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That's how the whole women in and particularly women of color and leadership just became unseeable to me as well. when you know If you look at representative organizations as well, there's a gap. Even if you listen to the industries that we don't function in, not just health, there are gaps that are very obvious. and I felt I had to make a commitment to my two girls to improve things, even if it is just a little bit, to the point where there shouldn't be as invisible as sometimes I have felt. so So I think it's interesting, parental guilt can be quite a driver for positive meaning making, isn't it? That is very true. and Parental, grandparental, you know who knows, when we become parent grandparents, we'll approach another journey again. Yeah, absolutely. You are a source of a lot of wisdom, Jenny. so okay Or from what you're saying, I'm just um responding back. so now I was going to ask you, I've often been contacted by people that have only just arrived from you know sometimes the UK, sometimes from even doctors that have been here and are from India or other backgrounds seeking direction or advice. What is it that you think was helpful or important for you in terms of getting where you have got to? What did you do looking, planning, preparing to get to Australia? I think the first thing is that I reached out for help. As I said, I have no filter, so it's not like I