Barbara Legere's story of addiction and mental health is a cautionary tale for all parents. As she journeyed alongside her son, Keven through his struggles with substance abuse and depression-which ultimately led to suicide - Barbara learned so much about love in its purest form: caring enough to ask questions; listening without judgment or advice giving when it wasn't wanted
The risk we take by loving someone who needs more care than they can get from themselves brings us full circle back once again...to where we started. Except this time, with a new understanding: that love - in all its forms - is always worth the risk.
Her story is one of love, hope, and ultimately tragedy. As a mother, she did everything she could to help her son, but in the end, she was forced to accept that there was nothing more she could do.
In the process, she shines a light on the hidden anguish of countless parents who are taking care of children that society tells them to abandon.
For those parents who have borne witness to overdoses, arrests, addiction treatment and incarceration and even death, "Keven’s Choice" is a raw and intimate memoir of a mother’s grief that shows it’s possible and necessary to go on, even amidst the unimaginable.
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IN THIS EPISODE:
3:48 Meet Keven.
6:01 How she found out about his addiction
10:27 She got a crash-course about drugs - from addicts
11:20 7 of her son's friends are now gone... and she knows of over 300 other people dead from overdose, in South Orange County
14:31 Her eye opening experience visiting her son in prison
24:11 You need more than love
25:35 Was this what started the problem for Keven?
29:30 The effects begin to take their toll & Barbara takes a controversial approach
36:01 Her body, her choice
38:35 Keven's older half sister...
43:35 The two messages of her book