What if everything you believed about healing and personal transformation was being used against you?
In this episode of Bewitched, Nicole Cherie Hesse pulls back the curtain on the psychological and emotional stranglehold that Betty—the so-called spiritual mentor—had over her life. What started as a pursuit of self-discovery and growth turned into a high-control, cult-like environment where devotion was demanded, obedience was expected, and questioning was punished.
Nicole entered the relationship with Betty from a place of ambition and a desire to work with a woman who embodied spiritual entrepreneurship. Initially impressed by Betty’s visibility, network, and her promise of deep, transformational work, she soon encountered unethical sales tactics and misleading revenue claims.
Nicole describes how Betty used spiritual teachings as weapons—convincing her to ignore her instincts, surrender personal autonomy, and submit to a system that prioritized Betty’s ego over real transformation.
Nicole’s story is one of awakening, resistance, and ultimately, escape. If you’ve ever felt uneasy about a spiritual leader’s control or questioned whether a community was truly supporting your growth, this episode will strike a nerve.
TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) Intro
(00:53) The Deeper Trauma Work
(01:58) The Sacred Money Mind Program
(04:31) In Today's Episode...Nicole Cherie Hess: Finding Betty
(09:11) The Unethical Sales Call and The Revenue Share Deal
(12:53) 6 and 7 Figures Who?
(21:55) The Dark and Devious Companion - A.K.A. Olivia Benson
(34:27) The San Diego Retreat and Further Doubts
(37:45) Strange Flight Experience and Disappointing Expectations
(42:53) Wolf Sanctuary Shock: It's a Drug Deal
(50:53) What Business Advice?
(54:12) Conspiracy Theories, Scientology, and The Compound
(01:04:19) Trauma Bond
(01:08:00) The Mexico Retreat Brings Financial Realizations and Withdrawal
(01:10:37) The Final Retreat Invitation, Narcissistic Manipulation, and Day Trading
(01:16:20) Hi, I'm Bumblebee - The Last Call: Hitting You Where It Hurts
(01:26:16) Lessons Learned... Moving Forward
(01:31:26) A Piece of Advice on Red Flags
**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**
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