Joe Karso from Do Better Weddings [https://dobetterweddings.co/] is on a mission to help men seriously lift their groom game. He shares some eye‑opening mindset shifts and super practical ideas that make it easier for grooms to stop being passengers and actually show up as real partners in the planning, on the day and beyond.

We talk about what it looks like when a groom is genuinely present and supportive, how tiny, thoughtful actions can completely shift how supported a bride feels, and why “I don’t care, do whatever you want” isn’t the easygoing line a lot of guys think it is.

And because Joe is driven to over-serve, he’s also created a FREE Groom’s Survival Guide for Unbridely Podcast listeners. It is packed with simple, doable ways for grooms to pull their weight and feel proud of how they’ve shown up. Joe shares exactly how your groom can get his hands on it, right at the end of the episode.

So if you’re tired of feeling like the default project manager of your own wedding, or you’ve got a groom who wants to help but needs a game plan, Joe’s got you. 



RESOURCES

FREE Groom Survival Guide: https://dobetterweddings.co/



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170: 5 Genius Ways for Grooms to Step Up Their Wedding Game with Do Better Weddings

Can you guess what a space disco in a Texas ghost town, and a punk rock concert with a merchandise table, have in common with a traditional wedding? 

In today’s episode, I’m chatting with New York–based founder, author and self-confessed “anti-wedding planner” Amy Shack Egan, the woman behind Modern Rebel, the Love Party movement, and the day-of coordination marketplace, Cheersy. We dive into what a Love Party actually is, how to design a wedding that feels like “you” without forgetting your guests, and why wedding planning can be the ultimate team sport for your relationship.

Amy also shares how hundreds of real couples have rewritten the rules of their weddings, and how she’s bottled a decade of experience into her new book, The Rebel Wedding Planning Guide: Rewrite the Rules and Celebrate Your Love [https://bit.ly/4qg71vV], out February 10.

If you’re feeling “meh” about planning a cookie-cutter wedding, or you secretly wish someone would give you permission to do things differently, this conversation is going to light you up.



Resources Mentioned:

Modern Rebel Co: https://www.modernrebelco.com/

Cheersy: https://cheersy.com/

Amy’s book: The Rebel Wedding Planning Guide: Rewrite the Rules and Celebrate Your Love [https://bit.ly/4qg71vV]



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169: What a Love Party Really Is (And How to Plan One You’ll Actually Enjoy) with Amy Shack Egan

This is a topic I've actually had on my list to talk about for about four months now. Recently, the story about Brooklyn Beckham and his mum, Victoria Beckham, hit the headlines, and the internet just went wild.

Brooklyn said in an interview that he and his wife, Nicola, felt uncomfortable and embarrassed by some of his mum's behaviour at their wedding three years ago. And then, chaos.

It wasn't just a gossip moment. It tapped into something deeply familiar. Because these sorts of tensions happen in regular families all the time, just without the never-ending memes.

It made me think: maybe there's never been a better time to talk about why this topic hits people so hard, and how the expectations of mothers in weddings have shifted so, so far from what they used to be.



RESOURCES

1800 RESPECT: https://www.1800respect.org.au/

White Ribbon Australia: https://whiteribbon.org.au/helplines/

Relationships Australia: https://www.relationships.org.au/

(USA) National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

(UK) Domestic Abuse Support: https://www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help#get-help-and-support

(Canda) Family Violence Support: https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/fv-vf/help-aide.html

(NZ) Domestic and Family Violence Support: https://www.govt.nz/browse/law-crime-and-justice/abuse-harassment-domestic-violence/domestic-and-family-violence/



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168: How Expectations of Mother of the Bride/Groom Are Evolving in 2026

Have you had the band vs DJ chat with your fiancé?

You know, the one where one of you imagines a soulful jazz quartet playing your old-school first dance song, while the other wants a DJ who can read the room, and keep the dance floor absolutely packed all night?

What if the whole “band vs DJ” debate has been the wrong question all along, and the real secret to unforgettable wedding entertainment is choosing both?

In this episode, you’ll hear from New York–based founder of DLE Event Group, Daniel Linares, who’s spent nearly two decades blurring the lines between DJ, live band, and full-blown emotional experience for couples who refuse to do 'standard wedding vibes.' His team specialises in band-and-DJ hybrid entertainment for weddings and events, blending impact, improvisation, and innovation into every moment.

You’ll learn: 

 * how to design your wedding around feeling, not formula, 
 * how to make big magic without the big budget, 
 * and why the energy you bring as a couple is the single biggest factor in how epic your night becomes.

If you’re allergic to corny, copy-and-paste weddings and want a celebration that looks, sounds, and feels like you, this conversation hands you permission, language, and ideas to build exactly that. 



RESOURCES 

DLE Events: https://www.dleeventgroup.com/

DLE Events on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dleeventgroup/



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167: Band vs DJ Debate Over? Discover the Hybrid That Packs Dance Floors with DLE Events

Do you want a wedding ceremony that’s a total vibe?
Of course you do. But…what the hell does that actually mean?

What most modern couples are really aiming for is an energetic, fun, relevant ceremony that isn’t too long, but still has meaning and feels. So what really makes guests remember your ceremony? What leaves them happy, valued, and, dare I say, impressed?

The biggest impact that you can make is with your intentions. Because it's the thoughtful touches that say "we see you," and keeping everyone comfy and connected that humans value the most.

Now, this 7-point guide might seem too simple, too basic at first listen to make a real impact. But here's the truth: humans are, more often than not, very simple creatures.

The best news you're going to hear today? You don't need a millionaire's wedding budget to create an incredible experience for yourself, your fiancé, and your loved ones. I've got 7 practical, and battle-tested ways.



RESOURCES

Ep38: Yes You Need A Photo Captain (or 2) And Why with Valentina Perez Studio: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/38-yes-you-need-a-photo-captain-or-2-and-this-is/id1631943614?i=1000613121405





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166: 7 Tested and Practical Ways To Make Your Wedding Ceremony A Vibe

If you and your fiancé have been bombarded with targeted ads on socials from faceless wedding photography and/or videography agencies promising huge limited-time discounts and “handpicked creatives,” or if you’ve heard stories about engaged couples not receiving their photos from agencies or being unable to contact anyone in person, I think you’ll find this episode very interesting.

Today I’m chatting with Adelaide-based sweary firestarter, Josh Huggett, who helps to unpack what’s really going on behind those agency offers, what’s risky versus what’s just clever marketing, and how you can make sure your memories aren’t treated like just another booking. Josh shares when agencies can be a great solution for certain couples, when they’re nothing but a big red flag, and the key questions you and your fiancé need to ask before you sign anything.

After this episode, the Unbridely Podcast is taking a 4-week breather, and I’ll be back with you, refreshed and ready, from the 13th of January 2026.

Thank you so much for listening, for your reviews that mean more to me than you may realise, for sharing the show with other engaged couples, and just for trusting me to be a small part of your wedding planning.



RESOURCES

Joshua Huggett Media: https://joshuahuggettmedia.com/

Josh on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imjoshhuggett/

Josh on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ImJoshHuggett



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165: Are Wedding Photography Agencies Just One Big Red Flag? with Josh Huggett

Does DIY-ing your wedding flowers and styling actually save you money—or does it quietly steal your time, your sanity, and maybe even hijack your dream look without you even realising it?

In this episode, two of my long-time colleagues and trusted Adelaide wedding pros, Emily from The Modern Approach and Gabrielle from She Runs Wild Flowers, join the conversation to share what really goes on behind those seemingly simple Pinterest-worthy setups that DIY couples try to recreate. 

You’ll hear about the hidden tasks behind the styling and flowers that no one tells you about, the logistics that blindside most DIY couples in the final 48 hours, and why some vendor quotes can look wildly different even when they seem to include “the same thing.”

And, at the end, if you still love the idea of doing it yourself, Gabrielle and Emily also share how to get professional-level results on a DIY budget, no matter where you are in the world, while avoiding the most common mistakes that they see. 



Resources Mentioned:

The Modern Approach (Emily for planning & styling): www.themodernapproach.com.au/ [http://www.themodernapproach.com.au/]

The Modern Approach on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernapproach_/

She Runs Wild Flowers (Gabrielle for floristry): https://www.sherunswild.com.au/

She Runs Wild Flowers on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sherunswildflowers/





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164: How DIY Couples Can Still Create Pro-Level Wedding Style on a Budget

Have you ever wondered how planning a wedding might be different the second time around? And why does it feel like such a touchy topic? As if the couple and their guests need to pretend like the first marriage didn’t even happen.

What unique challenges do couples face, and how can they create a day that they’re really happy with?

Today, I’ll talk about why second marriage weddings feel, to me at least, like they’re more common than ever, what makes them so unique, and how you can approach planning with sensitivity, clarity, and joy. 

Whether you’re planning your own second wedding, helping a friend, or just curious about this topic, this episode is packed with insights, anecdotes, and practical tips to help make the experience as stress-free and beautiful as possible.

So stay tuned to learn how to honour your past while fully embracing your new beginning, how to blend families with love and intention, and how to build a celebration that’s truly about you and your partner.



RESOURCES 

ABS Marriages and Divorces, Australia: https://www.abs.gov.au/statistics/people/people-and-communities/marriages-and-divorces-australia/latest-release

Ep 112: 8 Meaningful Ways To Include Blended Family In Your Wedding Ceremony [https://open.spotify.com/episode/2oxZxnPLIfWMXB6ynf0m14?si=As3NthbdRzmIm5x68qNNxQ] 

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163: Tips For How To Approach Planning A Successful Second Wedding

Just the other day, I was chatting with three seasoned wedding vendors about how, lately, they’ve been hearing from engaged couples asking tons of questions about details that, honestly, aren’t likely to be problems at all. They were frustrated by how they’ve been micromanaged or not fully trusted. So I asked them: “How can an engaged couple really tell who’s a legit, experienced vendor who won’t let them down?”

They all agreed that it’s tough for couples to know, especially when so much of that trust comes from online reviews and testimonials that can feel overwhelming or sometimes leave you wondering what to really believe. That’s exactly what we’re diving into today: how to cut through the noise to understand what’s genuine in online reviews, and where to focus your attention while you research potential wedding vendors so you can book them with confidence.

And stay tuned till the end, I’ll be sharing my 9 Point Checklist for Wedding Vendor Reviews and help you to work out who might be faking it online.



RESOURCES



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This is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start. 🤔

AND want to get it done in 20 minutes or less. 💪



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162: 9 Point Checklist for Wedding Vendor Reviews - Who Is Faking It?

Have you ever wondered what happens when a wedding feels too good to end, but you’re not quite ready for the party to be over? Maybe you’ve noticed how after-parties are suddenly cropping up in everyone’s wedding plans, or you’re curious why couples are making space in their budget for this bonus round of celebrating.

On today’s episode, we’ll dig into the real reasons after-parties are getting so much love lately, plus some surprisingly creative ways to throw one: whether you want a rooftop cocktail hour, a backyard bonfire, or just a cosy lounge for late-night snacks and stories. If you’re looking for inspiration well beyond the usual dance floor, you’re in the right place.

And if you listen all the way through, there’s a little something extra: a behind-the-scenes idea for making even the simplest after-party truly unforgettable, no matter your budget or style, that might just become your new favourite wedding memory. 



RESOURCES



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161: Wedding After-Parties: Just Another Expense Or A Brilliant Idea?

Whether you're newly engaged, right in the thick of wedding planning or just a few days out from your big day, the Unbridely Podcast brings you the support and cheer squad you need to ditch the overwhelm, conquer your never-ending to-do list and enjoy yourself! Unbridely founder, and award-winning Australian marriage celebrant of almost 900 ceremonies, Camille Abbott, shares her experience, tips and shortcuts and invites her wedding vendor mates (photographers, florists, bridal hairstylists, musicians) PLUS new friends to help you at this incredibly exciting, but sometimes confusing, time. With actionable, step-by-step how-tos from wedding vendor professionals plus stories and advice from newly married couples, the Unbridely Podcast is your weekly wedding therapy getting you organised and prepped with less stress. Subscribe now & hit play to listen to the latest episode! Check out WedSites special offer of 10% off paid plans for Unbridely Podcast listeners with the code: UNBRIDELYPOD Buy Camille a coffee: www.buymeacoffee.com/unbridely For our podcast disclaimer policy, please visit: https://unbridely.com/podcast-disclaimer

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