How High-Conflict Childhoods Shape Adult Children with Dr. Sharon Martin, DSW, LCSW

High-conflict divorce doesn't end when the papers are signed. It lives on in the next generation, and often in the very patterns adults bring into their own marriages. In this episode, Karen McMahon sits down with Dr. Sharon Martin to unpack how growing up in a dysfunctional or high-conflict home quietly shapes the adults those children become, showing up years later as codependency, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and conflict avoidance. Karen and Dr. Martin trace how a child's instinct to stay safe around unpredictable or explosive parents can calcify into lifelong habits of self-abandonment, and why so many adults find themselves recreating the very dynamics they swore they'd leave behind. The conversation moves into practical territory, too, exploring what healthy boundaries actually look like, how they differ for a difficult parent versus a difficult boss or friend, and why self-compassion is the starting point for breaking the cycle rather than the reward at the end of it. Karen shares personal stories from her own divorce and parenting journey, and listeners walk away with concrete ways to spot these patterns in themselves and in their children, and real tools to begin interrupting them now. Dr. Sharon Martin is a licensed psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience helping adult children of dysfunctional families untangle the long-term effects of their upbringing, and the author of several self-help books along with a free re-parenting guide available on her website. Connect with Dr. Sharon * Website: https://livewellwithsharonmartin.com/ * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sharonmartinlcsw/, [https://www.facebook.com/sharonmartinlcsw/] * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_sharon_martin/ * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SharonMartin * Free Gift: 12 Tips for Overcoming Perfectionism (one of over 30 self-help tools available in my free resource library): https://www.livewellwithsharonmartin.com/free/ Resources Mentioned in this Episode: * Book a Free Rapid Relief Call: http://rapidreliefcall.com [http://rapidreliefcall.com/] * Free Divorce Support Network Gift: https://divorcesupportnetwork.com/jbdpod