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Speaker: Hi and welcome to Abundance On Demand, the podcast.
Speaker: I'm your host Rita, a certified money mindset manifestation coach to aspiring multi six and seven figure CEOs.
Speaker: My mission is to help you raise your vibration to one of true abundance, step into true confidence and expand your inner capacity to hold your next level wealth so that you can
Speaker: Have your highest income month without the sacrifice or hustle, maintain consistent high income months effortlessly, and magnetize ready-to-buy premium clients who don't flinch at your prices, allowing your most authentic and confident self to shine through.
Speaker: Hi guys, welcome to the first ever episode of Abundance On Demand, the podcast.
Speaker: I can't tell you how excited I am right now.
Speaker: I'm trying to keep it cool.
Speaker: This has been such a long time coming and highly, highly requested by so many of you that I need to take a moment to just say thank you.
Speaker: So thank you to every single one of you who's probably listening right now who has requested for me to create this podcast and a channel that contains a lot of high value content and stories that hold so much healing power, as well as meditations, activations and visualizations.
Speaker: All of your requests have allowed for me to...
Speaker: See how much capacity I do have to support you in this format.
Speaker: And th is is going to be a space where you can come to where you can raise your vibrational frequency to one of true abundance, so that you can create more wealth in your life and business.
Speaker: And if you're familiar with human design, I am a generator, which just means that I need something to respond to.
Speaker: So all of your requests have basically made this possible.
Speaker: And on that note, I'd really love to invite you to DM me on Instagram with your questions and topics and anything that you'd like for me to cover.
Speaker: You know, what is, what's a burning question that you have about manifesting money?
Speaker: What's one knowledge gap that you feel you have when it comes to manifesting in business?
Speaker: What's one goal you'd like to, you'd like a roadmap to achieve in 2024?
Speaker: What do you believe your biggest money block is?
Speaker: I'd love to know.
Speaker: And I'd love to use the space to provide some true value to support you, create and maintain your next level wealth in your business and life.
Speaker: So here we are.
Speaker: I'm excited to kick things off.
Speaker: And we're going to kick things off with a quick word association game before diving deep into a more personal and vulnerable story.
Speaker: So let me ask you this.
Speaker: When I say the word abundance, what words come to your mind?
Speaker: I've had so many conversations with so many of you throughout the years about this and the kind of answers that I got were cash, money, clients, maybe even an abundance in food, abundance of people around me in my life or the support that I get.
Speaker: I've also had some answers in abundance of wildlife or nature from some of my friends that live in Tulum.
Speaker: And those are all great examples of how abundance can show up in our lives.
Speaker: And for me, that's exactly all it was.
Speaker: That's all it was for me for so long.
Speaker: For years, to the point where I was always looking for external things to validate me and to make me feel happy, fulfilled and satisfied.
Speaker: And the more that I got, the more that I wanted.
Speaker: It was never enough and it was never going to be enough.
Speaker: And the problem I realized was not that I didn't have enough.
Speaker: The problem was that I hadn't taken the time to work on filling the void that was inside of me the right way.
Speaker: I remember growing up and a lot was riding on my grades.
Speaker: How I was treated at home was in complete coherence with how well I did at school.
Speaker: And how happy or disappointed my dad was came directly from the grades I brought home.
Speaker: And of course, in reflection, I now know that that was his way of pushing me to be the best that I can be.
Speaker: That was his way of showing me love, right?
Speaker: But combine that with not really growing up with a lot of money and seeing my dad work so hard to provide for us as a family, all of those beliefs imprinted into my psyche.
Speaker: And I absorbed all of this energy and it became a part of me on a cellular level.
Speaker: Beliefs like you need to achieve X, Y, and Z, or you're not worthy of love, affection, or attention.
Speaker: You need to work really hard to make money, and even then, it's going to be just enough to cover the bills.
Speaker: You won't have any leftover for holidays or any fun.
Speaker: Another belief was you need external validation to feel loved, to feel happy.
Speaker: And as I started my business as a 21-year-old, all of those beliefs came to life.
Speaker: Every single one of them.
Speaker: And my reality became a reflection of the beliefs that I held.
Speaker: So I found myself working so hard for money and yet it was just enough to cover the bills.
Speaker: I never allowed myself to take a holiday or take time off because at the time, I believe that the time that I was taking off and I was going out and spending money, not only that I was spending the money that I was making that I worked so hard for, but also I wasn't making money in that time and it was a waste of time.
Speaker: I it got to a point it got so bad and to the point where I was putting money above my health.
Speaker: It was never never mind my happiness.
Speaker: Never mind.
Speaker: I was putting it above my happiness.
Speaker: I was putting it above my health.
Speaker: I had this saying I'll sleep when I'm dead because I had a quote unquote great work ethic.
Speaker: And I'm telling you now, the harder that I worked, the less money that I made.
Speaker: And if I had a low income month, it had such a huge effect on me because I felt like a failure.
Speaker: And like, I don't deserve the reward, i.e.
Speaker: money.
Speaker: And I made it mean something about me.
Speaker: It must be true.
Speaker: I'm not worthy.
Speaker: It must be true.
Speaker: I do need to work harder to be worthy of the money.
Speaker: It was a deep need for me to have the money and to have the clients or I was miserable.
Speaker: I would wake up crying wondering what I was doing wrong.
Speaker: But what I realized is that the more that I needed money,
Speaker: The more and the harder that I worked, the less money that I actually made during those months.
Speaker: And I realized that needy energy is repellent to money.
Speaker: Because here's the thing, all external things come and go.
Speaker: External things provide temporary sense of abundance.
Speaker: And if we rely on them too much for our sense of self, sense of worth...
Speaker: we end up losing who we are, who we are meant, who we came here to be and what we came here to do.
Speaker: And this maybe is a story for the next episode where I'll be going into how I lost myself in search for money, which had a huge impact on my mental health.
Speaker: It drove me into a depression and almost cost me my life.
Speaker: And
Speaker: I now use these experiences that I'm sharing with you as my fuel to drive my mission to help you step into Abundance On Demand because I know how easy to fall into that spiral because I didn't know any better.
Speaker: Everyone around me did the same thing.
Speaker: So how could we know if we as a society have been programmed for external success to be the only measure of success?
Speaker: So yeah, that was my life.
Speaker: That was my life for years until I realized that I was living in scarcity by consistently looking outside of myself, looking outside of myself for the sense of abundance and chasing that high, that momentarily high that money gave me, that signing a new client gave me, that really quite quickly declined into a deep depression and wondering where I was going wrong.
Speaker: I forgot very quickly that I'd just signed a client.
Speaker: that I just made whatever, however much money.
Speaker: I forgot because nothing was ever going to be enough.
Speaker: The more that I looked for external reality and external objects to be happy,
Speaker: the more that once they were gone, I wasn't happy, I was miserable.
Speaker: Like if I hadn't signed a client for like a week or two weeks, I would start spiraling and question myself.
Speaker: But once I learned how to generate that feeling that I was chasing from within, how to feel good with or without the money, how to feel worthy with or without the clients to the point where I don't need the money to be happy.
Speaker: I'm now magnetic to it.
Speaker: December has been the most abundant month for me and yet it's the month where I've done the least work because my energy doesn't stop when I stop working to rest.
Speaker: In fact, the trust and the sense of abundance that I have that I am allowing myself to rest is in itself magnetic.
Speaker: I no longer need the clients to show up for me to feel worthy.
Speaker: I already feel and I already am worthy.
Speaker: So they show up more effortlessly.
Speaker: Because I'm not giving my power away.
Speaker: Because people feel it when you're not in your power.
Speaker: Like when they have the power in their hands to make you feel ecstatic and happy.
Speaker: And when they have the power in their hands to also make you feel incredibly miserable if they say yes or no.
Speaker: They feel ecstatic.
Speaker: when you're giving your power away.
Speaker: When you need them to do or give you something so that you can relax and feel good about yourself, they have that power and they feel it.
Speaker: And that's a repellent energy.
Speaker: But once I learned to generate that sense of true freedom in my life,
Speaker: to no longer allow for my external circumstance to be the reason I feel good.
Speaker: This is now how I'm signing 5K and 10K contracts and working with dream clients from all over the world who have all come to me and had zero money objections.
Speaker: And I feel like that in itself is a huge problem.
Speaker: accomplishment and a huge win that I no longer have to deal with money objections.
Speaker: I am in a true sense of abundance.
Speaker: So I am magnetic to others who are in true sense of abundance.
Speaker: I am in the frequency of trust.
Speaker: So I am magnetic to others who also are in the frequency of trust.
Speaker: I trust myself.
Speaker: So I'm magnetic to others who trust themselves.
Speaker: to invest in themselves.
Speaker: I know that money continues to come my way.
Speaker: So I'm a magnetic to others who also believe that money continues to come their way.
Speaker: And whilst huge financial success is something I've supported countless clients achieve in their life and businesses, I've made it my mission to teach you how to achieve this in a different way, in a more sustainable way so that you can have it all.
Speaker: So that you are able to hold the family of your dreams, the children, the time with your family, hold the healthy relationship with your dream partner and maintain a wildly financially successful business as well.
Speaker: What if you didn't have to self-sacrifice your health for money?
Speaker: And the way we do that is by learning to activate your true sense of abundance from within so that you can become a match for the reality that you desire.
Speaker: And when it arrives, you can maintain it because it already feels normal in your nervous system.
Speaker: Thank you for listening and I hope you've enjoyed this episode.
Speaker: Rate and review below if you like this podcast, share this podcast on your Instagram stories and tag me at Abundance On Demand so that I can see it.
Speaker: And as a thank you, I'll send you a free gift.
Speaker: This means so much to me and helps me spread the message even wider, which helps even more people step into Abundance On Demand, feel confident and create more wealth in their life.
Speaker: Together, we can raise the vibration of the collective.
