What if your wedding wasn’t just a party, but the kind of getaway you’ve always hoped for—something that really feels like it was made just for you and your favourite people?

Maybe it’s on the rooftop of a warehouse in Brooklyn, New York, or a chateau in the south of France.

How do you make this kind of big dream come to life, and what’s possible when you start planning something from overseas?

In this episode, I’m chatting with Rachel from Apricity Event Co, the New York-based wedding planner who works with her colleague, Beryl, in Paris to create destination weddings on both sides of the Atlantic.

You’ll learn what to expect when planning a wedding from afar —from the advantages and challenges, to the practical tips that help make a wedding weekend feel special and personal, no matter where you end up.

Plus, Rachel shares what’s trending right now in destination weddings, her top 3 tips to get your planning started and how to narrow down your destination by tuning into how different places make you feel. 



Resources Mentioned:



Apricity website: https://www.apricityeventco.com/

Instagram: Apricity Event Co [https://www.instagram.com/apricityevent.co]





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139: Destination Wedding Inspiration: What Are the Latest Must-Know Tips for Planning Abroad? with Apricity Event Co

Picture this: The reception is going off, the dance floor is packed, and out of nowhere, a guest decides it’s the perfect moment for an impromptu karaoke performance on top of the couple’s table. 

The song? “I Will Survive.” 

The table? Didn’t.

We’ve all heard stories about wedding guests who, let’s just say, left a lasting impression for all the wrong reasons. Maybe you’ve even witnessed a few moments yourself—guests who turned up wearing white, brought uninvited plus-ones, or made themselves a little too comfortable at the open bar.

But here’s the thing: being a truly great wedding guest isn’t about following a mysterious set of rules or walking on eggshells. It’s about showing up with a little intention, a dash of gratitude, and a whole lot of your best energy.

So, whether you’re prepping for your first wedding of the season or you’re a practised guest just looking to brush up on your etiquette, today’s episode is all about how to be the kind of guest every couple is thrilled to have at their wedding.

Because you don’t want to be ‘that guy’, right?



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138: 6 Golden Rules For Being A Better Wedding Guest

Did you know that the side you choose to stand on for your wedding ceremony could affect everything from your wedding photos to your physical comfort, right down to whether or not your veil behaves or misbehaves?

It sounds like such a small detail, but this is one of those decisions that can spark surprisingly big opinions from family members, your wedding party, and even your vendors. 

But is there really a right side to stand on for your ceremony and when it comes down to it, does it really matter anyway? 



In this episode, we’ll: 

 * Uncover the fascinating history behind ceremony sides, 
 * unpack why some people still feel so strongly about this tradition, 
 * and more importantly, share 5 practical things you should consider before you pick your spot at the altar.

From how your floral arrangements frame your photos to the way the sun and wind might impact your comfort, to those little secrets about looking and feeling your best, this episode will help you to make a choice that's perfect for you. 



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137: Which Side Should You Stand on During Your Wedding Ceremony, And Does it Matter?

Do you and your fiancé avoid talking about money, or end up fighting every time the topic of money comes up?

I don’t think you’ll be shocked to know that, when you’re planning a wedding and building a life together, how you handle money, individually and together, can quite literally make or break your relationship. And yet, so many couples don’t know how to start the conversation, or realise how much their money habits are shaped by their childhood and their family.

In this episode, I sit down with financial coach Karen Eely, from Women Talking Money, who’s spent more than two decades advising and educating people about money. Karen explains how our earliest memories can quietly drive our helpful or destructive financial habits and decisions as adults. 

You’ll get a clear understanding of:

 * The most common money issues couples face like clashing spending styles, financial secrets, and power imbalances.
 * The 8 simple money types and how to find out which one you are, plus
 * Practical strategies to start open and productive chats about your finances, but without the fear, guilt or shame.

Whether you’re newly engaged or already deep in your wedding planning, you’ll come away with some tools and a fresh perspective to be able to get on the same page, reduce conflict, and build a solid financial foundation for your future together.



RESOURCES 

Women Talking Finance Website: https://www.womentalkingfinance.com.au/

8 Money Types Quiz: Women Talking Finance – Money Type Quiz [https://quiz.womentalkingfinance.com.au/]

Ebook: 5-STEP GUIDE HOW TO TALK ABOUT MONEY SO YOUR PARTNER WILL LISTEN [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1mgBONnacxtiOj0bzKye4F4-qcVTl2jeu/view?ts=68102c49]



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136: How to Avoid Money Stress in Marriage: Expert Advice for Couples with Women Talking Finance

Have you ever wondered why some wedding dancefloors explode with energy while others never quite get off the ground-and what you can do about it?

This is Part 2 of my conversation with the amazing Tania who is the heart and soul of Entertainment business, Choons & Moovz.

In this episode, Tania shares how your wedding party can help set the mood early, what to do if you have a lot of smokers on your guest list, and why your bar’s location can make a surprising difference to the success of your dancefloor.

We also chat about the benefits of having a celebrant who can double as your MC or DJ, how long you really need to keep the dancing going (spoiler: it’s probably less than you think!), and Tania’s candid opinions on drinks and kids on the dancefloor.

Plus, we tackle the big question about guest song requests: are they a dancefloor lifesaver or a recipe for disaster?





Resources Mentioned:



Choons and Moovz website: https://choonsandmoovz.com.au/

Instagram: Choons and Moovz [https://www.instagram.com/choonsandmoovz/]





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135: Pt2 - How to Get Your Wedding Dance Floor Pumping; Secrets Shared by Choons and Moovz

Are you stressing about how to keep your guests entertained at your wedding or worried that your dream dancefloor might be a ghost town before the night is over?

What if I told you that the secret to an unforgettable wedding reception isn’t about the perfect playlist (or no-playlist)?

If you’re planning your big day and want to make sure the party is one that you and your family and friends talk about for years to come, you’re in the right place.

I sat down with Tania Smith, the powerhouse behind Choons & Moovz; a multi-ABIA award-winning entertainment business that specialises in weddings.

Tania is renowned for her infectious energy, her knack for reading a crowd, and her ability to turn any event into a celebration.

As a DJ, MC, and now celebrant, she brings her signature joy and vivaciousness to every wedding she works on, helping newlyweds and their guests create unforgettable memories.

Our conversation was so jam-packed with wisdom, laughs, and practical advice that I had to split it into two episodes.

In Part 1, Tania shares her honest take on the age-old question: Can you really get everyone on the dance floor at a wedding? And if yes, HOW?

We also dig into your timeline and how long your dancefloor should actually be pumping for.

And Tania shares her top tips for boosting your dancefloor energy, from who you invite, to how you set up your space, to the all-important role of lighting and DJ placement.

If you want a wedding that feels authentic, joyful, and totally you, don’t miss this two-part special with one of the industry’s true legends. Part 1 drops now, with even more gold coming your way next week in Part 2!



RESOURCES

Choons and Moovz website: https://choonsandmoovz.com.au/

Instagram: Choons and Moovz [https://www.instagram.com/choonsandmoovz/]



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134: Pt1 - How to Get Your Wedding Dance Floor Pumping; Secrets Shared by Choons and Moovz

Wanna know the worst email or DM a wedding vendor receives? 

It simply says: “how much?” 

Reaching out to wedding vendors can feel a bit like the early stages of dating, right? Those initial messages are kind of like you're feeling your way to see if you two click, and as awkward as it might seem with your wedding vendor team, you want to make a great first impression.



You really do, because it can mean the difference between booking someone that will go out of their way to understand you and your needs and someone who ignores you and doesn't even respond. 

The truth is that a random and scattered approach to researching your wedding vendors can make it unnecessarily hard to find people who have the skills and experience you need, and those people who truly get your vision.



So this week I'm sharing a system to attract the right vendors who understand and can fulfil your wedding dreams. We'll cover why having a strategic approach to vendor communication is pretty much essential, and how providing details from the start can get them excited about your wedding plans 



RESOURCES

FREE wedding vendor email templates: www.unbridely.com/perks [http://www.unbridely.com/perks]

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133: How Specific Wedding Vendor Emails Get Faster And More Enthusiastic Replies

We all know the well-worn adage, “you get what you pay for”.

But let me throw another one in there: “it’s like comparing apples with oranges”.

Because a wedding vendor who is charging well below the market average for what they do or what they supply is completely different from one that knows their worth, their costs and what it takes to be in business for longer than a year or 2.

It's possible and in my research for this episode and experience over the past 16+ years, highly likely, that your savings will come at the expense of quality, reliability, and maybe even your peace of mind.

Today, we’re exploring the hidden costs of booking the cheapest options for your wedding—and how to strike a balance between budget and having the beautiful wedding you expect and deserve.

I’m pulling back the curtain on the risks of booking the cheapest vendors, sharing real-world stories and expert insights from the wedding industry, including candid comments from suppliers in the Unbridely Suppliers Facebook group.

These are the 7 critical things you need to know and consider about booking wedding vendors who are charging well below the market average and how to avoid costly mistakes.



RESOURCES 

Beach Road Wines, McLaren Vale: https://www.beachroadwines.com.au/

Sweet Nothings Flowers: https://www.sweetnothingsflowers.com/

Andrea Laube Photography: https://andrealaube.com/

Marry Me Annie: https://www.marrymeannieadelaide.com/

Jessica Maida Celebrant: https://jessicamaida.com.au/

Found Collective: https://foundcollective.com.au/

Sarah Aird: https://www.sarahaird.com.au/



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You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!

More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriage

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132: 7 Cheap Wedding Vendor Facts To Consider To Avoid Disappointment

Ready to ditch the wedding rule book? 

In case you missed it, in Part 1, Monty Haron, the rogue celebrant, blew our minds with his unconventional takes on ceremonies. 

He introduced the idea that ‘tradition is just peer pressure from dead people’ and talked about ways to change that. 

Now, in Part 2, we're getting tactical! 

How do you implement alternatives to heteronormative wedding customs? 

Monty’s here to share practical advice on everything from rewriting the processional to dealing with family expectations. If you're craving a wedding that reflects your authentic self, this episode is packed with inspiration and real-world tips to make it happen.



Resources Mentioned:



Monty Haron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holymatrimonty/

Holy Matrimonty website: https://www.holymatrimonty.com.au/





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Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely [http://www.nevermissmoments.com/unbridely] to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.



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Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.





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131: Pt2 - What Are the Best Alternatives to Wedding Customs Without Heteronormative Traditions? with Holy Matrimonty

What if you could rewrite the rules for your wedding day? For couples who don’t fit the traditional mold—or simply want to ditch outdated customs—creating a ceremony and an entire celebration that truly reflects their love can feel a little overwhelming.

In this episode, Monty Haron, an Australian celebrant with a very special flavour, joins us to explore the best alternatives to wedding customs without leaning on heteronormative traditions.

Honestly, our conversation was so good and we were having so much fun that I just kept recording! And that's why I’ve had to split his interview into two parts.

In this first part, you’ll learn all about Monty’s insights and wild stories from his weddings that defy expectations.

So whether you're LGBT+, non-traditional, or just curious about shaking things up a bit, this conversation will inspire you to make your day uniquely yours.

And next week, in Part 2 Monty shares actionable alternatives to traditional wedding elements like the processional, navigating family expectations, and infusing your unique identity into every single moment. 



RESOURCES

Monty Haron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holymatrimonty/

Holy Matrimonty website: https://www.holymatrimonty.com.au/

Mind Your Feckin Language: https://www.holymatrimonty.com.au/chinwags/mind-your-feckin-language

Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society, La Trobe University study: “THE HEALTH AND WELLBEING OF LGBTIQ PEOPLE IN AUSTRALIA”: https://www.latrobe.edu.au/__data/assets/pdf_file/0009/1185885/Private-Lives-3.pdf



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Visit WedSites.com [http://www.wedsites.com/] to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.

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130: Pt1 - What Are the Best Alternatives to Wedding Customs Without Heteronormative Traditions?

Whether you're newly engaged, right in the thick of wedding planning or just a few days out from your big day, the Unbridely Podcast brings you the support and cheer squad you need to ditch the overwhelm, conquer your never-ending to-do list and enjoy yourself! Unbridely founder, and award-winning Australian marriage celebrant of almost 900 ceremonies, Camille Abbott, shares her experience, tips and shortcuts and invites her wedding vendor mates (photographers, florists, bridal hairstylists, musicians) PLUS new friends to help you at this incredibly exciting, but sometimes confusing, time. With actionable, step-by-step how-tos from wedding vendor professionals plus stories and advice from newly married couples, the Unbridely Podcast is your weekly wedding therapy getting you organised and prepped with less stress. Subscribe now & hit play to listen to the latest episode! Check out WedSites special offer of 10% off paid plans for Unbridely Podcast listeners with the code: UNBRIDELYPOD Buy Camille a coffee: www.buymeacoffee.com/unbridely For our podcast disclaimer policy, please visit: https://unbridely.com/podcast-disclaimer

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