This episode is all about the importance of our second favorite bedroom activity-- SLEEP! Stand up comedians Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton are two of the hosts of the podcast Pillow Talk [https://www.hatch.co/pillow-talk?srsltid=AfmBOooSGDH6-p7rOCv_jfDIt5fiMz48zLoHCsHLX4Uz8PVPY8AsaaaV]-- where funny people have easy going conversations that you can fall asleep to. Today they join Remy to talk sleep habits, dreams, sleep positive households vs. sleep negative and sex-- does it make you sleepy? It is quite the fun and exciting little slumber party, but if you fall asleep during this episode, we will NOT hold it against you. 

 

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24 Sleep With Us! (Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton)

This is one of the most unique episodes we've ever had-- and yet it is so relatable in so many ways. Remy chats with Srilatha Rajamani, a vibrant, funny, and sweet New York City comedian who has had sexual intercourse only TWICE in her life-- and also has a 27 year old daughter. Srilatha tells us about being raised in India and how being in an arranged marriage changed her life, how she has finally come into finding herself in her 50s- discovering her queerness, asexuality, love for colorful girly clothes and the happiness she has achieved with no orgasms had, and NONE wanted!

TW: Self Harm

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23 The Two Hit Wonder (Srilatha Rajamani)

Remy welcomes hilarious podcaster and comedian, Tracey Carnazzo-- who also happens to be her oldest friend from comedy (years wise, not age wise) and they reminisce about bonding 10 years ago from both being dicked around by fuckboys; what led them to allow themselves to do that-- and eventually get out of it. Tracey tells us how she learned to de-center men from her life and how vastly her life has improved since she did it as well as the importance of friendships, not hating other women, and why "pick me" is actually an insult to society, and not as much the women who get called that.

 

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22 De-Centering Men + Re-Centering Friends (Tracey Carnazzo)

Incredible comedian, actress, writer, host and impressionist Anna Roisman answers questions about her own sex life and also brings some of her most iconic characters (Joan Rivers, Lea Michele, Steve from SATC etc.) to life to talk about the news in sex! We talk about the sexual awakening that was Anna's summer camp experience and the NOVEL that Anna wrote from ages 8-16 as well as how Luigi Mangione ruined losing her virginity.

 

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21 The Sex Book (Anna Roisman)

Remy's boyfriend and incredibly funny comedian Ben DeMarco is back to talk about approaching 10 YEARS of having sex with Remy and celebrate their upcumming Bangiversary! They discuss how much individual growth they have done over 10 years, how they've grown as a couple, and their plans for the future. There is also a lively discussion about Marilyn Manson's alleged ability to suck his own dick, the process of subscribing to an OnlyFans account together, and the many bizarre similarities that Remy and Ben shared in childhood while living 3000 miles and 3 years apart.

TW: Brief mention of SA

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20 Our 10 Year Bangiversary (Ben DeMarco)

Comedian Bronwyn Ariel Isaac and her girlfriend musician and security researcher Alex Smith call in from Amsterdam to talk about their extremely loving relationship and how Alex coming out as trans after a few years together has made it even more solid. Did Bronwyn know she was into women before? How long did Alex know she was trans before she came out? What IS the correct way to clean a diva cup?? And why does Remy keep saying she 'recommends autism?' All this and much more on this highly educational and highly adorable episode.

TW: brief mentions of abuse

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19 My Partner Transitioned & Now I'm Bi! (Bronwyn Ariel Isaac + Alex Smith)

Hilarious comedian Brendan Sagalow is here to talk about dirty talk, role play, and being labeled a "serial monogamist." We talk about the negative connotations of the phrase and what it most likely actually means. We also chat about past relationships and the "my current girlfriend" trend that has been blowing up-- but how he feels about his current girlfriend is oh so different. It's a super cute and super fun one!

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18 My Current Girlfriend (Brendan Sagalow)

It's finally summer which means TWO franchises of Love Island are coming out every. single. night. -- and we still cannot get enough. Here to talk about this particularly scandalous, tumultuous,  steamy and viral AF season of Love Island US is comedian and joke writer for Love Island US, Caroline Hanes! Caroline gives us some juicy behind the scenes info and a look into how the sausage gets made. And of course we discuss the current islanders, and the Huda of it all. Warning: SPOILERS! 

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17 Summer Of Love Island (Caroline Hanes)

An extra long, extra hot and extra horny episode with two former guests; comedian James Tom and writer/producer Sydney Baloue all about their lives as gay trans men -- and how it compares to their former lives living as lesbian women. We talk about losing different virginities, taking virginities, and SO many spots to go if you are looking to hook up as a gay trans man. Syd and James both share very similar experiences but are so different at the same time. It is a conversation about trans joy and sexual pleasure vs. all the crap that is going on politically and socially right now. Happy PRIDE!

Gay spaces mentioned in the episode: Transferno, The Boiler, Fire Island, Lab, Defiance

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16 Transferno, Fire Island, and Everywhere In Between (James Tom + Sydney Baloue) 

Hilarious internationally touring comedian and host of the We're Having Gay Sex [https://werehavinggaysex.com/] podcast Ashley Gavin is back! And this time she is telling us about her open relationship; how she got into it, the rules her and her girlfriend have, and some hot hot hookups that she has had. She helps to educate Remy about different types of lesbians-- from a list that Remy found on a Reddit thread, advises our listeners on how to hit on women, and finally Remy and Ashley discuss difficult relationships leading to even more difficult breakups, and the passion and pain of sex with exes. 

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15 We're Having A LOT of Gay Sex (Ashley Gavin)

Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its fourth season How C*m has helped 400+ "Cumpanions" have their first O's, we've had hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!