Do you want to know how to stop being a nice guy? 

There's nothing wrong with being a good person, but when it comes to dating and relationships, being too nice can actually work against you. In this podcast, I'll share some tips for becoming more assertive and getting the girl of your dreams.

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Yo, yo, yo, what is up guys? My name is Jameel. Welcome

back to another relation-it podcast. This

podcast is about and is to help people solve

their relationship problems. Help them become

a better person or just answer simple questions

that you know, you need advice on it. And this

post is gonna be about how to stop being a nice guy.

This guy wants to stop being a nice guy wants

to get a girlfriend. I think the simplest Answer

is, you know, you don't need to stop being nice.

You need to stop being a pushover. But anyways,

guys, he wants to make the change as he sent in this question.

Honestly, I think it is really important to

not be a doormat and to be a guy that's on his purpose.

If you really want a girlfriend. Those are going

to be one of the biggest things that you're going

to need to improve. A lot of guys, nowadays are

just really desperate. They are too busy on

these dating apps. Swiping left and right or

whatever they do. I don't even know. I don't

even have a dating profile. If I do. I have it

on my phone, but I don't use it. I don't go on dating

apps anymore because I find the waste of time.

I think it's important to understand that.

Yes, being a nice guy is not wrong. I think the

problem is that being nice. They guys use being

nice as a strategy to get into a woman's pants

to get validation for others. Instead of, you

know, being genuine about it and being caring.

So they put other people first instead of putting themselves.

First. I was like that too. I thought, you know,

hey Will, I'm nice. Why am I not getting laid?

Well, I mean, I was busy, you know, I was busy

trying to get people to like me. I wasn't putting

myself first and it sucked. I would go on these

dating apps try to get dates with women. Try

to talk to them through these dating apps, which

is a shitty idea. That's horrible. Just because

you're not gonna get any luck on that. I wasn't

really exercising properly. Obviously, I

write regularly exercise, but at the same time

I wasn't I just wasn't focusing on myself. This

is the mistake that holds guys back when the