, if I fall off of this, that's your ass. And I fell. They caught me, obviously. There's somebody there, but that yeah, no. Our brother played baseball. We'll never forget him playing baseball. Never. And he played a little bit of basketball. That's pretty much it. I don't remember him playing soccer. No, I don't think, I think maybe he did like one season of that, but it was mostly baseball and basketball.
00:23:07
Speaker
Karate too. We all did karate. Yeah, but I don't consider that. Well, I guess it's in Olympics. So it certain certain martial arts. yeah Yeah. Yeah. Right. So we got that. What did they want to be when they grew up? I don't you're never guess mine. Not I don't think you'll ever guess mine either. I don't think we'll guess I don't think we're ever we didn't talk about that stuff. No, none of us said none of us said this is what I want to be when I grow up.
00:23:33
Speaker
I mean, in high school, shit. Jay, for real, I don't even remember what you said. Well, I wasn't around when you were in high school. That's the problem. Right. I wasn't around. Actually, I don't remember your original major in college either. I think that's one of the questions. I don't remember what your original major was. What was it? It was biology. I was going to go to medical school.
00:24:03
Speaker
Oh, okay. Damn. And we was that's when we was cool. I damn sure don't remember that. Mm hmm. That was my original major. Okay. And then I realized blood. I don't like it. No, like that.
00:24:15
Speaker
But when I wanted to, what I wanted to be when I grew up, so this is like me as a child. Actually, I remember specifically this question being asked when I was in kindergarten. And my answer was I either wanted to be a sanitation worker, you know, collect trash.
00:24:35
Speaker
You didn't like doing the trash at the house. Nobody ever asked me, or I wanted to be a school bus driver. And the reason why is because I thought the hours were good because I saw our parents work constantly. Yeah.
00:24:51
Speaker
Our parents worked constantly. But my bus driver came, picked me up in the morning, dropped me off in the afternoon, maybe did some field trips. Bomb. Trash day was one day. I mean, I know obviously trash day is every day. Right. They're just in different parts of the city. But as a child, I'm thinking trash day is one day. One day I got to deal with trash and then
00:25:15
Speaker
You're done after the afternoon. You know, I realize as an adult, that's not how the job works, but as a child. But they are done in the afternoon. They get up early as fuck in the morning and they're done in the afternoon. oh That's interesting. And what's interesting about that is I didn't realize that that was the reason why he was like, I don't want to work like mom and dad who because that was exactly I remember I remember and dad remembers his conversation because remember his little office, which wasn't a fucking office. It was like no but it that was never closed because he put a desk in there. It was right outside my bedroom.
00:25:53
Speaker
And that man was always working. And I had, you know, you got a little space underneath your door and the light would come through. I had to stuff shirts in there so I could go to sleep at night because he was working late at night. yeah And I remember telling him, I don't ever want to work that hard. Like, I do not want to do that. Now, in a way, I am absolutely working that hard. Yeah. But thanks, capitalism. Well, no, it's my choice, right? yeah Because it's not mine.
00:26:22
Speaker
Well, mine is by choice. I'd love to be chillin. Mine's by choice. yeah Mine's by choice. Okay, so part of the reason why I'm up late tonight tonight's a prime example. I'll be up till midnight doing post production and I got to wake up tomorrow morning to do more post production and make sure this is released at two. I don't mind that.
00:26:41
Speaker
Because now that we're at 530 subscribers and on our way to 1,000, we can start running ads, which means that we're going to get started getting paid for views. By this time next year, we could be making real money off of YouTube. And when I say real money, real money to the point where I told some of my clients, hey, look, once I start making real money, I ain't doing no more in-person sessions. I'm 43, almost about to be 43 and a half.
00:27:10
Speaker
I'm starting to get to that age where I can't be lifting the aisle up anymore. This is taking a toll on my body. Like, this I'm not gonna do it no more. And one of my clients said, well, what if I win a lottery? I was like, cool, if you win a lottery, it is now. She was like, I hire you to be my personal trainer and I put you on salary. I was like, cool, you gotta pay my medical and all that type of stuff. And she was like, well, how much is it gonna cost? so I was like, well, I told her she's forbidden from talking to me about her dating life. I said, it's a boundary you can't talk to me about it no more. She's like, well, I need you to be able to be my personal trainer and talk to me about my personal life. I said, it's going to cost you $80,000 a month. $80,000 a month.
00:27:55
Speaker
That's fair. She said, yeah. She said, yeah, I'll do that. I was like, well, now I'm pulling for you to win this lottery this week. Well, I really want you to win. But it's funny that like we both kind of And and know I would be curious to talk to our brother to be like, hey, you know, did you notice that? Was that something that you said that you didn't want to have to work like that? Because we all chose, or all original professions were all kind of different type of jobs that weren't that typical nine to five gig. Right. Okay. Well, I wanted to be a cop. Really? As a little kid, I wanted to be a cop. i I knew I couldn't be a superhero, but I knew I could save people by being a cop.
00:28:37
Speaker
You have literally, and I mean, I never asked you, so that's why I guess I would never know, but like, Yeah, I wanted to be a cop. I wanted to be a cop. Yeah, because I was in love with the, I was in love with cop shows and I was in love with the equalizer. Cause all he did was help people. And I was like, I swear. You do love the damn equalizer. Love equalizer, no matter who plays the equalizer. Cause I watched Queen Latifah playing equalizer. And I got in a full fledged argument with somebody today. And he was just like, I don't see her as equalizer. I was like, you saw an old ass British man and old ass Denzel Washington, but you can't see young and vibrant Queen Latifah. No, I don't see it. I was like, you just being, you just being anti-feminist.
00:29:17
Speaker
Yeah. It was a woman that said it too. They be the main ones. Be people. own people. All right. What's another question? ah Let's see. We got one more for the people out there. Yeah, one from this up one more. This is a good one. This is a more this is a more profound one. The one you got to think about. What is something that completely changed about them as they got older?
Evolution of Personal Style
00:29:42
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yeah That's easy. yo What you wore. You was very much a tomboy.
00:29:49
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out Now we're all gender neutral. But back in the day where gender roles not meant something, but kinda meant something. You dressed up- They were the social conventions of dating. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You dressed up like, boy, so much so you stole my clothes. yes And I would say college changed you.
00:30:15
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No, actually started dressing more feminine late in high school. So I would say like junior year. Okay, your year. It's whenever I wasn't living at the house because when I was living at the house, you were still because then I didn't have access to your wardrobe.
00:30:32
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That's literally the reason I didn't have I'd be like, you I'd be like, Jay, that you that's not your fucking shirt. And you know it. It was in my laundry basket. You know, it's not your shirt. It was. It was in my laundry. What do you think it was for you? No, that's it. Then I was I would say that's that's fair. Yeah. Yeah. yeah ah What do you think mine is? Oh,
00:30:57
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What was the original question again? What is something that completely changed about them as they got older? I would say you're driving. you drop a huge You used to have us looking out the back window for cops and because you drove like a bat out of hell.
00:31:17
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You drove like a speed demon. You were i du a menace on the roads. And now you're at like 10 and two and you're going, you are going 35 miles an hour. yeah you You put your turn signal on 200 feet before your turn. like you yeah i get I get joked about from my driving. People that ride in the car are like, why are you driving so slow? i'm like I'm driving the fucking speed limit. Matter of fact, I'm 5 to 10 miles per hour over the speed limit. How much faster do you need me to go? We're going to get there. ben like I don't want to do it. What happened? Because you used to have you me make us sit in the back seat, me and our brother, and we would look out the back window. You would like, just look out for cops. We didn't even know what we was looking for.
00:32:06
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She would, ah you would drive like a speed demon. I think when I stopped being reckless, not to say that I wasn't still doing being reckless in certain instances that night.
Driving Incident and Lessons Learned
00:32:18
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drinking and driving in the car with you when we came back from the baseball game. yeah ah that I was like, look, if I fuck myself up, cool. But if I hurt my little sister, yeah i wouldn't like I wouldn't be able to live with myself. So yeah that kind of, because that that night was real fucking reckless. yes Real reckless. So yeah, okay. I would say that My change wasn't until ah adulthood, because I have always been a little self-centered, not a little self-centered. A lot self-centered, very selfish, and that didn't change until I got into my 30s. I was going to say, but you're still kind of a brat, but I was going to say you used to be really bratty. What instances recently would you describe me as still being a brat?
00:33:12
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still kind of bratty but you and but it's ah it's like small things like it's not like anything you've been like I want to watch this I want this I want it's got to be your thing right now like we had to do it but one with when was the when was the last okay all right when we was watching him when I almost broke dad's movie theater yes But when you were a kid, you were a, oh yeah you were a brat. And so that, that was, that was the, that's a close second. but say yeah I get it now, but I was like, cause you were driving my, my truck. One time we were, we were coming back from dad's, I think.
00:33:56
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And I was just like, is he going so slowly? Well, if, if we were coming back for days, that means that we, and you weren't driving. That means that we was drinking. Yeah. And I didn't want to drive, but I was the only one that probably could drive at that point. Yes. That's now when I drink and drive, it's because I'm putting the position, nobody else can do it. Yeah.
00:34:20
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And so I'm like, fuck, I gotta do it. yeah And so I'm so cautious. And my head is on the swivel for several reasons, not just for cops, I don't wanna get in an into accident, I don't wanna hurt nobody. I'm telling you, my greatest fear is hurting anybody else because it's some shit I did. I don't i don't want that on my heart. So yes, I'm gonna drive slow and careful. And you should see me, the last couple of times I've been riding in the car with my brother,
00:34:49
Speaker
yeah That motherfucker can't drive, okay? I'm just gonna say it. that I am nervous in the car with him. He be rippin' stuff. I'm like, hey, man, can you see this? Can you see the fact you just cut that car off right fast? It'll be all right. I was like, yeah, but they if they hit you, it would've hit you on my side. right let me look It was when we went to the winery, we were driving back. He didn't even have anything to drink. He didn't have anything to drink because he knew we had to drive all the way back to mom's. And he drove like a bat out of hell to get me back to my place. And I jumped out that car and almost kissed the ground because I was like, I made it.
00:35:32
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I made it. You do take your life in your own hands. and ran Let's do let's do one more. And then in the show, let's get to people one more. Okay, because I think this is a good conversation. Okay, let's see what's a good one.
00:35:46
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a Call me a brat. I was a brat as a young kid. I was a brat. Oh my god. Oh, so bri well, we know this one about each other. Okay, well, we're not gonna do that one, though. What was it? and What is their worst fear as a kid? Has it changed? never never For neither one of us, it has not changed.
00:36:10
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Wait a minute. Not my worst fear. I thought yours is the same. Yours is clowns. Well, now the whole goddamn world knows. They already know because there's a video. There's a video clip of clowns. They even created a special A.I. thumbnail that was a scary clown on YouTube. But you're going to say spiders. But spiders are not the thing I'm most fearful of. Well, what is it? Let's put it this way.
00:36:41
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ah If it's if it's an animal, it's a fucking snake like a big ass snake. if If I have to choose between walking past a tarantula or walking past like like a a Burmese python, right? Like it's not it it's not a choice. I'm scared to death of that fucking snake. I I'm scared.
00:37:00
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a little garden snake. There was one time I was at mom and dad's house in their old house. And I saw a little garden snake. First of all, it went underneath the steps. So I said, Oh, I can never sleep over here ever again. Because if it went underneath the steps, yeah that means somehow it can get in the house.
00:37:16
Speaker
If that's not what it means. In my in my mind, that's what it meant. And I saw that little thing. It was a little garden snake. It couldn't have been more long. It couldn't been longer than than two rulers put together. So two feet. Scared the hell out of me. So I am snakes. I do not fuck with snakes over spiders. But that still wasn't my greatest fear. My greatest fear has always been something to do with my eyes.
00:37:45
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Yes. Yeah, it's always been my greatest fear. Yes. mean When y'all used to do the little the little Hey, Bruce, and and we were pull as Adam will still do it. I'm like, so Yeah, I don't know what I saw as a kid. It might have been the torture video or something. Well, he had an eyeball in his hand though. he But he put his he put his hand through an eyeball. And that's how he got the eyeball in the hand.
00:38:09
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Yeah, that was a terrible video. And I saw it at four. Four. And that's the Jacksons. They weren't the Jackson Five because I think Randy had joined. Yeah, they were the Jackson. And it was the victory. But it was the victory album. It was all of the Jacksons, all six of the brothers. It was the only album with all six of the brothers. Yes.
00:38:32
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because they did the album Jackson 2300 Jackson Street, where it was five of the brothers, but this was the first time that Michael wasn't on the album, which was kind of fucked up. michael yeah could Michael could have done a couple of things for that album. But okay, so this is a good one. I already know your answer for this, but you probably don't know my answer. Are they Team Bloody Mary or Team Mimosa? You are Team Mimosa, but not just any Mimosa, a Cranberry Mimosa.
00:39:01
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Okay, yes. if i don't If I can't bring my own mixer, it will be cranberry. But what is it if I can bring my own mixer? Please don't tell me it's something dumb like Gatorade, Bruce. Yeah, it's Gatorade Zero. Oh my gosh, that's sus.
00:39:22
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yeah Gotta watch that sugar intake. It's Gatorade Zero and Brute Champagne. Everybody know that. Everybody know that. That is not a mimosa. Don't tell me that your team you're not Team Bloody Mary. You're Team Mimosa. I've never seen you drink a Bloody Mary. I am actually Team Bellini. I do not like mimosas. That's still a mimosa. No, it's Prosecco. It's not champagne. God damn it. It's Prosecco champagne. Very close. Almost the same thing.
00:39:51
Speaker
but it's not the same thing. He'll believe me is different. And it's okay connector. And that is no, I've never had a Bloody Mary in my entire life. I tried it one time. i forgive I forget who I was dating. And we went to breakfast a day after drinking. And she was drinking Bloody Mary. So she was like, here, try it. I was like, this shit is disgusting. I don't want to drink. I don't even like V8. Why would I want that? No, that V8 Splash. Now, V8 Splash, that's different than juice.
00:40:22
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because i Because when V8 Splash came out, that's when I was a gin drinker, and I used to dude i used to do my version of gin and juice, and it'd be gin and V8 Splash. They don't even make V8 Splash anymore, do they? Yeah, they do. They got a bunch of new flavors and stuff, too. Well, can't nothing beat that kiwi strawberry ocean spray. that's That's... No, I don't know. Actually, I hate ocean spray. Ocean spray gives me worse dry mouth than weed.
00:40:52
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kind of like up's just It's just terrible. All right, ladies and gentlemen, that's it for this episode. And I hope you enjoyed it because ah it was really all these episodes is really self-absorbed. But yeah, it's it's daily data. So that's you. Y'all, let's talk about ourselves. So we did it. I don't know if they asked for it. We just give it to them. We just give it to them.
00:41:18
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yeah yeah Well, never mind. Until next time. I don't know when nobody when nobody's saying, hey, you know what y'all should do is another show behind the paywall. That was my genius fucking idea. Yeah. like Yeah. I'm trying to monetize this as best way. Look, I ain't doing this for free forever. I'm trying. I'm trying to turn this into a career. I'm trying to get some real money off of this so I can stop lifting these people. And the worst is when I'm spotting people doing pull ups and dips and stuff like that in their asses on my shoulder. And that thing
00:41:56
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yeah
00:41:59
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think That's the reason why one of my shoulders hangs lower than the other one. It's not because I always dislocated the shoulder. It's because people been sitting on my fucking shoulder for 18 years.
00:42:12
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Let's to forget quick story. Hi sweet, quick story. I was working in an office and my boss at the time, who's very tall, I think he's probably like six, five, very tall black man, okay? So he's like an inch taller than me. To me, that's tall. Okay. But you said very tall. I'm like like, it's very tall. But you got a brother who's six, four. And that's very tall. Right. It's just that's just weird for you to say very tall when you you grew up with somebody that I've been in this height since ninth grade.
00:42:48
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And you were very tall. at anyway i don't get said To finish telling your story. So anyway, I'm at my desk and I don't understand something about the work. So I haven't come over. He goes to Lena to look at my computer. It was both.
00:43:05
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yeah so but Cause he stole, so some balls hit my shoulder and I just knee. I told him, I told some of my coworkers, I was like balls weren't much.
00:43:26
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yeah oh Next thing I know, they balled up two pieces of paper. That's the whole difference.
00:43:37
Speaker
Good job. You got to be aware of that personal space. we got Let me tell you, you don't want to hear what it's like for a man to get his haircut by the barber because it's on us the entire time. Yeah. We have, we have twos in our face. You're leading over to shampoo bowl. They're right there. They're in your face. um mean I might need to go get my hair shampooed in. There's nothing you can do they're there. They're right there. you All right, Jerry, what do you want to tell the people out there? Thanks for fucking with us. We appreciate it. All right. And I'm going to say thank you for coming out. God bless you. Good night.
00:44:18
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