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Speaker: Welcome back to the Rewired podcast, where I, Gianna Baddow, drop weekly episodes on the power of your subconscious mind in entrepreneurship, life, and relationships, and how you can use your subconscious mind to unlock your full potential. Let's dive in. This episode is sponsored by the Rewired app. Get your 30 day free trial in the show notes below.
Speaker: All right, welcome back. In today's episode, we are diving in to the top three reasons why your goals fail. And each of these reasons is rooted in your subconscious programming. So let's dive into it. My name is Gianna Badeaux. I'm a subconscious coach and certified hypnotherapist. And if you want to learn more about how you can work with me one -on -one to rewire your unconscious limiting beliefs and mental blocks that are holding you back and keeping you stuck, you can check out the link in the notes below to apply for one -on -one coaching and hypnotherapy. And also you can grab access to the Rewired app in the notes below as well as over 30 subconscious activations and self -hypnosis audio recordings to help you unlock the power of your subconscious mind, take charge of your life and reality by taking charge of your subconscious. Check out the link in the notes below and you can get instant access.
Speaker: All right, let's dive in. Why do your goals fail? Why does it constantly feel like you're taking two steps forward and then three steps back? The reason why this is, is because of your subconscious programming. And the number one reason why your goals fail on this list is your confidence, specifically your unconscious self -confidence wounding from your childhood. That's right, the experiences and programming that you gained in your childhood is holding you back and keeping you stuck today in your ability to achieve and fulfill the goals that you have. Why is this? Well, when you are a child, your subconscious mind is like a sponge. It is soaking in everything around you.
Speaker: twenty four seven So whatever you were shown, whatever you were told, whatever you saw becomes the lens by which you see the world. And the experiences that you went through as it relates to what you're capable of achieving, right? Were you told that you can do anything? Were you shown that anything is possible for you? Were you told that you can accomplish anything you want if you believe in yourself, if you follow through?
Speaker: Or were you programmed to believe that success is hard to come by? That you had to work really hard to get where you want to go and only a few people can be successful. Only the lucky people can be successful. Were you given the tools to feel confident as a child? Were you propped up and told that you were great no matter what happened? No matter if you failed? Most of the time the answer is to this question is no.
Speaker: And if you weren't given the proper tools to have healthy, strong confidence today, it's likely that you are causing yourself to self -sabotage in pursuit of the goals you have.
Speaker: Everything you're doing, everything you're saying, all of the ways that you are showing up in pursuit of your goals right now is rooted back to your childhood, your confidence, your ability to truly and deeply believe in yourself.
Speaker: right and When I work with clients who are like, I don't know why I'm stuck. I don't know why I can't get ahead. No matter what I do, I'm constantly burnt out. I'm constantly failing. I'm not getting to where I want to go. When we do hypnotherapy, a lot of times we go back to memories from the earliest years of their life where they were children and they had a big goal that they were excited about and they were laughed at.
Speaker: They were told they weren't good enough. They were told they couldn't do it. And that memory from the earliest years of their lives is affecting them and causing them to still believe that today, unconsciously believe that. Of course, in the day to day, you're not remembering, oh my God, when I was a kid, this happened. But your subconscious mind remembers that.
Speaker: Your subconscious mind holds every trauma, every memory that you have ever gone through. So if you have unhealed traumas around success, around results,
Speaker: your confidence is going to struggle and you are going to constantly find yourself in a state of self -sabotage. You need to believe in yourself to achieve any goal. You have to have unshakable belief and confidence. If you do not have an unshakable belief and confidence in yourself, it's going to be extremely hard to have momentum and move forward and achieve the goals that you have. In fact, no one achieves any goal without unshakable, deep, deep subconscious confidence. That's right. No one achieves any goal without deep subconscious unshakable confidence. You need that belief in yourself. You need that belief in what you want to achieve, that it is safe and possible for you to achieve it. And if you're not moving ahead, if you feel like you're constantly failing, it's because you don't have the confidence to fulfill what it is you are working towards.
Speaker: And on a conscious level, you might say, well, I believe in myself, I think I can do this. But if you're not doing it, your subconscious obviously doesn't believe the same thing as your conscious mind. And to achieve any goal, the conscious mind and the subconscious mind need to be in alignment and believe. So if you're feeling like you're stuck, you're not moving forward, checking in with your actual literal deep confidence your subconscious confidence is crucial to actually moving ahead to actually accomplishing and achieving what you want again this is not i believe in myself confidence this is
Speaker: unshakable deep confidence that is not diluted by limiting beliefs, that is not diluted by traumas and past experiences from failures that you've gone through or traumas that you went through. This is unshakable confidence that no matter what happens, no matter how you have to get there, you will do it. This is the confidence that you need to fulfill and achieve your goals. And without it, you will fail. Your goals will fail.
Speaker: So check in with your subconscious confidence because when you have subconscious confidence, you will literally achieve anything you want. Alright, let's move on to number two. If you're not achieving your goals, the second top reason why you're not achieving what you want is because You're trying too hard. That's right. You're efforting too hard. You're controlling too hard. The laws of the universe say to achieve any goal, you have to surrender. You have to trust the process.
Speaker: You have to work hard, of course. But there is a healthy obsession that is involved with achieving a goal. If you are obsessed with something at an unhealthy level, you will be stressed. You will be anxious. You will have resistance put in the way of what you want because there's so much stress around it. right So of course, to achieve any goal, we need to be obsessed with achieving that goal.
Speaker: But there's two levels of obsession. There is healthy obsession, like I said, and there is unhealthy obsession. When you are having a healthy obsession with achieving a goal, it excites you. You jump out of bed in the morning to achieve it. You feel energized by it. You're excited by it. You love talking about it. It makes you feel good. There's good vibes around it. If you have an unhealthy obsession with a goal,
Speaker: You're stressed out. You're anxious. You're not sleeping at night. You're burnt out. You're always wondering if it's ever going to happen. And what happens when you have an unhealthy obsession is it creates resistance between you and the universe. And when there is resistance between you and the universe, there's blocks. There's blocks that stand in the way of allowing what you want to float to you, allowing what you want to manifest.
Speaker: right If you want to manifest, you have to be in that state of allowing, that state of surrender, that feel -good state where you have unwavering faith and self -trust in your ability to call that towards you, to magnetize that towards you. So if you're not moving forward, if you feel like your goals are failing or you're not having momentum, you're probably trying too hard. okay You're probably trying way too hard. You're hustling too hard. You're stressed out. You're anxious.
Speaker: That is not the path to true and lasting success. True and lasting success happens when you are in a state of surrender. It's deep inner self -trust. It's allowing the universe to flow to you. It's, of course, putting in the work and doing what needs to happen, taking inspired action. But there's no anxiety attached to it. There's no stress attached to it. You can work hard, but you're also relaxed.
Speaker: You're also in self -trust. You are surrendered to the outcome. You don't care how you get there because because you know you're getting there regardless. That is the mindset you want to be and to actually move forward to what you want. So if you're not moving ahead, if you're stressed out all the time, you're likely having a very unhealthy obsession with your goal. And that unhealthy obsession is burning you out and it's creating resistance between you and the universe. And because of that, you're blocked, you're stuck, and you're not achieving what you want. So to get ahead on your goals, you have to take a step back, release all the stress, all the anxiety, and truly deeply surrender.
Speaker: Put in your work and be relaxed. Put in your work and trust the process. Put in your work and intuitively know and trust it is on its way to you with unwavering faith. So if you're not getting ahead, if you're not achieving what you want, if you feel like you're constantly failing, check in with the energy associated with your goal. Are you stressed? Do you have an unhealthy obsession or are you surrendered?
Speaker: Do you have self trust? Do you feel good about what you want? Are you excited about what you're doing every day? Once you check in with what side of that you're on, you'll easily be able to tell the changes that you need to start making. And the side that you're on, whether it's unhealthy obsession or healthy obsession, has everything to do with your subconscious mind.
Speaker: the programming you have around hard work, the programming you have around success. So to achieve what you want, you need to program your subconscious mind to believe that you can achieve it without stress. You can achieve it without burnout. It can be done through surrender. It can be done through effortless flow and allowing and manifestation.
Speaker: programming your mind for this new way of achieving goals. Which is the opposite of what many of you were programmed to believe. Many of you grew up believing that to succeed you had to work hard. It took a long time. It was a lot of hard work. It doesn't need to be that way. You can surrender. You can relax. You can do the work and trust the process.
Speaker: And to rewire your subconscious mind to surrender and trust the process, it requires a deep, deep state of relaxation and rewiring your mind in the state of hypnosis. And if you want to rewire your subconscious to believe and trust that what you want is coming to you and let go of that control, let go of that stress, release all that resistance that's attached to your goals, check out the link below to get access to the Rewired app and you can start tapping into your subconscious mind and release any stress, any resistance, any anxiety by utilizing the subconscious audios and self -hypnosis activations on the Rewired app.
Speaker: All right, let's dive into our last one, number three. The reason why your goals are failing is a fear of failure. You fear what could happen if it doesn't work out for you and because you're so afraid to fail, you're not moving forward.
Speaker: Fear of failure is the number one block that stands in the way of achieving anything. You're afraid to fail. And the truth is, to achieve any goal, you will fail on the way. You will fail multiple times on the way to a big goal. You have to be okay with failing. You need to welcome failure. You need to look at failures and say, okay,
Speaker: I'm going to take this from my failure. I'm going to learn from it. And I'm going to move forward. I'm going to keep going because I know if I keep going, I will get to where I want to go. But instead, you're afraid to fail because you think failure is the end of the goal. Failure is just the beginning. Failure is actually often a very necessary learning point on your journey to where you're going.
Speaker: It makes the journey in fact you cannot be afraid to fail and the reason why you're failing but you feel like you're failing is because you're afraid you're afraid to fail and the truth is to truly be successful you have to make friends with your failures you have to welcome it you have to embody it in a way that there's no shame around it.
Speaker: In fact, telling your story about your failures is actually going to help boost your confidence. Talking about what you went through will boost your confidence in ways that you don't even realize are available to you. So, fear of failure is probably the biggest block that's standing in the way. I work with so many of my one -on -one clients around this where they can't figure out why they're not getting ahead. They have no idea why.
Speaker: They don't think they're afraid of failure. But then when we get to the deep, deep subconscious root of it, there's something that happened to them when they were a kid. There was something that happened to them as an entrepreneur. right They lost a lot of money. They made a bad decision. They took a big risk and it failed. And because of that, they're afraid to do it again. They're afraid of that failure. But when you take a step back and you actually look at the failures that you've gone through in your life, you can realize that they taught you something extremely powerful.
Speaker: you met someone along the way it took you down a path that actually ended up being really beautiful for you and that failure wasn't really even a failure it made you who you are today.
Speaker: So realizing that failure often can be a really beautiful gift will help you move forward. It will help you gain momentum, will keep you going on the journey instead of keeping you stuck like it is right now. So that is one of the biggest, biggest reasons why goals fail because you're afraid to fail. So instead of feeling so afraid to fail, you tell yourself, I welcome failure. I learned from failure. I don't mind failing.
Speaker: I'm resilient and that is the key to getting where you want to go. You have to embody resilience, getting back up from every time you get knocked down. That is how you succeed. That is how you get to where you want to go. You cannot give up. You cannot give in. You cannot say failure is the end. Failure is just the beginning. That is the mindset.
Speaker: i A lot of you right now are thinking of failure and you think it's the end of a goal. It's the beginning of a goal. It's the turning point of a goal. When you embody this type of mindset and wire this mindset into your subconscious mind through repetition every day of doing self -hypnosis, you'll never quit. And the only way you actually ever fail is if you quit.
Speaker: That's right. Hear this one more time. The only way you actually ever fail is if you quit. And if you are rewiring and programming your subconscious mind for success every single day, you will never quit. So if you never quit, you're never going to fail eventually.
Speaker: you're going to get where you want to go. So those are the top three reasons why your goals are failing. and So that's it for today. Now if you want to go deeper on this and start eliminating the unconscious mental blocks that are holding you back and keeping you stuck and preventing you from achieving your goals, eliminating your confidence wounds, getting in the high vibrational state to surrender, to trust the process, to achieve your goals from allowing, and also eliminating your fear of failure and building your inner resilience. You can check out the links below. You can apply to work with me one -on -one, and we will, together, eliminate any and all subconscious blocks from your childhood, from your present day that are holding you back and keeping you stuck so you can gain access to the inner momentum that you need
Speaker: to get exactly where you want to go. All right, that's it for today. Make sure you thank you for tuning in. I'd love to know how this episode landed with you. So connect with me on Instagram at Giana Badeaux with your thoughts and takeaways.
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