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ah in order for you to feel that way. And in that way, I've got something really constructive that goes back to, you know, the candidate that says, Oh, you know, you put your feet up on the desk, or I mean, I'm exaggerating here, but you know, you sat back and you were too, you you acted a bit too cocky in the interview, and and this was the specific behavior that you did. The candidate can take that and go, Oh, okay, so if I just don't do that next time, then that's going to help me appear to be less aggressive or arrogant or whatever it might be. Yeah, and ah one thing I learned to do was to use the phrase, um the way the hiring manager experienced you was, rather than say you were arrogant, it's the hiring manager just experienced you as really overconfident bordering on arrogant, because that is accurate. Like we can't make an assumption about how the candidate behave, but what we can say accurately