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#3 - Resonance Over Relevance
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What if “staying relevant” was never the point?
This episode is for the woman who’s tired of chasing timelines, algorithms, and approval. The one who’s no longer interested in being understood by the masses—and is finally ready to be known by herself.
We’ll explore what it looks like to live, speak, create, and relate from resonance—the deep truth that vibrates inside you, regardless of what the world wants to hear.
If you’ve ever felt invisible or “too much,” this one’s for you.
In this episode, you’ll explore:
- Why relevance is rooted in performance
- How resonance creates magnetic authenticity
- Projector energy + the power of being a signal, not a strategy
- What it means to live from your inner authority—not external applause
- How to build a life that doesn’t require you to be understood by everyone
🔗Links & Resources:
- ✨ Grab the free guide: Rewrite & Reclaim: The Good Girl Detox
- 📖 My book: You Are a Cosmic Miracle
- 💻 Explore my private support & programs: michelemartincoaching.com
- 💻 Book a free call here: https://calendly.com/michelemartincoaching/assessment-call
Let’s connect:
- Instagram: @michelemartincoaching
- Facebook: Facebook
- 💌 Tag a friend who’s living outside the box
- ⭐ Leave a review if this landed—it helps the signal travel
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Transcript
Introduction to 'Authenticity Revolution'
00:00:58
Michele Martin
Come home to your signal.
00:01:04
Michele Martin
Awaken the craving. Align with your signal. Transmit your truth. You're listening to the Authenticity Revolution, where resonance becomes revolution and women 40 plus come home to who they truly are.
00:01:21
Michele Martin
I'm Michelle, and this space is where we stop performing and start transmitting.
Struggles with Societal Standards
00:01:30
Michele Martin
There's a moment, maybe you've already felt it, where the performance just breaks. You've spent years just trying to be relevant to your industry, to your family, to social media, to some idea of what a woman quote unquote should be at this age, whatever age that is.
00:01:54
Michele Martin
But here's the truth. Relevance is a trap. It's a hunger that can't be fed because it's based on being chosen by a system that was never built for your soul.
Journey to Internal Alignment
00:02:11
Michele Martin
You know, I used to bend myself in half trying to be relevant, to appear together, spiritual, successful, likable.
00:02:21
Michele Martin
But underneath it all, I wasn't fulfilled. I was performing survival. And what I didn't know at the time was that my spirit wasn't craving more applause.
00:02:35
Michele Martin
It was craving alignment.
Lessons from Gate 38 on Fighting for Worthy Causes
00:02:38
Michele Martin
Because here's what gate 38 has taught me. We are meant to fight, but only for what's worth it.
00:02:48
Michele Martin
Fighting for attention, irrelevant. Fighting for likes, irrelevant. Fighting to stay palatable, irrelevant. fighting to be true to your own damn signal, now that's everything.
00:03:04
Michele Martin
So let's break this down.
Relevance vs. Resonance
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Michele Martin
Relevance is external, right? It's performative. It's approval seeking. It's survival driven. And resonance is internal.
00:03:17
Michele Martin
It's felt in the body. It doesn't chase. It calls. So relevance says, what will they think? And resonance asks, what do I know to be true?
00:03:32
Michele Martin
Relevance creates noise and resonance creates signal. So I want to provoke you with love here. Where are you still performing?
00:03:46
Michele Martin
What are you chasing that doesn't even feel good anymore? And what would it take to let that go? This is your wake up call, not to burn it all down, but to refuse to build on top of what isn't true.
Practice for Identifying Driven Areas
00:04:05
Michele Martin
And here's a quick practice. Think about an area of your life where you're trying to stay relevant. Maybe it's in your content on social media. Maybe it's your appearance.
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Michele Martin
Maybe it's your career path, whatever it is. Now just pause.
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Michele Martin
Breathe.
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Michele Martin
And ask your body, does this resonate or am I performing?
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Michele Martin
If it's resonance, you'll feel something open. If it's relevance, you'll probably feel contraction or static. Your body always knows.
Sustainability of Resonance
00:04:53
Michele Martin
And revelance... Relevance, sorry, is exhausting. But resonance? Resonance is sustainable. It becomes your frequency signature.
00:05:05
Michele Martin
And once it's dialed in, the right people will feel you before they ever follow you. This podcast, this revolution, this body of work that I'm building, it's not about being seen by everyone.
Choosing Truth Over Performance
00:05:21
Michele Martin
It's about being felt by the ones who are ready. So today, I invite you to choose one place in your life where you're going to stop performing and start transmitting.
00:05:34
Michele Martin
Even if no one claps, even if it's quiet, even if it's absolutely terrifying, because that is where your truth lives.
Embracing True Selves with 'The Good Girl Detox'
00:05:46
Michele Martin
So if this stirred something in you, trust it. That's resonance. You can start unraveling the performance right now by downloading my free guide, Rewrite and Reclaim, The Good Girl Detox.
00:06:00
Michele Martin
The link is in the show notes. Because this revolution, it isn't about becoming someone new. It's about remembering who you've always been.
00:06:11
Michele Martin
And until next time, stay true to your signal. I'll see you soon.