20 Years in the Military — And I Didn’t Know My Nervous System Was Broken (Ft Patrick Nardulli)
Why is it that we train people to survive under pressure… but never teach them how to come home to themselves?
After 20 years serving as a Navy Hospital Corpsman alongside Marines in some of the most demanding environments imaginable, Patrick Nardulli realized something profound: toughness wasn’t the same as resilience.
In this episode, Patrick shares his journey from combat medicine to nervous system regulation — including the moment a heart rate variability monitor revealed he was “thriving” on the outside but dysregulated beneath the surface.
We explore:
- The difference between heart rate and heart rate variability
- Why high performers often live in chronic sympathetic overdrive
- How breath becomes the bridge between mind and body
- The role of coherence in leadership and relationships
- Practical tools to regulate your nervous system in real time
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Timestamps:
02:00 — A guided coherence exercise to settle the nervous system
05:00 — Growing up in Chicago and the call to serve
07:00 — Combat deployments and the culture of toughness
11:00 — The moment he saw resilience breaking in others
14:00 — The HRV wake-up call: “I thought the device was broken”
18:00 — Why experiential learning beats PowerPoints
22:00 — Breath as the bridge between mind and body
29:00 — Heart rate vs. heart rate variability explained
31:00 — What coherence actually means
34:00 — Why most people never intentionally exhale
37:00 — Preparation, performance, recovery framework
40:00 — When his wife felt his nervous system shift
42:00 — Walking into the moonlight: a realignment moment
45:00 — Simple practices anyone can start today
46:00 — Final message: self-care is not selfish
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Music: Clouds - Joakim Karud
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