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And then if you didn't, this is where the reflection comes in. You spend a couple of minutes, you figure out, okay, what can I do better next time? How can I then enjoy this or stick to the plan or the things that I am doing leading up to this, or even on this trip, the things that I know are going to make me feel good about this afterwards. Like just take a few minutes to think about those things. And I think when you do that, that's where you can really start to figure out this whole balance thing. Like you want to do healthy stuff a majority of the time, So when you do do this, quote unquote, unhealthy stuff, when you do go in, drink a little bit more, eat a little bit more, stay up too late, it doesn't really mess you up mentally. Like you don't feel guilty. you don't feel like crap. And it also doesn't mess you up physically too much. Like you don't feel like trash for a week or two or get off your routine completely. You want to find a spot where like you can enjoy this nice balance. Like when you think about it in the grand scheme of things, like if every month you're taking a day off or every few months you're taking a weekend trip or you're eating a little bit more or every two or three times a year you're going on a vacation and you're not worrying about fitness or health or anything like that and enjoying yourself or for the holidays you're just enjoying that day guilt-free like to me that's exactly what balance is like you should have those times off you shouldn't have to stress over those things too much about like being off track or ruining all your progress you want to find a place where you can be more balanced it's not about never going off track it's about making conscious decisions and then you can learn from those experiences. If it was exactly how you want it to be and you enjoyed it fully, then continue to live in that way. And that's kind of your lifestyle and that's your method. If you went a little overboard and you don't feel like you could get back on track very easily, then maybe you need to do a few different things next time. But I think it's really important to get to a space where you can find that balance and get more comfortable with being able to just enjoy life more. Because when you can do that, it's so much more sustainable. Unless you're the person who's like, i'm never doing anything i'm never having fun i'm never having a social life i'm counting every single calorie i'm never eating more than i want to i'm never having alcohol i'm never staying up like unless you're that person you're going to enjoy life you're going to have different times different seasons different periods where you aren't so focused on fitness or health and that's completely okay and maybe that sounds a little weird coming from a guy who does love fitness and is super passionate about it and really enjoys like working out and eating healthy and all those things but to me if i was trying to do this 100 of the time and never enjoy myself it would just not be sustainable i wouldn't want to do that i want to be healthy and fit look how i want to look feel how i want to feel do healthy stuff most of the time and then enjoy myself other times and not worry about any of that stuff and not feel guilty about it not let it wreck all my progress not let it throw me off too much