“The most important investment you can make is in yourself. It’s not just about dollars—it’s about building a life that reflects your best self.”

Real talk: growth doesn’t come from sipping lattes in a comfy chair. It’s forged in the messiest, hardest moments when life punches you in the gut. This episode dives into the grit required to turn suffering into strength and pain into purpose. It’s not about avoiding hardship; it’s about learning to dance with it—and maybe even throw a few punches back. Packed with stories that’ll make you think, laugh, and maybe cringe, this conversation is your blueprint for thriving when the going gets tough.

Meet Rob Dubois, a guy who knows a thing or two about grit. From surviving a rough childhood to earning his stripes as a Navy SEAL, Rob’s journey is a masterclass in resilience. He doesn’t just talk the talk—he’s walked the hardest paths and come out stronger. In this episode, Rob spills his secrets on how embracing discomfort can transform you into a person you actually want to be. Spoiler alert: it’s not easy, but it’s worth it.

Rob Dubois is a former Navy SEAL, leadership coach, and founder of Impact Actual. He’s spent decades mastering the art of thriving in chaos and now helps others unlock their potential with a mix of wisdom, humor, and a no-nonsense approach to life. If you’re ready to stop running from pain and start growing from it, this episode’s for you.

Expert action steps:

1. Commit Fully to Growth: Make an “all-in” commitment as the first step to overcoming adversity and achieving transformation.

2. Trust the Process: The importance of surrendering to a structured process, even when it feels counterintuitive or challenging, is highlighted as a cornerstone of personal development.

3. Cultivate Self-Discipline: Stopping destructive behaviors like addiction and committing to habits aligned with integrity and health is presented as a critical action for long-term success.

Learn more about Rob at the Impact Actual Website: https://impactactual.com. [https://impactactual.com/]

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EP634: Rob DuBois - How To Get Really Good At Getting Kicked In The Nuts!!

"You never have to be perfect. But should you move the needle forward 1% every single day moving forward? Yes, it’s good for you and it’s good for the people you love.”

Success in business and entrepreneurship begins with the same foundation as success in life—health and fitness. Without a strong, energetic body and sharp, focused mind, even the best business strategies fall flat. This episode dives into why prioritizing your fitness is the ultimate power move for long-term success.

Fitz Koehler, fitness expert, race announcer, and cancer survivor, shares her unfiltered insights into the transformative power of health. With a no-nonsense approach, she discusses how fitness not only helped her overcome cancer but also fuels her to live vibrantly and inspire others. From battling through gruelling treatment to running the Boston Marathon, Fitz’s story is a testament to resilience and the value of investing in your physical and mental well-being.

Guest Bio:

Fitz Koehler is a globally recognized fitness professional, keynote speaker, and author of the Cancer Comeback series. As the founder of Fitzness, she has spent decades inspiring people to prioritize their health through TV appearances, corporate engagements, and live events. A cancer survivor and advocate for joy, Fitz believes fitness is the ultimate foundation for a fulfilling life.

Expert action steps:

1. Control What You Can:

“In every single situation, control what you can. Know the difference. If you can’t control something, let it go. Let it go. But if you can, your nutrition, your exercise, your work output, whether you show up early, stay late, all of those things, control what you can.”

2. Live on Perspective:

“Traffic jams are better. Red wine on the carpet is better. The flu is better because all of that pales to being a kid with cancer. So perspective, perspective, perspective.”

3. Hunt for Joy:

“I’m a joy addict. I’m very fortunate. I was born with a passion for joy. I will choose to be happy in any situation. However, if that’s not you, you can still become a joy addict. Make it a habit.”

Learn more about Fitz:

• Website: https://www.fitzness.com [https://www.fitzness.com/]

• Books by Fitz:

• My Noisy Cancer Comeback: Running at the Mouth, While Running for My Life https://www.fitzness.com/blog/my-noisy-cancer-comeback/

• Your Healthy Cancer Comeback: Sick to Strong https://www.fitzness.com/blog/your-healthy-cancer-comeback/

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EP633: Fitz Koehler - Muscles Are Sexy

“As a dad, we can learn the things that then will flow down to them. But we also need to take care of our health. We need to make sure that we’re doing what we need to do for community, spiritually, physically, financially, because if we’re not in the fight, then who is?”

Being a man, especially a father, isn’t something you just stumble into—it’s a craft that requires intention, grit, and a willingness to laugh at your own mistakes. In this episode, we unpack what it takes to grow into the role of a father who’s not just present but impactful and confident.

Our guest, Zach Reeser, host of the Skilled Dad Podcast, shares his evolution from a dad searching for resources to a leader in the men’s space. With a mix of humor and straight talk, Zach dives into how men can step up, embrace their roles, and build a legacy of strength and purpose.

Zach is a father of three, entrepreneur, and champion of holistic fatherhood. His work empowers men to sharpen soft skills like communication and hard skills like resilience, all while creating strong families and communities. Tune in to hear how Zach inspires dads to show up with intention, foster growth, and equip the next generation to lead with integrity and strength.

Also mentioned:

• Dad Edge Podcast with Larry Hagner

• Dad’s Making a Difference Podcast with Cam Hall

• Mediocre Dads Podcast with Queon 'Q' Wilcox

You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

EP174: Zach Reeser - Step In To Your Manhood

“Never been one for safety. I’ve never been one to play it safe. I’ve always been a bit of a risk taker, which I think you have to be to be an entrepreneur.”

Here’s the secret to landing billionaire clients: it’s not about luck—it’s about having the guts to pick up the phone and the brains to know what to say when they answer. In this episode, we dive into the unapologetically bold strategies that can turn a nobody into the go-to person for the ultra-wealthy. Gina Hendrix, the queen of billionaire matchmaking (yes, that’s a thing), spills the tea on how she went from dialing for dreams to curating connections for the 1%. Spoiler alert: authenticity and grit trump everything else.

Gina Hendrix is a fearless entrepreneur and elite matchmaker whose client list reads like the Forbes 400. With her no-nonsense approach and a knack for turning bold moves into big wins, Gina has mastered the art of connecting high-net-worth individuals with meaningful relationships. Her story is proof that a little nerve and a lot of hustle can lead to some seriously exclusive company.

Expert action steps:

1. Be fearless and take risks. Embrace a bold approach in business and be willing to take calculated risks, as these are essential traits for successful entrepreneurship.

2. Maintain integrity in all your business dealings. Make integrity the cornerstone of your professional conduct, never compromising values for monetary gain.

3. Follow your passion relentlessly. Pursue what excites you with dedication and commitment, even if you start without all the answers.

Learn more about Gina Hendrix:

1. Gina Hendrix’s Website: https://ginahendrix.com [https://ginahendrix.com/]

2. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matchmakerginahendrix

3. TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matchmakerginahendrix

4. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoxooljvh9q7dA98-G9M1sg

Books by Gina Hendrix:

• The Great Man Hunt https://a.co/d/csfher9

• Stop Being a Bitch and Get a Boyfriend https://a.co/d/7lXbhNG

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EP632: Gina Hendrix - How To Attract Billionaire Clients

“If you think creatively or think differently, you can market that. Even in highly competitive industries like water, there’s always room for differentiation.”

Creating a business plan doesn’t have to feel like an endless maze of spreadsheets and jargon. The secret? A streamlined, actionable approach that focuses on what truly matters. In this episode, you’ll discover a straightforward method to craft a winning business plan without losing your sanity—or your weekend.

Brandon White, entrepreneur, author, and business strategist, shares his game-changing “Back of the Napkin Business Plan” framework. With years of experience, including two successful business exits, Brandon reveals how to distill your vision into 11 clear slides. From defining your market to tackling financials, he explains how to create a plan that drives results, sparks investor interest, and helps you stay focused on growth. This episode is packed with practical advice to help you transform your ideas into reality.

Brandon White is an accomplished entrepreneur, investor, and author of Back of the Napkin to Business Plan in 11 Slides. Having successfully built and sold multiple businesses, Brandon is passionate about simplifying entrepreneurship and empowering others to succeed with practical, no-nonsense strategies.

Expert action steps:

• Be a great listener and practice that skill.

Actively listening helps you learn and connect more effectively in your business and personal interactions.

• Keep moving forward, even when it feels impossible.

Adopt the mindset of taking one more step, learning from each day, and believing in your ability to achieve what feels unattainable.

• Surround yourself with smarter people and embrace discomfort.

Seek out those who challenge you, create opportunities to learn, and intentionally put yourself in difficult situations to grow and make progress.

• Brandon White’s Website: https://brandoncwhite.com/

• Book: Back of the Napkin to… Business Plan in 11 Slides: So easy you can do it on a flight from San Francisco to New York

https://www.amazon.com/Back-Napkin-Business-Plan-Slides/dp/B0CY1XDB63

• Podcast: The Brandon White Show

https://myedgepodcast.com/

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EP631: Brandon White - Back Of The Napkin Business Plan In 11 Slides

“F*ck it. It’s kind of an internal cue for me to shut all those voices down, take a deep breath, and just start figuring out and planning and doing what I have to do to succeed.”

Let’s get real: most men today are operating at about 30% of their potential, and that’s being generous. Emotional sovereignty—the ability to own your inner chaos and come out on top—isn’t just a luxury; it’s survival in a world that rewards mediocrity. This episode is the antidote for men who are tired of feeling like they’re living life with the training wheels still on.

Our guest today, Marty Strong, doesn’t just talk the talk—he’s walked it, ran it, and probably swam it under enemy fire. With 20 years in the Navy SEALs, Marty’s resume includes leading 36 combat missions, going from enlisted SEAL to officer, and then flipping the script into finance, counterterrorism, and corporate leadership. Oh, and he also writes books. Because, of course, he does.

Marty peels back the layers of what it takes to go from “meh” to mentally unbreakable. Hint: it’s not about looking tough; it’s about training your brain to tell your inner quitter to shut up and sit down. From cold water hell weeks to crushing corporate chaos, Marty lays out how SEAL-level grit translates to everyday life.

Whether you’re out to crush it in business, relationships, or just trying to survive a leg day, this episode will make you laugh, think, and maybe even cancel your Netflix binge for a real workout. Spoiler: emotional sovereignty is the ultimate flex.

• “Be Nimble: How the Creative Navy SEAL Mindset Wins on the Battlefield and in Business”

• Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Be-Nimble-Creative-Battlefield-Business/dp/1789048400

• “Be Visionary: Strategic Leadership in the Age of Optimization”

• Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B09DRR9F5L/about

• “Be Different: How Navy SEALs and Entrepreneurs Bend, Break, or Ignore the Rules to Get Results!”

• Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Be-Different-Entrepreneurs-Ignore-Results/dp/1803411333

You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

EP173: Marty Strong - F*ck It! And Why It Matters

“The most watched is, it’s 12.3 million views. I get, this last month, every, in 30 days, I get about 2.3 million views, even people that aren’t followers of my stuff.”

Understanding what makes ideas spread isn’t just for cat videos anymore. Viral content, when handled thoughtfully, can cement your place as a trusted voice in your field. In this episode, our guest shows how staying authentic and unapologetic about your values can lead to massive audience engagement. With over 12.3 million views on her most-watched video and 2.3 million monthly interactions across platforms, she’s proof that real connections drive impact—and business opportunities.

Meet Daniele Hage, the “Counterculture Grandma” and a modern thought leader in relationships and authenticity. Known for her transformative workshops and unapologetic stance on cultural shifts, Daniele has translated decades of experience into a message that resonates with millions. With 44 years of marriage and a knack for telling it like it is, she’s turned her knowledge into an online phenomenon.

Expert Action Steps:

1. For men: Focus on creating a sense of safety for the women in your life to foster trust, vulnerability, and stronger connections.

2. For women: Embrace and maintain your feminine energy to build more harmonious and fulfilling relationships with men.

3. For professionals: Balance masculine energy at work with feminine energy at home to ensure successful and romantic partnerships.

Learn more about Daniele on YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/@danielehage], Instagram, and her upcoming workshops.

https://www.youtube.com/@danielehage

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EP630: Daniele Hage - The CounterCulture Grandma's Secret To Getting 2.3 M Views Of Your Videos A Month!

"Podcasting is a platform for collaboration and growth, not a marketplace.”

Authentic podcasting thrives on mutual benefit, not fees. This episode explores why paying to be a guest or charging hosts diminishes the authenticity and value of podcasting. The discussion focuses on building meaningful relationships with hosts, inspiring audiences, and leveraging podcasts as a platform for business growth. The episode challenges pay-to-play models, emphasizing trust and mutual respect as the foundation for podcast success. When podcasting aligns with these principles, it creates opportunities for collaboration, client acquisition, and long-term impact.

Expert Action Steps:

1. Focus on Value: Prioritize inspiring the audience and enhancing the host’s credibility by delivering actionable insights.

2. Build Relationships: Use podcast appearances to create long-term business relationships with hosts, opening doors for collaborations and client opportunities.

3. Stay Authentic: Never pay or charge fees for podcast appearances—maintain integrity by ensuring value and trust drive the exchange.

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EP629: TL Nuggets #186 - Should You Pay To Go On A Podcast?

“Happiness in a relationship starts with taking personal responsibility for your own joy.”

A man’s integrity and discipline are the cornerstone of a thriving relationship. By keeping his word, seeking guidance from mentors, and taking responsibility, he creates safety and trust. As a protector and provider, he leads with purpose and aligns his and his partner’s actions using shared values. When he respects his partner’s nurturing strengths and commits to mutual growth, he fosters a harmonious and balanced partnership rooted in respect, accountability, and lasting connection.

Daniele Hage is a seasoned relationship coach with over four decades of marriage experience. Her work focuses on empowering couples to embrace traditional values and build thriving relationships rooted in faith. . Follow her on Instagram (@daniellecatherinehage) and YouTube to stay connected.

You can find Daniele on:

Her website at https://danielehage.com/home/

YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@danielehage

Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/danielehage/

Her other socials can be found on her website.

You’re invited to come to a Sovereign Circle meeting to experience it for yourself. To learn more, go to https://www.sovereignman.ca/. While you’re there, check out the Battle Ready program and check out the store for Sovereign Man t-shirts, hats, and books.

EP172: Daniele Hage - Why Keeping Your Word Makes Your Woman Feel Safe

“I find that my clients tend to be entrepreneurial, driven, and passionate individuals. Sometimes, what got them to where they are is also what’s holding them back.”

In this enlightening episode, host Nicky Billou sits down with functional medicine practitioner and SIBO specialist, Jen Yundt Coles, to discuss the profound connection between gut health and overall well-being. Jen shares her personal journey from struggling with digestive issues to becoming a leading voice in addressing Small Intestinal Bacterial Overgrowth (SIBO) and other chronic digestive challenges. With her trademark blend of compassion and expertise, Jen dives into the root causes of SIBO, the importance of individualized nutrition, and the role of mindset in achieving sustainable health.

Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a health practitioner, or someone navigating your own health journey, this episode is packed with actionable insights to help you take control of your wellness.

About Our Guest: Jen Yundt Coles

Jen Yundt Coles is a certified functional medicine practitioner and coach specializing in Small Intestinal Bacterial Overgrowth (SIBO) and chronic digestive issues. Driven by her own health challenges, Jen’s mission is to empower individuals and practitioners to adopt a more holistic, personalized approach to gut health. Through her practice, The SIBO Coach, Jen combines evidence-based strategies with a deep understanding of the mind-gut connection to help clients heal and thrive. She also mentors other practitioners, sharing her expertise to amplify the impact of functional medicine.

Learn more about Jen’s work at www.thesibocoach.com [http://www.thesibocoach.com/].

Expert Action Steps:

Jen shares her top three strategies for fostering a healthier gut and balanced life:

1. Give Yourself Permission to Rest:

Stress impairs digestion and nutrient absorption. Prioritize downtime to allow your body to heal.

2. Eat the Rainbow:

Focus on a diverse range of colorful, nutrient-dense foods to support your microbiome and overall health.

3. Embrace Your Individuality and Creativity:

Tune into what your unique body needs instead of adhering to rigid diets or one-size-fits-all health advice.

Connect with Jen Yundt Coles:

• Website: www.thesibocoach.com [http://www.thesibocoach.com/]

• Email: jen@thesibocoach.com

• Explore free resources, take the “Do I Have SIBO?” quiz, and learn about her practitioner mentorship programs.

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EP628: Jen Yundt Coles - The Little Known Secret To Optimizing Your Health After 50!

MAKE THE DIFFERENCE YOU WERE BORN TO MAKE The Business of Thought Leadership podcast is about building your thought leadership around your expertise, your brand and your name. To become well known and highly regarded in the market place for the results you are able to produce for your clients. Our guests are top thought leaders who have done it. They’ve become widely known for their expertise and results they’re able to deliver for their clients. They all love what they do and get paid very well for doing it. You’ll meet entrepreneurs that have leveraged thought leadership in driving business revenue, coaches that were unknown and barely making ends who later became celebrities and took their income into the 7 figures, consultants that transformed into best-selling authors and built multi-million dollar firms and senior executives who followed their passion, left their day jobs and are changing the world. We’ve had interviews with notables such as New Times Best-Selling Author Seth Godin, success and investment coaching icon, Raymond Aaron, a personal coach to billionaires, Alex Charfen & Tony Robbins’ Director of Coaching, Marc Von Musser. Steve Jobs once said “The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.” Are you crazy enough to join us in making the difference you were born to make. We want you to 10x your impact, your income and your influence every 12 months. Financially successful people with purpose and passion are changing the world and we want to inspire you to be one of them.

The Thought Leader Revolution Podcast

“A real man is sovereign over his own life. He takes full responsibility for becoming a better man, and owns his own successes and failures. But he also understands the value of being a part of a band of brothers, the kind that have his back, and he can call at 3 AM if he’s stuck in a jail cell, because they’ll come and get him. He understands that just like a wolf pack, the strength of the pack is the wolf, and the strength of the wolf is the pack.” — Nicky Billou Welcome to the Sovereign Man Podcast where we have the conversations that matter to you as a man, and inspire you to become the best version of yourself. You’ll learn from the best business, career, financial, relationship, and mans skills experts from around the world. The Sovereign Man Podcast is for motivated men like you who want to win in today’s world. We equip you to become better in every area of your life from establishing mastery over yourself, to defining your purpose, strengthening your family and your relationships, becoming a better leader, and learning man skills. Each week I have real, unscripted conversations with real men, successful men, and men who give a darn.

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