Do you want to know how to stop being a nice guy?
There's nothing wrong with being a good person, but when it comes to dating and relationships, being too nice can actually work against you. In this podcast, I'll share some tips for becoming more assertive and getting the girl of your dreams.
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Yo, yo, yo, what is up guys? My name is Jameel. Welcome
back to another relation-it podcast. This
podcast is about and is to help people solve
their relationship problems. Help them become
a better person or just answer simple questions
that you know, you need advice on it. And this
post is gonna be about how to stop being a nice guy.
This guy wants to stop being a nice guy wants
to get a girlfriend. I think the simplest Answer
is, you know, you don't need to stop being nice.
You need to stop being a pushover. But anyways,
guys, he wants to make the change as he sent in this question.
Honestly, I think it is really important to
not be a doormat and to be a guy that's on his purpose.
If you really want a girlfriend. Those are going
to be one of the biggest things that you're going
to need to improve. A lot of guys, nowadays are
just really desperate. They are too busy on
these dating apps. Swiping left and right or
whatever they do. I don't even know. I don't
even have a dating profile. If I do. I have it
on my phone, but I don't use it. I don't go on dating
apps anymore because I find the waste of time.
I think it's important to understand that.
Yes, being a nice guy is not wrong. I think the
problem is that being nice. They guys use being
nice as a strategy to get into a woman's pants
to get validation for others. Instead of, you
know, being genuine about it and being caring.
So they put other people first instead of putting themselves.
First. I was like that too. I thought, you know,
hey Will, I'm nice. Why am I not getting laid?
Well, I mean, I was busy, you know, I was busy
trying to get people to like me. I wasn't putting
myself first and it sucked. I would go on these
dating apps try to get dates with women. Try
to talk to them through these dating apps, which
is a shitty idea. That's horrible. Just because
you're not gonna get any luck on that. I wasn't
really exercising properly. Obviously, I
write regularly exercise, but at the same time
I wasn't I just wasn't focusing on myself. This
is the mistake that holds guys back when the
