We are joined for a wet and wild episode with the star of Netflix's MerPeople, professional mermaid Blix Unami (Erik Milligan). Blix tells us what mermaids really represent and takes us on an underwater adventure through their sex life, relationship history, and sexual goals. Blix also gives us all a lesson in how to build authenticity and positivity, discussing everything from achieving success in the face of naysayers to getting diagnosed with HIV and how to dive into thriving instead of merely saying "just keep swimming."

TW: Verbal Abuse

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27 Did You Fin-Ish? (Blix Unami)

Star of Bravo's Summer House Carl Radke and "Dry Humping" author Tawny Lara come on the pod to share their sobriety journeys and the challenges and triumphs of dating, sex and socializing without alcohol. We discuss how to "date yourself" in early sobriety, how long you should wait before dating another person, and how meaningful connections are made in sobriety. We discuss "partying"-- "what really IS it if drugs and alcohol are not involved?" and the need for new social spaces like Carl's upcoming "Soft Bar" to support sober individuals. Tawny shares her experience of quitting faking orgasms and and Carl shares his early discovery of adult content.

 

TW: Addiction + Loss 

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26 Life of The Party (Carl Radke + Tawny Lara)

Get your mind out of the gutter-- we're talking FOOD!  'BrunchBoys' internet foodie Jeremy Jacobowitz joins Remy to talk about food, sex, dating, the joys of ordering in and his favorite places to eat out. We discuss what foods to stay away from on a date, which foods are aphrodisiacs, and whether you can date someone with different dietary restrictions than yourself.  Just like a great meal, this episode is perfect for sharing with a loved one. 

 

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25 Eating Out (Jeremy Jacobowitz)

This episode is all about the importance of our second favorite bedroom activity-- SLEEP! Stand up comedians Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton are two of the hosts of the podcast Pillow Talk [https://www.hatch.co/pillow-talk?srsltid=AfmBOooSGDH6-p7rOCv_jfDIt5fiMz48zLoHCsHLX4Uz8PVPY8AsaaaV]-- where funny people have easy going conversations that you can fall asleep to. Today they join Remy to talk sleep habits, dreams, sleep positive households vs. sleep negative and sex-- does it make you sleepy? It is quite the fun and exciting little slumber party, but if you fall asleep during this episode, we will NOT hold it against you. 

 

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24 Sleep With Us! (Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton)

This is one of the most unique episodes we've ever had-- and yet it is so relatable in so many ways. Remy chats with Srilatha Rajamani, a vibrant, funny, and sweet New York City comedian who has had sexual intercourse only TWICE in her life-- and also has a 27 year old daughter. Srilatha tells us about being raised in India and how being in an arranged marriage changed her life, how she has finally come into finding herself in her 50s- discovering her queerness, asexuality, love for colorful girly clothes and the happiness she has achieved with no orgasms had, and NONE wanted!

TW: Self Harm

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23 The Two Hit Wonder (Srilatha Rajamani)

Remy welcomes hilarious podcaster and comedian, Tracey Carnazzo-- who also happens to be her oldest friend from comedy (years wise, not age wise) and they reminisce about bonding 10 years ago from both being dicked around by fuckboys; what led them to allow themselves to do that-- and eventually get out of it. Tracey tells us how she learned to de-center men from her life and how vastly her life has improved since she did it as well as the importance of friendships, not hating other women, and why "pick me" is actually an insult to society, and not as much the women who get called that.

 

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22 De-Centering Men + Re-Centering Friends (Tracey Carnazzo)

Incredible comedian, actress, writer, host and impressionist Anna Roisman answers questions about her own sex life and also brings some of her most iconic characters (Joan Rivers, Lea Michele, Steve from SATC etc.) to life to talk about the news in sex! We talk about the sexual awakening that was Anna's summer camp experience and the NOVEL that Anna wrote from ages 8-16 as well as how Luigi Mangione ruined losing her virginity.

 

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21 The Sex Book (Anna Roisman)

Remy's boyfriend and incredibly funny comedian Ben DeMarco is back to talk about approaching 10 YEARS of having sex with Remy and celebrate their upcumming Bangiversary! They discuss how much individual growth they have done over 10 years, how they've grown as a couple, and their plans for the future. There is also a lively discussion about Marilyn Manson's alleged ability to suck his own dick, the process of subscribing to an OnlyFans account together, and the many bizarre similarities that Remy and Ben shared in childhood while living 3000 miles and 3 years apart.

TW: Brief mention of SA

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20 Our 10 Year Bangiversary (Ben DeMarco)

Comedian Bronwyn Ariel Isaac and her girlfriend musician and security researcher Alex Smith call in from Amsterdam to talk about their extremely loving relationship and how Alex coming out as trans after a few years together has made it even more solid. Did Bronwyn know she was into women before? How long did Alex know she was trans before she came out? What IS the correct way to clean a diva cup?? And why does Remy keep saying she 'recommends autism?' All this and much more on this highly educational and highly adorable episode.

TW: brief mentions of abuse

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19 My Partner Transitioned & Now I'm Bi! (Bronwyn Ariel Isaac + Alex Smith)

Hilarious comedian Brendan Sagalow is here to talk about dirty talk, role play, and being labeled a "serial monogamist." We talk about the negative connotations of the phrase and what it most likely actually means. We also chat about past relationships and the "my current girlfriend" trend that has been blowing up-- but how he feels about his current girlfriend is oh so different. It's a super cute and super fun one!

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18 My Current Girlfriend (Brendan Sagalow)

Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its fourth season How C*m has helped 400+ "Cumpanions" have their first O's, we've had hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!