Many fathers make the tactical mistake of pushing harder with authority when the connection starts to fray. But a durable father knows that you cannot protect a heart you can no longer reach. To guide a high-achieving, modern teenager through the pressures of anxiety, performance, and identity, we have to upgrade our communication framework from command-and-control to true, deep-rooted connection. And this is not something dads like me know how to do instinctively or intuitively so I’ve brought some help to point us in the right direction.

Dr. Carla Caturia is an elite mental performance coach, educator, and the CEO of The House of Rise. Dr. Caturia has guided over 10,000 families using her innovative RISE framework, helping parents reduce anxiety, foster true independence, and build unshakeable bonds with their teenagers. She is here to give us the 'intel report' on the teenage brain and show us exactly how to turn strained conversations into a lifelong alliance.



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Decoding the Teen Grid

Many of us are trying to build that safe space while carrying the heavy, oppressive conditioning of our own upbringing—living under the 'dictatorship' of unhealed father wounds.

Sometimes, to understand how to fix a foundation, you have to look at someone who watched an entire nation’s foundation crumble. That person can teach us so much about what it means to tear down old legacies and build new ones and I’ve brought that person on the program.

We are joined by author and podcaster George Stoimenov, the visionary behind Men's Corner. George grew up in Bulgaria during the intense, turbulent transition away from communism. He lived through a societal collapse, but the most critical battle he had to fight wasn't against political regimes—it was against the generational father wounds passing down through his family tree. Through that crucible of chaos, his faith in God was forged into something unbreakable. He is here to show us how to dismantle our own past trauma so we can show up as our absolute best for our kids.



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Behind the Iron Curtain

When it comes to education, we often see a massive battleground between public school districts and homeschool families. But in Vinton-Shellsburg, Iowa, our stomping ground, they’ve engineered a blueprint that proves it doesn't have to be an all-or-nothing war. By building a strategic alliance, they’ve created a supportive network where independent home education and public district resources work hand-in-hand to help kids win. This episode takes us home, to our home school district. And I have brought Izaak’s supporting homeschool teacher from the Vinton-Shellsburg school district to share his perspective on how and why the homeschool program and the school district work so well together.

Anthony Church is a supporting teacher within that highly successful Vinton-Shellsburg homeschool program. In the first half of our discussion today, Anthony is giving us a peak at how this collaborative system works, why it succeeds, and how other communities can replicate it.

But Anthony isn't just watching the perimeter for other people’s kids anymore. In the second half of our conversation, we are diving into his highest-stakes personal assignment yet: As of the making of this episode, Anthony is an expecting dad. He’s about to step onto the front lines of fatherhood for the very first time so we will pick his brain about that phase of life.



As mentioned in this episode, for homeschool resources or any questions, email Ed Dickerson at: edickers@netins.net and write "homeschool inquiry" in the subject line and ask for his free guide book resource that has helped so many families.







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The Homeschool Alliance

True durability as a father requires a high level of emotional intelligence. It’s the ability to look at your teenage son or daughter, read between the lines of their silence, and communicate with clarity instead of control. So if you have a new teen in your house like me and you’re not sure how to gain that emotional intelligence you need, you’re in luck. The expert I’ve brought on the program wrote the book on it with his son.

Steve Barton is an elite fatherhood coach and the co-author of The Father, the Son, and the AHA Moment. When his son turned 18, instead of just letting him drift into adulthood, Steve engaged him in a high-stakes, shared mission: co-authoring a book about their relationship. That project forced both of them to break down their walls, upgrade their emotional awareness, and forge an unbreakable bond and in this episode he will share how you an do the same.



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The Father, the Son, and the AHA Moment

In a blended family, the friction is real, the boundaries are complex, and traditional parenting tactics often hit a wall. To build a durable, united home, a father needs more than just patience; he needs a strategic blueprint and a relentless reliance on his faith to handle the moments where human strength runs dry. Personally, if I were in a blended family situation I wouldn’t even know where to start, but fortunately I’ve brought someone with experience who does.

Scott Thayer is the co-founder of Blending Well. Scott has spent years on the front lines of blended family ministry, helping couples navigate the unique stepfamily journey. He is here to share his personal experience as a blended family dad and to give us the tactical, faith-driven insights every stepfather needs to lead his home with wisdom, grace, and ultimate durability.



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The Blended Stronghold

When you step into the role of a foster dad, an adoptive father, or a stepdad, you are entering a territory that has already experienced a structural collapse. The child under your care isn't starting from scratch; they are carrying the invisible weight of trauma, rejection, or loss.

In these high-stakes dynamics, traditional 'command-and-control' parenting doesn't just fail—it can actually cause further damage. A child who has experienced trauma doesn't need a commander; they need a safe harbor. They need a father who understands the science of trauma and the delicate art of building a secure attachment. And since most of us don’t understand the science of trauma much less the art of building that secure attachment, I've brought someone on the program who does understand this well.

Bonnie Butler is a specialized coach for adoptive, foster, and step-parents. Bonnie is here to give us the facts we need to know on trauma-informed parenting. She’s going to show us how to look past a child’s defensive behavior, understand the root of their fear, and deploy the specific bonding strategies that turn a house of strangers into a durable, united home.



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Beyond the Biological

There is a common myth that pornography is only a struggle for men and boys. But the truth is that our daughters are being targeted by the same digital traps, often fueled by deep-seated root causes like a search for intimacy, worth, or an escape from pain. When a daughter falls into this trap, she often carries a level of shame that keeps her silent, pulling her further away from the very man who wants to protect her: her father. If you’re that dad, take courage. There is a pathway out for your daughter, and she will need YOU by her side to walk her out of the trap. My guest shares her personal testimony of battling a porn addiction, how she was set free and how you can set and keep your daughter free.

Ana Murby is the founder of Honest Christian Conversations. Ana is stepping into the gap to share her own powerful testimony of struggling with pornography and, more importantly, how she found the path to total freedom. She is here to help us understand the signs of the struggle, the reasons it happens, and how a Durable Dad can stand by his daughter’s side—not in judgment, but as a partner in her healing.



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Unmasking the Struggle

If you grew up in a divorced home, you didn't see a durable marriage modeled. You saw the cracks, the divisions, and the eventual collapse of the structure. Now, as a father yourself, you might feel like you're building on shaky ground, worried that the history you lived through might repeat itself in the lives of your own children. But what if it doesn’t have to? How would you begin to proactively build defenses?

Kent Darcie is the founder of Adult Children of Divorce Ministries. Kent has dedicated his life to helping men and women understand how their childhood experiences impact their current marriages and parenting styles. He’s here to show us that your past does not have to be your children's future. You can be the one to break the cycle. You can be the one who builds a home that stays together.



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Breaking the Divorce Cycle

Perfectionism is like a 'Brittle Wall.' On the outside, it looks impenetrable and flawless, but because it has no flexibility, it shatters the moment life applies real pressure. When we demand perfection from ourselves, our marriages, and our children, we aren't actually building a fortress—we are building a prison. We create an environment where failure isn't a classroom, but a 'breach' of character. This constant pressure doesn't produce excellence; it produces anxiety, disconnection, and a family that is afraid to be honest with the man leading them. We’ve brought an expert who can walk us away from the perfection trap.

Katherine Sellery is the founder of the Conscious Parenting Revolution. She’s a three-time TEDx speaker  and a specialist in helping 'High-Performance' parents realize that their 'Perfection Triggers' are often the very things sabotaging the connection they crave. She’s here to show us how to swap the brittle wall of perfection for the durable foundation of Presence. We’re going to discuss how to identify the moments when you are being triggered, how to let go of the 'flawless' narrative, and how to lead your family with a strength that is resilient enough to handle the messiness of real life.



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The Perfection Trap

Eating disorders and disordered eating are among the most complex challenges a family can face. As dads, we often want to 'fix' the problem with logic or discipline. But when it comes to a child’s relationship with food, the mission requires a different set of tools: empathy, strategy, and a deep understanding of how to build 'eating competence.' And if you’re like me, you don’t have a clue where to even begin and that’s why I brought an eating disorder professional who is a registered dietician to walk us through the healing process for eating disorders.

Jessica Setnick MS,RD, CEDRD-S is a leading expert in the field of pediatric nutrition and eating disorders. Jessica has spent her career helping families move from fear and frustration to health and freedom. She’s here to show us how a father’s words and actions can become 'body armor' for his children, protecting them from a culture that tells them they aren't enough.



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The Sentinel’s Guide to Eating Competence

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