Remy's boyfriend and incredibly funny comedian Ben DeMarco is back to talk about approaching 10 YEARS of having sex with Remy and celebrate their upcumming Bangiversary! They discuss how much individual growth they have done over 10 years, how they've grown as a couple, and their plans for the future. There is also a lively discussion about Marilyn Manson's alleged ability to suck his own dick, the process of subscribing to an OnlyFans account together, and the many bizarre similarities that Remy and Ben shared in childhood while living 3000 miles and 3 years apart.

TW: Brief mention of SA

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20 Our 10 Year Bangiversary (Ben DeMarco)

Comedian Bronwyn Ariel Isaac and her girlfriend musician and security researcher Alex Smith call in from Amsterdam to talk about their extremely loving relationship and how Alex coming out as trans after a few years together has made it even more solid. Did Bronwyn know she was into women before? How long did Alex know she was trans before she came out? What IS the correct way to clean a diva cup?? And why does Remy keep saying she 'recommends autism?' All this and much more on this highly educational and highly adorable episode.

TW: brief mentions of abuse

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19 My Partner Transitioned & Now I'm Bi! (Bronwyn Ariel Isaac + Alex Smith)

Hilarious comedian Brendan Sagalow is here to talk about dirty talk, role play, and being labeled a "serial monogamist." We talk about the negative connotations of the phrase and what it most likely actually means. We also chat about past relationships and the "my current girlfriend" trend that has been blowing up-- but how he feels about his current girlfriend is oh so different. It's a super cute and super fun one!

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18 My Current Girlfriend (Brendan Sagalow)

It's finally summer which means TWO franchises of Love Island are coming out every. single. night. -- and we still cannot get enough. Here to talk about this particularly scandalous, tumultuous,  steamy and viral AF season of Love Island US is comedian and joke writer for Love Island US, Caroline Hanes! Caroline gives us some juicy behind the scenes info and a look into how the sausage gets made. And of course we discuss the current islanders, and the Huda of it all. Warning: SPOILERS! 

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17 Summer Of Love Island (Caroline Hanes)

An extra long, extra hot and extra horny episode with two former guests; comedian James Tom and writer/producer Sydney Baloue all about their lives as gay trans men -- and how it compares to their former lives living as lesbian women. We talk about losing different virginities, taking virginities, and SO many spots to go if you are looking to hook up as a gay trans man. Syd and James both share very similar experiences but are so different at the same time. It is a conversation about trans joy and sexual pleasure vs. all the crap that is going on politically and socially right now. Happy PRIDE!

Gay spaces mentioned in the episode: Transferno, The Boiler, Fire Island, Lab, Defiance

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16 Transferno, Fire Island, and Everywhere In Between (James Tom + Sydney Baloue) 

Hilarious internationally touring comedian and host of the We're Having Gay Sex [https://werehavinggaysex.com/] podcast Ashley Gavin is back! And this time she is telling us about her open relationship; how she got into it, the rules her and her girlfriend have, and some hot hot hookups that she has had. She helps to educate Remy about different types of lesbians-- from a list that Remy found on a Reddit thread, advises our listeners on how to hit on women, and finally Remy and Ashley discuss difficult relationships leading to even more difficult breakups, and the passion and pain of sex with exes. 

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15 We're Having A LOT of Gay Sex (Ashley Gavin)

We are talking about the link between scents and attraction with fragrance expert, perfume lover/advisor, matchmaker, and host of Perfume Room [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/perfume-room/id1565584690], Emma Vernon. We discuss the science between smell and arousal and all different types of fragrances. Emma talks about how to get a signature scent, the importance of scent with regard to memories, and the evolution of fragrance throughout the 70s, 80s, 90s etc. and how those changes reflects on what was going on culturally during each decade. 

This episode is dedicated to our grandmothers-- forever doused in fragrance 

Perfumes Mentioned in the Episode:

Iso E Super- Escentric

Shalimar

Daisy - Marc Jacobs

Mademoiselle - Chanel

Lolita

Georgio 

Van Cleef First

Chanel No 5

Dior Poison

CK1

Estee Lauder Pleasures

Santal 33 - Le Labo 

Glossier - You 

Baccarat Rouge

Ralph Lauren Polo Blue

Sicilian Leather - Memo 

Chanel Bleu

Serge Lutens - Miel de Bois

Keiko Mecheri - Oliban 

 

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14 The Smell of Desire (Emma Vernon)

Comedian, ex-model and author of the new book, "You Wanna Be on Top? [https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/750064/you-wanna-be-on-top-by-sarah-hartshorne/]" Sarah Hartshorne comes on the pod to talk her time on America's Next Top Model; the good, the bad, and the very pretty despite being called ugly. She tells us all about what happened behind the scenes, openly queer models, making friends + having crushes on each other and her body image from before the show to now. We also discuss threesomes, tax law for certain types of queer marriage, Sarah's miscarriage early in life as well as her pregnancy with her daughter and the orgasms that were unlocked after giving birth!

TW: ED & Miscarriage

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13 You Wanna Be on Top? ( Sarah Hartshorne)

Do you have endometriosis or wonder what it is? Learn all about it with comedian and friend of the pod, Ashley Ray. She tells us about living with and suffering through undiagnosed endo in her teens and early 20s and how she finally found out what was going on with her body. We discuss her endometrial cysts, how much blood is actually produced in a "normal" period, how endo held her back socially and sexually and how she went about fixing it!

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12 F*ck Endometriosis (Ashley Ray)

In the new FX/ Hulu show Dying for Sex, Jenny Slate plays Nikki, a woman whose best friend Molly (Michelle Williams) is diagnosed with terminal cancer and decides to turn her diagnosis into an opportunity to go on sexual adventures and fulfill all of her desires before the end of her life. The show is based on a podcast of the same name by the real life Molly and Nikki and today we have the pleasure of talking to Executive Producer of Dying for Sex, and Molly's best friend Nikki Boyer. We discuss the kinks that Molly explored before the end of her life; foot fetishes, ball kicking, tickling etc. and the life lessons that everyone can learn from Molly's outlook. Finally we chat about Nikki's sex life and her personal sexual achievements and hurdles. 

TW: Death, Cancer, Miscarriage, Childhood SA

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11 Dying For Sex (Nikki Boyer)

Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its fourth season How C*m has helped 400+ "Cumpanions" have their first O's, we've had hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!