Being introverted isn't a character flaw or a weakness that needs fixing. It's part of who you are. I spent years believing my quiet nature was something wrong with me, something I needed to change. But accepting my introversion became the foundation of real confidence and self-acceptance.

Three things I learned:

 1. Your introversion doesn't make you broken (accepting yourself is the first step to confidence)
 2. Confidence has nothing to do with being extroverted (quiet confidence is real confidence)
 3. You can learn social skills without changing who you fundamentally are (both can coexist)

From childhood pressure to be more outgoing to forcing myself into activities I didn't want, I learned that trying to change your fundamental nature is exhausting. It doesn't work. The moment I stopped fighting my quiet nature and started honoring it, everything changed.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that there's nothing wrong with being an introvert.

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There Was Nothing Wrong With Me: Being Introverted Isn't a Character Flaw

How to solo date when you have social anxiety. Everyone's watching you. Everyone's judging. But the truth is far less dramatic, and building confidence happens through small, sustainable steps, not forcing yourself into discomfort. Solo dating is how you build your own life and prove to yourself you're capable.

Three key strategies:

 1. People aren't thinking about you at all (they're thinking about themselves)
 2. Work with your anxiety, not against it (force creates burnout)
 3. Take small steps outside your comfort zone (incrementally build tolerance)

Solo dating saved my life because it taught me I don't need anyone else to do things I love. I became my own companion. I stopped waiting for someone to be available. I started living. That confidence shift changed everything.

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Solo Dating Survival Guide for the Anxious Girlie

Three books changed how I see the world in 2026. Even though I'm behind on my reading goal, these specific books stuck with me and taught me things I never learned before. Reading recommendations that matter and why these stories need to be heard.

Three impactful books:

 1. The Undocumented Americans by Karla Cornejo Villavicencio [https://bookshop.org/a/56486/9780399592706] - hidden stories of invisible communities 
 2. Everything is Tuberculosis by John Green [https://bookshop.org/a/56486/9780525556572] - how everything connects to systems and history
 3. A Magical Girl Retires by Park Seolyeon [https://bookshop.org/a/56486/9780063469242] - depression and recognition in the pages

What they taught me: History I never learned in school. Systems I couldn't see before. Myself reflected on the page. These books showed me perspectives that matter and stories that need hearing.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that books show us what we need to see.

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The Most Impactful Books I've Read in 2026 (And Why I Can't Stop Thinking About Them)

It's July and your goals have derailed. Instead of pushing harder, sink into yourself and ask three questions that will show you exactly what's wrong. Centering yourself is the key to achieving goals that actually align with who you are.

Three questions to recalibrate:

 1. Why do you want this goal? (Check your connection and investment)
 2. How will you feel when you achieve it? (Remember the emotional payoff)
 3. Is the process enjoyable? (Sunk cost fallacy check and making it better)

Goals are tied to your self-perception, confidence, and self-esteem. When you sink into yourself, you ensure you're working toward something that actually matters. Make the process enjoyable with micro goals, progress tracking, and self-compassion instead of negative self-talk.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that your goals should serve you, not the other way around.

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How to Center Yourself and Actually Achieve Your Goals This Year

Books became essential to my healing journey from trauma, depression, and emotional abuse. Three specific books guided me through understanding what happened, building unbreakable boundaries, and reconnecting with the parts of myself I'd lost.

Three healing books:

 * "Whole Again" by Jackson MacKenzie validates your experience and teaches self-forgiveness
 * "Boundaries After a Pathological Relationship" by Adelyn Birch is short, direct, essential
 * ACOTAR by Sarah J. Maas helped me reconnect with my love of reading and myself

My coach gave me assigned reading as part of my healing work. These books became homework, validation, strategy, and eventually, joy. Reading for healing isn't just about information. It's about seeing yourself in the pages and knowing you're not alone.

Reconnecting with reading was reconnecting with who I was before the trauma. Old Marisol loved reading. That got lost. Getting it back was getting myself back.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that healing has many forms and sometimes it comes through the pages of a book.

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📚 Books mentioned:

 * Whole Again: Jackson MacKenzie [https://bookshop.org/a/56486/9780143133315]
 * Boundaries After a Pathological Relationship: [https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-After-Pathological-Relationship-Adelyn/dp/1523368829]Adelyn Birch [https://www.amazon.com/Adelyn-Birch/e/B019PLC03O/ref=dp_byline_cont_book_1]
 * ACOTAR (A Court of Thorns and Roses): Sarah J. Maas [https://bookshop.org/a/56486/9781635575569]

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Healing Books That Changed My Life: A Reading Journey Through Recovery

Mid-year check-in on my two main goals for 2026 and where I stand at six months. Instead of setting goals in every area of my life, I narrowed focus to financial freedom by paying off credit card debt and getting back into shape. This approach is working better than years of overachieving and doing too much.

Two goals and real progress:

 * Credit card debt: Started with $12,500, now paying $1,400 monthly, adjusted strategy in May when progress felt too slow
 * Fitness: Lost 5 pounds, increased muscle definition in legs and glutes through lifting and cardio, struggling with nutrition consistency
 * Why two goals work: Less overwhelming, more achievable, better for accountability than setting ten goals

I struggled with emotional eating while healing from depression and CPTSD. The deeper I healed, the more emotions surfaced, leading me to emotionally eat through the recovery process. Now working on consistency with nutrition while maintaining a healthy food relationship.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that focusing on two goals creates better outcomes than trying to achieve ten at once.

Small steps, big healing. Keep growing! ✨

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Mid-Year Check-in: What I'm Keeping, What I'm Changing, What I'm Letting Go Of

Six life lessons about self-esteem, friendship, and toxic relationships I wish I'd known at 26. Self-acceptance and radical acceptance are the foundation for real confidence. Your flaws are not a moral failing and you deserve to celebrate your achievements.

Six lessons across three categories:

 1. Self-esteem and confidence: Your flaws are not a moral failing, celebrate your achievements
 2. Friendship lessons: Deep friendships require intentionality, friends are your village
 3. Love life lessons: If your creativity dies because of him, leave him, one hard conversation shouldn't end a relationship

I learned these lessons through mistakes, painful friendships that faded, and a toxic relationship that took my creativity. Looking back, I wish I'd known my flaws didn't define me and that I deserved to celebrate my wins.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that the lessons you learn the hard way are worth sharing so others don't have to wait 10 years to understand them.

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6 Life Lessons I Wish I Knew at 26 About Self-Esteem, Friendship, and Love

Poetry and mental health intersect beautifully in this conversation with award-winning poet Leisly Roman about her seasonal poetry collection that guides intentional living and personal growth. Her latest book "All That a Season Can Carry (In Me)" is organized by seasons to help readers explore the emotional landscapes of winter, spring, summer, and fall while understanding how their inner world connects to nature.

What we cover:

 * How seasons guide self-reflection, healing, and intentional living throughout the year
 * Winter as an opportunity for peace and quiet self-reflection instead of just depression and darkness
 * Moving intentionally through seasons instead of carrying the same goals and guilt all year long

About Our Guest: Leisly Roman is an award-winning Dominican American poet and mental health advocate from New York City. Her debut bilingual collection "Living in Phases" explores mental health journey with honesty. Her latest work uses poetry to help readers connect their emotional experiences to nature's rhythms and find healing through self-reflection.

The book shows that each season offers different emotional and spiritual opportunities. Winter brings rest and self-discovery. Spring brings growth. Summer brings action. Fall brings completion. When you move intentionally through seasons, you let go of what each season teaches before carrying it into the next.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that your inner world connects to the world around you and moving intentionally through seasons helps you let go of weight you've been carrying all year.

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Poetry as Medicine: A Conversation With Poet Leisly Roman about her Latest Collection

People pleasing in parenting is costing your children their self-worth, emotional regulation, and healthy boundaries. Kids learn through observation, so if you're a people pleaser, your children are picking up those same behaviors and internalizing them as normal. This is how generational trauma works and how the cycle continues unless you heal it.

How people pleasing affects your children:

 * Kids learn interpersonal skills through observation and copy your people pleasing behavior
 * You normalize overextending yourself and putting everyone else's needs first constantly
 * Toxic family members stay around because you can't set boundaries, exposing kids to potential harm

People pleasing parents struggle with consistent discipline and handling conflict, making parenting inconsistent. This becomes generational trauma that your children inherit.

In my Growing Pains, I recognize how my parents' people pleasing affected me. Now as an adult healing, I understand this is a generational curse I want to break with my future kids.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that your healing is your children's healing and breaking the generational curse starts with you doing the work.

Small steps, big healing. Keep growing! ✨

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Breaking the Generational Curse: People Pleasing and Family Patterns

People pleasing in your career is costing you money, promotions, and career growth. If people pleasing is ruining your love life, chances are it's also ruining your finances. People pleasers take on more work for free, can't say no, avoid negotiating, and don't assert themselves for opportunities like promotions or raises.

How people pleasing shows up in your career:

 * Taking on more work for free and to the detriment of your own projects
 * Unable to say no so you're always the last to leave, missing deadlines on your own tasks
 * Taking blame for things that aren't your fault, damaging your professional reputation

This directly impacts promotions, raises, and how much money you make. Good leaders are authentic but people pleasers can't be authentic so they stay stuck. Money impacts everything: healthcare access, where you live, what food you buy, your overall quality of life.

Subscribe. Share. Remember that healing people pleasing requires recognizing how it's affecting your career and finances, and taking small steps to assert yourself.

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People Pleasing at Work: How It Ruins Your Salary, Raises, and Career Growth

Life's little lessons with a big impact. 

Welcome to Growing with Sol, where we explore the moments and stories that shape who we're becoming. I'm Marisol, and I love having conversations about growth, self-discovery, and learning to put yourself first.

Whether we're diving into books that change our perspective or unpacking personal experiences that teach us something new, this podcast is for women who are done playing small and ready to embrace their own journey.

If you've struggled with putting everyone else first or battled self-doubt, you're in the right place. This isn't about perfection—it's about the messy, beautiful process of growing into yourself.

Come grow with me 🌱

Let's stay connected! Join our growing community @YourCoachMari [https://www.instagram.com/yourcoachmari/] and @GrowingWithSolPod [https://www.instagram.com/growingwithsolpod/] on Instagram, and catch me on TikTok @YourCoachMari [https://www.tiktok.com/@yourcoachmari] for bite-sized growth tips between episodes.

Marisol Moran

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