Girls, we’re going to the chapel and we’re throwin’ a divorce party! This week we ask, do you ever feel like divorce is chic? P + J discuss their life as two children of divorce DIVAS and how it kinda gives you the upper hand at life? (sorry not sorry). We also discuss the slay-ness of a divorce party, and the post divorce 'glow-up' you receive when you finally #leavehim.

PLUS! We have an exclusive to the do you ever party, a divorce lawyer gives us some hot tips + stats on divorce.

We also chat…

* How does one apply makeup? Phoebe needs a rec!

* Grandma's Gossip

* Couples therapy + our love for Orna (the show!)

* Couples therapy (the thing we do on this podcast)

* The chicness of Divorce

* Listen to women over 40

* Children of Divorce are slay

* Top Secret Source: Divorce Lawyer Insights

* The girlies write in with their chaotic divorce stories (thank you for this!)

* Divorced Dad albums

* Phoebe sings (obvi!)

Sources:

Couples Therapy [https://www.paramountplus.com/shows/couples-therapy/]

Ask + Answered with Chelsea Fagan [https://www.youtube.com/@thefinancialdiet]

Ali Wong Single Lady [https://www.netflix.com/search?q=Ali&jbv=81140682]

Divorce Parties [https://www.cnbc.com/2024/09/07/divorce-parties-reached-an-all-time-high-last-year-heres-why.html]

The Evolution of Divorce [https://www.nationalaffairs.com/publications/detail/the-evolution-of-divorce]

US Census Divorce [https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/10/marriage-and-divorce.html]9

Sunken Cost Fallacy Chelsea Fagan [https://www.tiktok.com/@faganchelsea/video/7496326893273107734]

Conscious Uncoupling [https://www.thecut.com/2016/04/what-conscious-uncoupling-is-really-like.html]

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MESSY DIY QUEST! //

We’re ditching the hyper warp speed anxiety and stepping into embodied, creative, baddie who fully trusts their ideas. Feel a whole lot less pukey/scared about showing up to the blank page. Unleash your inner freaky deeky, weirdo, clown, creative genius and uncover your own intuitive process AND have FUN doing it! 🤸‍♀️

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divorce is chic 

Grab your horizontal stripes and STEP a board THE HIGH DIVE girlies! This week we chat with multi-hyphenate queen Chelsea Fagan! Chelsea is the co-founder of The Financial Diet [https://youtu.be/gRT4QiMbysk?si=OMYTioG5zL4JFtCD] and author of the new romance novel, The High Dive [https://www.thehighdivebook.com/] 🛥️🌊💍

We chat writing a romance novel in the um… context of 🔥 the world 🔥. Not taking ourselves so seriously, using our mortality to motivate us and crafting a lovely (and steamy!) novel with all the social and economic realities while also making body shots hot. A massive slay!

PLUS!

* We’re annoying fan girls

* How ones nervous system relaxes enough to write a romance novel

* Squeezing the most from life (we are here to make stuff don’t get it twisted)

* Making stuff not for capitalism (only)

* Not taking ourselves so seriously

* Having multiple identities to pull from (multi-hyphenate freak mode)

* Class anxiety (chill)

* (not) Racking up credit card debt to attend weddings

* Nepo babies

Also this banger of a quote…

“The cream rises to the top, but very often it doesn't, so you at least deserve to try!”

MORE CHELSEA

* The High Dive [https://www.thehighdivebook.com/]

* After you grab a copy of your next favorite summer read, leave Chelsea a Review on Goodreads [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/228575510-the-high-dive]!

* The Financial Diet [https://youtu.be/gRT4QiMbysk?si=OMYTioG5zL4JFtCD]

Become a Green Room Girlie! To get access to our most recent bonus pod + latest gossip

MESSY DIY QUEST! //

We’re ditching the hyper warp speed anxiety and stepping into embodied, creative, baddie who fully trusts their ideas. Feel a whole lot less pukey/scared about showing up to the blank page. Unleash your inner freaky deeky, weirdo, clown, creative genius and uncover your own intuitive process AND have FUN doing it! 🤸‍♀️

EMBARK on The Messy DIY quest → [https://doyouever.myflodesk.com/l1wrh00k6n]

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we're here to vibe w/ Chelsea Fagan 

We’re back for another IRL recording. It’s (almost!) Jacque’s birthday so we’re chatting end of life babyy! ☠️ We chat the theatre and spectacle of death, the fire box we all should be putting life documents in, if life insurance is a scam (???) and the back up plan if one of us dies (capitalize on it!).

PLUS

* Body hairs woes

* Jacque is back with her Quinn App misadventures

* Our funeral arrangements (solo performances)

* Capitalizing on our deaths in the name of #commerce

* What do to with our flesh suits when we’re done renting them?

* Do we need life insurance?

* Jacqueline's 33rd Birthday Goals/list (boring)

* Trying not to scar yourself whilst combing through the family archives

* Regrets? lol

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death becomes her

We don some robes and sip the sweet nectar of some canette du barbet and travel back in time to the ROMAN EMPIRE DIVAS! We chat why the roman empire is in fact a massive slay, it’s historical importance, and its various inventions. Plus why art history 101 is actually gonna help you out a LOT in the “real world” and our various vocal stims of the day 🤸🏻‍♀️

PLUS

* We made and set and donned some costumes

* Art History just makes you smarter/better/hotter

* Middle school Theater vs Tech Crew (phoebe curses her middle school theatre teacher)

* Why is Austin Butler so hot in Dune?

* Aqueducts!

* Bath houses!

* The invention of the modern legal system!

* Roman Catholic Church Propaganda (casual)

Become a Green Room Girlie and get access to our monthly bonus pod! Last month we chatted about MIKE WHITE and what artists can learn from Survivor Season 37 runner up (and creator of white lotus lol but I have #priorities).

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roman empire 

This week on the pod we have first official return guest expect you wouldn’t know that cause sometimes the spirits say… let it cook? We have sweet Michelle Pellizzon Lipsitz [https://substack.com/profile/2002796-michelle-pellizzon-lipsitz] AKA Head Witch in Charge of Holisticism [https://substack.com/profile/23551212-holisticism]. We chat…

* Wellness Industrial Complex babbleing

* Running a Marathon Out of Spite (no like literally)

* our collective obsession with Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation (probo cause we’re neuro divergent hotties OK!!!)

* removing the goal post of “goals” vs tHe JOurnEy TheRe and the FRiendS wE maDe aLonG ThE waAy 🫶 (cringe but true)

* Phoebe fantasizes about a jobby job

* Doin stuff cause its cool 😎

* PhD lore drop

* Regret/Perfectionism/ what even is that anyway??

* Trust as process

* DIY syllabi

MORE MICHELLE! [https://michellepellizzon.com/]

* The New Age Playbook for Spellbinding, Can't-Stop-Reading Copy [https://holisticism.myflodesk.com/newage-playbook] (Buy its Phoebes fav)

* Holisticism [https://www.holisticism.com/]

STUFF AT DYE HQ!

* HOW TO RUN AN ONLINE WORKSHOP (a workshop on workshops) // May 8th

* Become a Green Room Girlie!

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spite is creative fuel w/ Michelle Pellizzon Lipsitz

The girls we back and we’re ready to get inked ☠️ We chat tattoos, the dumb ones we have, the stuff culture makes women think and feel about their bodies and some light stuff like misspelled latin words and gay moths! AND our first listener write in ep where we hear stories from YOU! So fun

plus!

* Easter 101 from a real authentic catholic

* The slayness of palm sunday

* cultural fascination with Tattoos

* we stumble upon some dark stuff in human history (obvi!)

* Our Tattoo Stories and Regrets

* The bi-sexual month craze

* Bad conservative tattoos

* You all write in

* Year of the pod update!

Keep your ratings and reviews coming!

Join us in the green room CHAPS! 🎩 come gather round grab a cuppa, and sit your boody down and let us yap.

(how slay!!) so you can get all the goods in your back pocket (or wherever you keep your phone idk your life man)

You get access to stuff like…

* Monthly Artist Studies AKA current artist we are currently in a parasocial relationship with 🤝 past artist have been Doechii, Mike White and MUCH MORE

* Green rooms eps where we go fully feral/generally chaotic/share our highly cancellable opinions (recentl juicy gossip includes Jaque getting hit on in every miami coffee shop… a slay!)

* the knowledge that you're cool and have good taste and can tell people “yah I’ve known about them for YEAAARRSSS”

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everyone is inked 

City Mouse vs. Country Mouse. Choose your fighter.

* Eyebrow Piercing Regrets

* to bored for basic nail grooming

* Inappropriate High School Musicals

* actually USING the City

* Obvi we chat Cottagecore

* romanticization of rural living

* the economy (lmao)

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country mouse city mouse 

Do you ever feel like…the end of the world?

This week the girlies go ABSURD but actually just average because absurdism is the trend of 2025. They chat if the world is actually ending, existentialism, freak shows, and their subsequent roles during the apocalypse.

PLUS!

* men in ikea

* Phoebe’s new crush

* A lesson in existentialism, Kierkegaard who?

* APOCOLYPTIC LEWKS, a slay!

* The economic downturn to church going correlation 📉

* Soundscapes of the after times (sorry for the chanting)

* The fourth turning and the cycles of mankind (ew)

* How art shows us the way

Join the green room to get access to our latest Artist Study [https://doyouever.substack.com/p/the-universal-laws-of-mike-white]The Universal Laws of Mike White [https://doyouever.substack.com/p/the-universal-laws-of-mike-white]

Mentions/Sources

Philosophy Lessons [https://ethics.org.au/ethics-explainer-existentialism/]

Chris Fleming [https://www.instagram.com/p/DHPfH8xJqQK/?hl=en]

Natalie Palamides [https://www.instagram.com/nataliepalamides/?hl=en]

Bjork [https://www.dazeddigital.com/music/article/65618/1/bjork-apocalypse-has-already-happened-nature-manifesto-pompidou-aleph-molinari]

adrienne marie brown’s podcast [https://adriennemareebrown.net/podcast/how-to-survive-the-end-of-the-world/]

Margaret Atwood

Octavia E. Butler [https://www.octaviabutler.com/]

Simon Peng [https://www.everyonescreative.net/p/what-are-we-supposed-to-do-with-all?r=eed7u&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web]

Jameela Jamil [https://jameelajamil.substack.com/p/how-to-spend-the-end-of-the-world?r=eed7u&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&triedRedirect=true] Substack

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it's the end of the world?

Hey babes thats just my boundaries, soz I have an anxious attachment style, I just don’t have the space for that emotional labour rn. JK! THIS WEEK WE CHAT THERAPY SPEAK!

PLUS!

* NO ONE DRESSES UP ANYMORE!

* Walton Goggins fan club assembles (White Lotus recap duh!!)

* The formalization of the brunch chat

* Phoebe doesn’t know what gaslighting means

* Learning to just say no babes 🫶

* The DYE rules for living (again)

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therapy speak makes you sound wild my guy

Welcome welcome to a stunning guest ep with olivia rafferty [https://substack.com/profile/42045636-olivia-rafferty] !!! Olivia is a songwriter, podcaster, and creators of chaotic google docs, but most importantly she has a new album Typical Forever that you can listen to NOW! You can buy it on Bandcamp [https://oliviarafferty.bandcamp.com/]

Or stream Typical Forever wherever you stream your music (which of course we get into later…)

We chat creative process (duh!!) , overcoming the cut and paste industry-standard advice, and crafting our own world inside all we create. We get a little substack nerdy (not in a like “grow your substack to 599202 new people kinda way, but in a like “how to use these platforms in ways we can have FUN ON!!!!!!)

PLUS!

* Being your own niche

* Not taking every experts advice

* Too many rock puns 😔

* bringing people along for the journey

* being in the real world and leaving your HOUSE/not just talking to your phone

* talking to scientists

* sticking with your art (for literal YEARS! or like billions on years!) you make stuff!

be so excited and like convinced by your own s**t that people cant help but be drawn in - Slay quote from Olivia herself

Names dropped!

* Erin Shetron [https://substack.com/profile/14143-erin-shetron]

* Gabrielle Ione Hickmon [https://substack.com/profile/2653579-gabrielle-ione-hickmon]

* Lexi Merritt [https://substack.com/profile/6528742-lexi-merritt]

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making stuff for a billion years with Olivia Rafferty 

Phoebe and Jacque met over Instagram, (even though they hate their phones), and have been best friends ever since. Each week they ask a question that everyone is thinking and no one is answering. They discuss any and all topics such as being artists and women in the world, sex, death, time, to the internet, capitalism, and the patriarchy - on their dramedy podcast...Do You Ever Feel Like?

Do You Ever Feel Like?

phoebe 's Show

Podcast on being a bridezilla nad hating your wedding,  "Do you ever feel like...you're a bridezilla?" Phoebe and Jacque explore the wedding patriarchy trap, and question if women ever really have a choice? Jacqueline shares her regrets about having a wedding party and wearing a white dress, how much we hate the word, the origins of bridezilla and the misogyny in the word. 

phoebe

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