Intense Chemistry, Attraction Blind Spots & the Truth About ‘Boring’ Men with Bern Mendez

Ladies, if you’ve ever found yourself chasing unavailable men, mistaking chaos for chemistry, or wondering why the “nice guy” feels so boring—this episode is your wake-up call.

Today, I’m joined by Bern Mendez, renowned relationship coach and nervous system ninja, for a raw, real, and radically freeing conversation about why smart, successful women keep getting stuck in painful relationship patterns—and how to finally break the cycle for good.

What We Talk About:

• How your nervous system could be secretly choosing your partners
• Why intense chemistry usually means trouble, not true love
• The truth about “trusting your gut” in dating
• The biggest attraction blind spots women have

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ABOUT:

Joyan Chan is an award-winning coach, international speaker, and podcaster. The core of her work centers on helping leaders and entrepreneurs develop unshakable confidence to build a Rockstar personal brand, gain worldwide exposure, and earn recognition for their expertise through podcasting.

Joyan's years of experience as a young lecturer, team leader, and business owner have given her a keen sense of what it takes to become a confident, visible, and impactful leader in today's world.

Her personal journey, which involved transforming depression into empowerment and building her brand from the ground up in just two years, inspired her to create a proven roadmap called "Rookie to Rockstar." It’s the same roadmap she has followed and now uses to guide her clients to launch, market and monetize their podcasts, positioning them as industry ICONs.

Joyan has been featured in numerous magazines, publications, shows and has spoken at many industry events. In March 2022, Joyan was awarded Outstanding Leadership Award on stage in Dubai, UAE. In the same year, she was also named a successful person by Britishpedia.

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