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Speaker: kindness is not innate.
Speaker: It's a choice that people make every day, you know.
Speaker: Sitting here and your intention and your energy can do like so much than somebody who's out on trip going and interacting in some, in order to have fun.
Speaker: Fashion sometimes fizzles out as well, but purpose is something that keeps you going.
Speaker: So maybe today I want to send this message through a podcast.
Speaker: Tomorrow I want to send this message by making short movies.
Speaker: What is the shit sandwich that you are willing to go through?
Speaker: Because you have to go through those hard work phases.
Speaker: You have to go through those failures, those struggling phases.
Speaker: What shit sandwich are you willing to go through?
Speaker: Drift towards the feminine energy.
Speaker: So you will have more women-centric brands, more women-centric businesses that are on the rise, makeup, clothes, textile, fashion, anything, very feminine energy.
Speaker: And that doesn't mean that it's only in terms of women, also men would be.
Speaker: be more involved in these things.
Speaker: I was very surprised of people knowing their traumas very deeply.
Speaker: They know what childhood traumas they've had.
Speaker: They know how they have become and they know everything.
Speaker: And at the same time, they bluntly accepted in my DMs that they are using other people for their own emotional healing.
Speaker: And I was like, you have to stop it.
Speaker: And they're like, but we don't know how to handle us on our own.
Speaker: And we need other people to,
Speaker: kind of give us that emotional healing.
Speaker: Hi everyone, welcome back to Spirit Says.
Speaker: We are so glad that you're enjoying the series.
Speaker: On today's episodes, we are going to take up a few of the Q&As, some general feedback and also give you an overview for the upcoming year that is 2024.
Speaker: So let's dive into it.
Speaker: Hi, everyone.
Speaker: Welcome back.
Speaker: I just want to tell you that this is our last episode of the season one.
Speaker: And with this, we'll wrap up the season.
Speaker: So I just want to take out some time and thank you all for your overwhelming response that we got and the love that we got.
Speaker: We read all your texts and we are so glad that our podcast helped you in some way or the other.
Speaker: And I also would like to thank Antriksha because she had so many options and she could have done this with anyone, but she chose me.
Speaker: And I feel so special and that journey has been amazing.
Speaker: And we had gone through various ups and downs while recording these podcasts, not in our relationship, I'm just kidding, for recording the podcast.
Speaker: And yes, and she chose me and we have discussed such intense and serious topics during this and I love it and I hope there are more to come.
Speaker: um and so when I started this podcast and the main message that I wanted to give out was that kindness is not innate it's a choice that people make every day you know how you show up in your life how you show up for others how we say something how you show up when nobody's watching so it's all intention behind how you behave and similar is with charity you know
Speaker: If you are told to do charity, you are doing by some astrologer or by some psychic that will heal you or something like that.
Speaker: You're doing it because of that or you're doing it just because you want to do good for other people.
Speaker: And when you do charity to heal yourself or when astrologers tell you that if you donate something, it'll be good.
Speaker: you know, there is this expectation that comes with it that, oh, I'll get a payout out of this.
Speaker: I'll get healed.
Speaker: I get this.
Speaker: I'll get more money because I did a good deed.
Speaker: So it nullifies the effect of what that charity was supposed to be from the beginning.
Speaker: And this is how intentions play a very big role in our actions.
Speaker: And I wanted to give out that message to the people.
Speaker: Yes, absolutely.
Speaker: I think intention plays a very important role, especially if we are doing anything in life.
Speaker: I think intention and devotion is something that separates our work from everybody else.
Speaker: So I also feel like because in the past, like one or two years,
Speaker: I also have been on to this journey where I wanted to find, where I wanted to actually meet some teachers in person or I wanted to have those kind of conversations.
Speaker: But what life gave me was that I kind of missed every chance of meeting somebody that I wanted to meet or like the guru or the teacher that I wanted to have.
Speaker: I couldn't have them.
Speaker: for my guidance and every time the message that was coming to me was that your intention for doing something is what matters.
Speaker: You don't need to be, you know, you don't need to be going and visiting some place.
Speaker: You don't need to be interacting with
Speaker: So and so kind of people but just sitting wherever you are you can set an intention for yourself for this life and it can be greater than the rest of the things for example if I want to like travel to some holy lands okay or like you want to do it but you can't at this moment.
Speaker: But if you are sitting here and your intention and your energy can do like so much, then somebody who's out on trip going and interacting in some, in order to have fun or just to have like, make some videos for Instagram or things like that.
Speaker: So that is not going to be as much intentional, as much beneficial as somebody who's just sitting and, uh,
Speaker: like praying or setting an intention with the goodness of our heart.
Speaker: So that I think that was a message that came for me as well in this year where I felt very strongly that our intention is something that separates us from others and it makes a huge difference.
Speaker: So definitely I agree with that.
Speaker: And it's so important, especially right now, where you see the social media has been so polarized.
Speaker: People don't get how big intention prayers can play, how big a role they can play.
Speaker: Because if you don't post something on stories, it means you are not on the team or whatever they want to assume, right?
Speaker: And that's really harsh because you have to know that how big intentions and
Speaker: prayers can go for some people definitely yes
Speaker: I think one thing, again, on the lines of intention that I've gotten in my DMs was about the negative energy and people's negative intentions harming you in some way.
Speaker: For example, we post on social media or we share our dreams and life decisions with other people.
Speaker: So there was this message that I got, which was regarding like the negative energy, the evil eye, and also like sharing our stuff with our own family members.
Speaker: So there was this curiosity that does evil eye play a role in that as well when we are interacting with our own family members.
Speaker: So I'd like to like touch upon it a little bit.
Speaker: So I firmly believe that we have all kinds of energies in this world.
Speaker: So yes, like evil eye or like in simpler terms, it's just like somebody is envious of you or jealous of you.
Speaker: And they're just like times unintentionally also people can have that energy.
Speaker: negative energy being directed towards you.
Speaker: So that does happen.
Speaker: But at the same time, I also feel like if you are, you know, doing something with the goodness of your heart, if you're having like your own rituals, if you're having your own prayers or your own little things going on, your energy and your aura gets strengthened over time.
Speaker: And that acts naturally that that positive energy around you naturally acts as a protective shield.
Speaker: So I do believe that, yes, energies can affect us negatively.
Speaker: But if you have like, if you have that belief with yourself and with the universe, it also protects you beautifully.
Speaker: And with the family members, I just feel like it's not...
Speaker: so much about the evil eye but more about our energy being dissipated because when we are excited about something and we discuss it with our friends or with our family members we use all of that energy in sharing and explaining and discussing things and when it comes to like the action part naturally our energy is wasted in sharing the stuff so when it comes to the action parts we fail to put in the required effort that is
Speaker: needed for something to happen and so with family members I just feel like we waste a lot of energy in the conversation and that is why we feel like something is not happening because we are not putting in the efforts so yeah family members I think it's a very logical way but with the strangers yes a little privacy is recommended yeah
Speaker: Yeah, but of course, in any social sphere you are, there might be people who have hint of jealousy for you, but that doesn't mean that they are sending you bad, evil eye, bad vibes, but it's just that maybe they want to be something and they don't have that, you know, action or that...
Speaker: courage in them to take that action so that's where a second of jealousy comes in but then also they are happy for you so that evil energy doesn't count I wouldn't say that's like traditionally evil but yes as far as black magic is concerned Antriksha I feel like yes people in like at home use a lot of
Speaker: um terms like black magic they did this on me and if you see on social media you see like oh my relatives did black magic on me you know but I think black magic is something very detailed you have to know proper rituals you have to have that person's some kind of DNA why I'm telling how to do black magic for people
Speaker: It's very detailed.
Speaker: Okay, it's like white magic and you have to have proper knowledge of scriptures and stuff.
Speaker: So you can't just and not anybody can enter and do it on you.
Speaker: Yes, people do spiritual attacks, but that's like very knowledgeable people who know stuff about magic and everything.
Speaker: so and plus the karma that comes with it is very very bad you and some people might argue that okay if we can't wait until they get their karma it's unfair but i think that's a bit revenge based because if somebody is sending you evil eye maybe you are protected or maybe um you get hurt a little bit but the thing is that
Speaker: In the long term, universe will balance that out.
Speaker: In the short term, yes, you might lose something materially and that's heartbreaking.
Speaker: But I still think that that's redirection.
Speaker: I don't think that you didn't get that because your friend or whatever sent you bad eye.
Speaker: But that was a redirection from universe's part in some way or the other.
Speaker: So it's not always because you don't get that thing you want because of bad eye.
Speaker: What do you think?
Speaker: For black magic, I think what I have heard is, I personally believe like, yeah, people go to different lengths.
Speaker: People love to play with energy and we should not play with energy.
Speaker: And people go to different lengths for materialistic gains, right?
Speaker: Specifically for black magic, I feel like
Speaker: the consequences, the negative consequences, the karmic consequences that you are going to get if you are into the black magic stuff is for not just for your own life or for your own soul, but it comes for generations, for like many, many generations in your family lineage if you are into the negative magic stuff.
Speaker: So we have to be very aware of those things before we go into like small materialistic gains and
Speaker: Also, I feel like, I don't know why people, we are humans and I do get that desire to have those gains where we are going out and harming other people and using all sorts of stuff.
Speaker: But I also feel like again, strengthening your, increasing the positive energy in your own life with prayer, with intention, with good karma is
Speaker: acts as a protective shield with all those things and i do believe i i do believe in all the good and the bad energy so i don't i don't say like these things are not present but we can also we can always have measures to for protection yeah exactly yeah i think these fears they come i mean these are just fears of not being successful that's why you just want to take a shortcut and
Speaker: And that's present in everyone, whether you get a prediction from somebody, whether you go and like get, I don't know, ask coaches to solve your life or whatever, because everybody is fearing that they won't get successful, they won't get what they want.
Speaker: And then you go from that intention and try to harm others take what they have.
Speaker: So, yeah, and, you know, fear, everybody has fears, like even us right now, we haven't dealt with all our fears.
Speaker: But at this point in time, we know that harming other people because of something I can't do wouldn't help either.
Speaker: So you have to walk through them in a healthy way, in a way that's more long term and sustainable.
Speaker: And karma is real.
Speaker: I think we don't realize it.
Speaker: But when we you also mentioned about the revenge thing, right?
Speaker: So I think I heard it in the television Mahabharata only.
Speaker: I think there was this scene that was going on and that clicked something for me, which was regarding Draupadi being very angry and hurt by whatever has happened with her.
Speaker: And Lord Krishna told her that if she kind of gets into this revenge mode, that will interfere with her own karma.
Speaker: So life will happen and Lord Krishna is going to, you know, do something that is going to balance things out or whatever.
Speaker: He's going to punish them, the culprits in his own way.
Speaker: But if she goes out into this revengeful mode, she's also going to face the karmic consequences of the bad energy that she's going to be filled with.
Speaker: Right?
Speaker: So that was something that I think I first heard it there or that was very like it was an impactful scene I would say.
Speaker: But that happens as well.
Speaker: Revenge is nothing at all.
Speaker: It just interferes with our own karma.
Speaker: And we are going to if we go out and hurt somebody somebody has hurt us and we go out and try to hurt them.
Speaker: We are going to be hurt again and the cycle is you know it's keep on going.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: So we just leave it and it all happens.
Speaker: comes back in its own time yes exactly everything falls into place so don't get into this revenge more that i'm gonna go
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: So also, this also reminds me of the few questions that you and I received about astrological prediction, even though we have said this so many times, but we can repeat it.
Speaker: That how to differentiate between destiny, self-belief and actions and can people work beyond astrological predictions?
Speaker: Like, what do you feel about that?
Speaker: Because there are multiple questions that people ask, when will I get the job?
Speaker: When will I get married?
Speaker: So there is, you know, this, they are in this desperate energy because they are in this when, when, when energy instead of that being and doing energy.
Speaker: So how to also overcome that?
Speaker: I personally received very hilarious messages of like, in which company do you think will I get accepted?
Speaker: Everyone thinks.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: And I wanted to reply also like some made up date and some made up cooperation in my mind.
Speaker: What if it would have come true?
Speaker: Yeah, but I am in no place can I detect that for anyone, not even for myself.
Speaker: But yeah, the DMs that I've received by one reel that I shared of our episode was very like, I received very funny DMs.
Speaker: And again, it's the reputation, but it's like, yes, predictions are true if you're not going to do anything wrong.
Speaker: any big or any drastic change in your life predictions are going to be true but you have to realize your own action input and every time you're making a decision every time you're taking an action the predictions can be changed right so it all depends on one person was also like will my life be good or bad
Speaker: or like very direct question was like how will my future how does my future look like to you and I was like and I did reply to that DM and I was like your future is what you make of it so it all depends on how you are going to perceive life and what you are going to do with your life so that's just like a couple of the DMs that we have received and the repetition of our previous episodes only
Speaker: Yes, exactly.
Speaker: A prediction will come to if your karma is that way.
Speaker: So something I received was somebody told this person that their relationship wouldn't be good, right?
Speaker: And now they were taking, they had this prediction.
Speaker: Now they are obviously fearful, very fearful.
Speaker: And they were taking action towards their partner in this, from this frame of mind as well.
Speaker: So now they were seeing them from a different lens.
Speaker: Now they were, um,
Speaker: not as open or communicating uh stuff with them that was coming up so obviously all these things if you if they acted in this way obviously the prediction would have come true because if it would have destroyed your relationship because you're self-sabotaging right
Speaker: but then you have to think that okay i have to act from a place of love because i want to save this relationship even if they said that i would give my 100% to love them to show them that i care and not act in a way that yeah that prediction comes true and then when the prediction comes true you're like yeah they were right no it they weren't right you did it because of your actions so
Speaker: Keep that in mind how you, I know it's not very easy because you are very fearful of what will happen and you are not in the frame of mind to be calm and to be sitting there.
Speaker: But it only comes when you break the cycle, when you take that conscious action to do that.
Speaker: It won't come...
Speaker: Just one day you wake up and your whole life changes.
Speaker: Your whole life is good or bad.
Speaker: That doesn't happen.
Speaker: It's all dependent on your actions and how you choose to live life.
Speaker: Do you choose to break from what people think of you?
Speaker: Or do you want to live in that misery and continue living?
Speaker: So you can't ask other people about if your life will get better or not because of how scared you are to take actions.
Speaker: And I think these kind of predictions can just be like an excuse, because if it wasn't for the prediction, something else might have happened that would trigger your self-sabotaging tendencies.
Speaker: Yeah, trauma within yourself, something other would have happened.
Speaker: And you were meant to go into that direction where you needed the work.
Speaker: I feel like these kind of predictions can at times act just as an excuse or just as a way to show your shadows to yourself.
Speaker: But do you think, Antriksha, if you give free advice to people like this in DMs, they don't take it as seriously as when you ask for a payout from them?
Speaker: I do feel like that more yeah because I reply to as many dms as possible and even with like my own friends and family when you are having a conversation they don't take you uh seriously right because they're just like okay yeah we don't need this right now and they take it lightly in terms of dms also I feel like uh
Speaker: And it's so strange, like the conversations that I've had, people know their own traumas.
Speaker: People know what work is needed.
Speaker: At times, I tell them or like with DMs only, we figure out what is it that you need to heal within yourself and how your life has been and what changes you are required to make, what parts you need to take, what healing you are required.
Speaker: But then they're like, okay, yeah, we'll do it.
Speaker: later or we'll you know we don't have time for that or like whatever and i feel like i get very much involved in people's like giving them the solutions and everything and then they are just like okay we'll we'll we'll see about it when we have time in life or something like that okay
Speaker: I do feel like people have to have that urge from within.
Speaker: I can't pull people.
Speaker: We can't pull people to a place where we are like with like motivational speeches, like do something for yourself.
Speaker: I don't think that works.
Speaker: At the end of the day, that devotion, that motivation has to come from within for each one of us.
Speaker: And whenever you're ready, I'm here.
Speaker: That is like my...
Speaker: new mantra that I'm following whenever you're ready I'm here but I'm not going to like convince you of the things that you need to do or whatever yeah exactly true I feel the same because some obviously I feel um a little bad when people you know just dismiss it like this because I worked on it so much I was involved but then yes as you said that I can't force them to change their life
Speaker: either the devotion is there or when they like really face adversity or face this um tower moment in their life and then they start to change their life and you know i was also thinking in astrology there is this thing called saturn return or sarasathi where um it's um where you learn lessons and saturn gives you obstacles so there were so many questions of what will happen it's so scary please tell us please tell us
Speaker: So it's, I mean, it's nothing to be scared of because people think there'll be obstacles and delays.
Speaker: So it's a scary thing.
Speaker: Saturn's main purpose is to teach you lessons.
Speaker: And those lessons are taught by throwing in obstacles to see if you're actually committed to the things that you're doing and bringing in delays to also see that if you can push through and are you committed to that thing?
Speaker: I think that's why we were facing so many delays.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: I personally feel like Saturn is a nice thing.
Speaker: The sadhe sati thing, I feel like if you are ready to face your shadows, to face your lessons, I feel like it can become the best time of your life.
Speaker: I've seen it for my dad happening.
Speaker: I've seen it for many people happening.
Speaker: And it is going to turn in whatever way you perceive it as.
Speaker: I feel...
Speaker: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker: But because people want this overnight fame and money, so they think that it'll delay these things, so it's a bad thing.
Speaker: But the thing it does for your soul, the thing it does for your growth, evolution, and if these are your main focus, then there's nothing to be scared of because you're going to come out as a wonderful person on the other side.
Speaker: So think about that, like what...
Speaker: goals you have in mind what your vision is is it this short term is it material or is it a mix of both material and spiritual yes definitely the next thing that I received was about that we received was about relationships so again my I was very surprised of people knowing their traumas
Speaker: very deeply they know what childhood traumas they've had they know how they have become and they know everything and at the same time they bluntly accept it in my dms that they are using other people for their own emotional healing so that was something that i was like blown away by that you know and you are again you're wanting to be in different relationships because you're looking for a human being that can heal you and i was like you have to stop it and they're like
Speaker: But we don't know how to handle us on our own.
Speaker: And we need other people to kind of give us that emotional healing, that emotional support.
Speaker: That was, again, a big surprise that came to me.
Speaker: And another thing was about friendships.
Speaker: So there were a couple of DMs, people entering into college and people entering into corporate world also, who were worried that they were not able to form genuine bonds with other human beings.
Speaker: friendships also platonic relationships also they were not able to have good friendships and so they were worried of their life ahead and so I personally feel like if you I think this happens because we are always in this counting stage where we are counting okay I have done this what has the other person done for me and we are always counting whenever we are in that giving energy and we shouldn't sometimes
Speaker: Like, we need to be in that giving energy more.
Speaker: And obviously, people would love to have us around or people would love to you free with a free spirit, you genuinely you compliment someone, or you ask someone for something you initiate a conversation with the goodness of your heart.
Speaker: I don't think people are going to be like cutting you off.
Speaker: But people don't want to initiate.
Speaker: People don't want to give out without knowing that the other person will be in it.
Speaker: So they get into this like desperate energy.
Speaker: Okay, if I have initiated the conversation, that person has not replied.
Speaker: So I won't do any further conversations in my life and stuff like that.
Speaker: So we need to be a little open with the giving energy, I think.
Speaker: And the right people will flow into our life when it's time.
Speaker: So that was like my take on friendships.
Speaker: No, that's very accurate.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: But also, you know, having school, we are never taught to be that social.
Speaker: We don't talk that much.
Speaker: And even if we want to hang out in a like talking class normally with a group of friends, even we are discouraged from doing that.
Speaker: So obviously those social skills don't, we are not taught those social skills that we need to survive this networking corporate world or even this adulthood.
Speaker: You also have to work on that, your confidence, obviously, because you have to work up to that person and say something.
Speaker: Maybe the first time you were shaky, it's fine.
Speaker: It's okay.
Speaker: You'll get more confident again and again.
Speaker: and you know but if you are in that open um you have that open era that yes you aura that you want those friendship people will come to you and you know um this really happened to me because for the past two years i was really feeling so i wanted to be alone and be only with myself and focus on my purpose and then this year i was like yes i'm ready to have new friendships and obviously people just uh i've just met such amazing people in the past few months who are like
Speaker: I would want to be friends with them forever and you know one thing happened I wanted to go to I didn't want to go to this party actually there was a party in my university and I was like nah I don't want to make small talk and I don't want to be there with like people are going to be drunk so what am I gonna do but then I was like okay because my major decision making is done by universe give me a sign if you want me to go
Speaker: then I got a sign and I was like okay I'll go then I met a girl so she was uh alone there too so I just went there and talked to her and I was like oh she's nice and then 15 minutes in she was telling me how she was um confused and lies she didn't know her purpose and how she found her purpose in
Speaker: Buddhism and everything I don't want to say too much but how she found her purpose and I was like how is it that in a university with such diverse people I found a God
Speaker: I found like a girl that matches my moral values, what I am doing, what I'm teaching.
Speaker: And she is looking for that.
Speaker: So that was something that blew my mind.
Speaker: So if you're open to a relationship, Universe will send you amazing people.
Speaker: So yes, you should go up to them and talk.
Speaker: But also the work begins within you that what kind of people you want to attract in your life.
Speaker: Definitely.
Speaker: I think I've also received feedback.
Speaker: I've also like had talks with people and every time a lot of the people have manifested very good interactions with other people when they were just like open about it and they were willing to put themselves in events, in places where they...
Speaker: can have an opportunity for a genuine conversation.
Speaker: Because I always say you can't sit in your own room and feel like you have a knock on your door from people and be like, you know, I'm your Prince Charming or I'm like your princess and here I am.
Speaker: So that is not going to happen.
Speaker: Man is a social animal and you're going to have to put yourself out there.
Speaker: And with the good intentions, I think the universe always...
Speaker: There are no coincidences.
Speaker: So we always meet with the people who are meant to be in our life for one reason or another.
Speaker: Yes, so true.
Speaker: And you know what, I was just reflecting on myself and I always attract people.
Speaker: more depressed all ways like it's I don't know why it's a thing I mean obviously if I don't know if I should see myself I should reflect on myself if I attract sadness because I love sadness so much or if like there is something that I need to like interact with them so that's healing about our relationship so that's something that's a circle I'm stuck in between
Speaker: I think I started observing this for myself a few years back.
Speaker: Now it has gotten to a point where I'm used to it.
Speaker: But it generally happens when I think other people need us because we are into that space.
Speaker: And also at times it acts as a test where I am constantly meeting people who want to take advantage of my kindness or advantage of the things that I can provide them with.
Speaker: And it acts as a lesson for us as well.
Speaker: So it goes both ways.
Speaker: Sometimes people need it, but sometimes they're just like, they act as a reflection for us where they can be like big energy vampires, where the work that needs to be done is from our part, where we have to have like our boundaries intact.
Speaker: And yeah, I think it happens as well.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: And you know something you said about transactional relationships.
Speaker: I also had this conversation with that friend of mine that she was saying how, so she is from here.
Speaker: So she was saying how Western European,
Speaker: relationships are so transactional which obviously I have seen too but maybe if they are deeper maybe they go out of love maybe they are out of love I don't know but if you go to Eastern Europe or Balkan or Asia or the relationships that you are are so social are
Speaker: from this place of love that I have met a lot of Asian, Eastern European people that are not like, oh, if you do this for me, I'll do this for you.
Speaker: It's not one-to-one.
Speaker: It's always giving energy.
Speaker: And obviously that's not good in certain situations as well.
Speaker: It can go to an extreme sense and people can say, oh, what will society think of us?
Speaker: Don't do that for their own kids.
Speaker: But yes, I think there is some balance that people need to find between individuality and the social...
Speaker: society or giving out of love that can lead to healthy relationships in their social world.
Speaker: Yes, as for me, I think it always comes to my mind that whenever I don't want to, like if somebody I think is being a little clingy or whatever, and I don't want to like answer back or I don't want to have an interaction.
Speaker: But then I also feel like sometimes or oftentimes I feel like if not me, like I feel like that is something.
Speaker: who I am and I have to show them that this is also okay.
Speaker: I don't have to just like have this logical mind come into all of my decision making.
Speaker: So oftentimes I just like go out there and sometimes it can be a little overwhelming.
Speaker: So I have to take a backseat.
Speaker: But then at other times, I also feel like we have to, I have to like,
Speaker: tell people in my life or show people in my life or around my life that we can push ourselves for a little bit of more of kindness.
Speaker: We can push ourselves for a little bit of like unbiased efforts or a little bit of extra love towards others.
Speaker: And if all of us kind of start to do that, we are going to have a beautiful environment and a group of people around us.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker: But you know, people are so hurt.
Speaker: The people have so many traumas.
Speaker: They're scared to open their heart, even in friendships.
Speaker: Like they have trust issues.
Speaker: I talked to someone who was like, why do I even have to make or be in friendships when they are going to leave ultimately?
Speaker: So I just said, okay, maybe they can't replace what you once had, but just because something's going to end, you're not going to make new memories.
Speaker: You're not going to stop living your life.
Speaker: starting beginning preservation and ending these are just like the truths of nature and everything and every single one of thing is going to going to go through that so just because it's like the universal truth doesn't mean you're not gonna do everything that comes between or those three steps so
Speaker: yeah you have to get um that trust back from people exactly i think if things are repeated constantly like after two three times okay that is like a great feedback that you need to stop putting the efforts one-sided right if uh there are no reciprocation of love of efforts
Speaker: But sometimes people are into that protective mode themselves.
Speaker: They're like, they hurt themselves.
Speaker: So they feel like the other person is also in it for the gains only.
Speaker: And sometimes you have to show people that it is possible to give without any expectations.
Speaker: And people can open up to you in return as well.
Speaker: So I believe in that philosophy where I can show people what is possible and hope that they can open up as well.
Speaker: That's a nice philosophy, yes.
Speaker: I think it'll spread to osmosis from people to people.
Speaker: Next thing that we have is about purpose, the purpose conversation, the purpose DMs that we've gotten.
Speaker: And it's always on the similar lines of, you know, passion versus purpose versus job and what's the difference and how do we navigate that space where we connect all of those things to have like a fulfilling life.
Speaker: And I always feel like the main distinction that I tell people is
Speaker: about passion and purpose is passion is for ourself and the gifts that you have but when you start to connect those gifts for other people to other people in service to other people that becomes like your mission that becomes your purpose and the financial thing when you kind of connect that with money as well that is something that we have when we say we've had a good career we've had those good milestones the materialistic milestones that's what the career zone is and
Speaker: But the purpose zone is mainly when we get connected to humanity in service to humanity, I would say.
Speaker: What about humanity?
Speaker: What do you think for our purpose and passion conversation that we've gotten?
Speaker: I think...
Speaker: along the similar lines as you, like for me, passion, I always thought my passion was to do something in like entertainment, sort of be an artist, like dancing or acting.
Speaker: But I think my purpose is something what I can do through it, a message that I would like to send through it.
Speaker: So as you said, purpose is that because we are doing it for the people and passion is something we do for ourselves.
Speaker: So
Speaker: If you combine both of those, then like it's amazing for you, right?
Speaker: So you send a nice message through your art.
Speaker: But also, I think that passion sometimes fizzles out as well.
Speaker: But purpose is something that keeps you going.
Speaker: So maybe today I want to send this message through a podcast.
Speaker: Tomorrow I want to send this message by making short movies or writing stories.
Speaker: So
Speaker: It just keeps on changing as I grow up.
Speaker: So I think passion is ever-changing, but purpose stays with you in the sense that even if you get like thousands of obstacles, the purpose is something if somebody throws obstacles at you, still you keep on doing that because it's something that you're so committed to.
Speaker: So if you're not getting any approval from people for sorts like passion,
Speaker: if there's some other career that you're doing just for financial gains and your boss doesn't praise you, your parents say doesn't approve of this career or a job.
Speaker: So there is some kind of dissatisfaction that you have in yourself towards your career.
Speaker: But a purpose if this thing happens, you're like, I don't care if you approve of this or not.
Speaker: This is something that I need to do that I want to do.
Speaker: And I will do it.
Speaker: So I think that's a bit distinct difference between purpose and passion.
Speaker: And also, if you don't see immediate results in terms of your purpose, still keep on going because you are not doing that for the outcome.
Speaker: So these are some of the difference that I have noticed, especially through my journey only that have come to light between passion and purpose that I would say for me.
Speaker: What do you think about the 9 to 5 jobs and everything?
Speaker: I would first like to add a little bit about the passion.
Speaker: The artist thing was coming to my mind where I see a lot of the artists kind of like ditching their gift, ditching their arts over time because they don't get that materialistic success that they've achieved.
Speaker: hope to get and that is what made them pursue the art, the passion, right?
Speaker: Because we look at the bigger picture and I feel like you pick up anything in life, the bigger picture if you're seeing it, obviously that's like a successful, nice,
Speaker: But what is the shit sandwich as I like to use the term I've heard it from somebody, what is the shit sandwich that you are willing to go through, because you have to go through those hard work phases, you have to go through those failures, those struggling phases, what shit sandwich are you willing to go through?
Speaker: And for something greater, right?
Speaker: So that is what brings out our connection to our purpose.
Speaker: And if you're not working towards that, if we don't acknowledge that, our passion will one day or another will fade out.
Speaker: And we are going to be like, okay, this is not the thing.
Speaker: And we are going to shift back to the nine to five thing for our survival.
Speaker: But I also feel like, again, I have no kind of judgment towards 9 to 5.
Speaker: A lot of the career coaches, a lot of the life coaches that we have today start to have like a strong dislike towards the 9 to 5 culture because we are like trying to shift everyone towards the purpose conversation.
Speaker: But I also feel like until and unless you have had that...
Speaker: adrenaline rush of having those milestones, of coming first in a class, of coming first in a competition, of getting that validation until and unless you've had those experiences, you can't push someone to a stage where you're like, okay, you have to go out after your purpose, after your passion.
Speaker: You have to go through those stages.
Speaker: And once you feel a little satisfied with that external validation, your soul will naturally...
Speaker: divert your soul will naturally recalibrate towards the purpose conversation so it's going to be an organic process for all of us and that has always been my take on nine to five it's your journey and sooner or later or you might not even need the purpose conversation because you've had like a very good balance yeah like the work the work-life balance you've had or a lot of the people who are into nine to five they
Speaker: take out time my one of the uncles he takes he loves painting so he stays up all night for his painting uh passion and then he wakes up every day for he's a doctor so he wakes up every day early in the morning for his uh doctor occupation but his artistic dream was to become a painter so every night he wakes up till three or four
Speaker: am to do his like the painting thing so i think that's a very fulfilling life to have so if you can balance that out it's great yeah yeah exactly and also as you said you don't have anything against nine to five it's it's not inherently bad because if someone is also conscious entrepreneur like the conscious has a conscious business obviously they also have people working for them
Speaker: So if you have like a job that fulfills all your requirements, that's also a fulfilling job.
Speaker: You don't necessarily have to have a purpose, right?
Speaker: So that's also very fulfilling.
Speaker: So you don't need to feel that pressure or have to find my purpose, find my purpose.
Speaker: It's okay.
Speaker: It is going to come organically because at every stage of life, we want more, more, more.
Speaker: And when all our needs are fulfilled, like just the...
Speaker: uh self-actualization pyramid you know all the needs are fulfilled the money the everything even then we want more and then automatically we shift towards that uh what's my purpose we ask ourselves that question so if just because you see your peers asking themselves right now doesn't mean that you are any late or you there's anything wrong with so i don't want them to feel left out
Speaker: I'd also like to add your purpose is your essence, your vibrational frequency.
Speaker: What are you bringing to the world every single day?
Speaker: So if you are into a nine to five job, what is your energy in that?
Speaker: If you like you are a giving person, you are a caring person, you are a logistic person.
Speaker: So you are a very, you're a person who have like great attention to details or whatever.
Speaker: who brings coffees or who brings gifts to other people, who loves to check on other people.
Speaker: So who you are inherently as a person is your purpose.
Speaker: So you don't have to go out of the way to figure out something out of the lines and pressurize yourself that, you know, a great purpose is there and you're not finding it.
Speaker: That is not sometimes who you are every single day, how you are living your life and how,
Speaker: you how other people around you are experiencing you is your purpose as well
Speaker: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker: And you can't say that just because you follow your purpose, your life will automatically become rainbows and sunshines.
Speaker: Like you won't face any resistance of obviously there will be more resistance in that path because the universe has to test your commitment.
Speaker: But then you would just get going because that's something you truly want, because that is your essence.
Speaker: As you said, you can't divert from that.
Speaker: And also like, because also you think, oh, I'm doing something good.
Speaker: I'm showing up in such a conscious and loving way.
Speaker: I wouldn't have any resistance, but that's not true because I have seen everyday people living their purpose.
Speaker: And then there are people who just, I don't know, I wouldn't say have problem with it, but they seem to have problem with people just doing good deeds, like questioning them every day.
Speaker: I'm sure it must have happened with you as well, Amitriksha.
Speaker: Like people are like, why are you doing this?
Speaker: and it happened to my sister as well and she doesn't even do anything out of the uh like box or anything she is just doing a normal deed of feeding stray dogs i mean it's a very good deed obviously they need food so she just goes out every evening and feeds them but somebody from the neighborhood was walking there and then they said you please don't feed them because they bite us
Speaker: And so she just calmly asked where did and we had to get like 20 injections or something.
Speaker: So she said, okay, 20 injections, maybe then the wound must be really deep.
Speaker: Can you show me where he bit you or something?
Speaker: Because I have been there.
Speaker: They don't they are very calm.
Speaker: unless and until you do something they don't even bark at you and i was someone who don't who doesn't feed them i was new there and they didn't bark at me or anything so obviously dogs don't um initiate but then they started abusing her and then they started shouting at her shouting at her and obviously she got really scared and she was like should i do this because then i'm alone outside so i said you have so many dogs just tell them to go on
Speaker: like self-fulfilling prophecy you know they said they bit her yeah like but the self-fulfilling prophecy they said they bit her then maybe the dog might but no uh but yeah she really got scared after that and i said no it's fine you're just doing a good date and
Speaker: these people are going to come in the way and say that but that don't let that get to your head or um stop you from doing something you truly want to do like i don't understand yeah you go ahead
Speaker: I was just saying I don't understand like what is what do people have against people just living their life and just doing their thing that's just making the world a better place.
Speaker: Why don't people question politicians so much when they are taking steps that not in the interest of people like in the wide interest of people like.
Speaker: The politician thing is something that they don't have the means to have a communication with, right?
Speaker: It's like a far off thing.
Speaker: But with other people around them, obviously, I think it can go for like the older generation, for people who are in our parents' age or the grandparents' age.
Speaker: Obviously, they get triggered because in a way they feel like why and how do we have the freedom to pursue things?
Speaker: something that is not the norm, right?
Speaker: So it triggers them in a way that they have suffered so much, they have done, like they followed a particular routine, a nine to five or whatever, and how can the younger generation go out of it?
Speaker: So it triggers their...
Speaker: lack of freedom that they've had in their life and that is why but I also feel like coming back to what I shared earlier that for me I feel like I have to show them like not the older generation but I have to show other people like what is possible as well as too because sometimes I feel like people need to see that there is
Speaker: a way of life where we can choose kindness, where we can choose to do things in our own way.
Speaker: And the society's advices are not always the thing that they need to like stick by.
Speaker: And we can make our own ways of life.
Speaker: So sometimes I feel like people just need to have like an example in front of them.
Speaker: And that can push them for their own, like highest purpose, highest passion, highest life that they can have for themselves.
Speaker: So I feel like sometimes they just need to see that.
Speaker: And if you have some passion, if you have some like a good thought within yourself, it is your responsibility to bring that into fruition and let the noise cut out.
Speaker: Yes, exactly.
Speaker: And if you have any other questions that you want us to address, you can always drop it in the comment box.
Speaker: Or send us a DM.
Speaker: But it's better to drop it in the comment.
Speaker: Because I don't check my DMs that often.
Speaker: And they are flooded.
Speaker: So it's hard to like.
Speaker: You know it gets lost sometimes.
Speaker: Okay Samania.
Speaker: A general overview for the next year.
Speaker: You wish to start or I can go.
Speaker: Whatever feels right.
Speaker: Okay you start.
Speaker: And then because I have more of like a shift.
Speaker: And so you give a general overview for next year.
Speaker: And then I'll.
Speaker: I personally am very excited for the upcoming year.
Speaker: The numerological aspect is 2024 is year number eight.
Speaker: So it's all about manifestation and abundance and things coming into fruition.
Speaker: But at the same time, like eight is a number of karma, eight is a number of balance, power, abundance and
Speaker: And I feel like, you know, it's going to be drastic in the sense that if you are
Speaker: putting your heart and soul into something, you are going to get beautiful results for it.
Speaker: But if you're trying to have like tricks for something or if you're cheating in a relationship or in your career, if you're trying to find shortcuts, it's going to be like things are going to go really downhill for you.
Speaker: And so because it is like it can put you on the top or it can put you at the bottom.
Speaker: So it's all based on how our dedication, how our devotion is towards life, towards ourselves.
Speaker: And I'm very excited for it.
Speaker: I also feel like the karmic aspect, I would say the more you're bringing things into alignment, the more you're bringing things into balance for yourself.
Speaker: Right?
Speaker: So the karma is going to be very instant.
Speaker: So the more you're working on yourself, the more you're going to be feeling that inner power and strength and quickly the manifestations and abundance is going to happen for you.
Speaker: The eight also represents like the top circle represents our spiritual intellectual plane and the bottom circle represents our materialistic physical reality.
Speaker: So whatever is happening here is going to happen there.
Speaker: Whatever is happening there is going to happen here.
Speaker: So I'm very excited for it all.
Speaker: And I hope all of us have like a really prosperous and abundant year.
Speaker: Yes, I hope the same.
Speaker: And I really like your explanation about that.
Speaker: Like that was really nice.
Speaker: I remember you, like if you have numbers in your date of birth, so if you have like 8, 17, 26, obviously 2024, 2024 itself has.
Speaker: I have in my time also.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Yeah, so if you have like the addition of those things, if you have eight anywhere, the month of August is eight, eight, 1726, birth dates are eight and the year is eight.
Speaker: So it's going to be like a year for you.
Speaker: Okay, let's see.
Speaker: I hope so.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: But every year is a year for me, so I'm fine.
Speaker: You know, earlier used to be like, oh, this would be my year, but it doesn't turn out that way.
Speaker: Okay.
Speaker: But now I just put in so much action that it does.
Speaker: I mean, there are moments that it made this year my year.
Speaker: I don't need, you know, some content that way right now.
Speaker: But let's see.
Speaker: Very excited.
Speaker: OK, now I'll just take you towards general shifts that are happening in this.
Speaker: in our earth, you know, how do I say it?
Speaker: In our world consciousness right now that I'll show you the new earth.
Speaker: So first of all, the first shift is that we are going through.
Speaker: It has been very evident this year that there is a massive shift towards the feminine energy.
Speaker: So you will have more women-centric brands, more women-centric businesses that are on the rise, makeup, clothes, textile, fashion, anything, very feminine energy.
Speaker: And that doesn't mean that it's only in terms of women, also men would...
Speaker: be more involved in these things and also there'll be massive shift in how businesses are done from controlling to empowerment from competition to competitiveness so shift towards feminine in that way and also if you're someone who still thinks that aggression is the way to show affection I feel sorry for you that won't um
Speaker: that won't go in this new earth that you won't be able to keep up with it then I would say the new paradigm shift that we are going through then you have to like you will be pushed if you don't take conscious decision to change this mindset then you will be pushed to change this mindset of by the universe that this aggression and everything that you show is
Speaker: Love, love is love that you that comes from bottom of the heart, that's sweet, that's nice, that makes other people feel good about their self and feel good about you.
Speaker: And yeah, and also to process this, you have to learn how to process anger, sadness in a healthy way and not shove them down.
Speaker: And the second shift and also like, you know, how so many psychics and life coaches also practice Feng Shui.
Speaker: So they have also mentioned a lot of times that we are entering period nine.
Speaker: I'm not sure if you've heard that.
Speaker: So this period nine is also something that they said that it goes towards feminine energy, goes towards women, the rise of women and also women.
Speaker: rise of more social media, rise of technology in that way.
Speaker: So it's, I think they explained it this way, that it's the year of element fire, the period of element fire.
Speaker: And fire can spread very fast, but it can also spread so fast that it can engulf you.
Speaker: So you have to think about that.
Speaker: And this year that we were in period eight was an earth,
Speaker: element so it was very materialistic very stable successful oriented but now it will be more eccentric out of the box something of that sort and second shift that we are going through is like the flattening of the hierarchies that is happening so this is very evident in and has started I would say you can see it in social media because if you go two generations back
Speaker: there was a gap between our grandparents and the stars or the people who had fame.
Speaker: So there was a huge gap.
Speaker: But now if you can see like everyone has come to that level of fame and the one true star that has kind of sort of gone down and, um,
Speaker: spread among like more people so I would say like slowly but this change will also come that the wealth that the top one person has spreads across more people and there's more equitable wealth distribution among the people
Speaker: And lastly is that right now everyone and generation before everyone was in this sort of sacrificial energy that I want to sacrifice for my community to make it a better place.
Speaker: But now it will be how can I improve myself so that I can contribute to the community.
Speaker: So this is some of the shifts that will happen.
Speaker: And if you want to keep up, obviously you have to do the inner work.
Speaker: to shift with the new consciousness so let's see this is something I got what do you think how do you feel about it did that make sense at all yes again it all it only got me more excited because it had all the nice elements to it and yes I feel like again it's like a reflection of what you put into the year
Speaker: And I feel like the year is going to be a direct reflection of your own truth.
Speaker: So if you are going to put in the work, you're going to get good results, especially with all the energy and with your own self belief.
Speaker: I think the combination is going to be beautiful for all of us.
Speaker: yeah and just lastly i want to add that if you see something um like terrible i wouldn't say terrible happening but wars and stuff or economies falling that's because they didn't have a strong foundation and now when the band-aid is ripped and the wound needs to heal um
Speaker: The ugly parts have to come out so that they can heal from within.
Speaker: So keep that in mind.
Speaker: Don't let adversity get to your head and pray for good well-being of people.
Speaker: Yes, prayers are extremely powerful.
Speaker: And I think, again, it brings us back to the starting point of our episode where we discussed about intention.
Speaker: Our intentions and prayers makes a huge difference and have good intentions in your heart and the universe will always have your back.
Speaker: Yeah.
Speaker: Then I'll miss you.
Speaker: See you next season.
Speaker: Yes, Pagda.
Speaker: See you.
Speaker: Bye-bye.
Speaker: Bye, everyone.
Speaker: Have a good year, everyone.
Speaker: Have a good time until we meet next.
Speaker: Bye.
