Welcome back! Today we're talking all about moving in with your partner: things you should know, conversations to have, and tips to make the experience as smooth as possible.

We wrap things up with a few rapid fire listener questions about how to ask for someone's last name on a dating app, what to know before defining the relationship, and how to be ok with the person you're dating seeing other people before you're exclusive.

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Things You Should Know Before Moving In Together

Welcome back! Today we're opening by chatting about Thanksgiving and the holidays, and then getting into conversations every couple should have in the first year of dating.

The second half of the episode is all listener questions: what to do when you're dating someone new and they're not introducing you to any of their friends, what to do when you have a weird feeling about your friend's new boyfriend, a coworker who won't stop complaining to you about his wife, and a listener who is afraid to bring up defining the relationship.

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Conversations every couple should have in the first year of dating

Welcome back! Today's episode is a bit of a different format than our typical listener write-ins. Instead, I'm taking you through an "about me" with a brief background on how/why I started this podcast, my career path, and my dating history.

I'll walk you through the lessons I learned from my past relationships and the actual changes I made to improve my dating life and meet someone who checks all my boxes.

Hope you guys enjoy it! Next week we'll be back with listener questions.

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Why Your Standards Matter More Than Your "Type"

Welcome back! Today's listener questions cover a wide range: a friend going out on a date with someone you have a crush on, a guy whose apartment is way too messy, a guy who is being very secretive about his phone, a groundhog's day dating experience, and how to get to know someone better without just asking questions. We wrap up with a question from a male listener whose girlfriend won't talk about her past.

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Are Crushes Off Limits For Friends?

Welcome back! Today we're answering questions from listeners about moving to a city and trying to find your groove, cutting off a relationship with your ex's mom, sharing Spotify playlists with your ex, and how to handle it when your boyfriend is obsessed with his job.

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Can I Still Share A Spotify Playlist With My Ex?

Welcome back! Today we kick it off with a story about the "bird test" in my relationship. Next we dive into listener questions about how to cut off communication with an ex, overcoming dating app burnout, feeling stagnant in a long term relationship, and whether or not you should accept a setup from a family member.

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My Therapist Thinks My Boyfriend is Perfect

Welcome back! Today we're kicking off with a question from a woman who went on a great date with a guy who then said he needs to wait three months until they go out again because he's taking a break from dating. Next, we chat about keeping photos of your ex framed in your apartment, addressing the future with a new partner, and whether you should be annoyed that your partner is still talking to an old hookup.

We wrap up with a few rapid fire listener questions.

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Maybe Your Communication Isn't As Good As You Think

Welcome back! Today we're kicking off with my weekly "what I'm loving" rundown, which this week is the Evvy at-home Vaginal Microbiome test.

Next, I share my list of subtle signs they see a future with you (both for early dating and for people in a relationship thinking about the long term future).

Our listener questions are from a woman who is frustrated that the guy she is dating never initiates deep conversations. Next up we hear from a listener who is having trouble with comparing everyone she dates to her situationship that recently ended. We wrap up with a run club meet-cute gone (potentially) wrong, a woman who thinks her date is drinking too much, and a reality check for a woman who was ghosted.

Intro ends at 10:03

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Subtle Signs They See A Future With You

Welcome back! Today we're kicking off talking about my thoughts on The Life Of A Showgirl (obviously) and a new product launch I'm super excited about.

Our listener questions are from a man who isn't sure about whether he wants to propose to his girlfriend, another listener who isn't sure if she's in a rebound relationship, and a woman who is sick of being the planner in her relationship.

Listener questions start at 8:30.

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5 Uncomfortable Conversations You Should Have Before Getting Engaged

Mia and Carleigh met in their early 20s and bonded over their relationships, dating horror stories, and passion for wellness. Years later, Mostly Balanced was born as a space to hold conversations about approachable wellness, dating, and relationships. Join Mia, Carleigh, and their guests for new episodes every Monday. Find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/mostlybalanced/support

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