E16 / Sky Racing and Self Expression with Galen Kirkpatrick

Today, I'm speaking with Galen Kirkpatrick. Galen is a professional paraglider pilot and coach, and the 2022 FAI Women’s Pan-American Paragliding Champion, which means that she’s a world-class practitioner of the exceptionally rarified and extraordinary sport of sky racing! Racing paragliders is a lot like sailboat racing in that the object is to complete a given course in the shortest time possible, racing around marks or “turn points”—but it’s all in 3D, up in the sky.

In additional to her passion for flying, she’s a skier, improvisational comedienne and a very talented Tetris player, and, I would add, humble, intelligent, courageous, passionate about her sport and about life, and a pioneer.

I’ve been a paraglider pilot myself, which is how Galen and I met a few years ago, and we both know what it’s like to practice something so incredible, that most people don’t even know exists, and also—whether they’re right about it or not—that most people consider ridiculously dangerous.

Galen stopped in for an interview in between flying trips to Brazil and Colombia, both frequent destinations for pilots this time of year, and I’m excited to share this conversation with you. Galen is the both the first fellow pilot, and the first trans woman I’ve had on the show. She is someone who I’ve learned from, and shares the experience of how paragliding has been a teacher for me and so many others.

As you listen, you might scan the questions at the bottom of the show notes, or just consider this: how has your relationship with gender and your own identity evolved over time?

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Show Notes

Some of the topics that we cover in our talk:

Becoming a professional paraglider pilot

Flying as a discipline — “we require ourselves to get our s**t together.”

Free flight as a form of self-expression

How flying forces you to get your s**t together if you want to fly well, and safely.

Discipline, and how creating an environment where you can remove yourself from the equation — “I really thrive in an environment where I can remove myself from it.”

How flying “becomes not an escape, but sort of like a higher project, something that's to be worked on.”

Risk and Creativity

Fear and Anxiety

Managing Risk — “by seeking expertise and training really hard and immersing myself in the sport, I can manage all this risk, but I'm still performing in a unforgiving environment.”

Identity and Gender Dysphoria

Gender Euphoria

Limiting Nature of a Binary Point of View

Getting More Specific about "Binary"

Deconstruction of Gender

“Men talk about their feelings and women blow snot rockets.”

Activism and Resistance

The Responsibility of Coming Out

Learned to Stop Learning

Paragliding as an Infinite Game

“it's not about in it to win it, it's in it to live it”

You can find Galen on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/galenmmmk/ and in this profile in Cross Country magazine.

The music that you hear briefly is Flying, by Moon Duo.

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