I want to stop being a nice guy! I want a girlfriend!

Do you want to know how to stop being a nice guy?  There's nothing wrong with being a good person, but when it comes to dating and relationships, being too nice can actually work against you. In this podcast, I'll share some tips for becoming more assertive and getting the girl of your dreams. For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com [https://www.relationitpodcast.com/] Follow me on Instagram: jameel_jjb [https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/] Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw Episode Transcripts: Relation-It, relationship advice podcast for everyone. Follow the relationitpodcast.com Yo, yo, yo, what is up guys? My name is Jameel. Welcome back to another relation-it podcast. This podcast is about and is to help people solve their relationship problems. Help them become a better person or just answer simple questions that you know, you need advice on it. And this post is gonna be about how to stop being a nice guy. This guy wants to stop being a nice guy wants to get a girlfriend. I think the simplest Answer is, you know, you don't need to stop being nice. You need to stop being a pushover. But anyways, guys, he wants to make the change as he sent in this question. Honestly, I think it is really important to not be a doormat and to be a guy that's on his purpose. If you really want a girlfriend. Those are going to be one of the biggest things that you're going to need to improve. A lot of guys, nowadays are just really desperate. They are too busy on these dating apps. Swiping left and right or whatever they do. I don't even know. I don't even have a dating profile. If I do. I have it on my phone, but I don't use it. I don't go on dating apps anymore because I find the waste of time. I think it's important to understand that. Yes, being a nice guy is not wrong. I think the problem is that being nice. They guys use being nice as a strategy to get into a woman's pants to get validation for others. Instead of, you know, being genuine about it and being caring. So they put other people first instead of putting themselves. First. I was like that too. I thought, you know, hey Will, I'm nice. Why am I not getting laid? Well, I mean, I was busy, you know, I was busy trying to get people to like me. I wasn't putting myself first and it sucked. I would go on these dating apps try to get dates with women. Try to talk to them through these dating apps, which is a shitty idea. That's horrible. Just because you're not gonna get any luck on that. I wasn't really exercising properly. Obviously, I write regularly exercise, but at the same time I wasn't I just wasn't focusing on myself. This is the mistake that holds guys back when the