In the new FX/ Hulu show Dying for Sex, Jenny Slate plays Nikki, a woman whose best friend Molly (Michelle Williams) is diagnosed with terminal cancer and decides to turn her diagnosis into an opportunity to go on sexual adventures and fulfill all of her desires before the end of her life. The show is based on a podcast of the same name by the real life Molly and Nikki and today we have the pleasure of talking to Executive Producer of Dying for Sex, and Molly's best friend Nikki Boyer. We discuss the kinks that Molly explored before the end of her life; foot fetishes, ball kicking, tickling etc. and the life lessons that everyone can learn from Molly's outlook. Finally we chat about Nikki's sex life and her personal sexual achievements and hurdles. 

TW: Death, Cancer, Miscarriage, Childhood SA

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11 Dying For Sex (Nikki Boyer)

Picture this: it is the early 2000s. The OC is on, the Hills is on and Perez Hilton is forcing Johnny Wujek out of the closet by calling him gay on a blog.  Fast forward to LA 2024 as Remy chats with Johnny (Emmy award winning costume designer/ stylist to pop idols including Katy Perry, Ariana Grande, Mariah Carey, and Nicki Minaj) about how he actually feels about being publicly "called out," the benefits of it and the fallout, and what his love life has been like since. We also discuss exciting firsts, tough breakups, and how to sext like no one is watching. 

TW: DV mentioned

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10 Outed in LA (Johnny Wujek)

Comedian and actor (Sex and the City + The Other Two) Bill Dawes sits down with Remy to tell her about one of the most pivotal days of his life: when a woman told him he was bad in bed. Come on a journey with us as Bill shakes that devastating blow and learns how to get good at sex. We discuss lectures, kundalini yoga, tantra, techniques for eating out a vulva and more. We also discuss cheating, past relationships and how in many ways, if you used to be shitty it doesn't mean you can't get better. 

TW: sexual assault and violence towards the end of the podcast

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9 Bad in Bed (Bill Dawes)

Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand jobs, and many many book recommendations from Nikki that she swears will change your life. We also take questions from the audience and give out sex toys! You will simply love this blast from the past. 

Book Rec*mmendations from Nikki:

-The Easy Way to Stop Drinking (Allen Carr)

-The Easy Way to Stop Smoking (Allen Carr)

-Healing Back Pain (Dr. Sarno)

-Getting To I Do: The Secret To Doing Relationships Right! (Dr. Patricia Allen)

-Cupid's Poison Arrow: From Habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships (Marnia Robinson)

&  Waking Up (a meditation app)

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8 Finger Blast From The Past (Nikki Glaser + Andrew Collin)

We're talking sex in media with Jourdain Searles; comedian and film/TV critic. Discussing all different types of sex scenes from Babygirl to Severence. We are also chatting about Jourdain's Twitter thread of sex advice [https://x.com/judysquirrels/status/1884056061419872533?s=46] that she did earlier this year and how it relates to the "IUD Debate" that took over Twitter for two days. 

TW Assault / Abortion Laws

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7 I Want To Be The Babygirl (Jourdain Searles)

We have the pleasure of talking to one of the stars of Schitt's Creek; award winning actress Emily Hampshire and her podcast co-host Katie Boland (writer/director/actress/producer). Emily and Katie tell us all about life in the industry, from how they were treated as being female child stars to their treatment now as adults. We discuss their first sex scenes, introductions to intimacy coordinators, and how media they have made has changed people's views on sexuality and gender. We also talk in depth about Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) - a vastly under researched illness which Emily and Katie both suffer from-- and what medicines they have discovered to make that time of the month a little easier.

TW: Assault, violence, and politics

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6 PMDD is Schitty (Emily Hampshire + Katie Boland)

Today we are talking about what the dating scene is currently like from a man's perspective with comedian, actor, director, and show creator Dan Perlman (Showtime's Flatbush Misdemeanors and Cramming [https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/cramming/cramming]). Is there a male loneliness epidemic? Or is dating just exhausting? Dan tells us many stories including his experiences dating openly; when he entered into an open relationship in the completely wrong way, times that he has hooked up with people in open relationships, and who should not enter into open relationships, ever, at all.  We talk the risks and rewards of putting yourself out there, early first crushes, sexual urban legends that we heard about growing up in NYC, and finally Dan's new film that is being produced by our very own Charlotte Kassimir!

Check out Dan & Charlotte's Kickstarter [https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/cramming/cramming] ! 

Watch Remy's Belt Loop Video [https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/thetuck/the-tucktm-stop-the-flop-on-your-belt]

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5 Daring To Date Openly (Dan Perlman)

Are you dating and looking for new tips, tricks, and pick up lines? Or has your dating life come to an end and you just want to hear some really good dating stories? This is the episode for you! Remy chats with Portland based stand up comedian and Beast Games contestant Megan Otto. Megan rose to internet fame on Instagram and TikTok by going on dates and sharing her experiences with the world. She explains why she started sharing her stories so publicly, what stories are off limits for her to share, and the peaks & pitfalls of being an open book about your private life. Megan and Remy both take a trip down dating memory lane and go back as far as highschool experiences all the way up to their current relationships and then debate: Should you have relationships in the office/workplace? It is a relatable and invigorating episode and we can't wait for you to hear it!

 

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4 Daring to Date Online (Megan Otto)

We can't hold it in any longer! We're FINALLY talking golden showers, water sports, piss kinks-- whatever you want to call it-- with Portland based, and liquid based comedian Mack Lee. Mack tells us about their piss kink; how they discovered they have one, where they think it came from, and where they like to pee/ be peed on (body-wise AND location-wise!) We discuss celebrities who have piss kinks, drinking pee, spitting or swallowing, and the etiquette & proper prep that you should do if piss play is on the menu. Finally Remy and Mack talk about fantasy literature and smut as well as the dangers that AI character chat bots pose for impressionable children and teens. Like always Mack's experience is their own so if you have a different take on piss kinks or different type of piss kink please write in and let us know! 

Charities mentioned in this episode concerning the fires in LA: California Fire Foundation, Habitat for Humanity for Greater Los Angeles, Friends in Deed, Dream Center, World Central Kitchen, Community Foundation's Wildfire Recovery Fund, Baby2Baby

 

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3 The Pee Epissode (Mack Lee)

Kicking off 2025 with an extremely fun episode with Remy’s friend, hairstylist and occasional adult film actor Christian Camacho. We’re talking about birthday orgies, fisting, role-play, foot-play, sex work, breath work, losing your mojo, & jacking off: it can be HARD! And not in the good way. We discuss labels in the LGBTQIA community, Christian’s road to self discovery, and how bisexuality and queerness is viewed in the media vs. with people in every day life. Finally Remy reads the Cumpanion’s sexual goals for 2025 and Christian tells us his own goal for the new year. Happy New Year everyone, we hope your wildest dreams c*m true! 

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2 Christian Mingling: Size Queen with a Short Tongue (Christian Camacho)

Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its fourth season How C*m has helped 400+ "Cumpanions" have their first O's, we've had hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!

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