"I think there's something magical about women turning in their late thirties into forties, and the sense of power that we realize and taking a little bit more agency in the decisions that we make and the presence that we wanna have into this world."

I'm so thrilled to share this week's episode with my longtime friend, Stephanie Singer, founder of Blss Retreats! I've known Steph for 15+ years, and it's been incredible to watch her journey from the corporate world to creating a business that so perfectly leverages her natural talent for connecting people and cultivating high-vibe energy.

Steph's story is deeply inspiring, especially for us female business owners looking to step into our power and agency. She shares how pivotal life changes, including a recent divorce, became a catalyst for embracing her authentic self and launching her business.

Discover her vision for creating spaces where women can truly reflect, shine, and develop the tools to sustain momentum in their lives and businesses. I'm so excited to be teaching my Inner Child Healing process and breathwork live at her inaugural Catskills retreat this October! It's an amazing opportunity to pinpoint core wounds and create permanent change in your life, business, and relationships.

Get ready for an episode filled with insights on human connection, personal growth, and authentic living. Plus, hear a wild alien experience that spurred Steph's own journey of self-discovery.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00)



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CONTACT STEPHANIE

 * Visit blssretreats.com [https://www.blssretreats.com/]
 * Register for the retreat HERE [https://www.blssretreats.com/registernow/p/blss-retreat-fall-2025] - When you book your spot for the retreat, make sure to write ALYSE BREATHES in the ADDITIONAL INFORMATION box in order to get the early bird pricing offer!
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CONTACT ALYSE

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 * info@alysebreathes.com

Stephanie Singer - Sharing Her Gift of BLSS

“I finally realized that I wasn’t broken—I was powerful. I just needed the right tools to see it.”

Today, I sit down with Sage, a graduate of The Metamorphosis Method™ Certification, to share her powerful journey from self-doubt and uncertainty to confidence, clarity, and purpose. When Sage first joined the certification, she struggled with the weight of old patterns, second-guessing herself, and wondering if she was truly capable of leading others. What unfolded was nothing short of transformational.

Through the work inside the certification, Sage learned how to access her intuition, release limiting beliefs at the root, and step into her own authority as a healer and guide. In our conversation, she opens up about the challenges she faced along the way, the breakthroughs that redefined her relationship with herself, and how she now leads with a sense of grounded power she never thought possible.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of doubt or wondered if you’re really cut out to step into your purpose, Sage’s story will show you what becomes possible when you commit to your healing and allow yourself to transform from the inside out.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

 (00:00) Intro
 (01:45) In today's episode... Sage
 (03:25) The power of the Metamorphosis Method
 (06:21) Sage's journey into breathwork
 (10:13) Personal and professional growth
 (13:59) Mastering inner child healing
 (17:24) Building confidence and trust in coaching
 (21:26) Self work to help others
 (32:08) Reflections on group programs and transitioning from in-person to online
 (36:14) The power of breathwork and inner child work
 (41:24) Transformative impact on relationships
 (45:32) Shifts in parenting dynamics
 (47:50) Sage's business growth and current offerings
 (50:43) Working through the blocks 



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CONTACT SAGE

 * Visit katdaou.com [https://www.sagebreathwork.com/]
 * Follow sagebreathwork [https://www.instagram.com/sagebreathwork/#]
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CONTACT ALYSE

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From Self Doubt to Confident Power - Sage's Journey in The Metamorphosis Method™ Certification

“We feel energy because we are energy. That’s not a spiritual concept—it’s just science.”

In this month's Don’t Let Them episode, Robyn and I are serving up another round of real talk—raw, intuitive, and a little bit spicy. We start by reflecting on the quantum shifts that happened during my recent Mexico retreat—from massive energetic releases to divine downloads—and what it really means to lead from embodiment, not performance.

Then, we dig into how Robyn experiences energy in real time, and how her science background helps bridge the mystical and the practical in a way that actually makes sense. 

Plus, we unpack why ADHD is a superpower, especially for those of us who are visionaries, creatives, and energetic leaders. What the world labels as a disorder is often just a mismatch between your gifts and outdated systems.

I take Robyn's What's Your Soul Contract Hidden Inside Your ADHD Symptoms? [https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/688d51937e0a8f0015cc3d61] quiz, which is pretty amazing!

If you’ve ever felt “too much,” too sensitive, or like you just don’t fit the mold—you’re not broken. You’re wired for a different way of being. This episode is your permission slip to stop dimming your light and start honoring your unique frequency.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Intro
(01:46) In today's episode...Mexico, ADHD, and Feeling Energy
(02:46) The Metamorphosis Method [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-metamorphosis-method] is coming back
(06:23) Robyn is moving. The beach life
(12:01) Weird things happening in Cali
(13:55) Alyse's Mexico retreat and a highly charged place
(21:07) In-person vs. remote healing
(27:57) Client articulation techniques
(30:41) Energetic timelines and trauma - The powers of the occiput 
(33:30) Catholic guilt and personal growth
(38:44) ADHD and soul contracts. The Quiz
(41:30) ADHD symptoms and reframing + multidimensional experiences
(53:08) Conclusion: The energetics of healing





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 * The Metamorphosis Method [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-metamorphosis-method] starts in September and you can now enroll. Master my proven methodology to guide your clients to rapidly and efficiently transmute lifetimes of familial and ancestral trauma. Jump on a call with me [https://calendly.com/alysebreathes/30-minute-free-consultation?month=2025-01]to learn more about the program and find out if this is a fit for you.

CONTACT ROBYN 

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 * Instagram [https://www.buzzsprout.com/admin/1887189/episodes/%20https://www.instagram.com/dr.robynmckay/]
 * Listen to She{ology} [https://open.spotify.com/show/0hIp90a5JiWpghRoiRpQW7]

CONTACT ALYSE

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Don't Let Them with Alyse and Robyn - ADHD is a Superpower, Mexico Retreat and How We Feel Energy

“When you start to look at your family system through the lens of energy, you can finally see what’s been hidden in plain sight.”

In this powerful episode, I sit down with family systems specialist and spiritual mentor Kat Daou to unravel the unseen ancestral patterns that shape our behavior, beliefs, and emotional responses—often without us even realizing it. Kat’s work is rooted in Family Constellation Therapy, and she brings such a grounded, insightful energy to this conversation.

We dive into what it really means to do ancestral healing—not just intellectually, but at the soul level—and how these energetic patterns are often inherited, buried, and playing out in the background of our lives. Kat shares how she began to uncover the deeper roots of her own story and how her sensitivity became a superpower in both her personal and professional journey.

If you've ever felt like you're carrying emotions or struggles that aren't fully yours, or noticed patterns repeating in your family no matter how much inner work you do, this conversation is going to land deeply. Healing ancestral trauma doesn’t require blame—it requires awareness, curiosity, and a willingness to feel what’s been unfelt for generations.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Intro
(01:40) Breathwork Retreat in Mexico
(02:10) In today's episode...Kat Daou: A Journey to Family Constellation Therapy
(02:44) The Minimorphosis: An Inner Child Healing Process
(05:27) Kat's Personal Journey and Family Trauma
(10:07) Understanding Ancestral Healing
(14:09) Leaving the Family Business to Build a Personal Business
(19:12) Balancing Spirituality and Business
(21:51) Spiritual Psychosis and Grounded Spirituality
(27:26) Healing from Divorce and Chaotic Relationships to Find Liberation
(31:19) Understanding Emotional Connections
(34:04) Express Yourself: Generational Evolution
(42:58) The Importance of Belonging
(49:50) Working with Kat

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 * Core Wound Solution Private Podcast [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-core-wound-solution-private-podcast-signup-page?utm_source=provesource&utm_medium=provesource-notification&utm_campaign=click&utm_content=6828c1497212e90c0ced8031&utm_term=The%20Core%20Wound%20Solution&utm_path=/] Join 1,000+ women discovering the real root of their stuckness— and how to shift it for good. Each episode is under 20 minutes. No fluff. Just real transformation.
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CONTACT KAT

 * Visit katdaou.com [https://www.katdaou.com/]
 * Listen to Heal with Kat [https://open.spotify.com/show/2xpYP4kPQjdpdACkb3OPVO]
 * Follow kat_daou [https://www.instagram.com/kat_daou#]

CONTACT ALYSE

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Breaking Hidden Ancestral Patterns with Kat Daou

“Don’t let them fool you into thinking there’s something wrong with you because you can’t do the thing they say is so easy.”

This is the second episode of Don’t Let Them, my monthly series with Robyn McKay—and in true form, we’re coming in hot. 

We’re talking about why we named the series Don’t Let Them (yes, it’s a cheeky nod to Mel Robbins), how pop-spirituality can actually do harm, and why oversimplified advice like “just let them” can become another form of gaslighting when it lacks nuance and context.

Robyn and I dive deep into what it means to hold real integrity in the personal development space, how so many leaders are just regurgitating recycled content, and why so much of the advice being sold today isn’t trauma-informed—or even that helpful. We also take a playful detour into the world of LinkedIn, sharing our personal pet peeves, our biggest “icks,” and how spiritual entrepreneurs are missing the mark with cold DMs and Barbie-pink GIFs.

This is your permission slip to stop trying to fit yourself into boxes that were never made for you. Let’s stop pretending the five-second rule is all it takes to heal.

(00:00) Intro
(01:28) In today's Don't Let Them episode...
(02:17) Podcast announcements
(04:28) The Metamorphosis Method
(06:41) The importance of holding space
(09:29) Popular self-help books: Are they really the answer to everything?
(11:11) Mel Robbins' 'Let Them' philosophy...Be careful!
(19:51) "If I can, you can" - It's never that simple
(27:46) Plagiarism in the self-help industry
(33:48) "There's nothing new under the sun"
(35:37) Baljit's music on Spotify [https://open.spotify.com/intl-es/artist/3aB0D5L7ZZa9VYUgHGr5MU?si=eVQgQiLaQf-Y5TPrmrGdvQ]
(36:28) The Neo Profile, Human Design, and astrology contributions
(39:50) LinkedIn: The boring social network
(46:47) Cold DMs and building genuine connections
(53:57) Thought leadership and making LinkedIn cool



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 * Core Wound Solution Private Podcast [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-core-wound-solution-private-podcast-signup-page?utm_source=provesource&utm_medium=provesource-notification&utm_campaign=click&utm_content=6828c1497212e90c0ced8031&utm_term=The%20Core%20Wound%20Solution&utm_path=/] Join 1,000+ women discovering the real root of their stuckness— and how to shift it for good. Each episode is under 20 minutes. No fluff. Just real transformation.
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CONTACT ROBYN 

 * drrobynmckay.com  [https://www.drrobynmckay.com/]
 * Instagram [https://www.buzzsprout.com/admin/1887189/episodes/%20https://www.instagram.com/dr.robynmckay/]
 * Listen to She{ology} [https://open.spotify.com/show/0hIp90a5JiWpghRoiRpQW7]

CONTACT ALYSE

 * @alyse_breathes [https://instagram.com/alyse_breathes?igshid=MjljNjAzYmU=]
 * alysebreathes.com [https://www.alysebreathes.com/]
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Don't Let Them with Robyn & Alyse - Why we named this series Don't Let Them and Making Fun of LinkedIn

"Darkness doesn't resist light. If you're in a dark room, all you have to do is turn on a very little candle and now you can see again. If people are seeing darkness in the world, make the light brighter"

In this deeply illuminating episode, I sit down with Dr. Nibodhi—a longtime friend, Ayurvedic practitioner, naturopathic doctor, and devoted student of consciousness. Our conversation is a soul-stirring journey through the intersections of trauma, spiritual awakening, ancient medicine, and modern-day healing tools like psychedelics and breathwork.

We explore the foundational wisdom of Ayurveda, not just as a physical health system, but as a path toward remembering who we truly are. Nibodhi shares his personal story of early childhood trauma, the unconscious patterns it created, and the moment of awakening that allowed him to stop seeking and begin exploring. From mystical plant medicine ceremonies to navigating grief and disconnection, we talk about how healing really happens—through presence, integration, and reclaiming the parts of ourselves we’ve long abandoned.

If you've been curious about the true purpose of your healing journey, or felt pulled to deeper levels of embodiment and self-trust, this episode is going to land deeply. It’s not about feeling better—it’s about becoming better at feeling.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Intro
(01:21) Dr. Nibodhi: Growing up with natural medicine and understanding Ayurveda
(04:36) The body-mind connection in Ayurvedic wisdom
(09:37) Uncovering core trauma
(15:26) Breaking free from patterns
(18:57) The sacred use of psychedelics
(25:39) Reincarnation, the cycles of life, and figuring out who we are
(37:31) Global transformation: An Ayurvedic perspective
(50:05) Becoming better at feeling and personalized healing approaches



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 * When you leave a review of the podcast, send us a screenshot and we'll send you a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world.
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 * Core Wound Solution Private Podcast [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-core-wound-solution-private-podcast-signup-page?utm_source=provesource&utm_medium=provesource-notification&utm_campaign=click&utm_content=6828c1497212e90c0ced8031&utm_term=The%20Core%20Wound%20Solution&utm_path=/] Join 1,000+ women discovering the real root of their stuckness— and how to shift it for good. Each episode is under 20 minutes. No fluff. Just real transformation.
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CONTACT DR. NIBODHI

 * Visit nibodhi.com [https://www.nibodhi.com/]
 * Listen to Awakened Living [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/awakened-living-with-nibodhi/id1815493561]
 * Follow dr.nibodhi [https://www.instagram.com/dr.nibodhi/#]

CONTACT ALYSE

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Ayurveda, Trauma, Psychedelics and Consciousness with Dr. Nibodhi

"Simply by you addressing your own trauma, you won’t pass it on to your kids."

In this episode, I’m diving into something that’s been coming up with a lot of my private clients lately—how to shift your relationship with your kids and stop unconsciously passing your trauma on to them. Whether your children are toddlers or in their 40s, this is for you.

After working for over a decade as both a mental health professional and educator, I’ve developed a very clear lens for how I see children—and more importantly, how I support parents. If your child is having behavioral issues, emotional dysregulation, or is simply shutting down, I want you to know: the change doesn’t start with them. It starts with you.

In this episode, I unpack how our unconscious wounds show up in our parenting, how our expectations get projected onto our kids, and why true transformation happens when we meet our own unmet needs first. I also share powerful stories from my own journey as a school counselor, as well as how I’m navigating these lessons in real time with my own son.

If you’ve ever felt frustrated, confused, or triggered by your child’s behavior, this is an invitation to see it all through a new lens—and break the cycle of generational trauma for good.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Intro
(01:37) The powerful shift that transforms your family dynamic
(03:41) How self-transformation rewrites your child's story
(06:21) The power of safe spaces for kids
(10:39) What your child's actions are subconsciously trying to tell you
(13:41) Breaking the capacity trap: The role of parental trauma
(15:41) The unseen baggage
(18:00) Meeting your kids where they are (not where your wounds need them to be)
(19:02) Breaking the cycle of trauma: From awareness to action 



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 * Core Wound Solution Private Podcast [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-core-wound-solution-private-podcast-signup-page?utm_source=provesource&utm_medium=provesource-notification&utm_campaign=click&utm_content=6828c1497212e90c0ced8031&utm_term=The%20Core%20Wound%20Solution&utm_path=/] Join 1,000+ women discovering the real root of their stuckness— and how to shift it for good. Each episode is under 20 minutes. No fluff. Just real transformation.
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CONTACT ALYSE

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 * alysebreathes.com [https://www.alysebreathes.com/]
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How You End the Cycle of Trauma (and don't pass it onto your kids)

“Unmet needs create wounds and that creates trauma... and that will affect you later on in life in ways that you don’t understand.”

What is trauma? The way I see it, trauma is an experience or series of experiences that were very overwhelming emotionally, physically, or mentally, too much for you to process at the time. You might have stuffed it down, suppressed it, or disassociated. 

In this grounding solo episode, I unpack common misconceptions around trauma. Trauma is a widely used term that often becomes a buzzword without a foundational understanding. I want to take you back to basics. Drawing on my 24 years working in healing spaces and as a mental health professional, I'll share my unique perspective.

Your wounded inner child expects past hurts to happen again. Healing becomes simple once you understand your core wound pattern, and learn how to address it. Addressing the root of the tree changes all the branches.

How do you know if unprocessed trauma is impacting your life now?

Push play and find out! This episode is an invitation to view your current challenges as opportunities to heal parts of yourself ready to be reconciled, reclaiming your consciousness.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Intro
(01:12) In today's episode...Trauma: more than a buzzword
(04:27) Core wounds and inner child healing
(05:12) What is trauma?
(07:25) Perception and experience
(09:15) The missing pieces: When absence creates wound
(11:25)  Two major signs of unhealed trauma
(15:03) Changing unhealthy behaviors : Understanding your coping mechanisms
(18:11) How to heal the core wound



**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**  

 * When you leave a review of the podcast, send us a screenshot and we'll send you a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world.
 * The Minimorphosis [https://www.alysebreathes.com/learn-with-alyse/digital-programs/the-mini-morphosis] Learn my Simple 5 Step Inner Child Healing Process to dissolve the one core wound that slows down your growth. 
 * Core Wound Solution Private Podcast [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-core-wound-solution-private-podcast-signup-page?utm_source=provesource&utm_medium=provesource-notification&utm_campaign=click&utm_content=6828c1497212e90c0ced8031&utm_term=The%20Core%20Wound%20Solution&utm_path=/] Join 1,000+ women discovering the real root of their stuckness— and how to shift it for good. Each episode is under 20 minutes. No fluff. Just real transformation.
 * Book a Free Call [https://calendly.com/alysebreathes/20-min-assessment?month=2025-06] to chat about how we can start working together. If you’ve done the mindset work but still feel stuck, I’ll help you dissolve what’s really in the way.

CONTACT ALYSE

 * @alyse_breathes [https://instagram.com/alyse_breathes?igshid=MjljNjAzYmU=]
 * alysebreathes.com [https://www.alysebreathes.com/]
 * info@alysebreathes.com

Common Misconceptions About Trauma

The Polyamory Plot Twist

Welcome to the premiere of "Don't Let Them," our new monthly series where Robyn McKay and I unpack the manipulation, mind games, and modern-day madness that too often lurk in the spaces meant to empower us. And trust us—we’re not short on stories.

Born from a shared desire to speak our truth authentically and fueled by you, the listeners loving our dynamic, this is where we throw out the script and get real, off-the-cuff, about literally all the things. 

In this first episode, we dive headfirst into topics like challenging outdated therapy models (bye-bye, "blank slate"!) and the surprising power of self-disclosure. 

We unpack the critical need for discernment in the spiritual space, especially as AI deepfakes make it harder than ever to tell what's real online. And yes, we tackle that polyamory controversy (featuring Aubrey Marcus), sharing our take on its perceived manipulative energy and calling out the performative aspect of spirituality we see playing out. Plus, we discuss the tricky "hero's journey trap" of using trauma as public performance. 

Expect honest opinions, a no-nonsense approach, plenty of sarcasm, and maybe even a few laughs about Chat GPT's hilarious podcast title ideas for this new series.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Intro
(01:22) Don't let them is born
(06:03) The Metamorphosis...better than ever
(09:25) ChatGPT's hilarious struggle for a podcast name
(14:02) The importance of authenticity
(20:06) Barbie goes to college...and makes stupid decisions
(22:44) Blank Slate vs Clean Field - Intuition vs Influence
(30:38) Trauma-based mind control
(37:01) The Aubrey Marcus controversy
(43:44) The dark side of human consciousness and the nuances of online authenticity
(46:10) Spiritual manipulation and leadership
(01:02:00) AI, Deepfakes and the Algorithm 
(01:12:15) The addiction pattern in the personal development space
(01:20:19) What to expect



**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**  

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CONTACT ROBYN 

 * drrobynmckay.com  [https://www.drrobynmckay.com/]
 * Instagram [https://www.buzzsprout.com/admin/1887189/episodes/%20https://www.instagram.com/dr.robynmckay/]
 * Listen to She{ology} [https://open.spotify.com/show/0hIp90a5JiWpghRoiRpQW7]

CONTACT ALYSE

 * @alyse_breathes [https://instagram.com/alyse_breathes?igshid=MjljNjAzYmU=]
 * alysebreathes.com [https://www.alysebreathes.com/]
 * info@alysebreathes.com

Don't Let Them with Robyn & Alyse - The One With...

“We tend to view our truth like it’s a destination—but it’s a devotion. It’s a daily choice to wake up and embody it, even when it’s hard.”

In this powerful and thought-provoking conversation, I sit down with spiritual mentor and multidimensional healer Jennifer Spor to unpack the real meaning of authenticity—beyond buzzwords and spiritual fluff.

Jennifer shares how her own journey of healing mother and sisterhood wounds, reclaiming her power, and walking away from manipulative coaching dynamics shaped the way she now lives and leads. Together, we explore why so many women drop their power in certain relationships, how to know if a mentor is truly aligned with your soul, and how to sharpen your intuition so you don’t fall into ego-driven traps disguised as “opportunities.”

This episode is a reclamation—a deep dive into what it looks like to live your truth, even when it’s inconvenient, triggering, or wildly unpopular. We talk about the traps of perfectionism, fear-based leadership, and how to lead yourself with radical integrity in business, relationships, and everyday life.

If you’ve been questioning your path, navigating a season of awakening, or trying to find your footing after giving your power away to someone who didn’t deserve it—this conversation will feel like both a mirror and a lighthouse.

TODAY'S HIGHLIGHTS

(00:00) Intro
(01:36) In today's episode... Jennifer Spor:  Operating from your true authenticity
(03:00) The Metamorphosis [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-metamorphosis] is coming up
(06:58) Why we drop our power and how we can hold it? Betty still lingers
(13:51) Intuition: follow or unfollow?
(19:24) Our monetary system is shifting
(23:35) The importance of present moment awareness and perspectives
(31:23) Why did Jennifer leave Betty? The hybrid relationship and closing ceremonies
(34:39) What were you thinking?
(38:13) Putting salt in the wound and straightforward betrayal  
(41:32) Recognizing patterns and moving forward
(51:14) How to spot the red flags on your mentor



**WAYS TO ENTER MY WORLD**

 * When you leave a review of the podcast, send us a screenshot and we'll send you a $250 credit, you can apply to anything else in my world.
 * The Metamorphosis [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-metamorphosis] starts its next round Tuesday, June 3.  This is my body of work to heal, dissolve, and permanently shift the trauma that stops you from creating the relationships, the business, the career, the freedom, the confidence that you truly desire and know what you deserve without spending years in therapy.
 * Core Wound Solution Private Podcast [https://www.alysebreathes.com/the-core-wound-solution-private-podcast-signup-page?utm_source=provesource&utm_medium=provesource-notification&utm_campaign=click&utm_content=6828c1497212e90c0ced8031&utm_term=The%20Core%20Wound%20Solution&utm_path=/] Join 1,000+ women discovering the real root of their stuckness— and how to shift it for good. Each episode is under 20 minutes. No fluff. Just real transformation.

CONTACT JENNIFER

 * Follow jennifer_spor [https://www.instagram.com/jennifer_spor/#]
 * Visit jenniferspor.com [https://www.jenniferspor.com/]
 * Listen Path of the Awakened Heart [https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/path-of-the-awakened-heart/id1684311355]
 * Free Resource Highest Destiny [https://join.jenniferspor.com/highestdestiny]

CONTACT ALYSE

 * @alyse_breathes [https://instagram.com/alyse_breathes?igshid=MjljNjAzYmU=]
 * alysebreathes.com [https://www.alysebreathes.com/]
 * info@alysebreathes.com

What does true authenticity really mean? with Jennifer Spor

For many years, our consciousness has been hijacked by societal and cultural programming, religion, the media, and familial and ancestral trauma. Reclaiming Consciousness is a podcast dedicated to exploring how so many spectacular humans are waking up, exiting the matrix and fully reclaiming their consciousness. Your host, Alyse Bacine, is a mental health professional, spiritual mentor and breathwork practitioner who helps people rapidly clear trauma. In her work with clients, she sees the profound shifts that people are able to make in their lives when they stop following the regularly scheduled program and start living the life they were meant to live. In this show you’ll meet exceptional people who are paving the way in raising consciousness and creating a new way of living on this earth. This podcast is your roadmap to deprogramming from the matrix and contributing to creating the new earth.

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