This episode features guest hosts Dr. Scott Waltman and Kasey Pierce, authors of the forthcoming book The Rescuer Trap. Scott and Kasey discuss the trouble with mistaking preferences for values. Also, why we can’t use sacrificing our values as a bargaining chip, call it a forced wager, and blame the house for our “lost investment” when the relationship goes bust.

Are you the fixer, the over-giver, the emotional first responder for everyone but yourself? Welcome to The Rescuer Trap. We playfully own the labels “Parentified and Codependent” to make a point: these are not identities, but learned behaviors.

And what can be learned can be unlearned. Hosts Dr. Scott Waltman and Kasey Pierce use Stoic philosophy and CBT to give you the tools to break the cycle and reclaim your autonomy. Your escape from the trap starts here. Based on the forthcoming book, The Rescuer Trap (New Harbinger).

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The Rescuer Trap: Values Chameleons

In this episode, my guest is Robert Garland, a British classical philologist and historian who is the Roy D. and Margaret B. Wooster Professor of the Classics at Colgate University. He is the author of numerous works on ancient Greek and Roman history, including The Greek Way of Death and Daily Life of the Ancient Greeks. His most recent book, however, is What to Expect When You're Dead: An Ancient Tour of Death and the Afterlife.

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Highlights

* In your research, what most surprised you about how ancient cultures looked at death?

* What do we gain by thinking about death? For example, a central Stoic practice is called memento mori—reflecting on one’s mortality. They think wrapping our heads around death can help us to live more wisely, do you agree?

* Your book examines beliefs from Greeks, Romans, Egyptians, and Mesopotamians. Are there any common factors? What are the biggest differences between them?

* Did groups within these cultures who faced death more frequently, such as soldiers or perhaps Roman gladiators, have a different perspective on death?

* How did ordinary Greeks and Romans differ in their beliefs from the sort of thing we find in the writings of ancient philosophers? To what extent did philosophical views influence popular culture?

* Many people today turn to philosophy, and Stoicism in particular, to regain a sense of control in uncertain times. In a world where so much was attributed to fate or the gods, how did the contemplation of their own mortality console people facing hardship and loss?

* Has your own attitude toward death changed as a result of your research?

Links

* Goodreads Profile [https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/65287.Robert_Garland]

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What to Expect When You're Dead

This episode features guest hosts Dr. Scott Waltman and Kasey Pierce, authors of the forthcoming book The Rescuer Trap. Scott and Kasey discuss the forthcoming virtual event for Plato’s Academy Centre and its featured speakers. They also talk values chameleons: taking on the shade of your partner to ensure the survival of the relationship.

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Are you the fixer, the over-giver, the emotional first responder for everyone but yourself? Welcome to The Rescuer Trap. We playfully own the labels “Parentified and Codependent” to make a point: these are not identities, but learned behaviors.

And what can be learned can be unlearned. Hosts Dr. Scott Waltman and Kasey Pierce use Stoic philosophy and CBT to give you the tools to break the cycle and reclaim your autonomy. Your escape from the trap starts here. Based on the forthcoming book, The Rescuer Trap (New Harbinger).

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The Rescuer Trap: The Philosophy of Love and Relationships

In this episode, I chat with father-son team Matthew and Matteo Storm, who host the Lost Roman Heroes podcast, a bi-weekly dive deep into the overlooked lives and legacies of ancient Rome. They’re history buffs with a passion for ancient Rome. Matthew is also the author of several works of historical fiction, based in the Roman empire, the most recent being THE EMPEROR: Heraclius Battles Persia for the Life of Rome.

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Highlights

* How did the Lost Roman Heroes podcast begin?

* Travel to Carnuntum and other historic locations.

* Matthew’s historical fiction set in the Roman empire

* What are your favourite quotes from the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius?

* How can we be sure Marcus actually wrote the Meditations?

* Was it intended for publication?

* Why are Hadrian and Herodes Atticus notable by their absence from the list of people Marcus admires in Book One of the Meditations?

* Was it really a bad idea for Marcus to appoint Commodus his successor?

* Who was Avidius Cassius, the usurper?

* Was Faustina the loyal wife Marcus makes her out to be or the scheming and unfaithful one depicted in the histories?

Links

* Lost Roman Heroes Website [https://lostromanheroes.com/]

* Lost Roman Heroes Podcast [https://link.chtbl.com/eBDZnl2M?sid=spaawol]

* Matthew’s Books [https://lostromanheroes.com/our-books]

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The Controversial History of Marcus Aurelius

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Watch our Stoicism & Anger Video

In this episode, my guest is Carlos Garcia. Carlos is the Co-Founder and CEO of True Progress Lab, a coaching company that operates on the motto 'Get Calm. Get Bold. Get After It'. He is also a Major and Judge Advocate in the U.S. Army Reserve, and an Army-certified Master Resilience Trainer.

Highlights

* Carlos, you have a fascinating background—an attorney, a Major and Judge Advocate in the U.S. Army Reserve, and a high-performance coach. How did your experiences in these high-stakes environments lead you to focus on resilience and coaching?

* You're an Army-certified Master Resilience Trainer. What are the core principles the military teaches for handling adversity?

* Are there overlaps with ancient Stoic philosophy?

* How do you think the army’s resilience training could be improved?

* You mentioned that reading about Stoicism and Marcus Aurelius has been "instrumental" in shaping your philosophy. Which of his ideas resonated most deeply with you, and how do you see them applying to a modern leader or soldier?

* Your flagship course is called The Inner Fortress, can you tell us a bit about that?

* A key focus of your coaching is overcoming FOPO, or the "fear of people's opinions". Why do you find this specific fear is such a powerful inhibitor for the successful professionals you work with?

* You use a unique blend of Stoic philosophy and exposure therapy to help clients. Could you walk us through how you combine an ancient philosophy with a modern therapeutic technique to help someone act more boldly?

* Finally, based on your experience, what do you think are some of the most helpful pieces of advice you can pass on to our listeners?

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Links

* Web: trueprogresslab.com [https://www.trueprogresslab.com/]

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The Inner Fortress: Military Resilience and Stoic Philosophy

In this episode, I chat with Harry Sidebottom. Harry is a Lecturer in Ancient History at Lincoln College, Oxford. He is the bestselling author of fifteen historical novels, and nineteen books in total. His debut trade non-fiction book, The Mad Emperor: Heliogabalus and the Decadence of Rome, was a Book of the Year in the Spectator, the Financial Times and BBC History. His latest book, Those Who Are About to Die: A Day in the Life of a Roman Gladiator is published in the UK on the 28th Aug, and in the US later next year.

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Highlights

* Gladiators capture the public imagination but what did you want to explore the Roman mindset by focusing on them?

* What does the institution of gladiatorial games tell us about Roman views on life and death?

* What do you think it may surprise your readers to learn about the world of the gladiators?

* What are the differences between the fighting skills of a gladiator and a legionary?

* What were the strangest animals they fought or hunted in the arenas?

* As a historian who has deeply studied the Roman mind, what have you learned about their core values? And how do you think those compare to our modern sensibilities?

* From your research, what can the Romans teach us about resilience in the face of adversity?

Links

* Those Who Are About to Die (Penguin) [https://www.penguin.co.uk/books/460081/those-who-are-about-to-die-by-sidebottom-harry/9781529154009]

* Goodreads Author Profile [https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/411953.Harry_Sidebottom]

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A Day in the Life of a Roman Gladiator

In this episode, I chat with Commander William C. Spears.  William is a submarine warfare officer in the United States Navy, and author of the upcoming book Stoicism as a Warrior Philosophy. He enlisted in the Navy in June 2001, then earned his commission through the United States Naval Academy in Annapolis. He has since led a career in nuclear submarines, where he was most recently the second-in-command of a ballistic missile submarine. Today he works at the Pentagon in Washington, D.C.

Stoicism as a Warrior Philosophy

In this episode, I chat with Shermin Kruse. Shermin is a globally recognized negotiation consultant, law professor at Northwestern University’s Pritzker School of Law, and TEDx producer. She is the author of the recently published book Stoic Empathy: The Road Map to a Life of Influence, Self-Leadership, and Integrity. We discuss empathy and how it can be combined with Stoic resilience to help us maintain our compassion while avoiding burnout

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Highlights

* How did you become interested in Stoicism?

* What is Stoic Empathy – and how does it differ from unhelpful forms of empathy?

* What are the most common misconceptions about empathy that you encounter?

* What’s the relationship between empathy and anger in your view?

* In your book, you discuss why traditional models of compassion might fall short.

* From your perspective, what are the key limitations of these models, and what does neuroscience reveal about why a different approach might be necessary?

* What tools do you recommend for people who want to maintain healthy empathy and compassion?

* How can we face injustice and suffering in the world without shutting down or freaking out?

Links

* Stoic Empathy [https://a.co/d/8GxdwR5] on Amazon [https://a.co/d/8GxdwR5] https://www.sherminkruse.com/

* Shermin Kruse’s Website [https://www.sherminkruse.com/]

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Stoic Empathy – Compassion Without Burnout

In this episode, I chat with Shermin Kruse. Shermin is a globally recognized negotiation consultant, law professor at Northwestern University’s Pritzker School of Law, and TEDx producer. She is the author of the recently published book Stoic Empathy: The Road Map to a Life of Influence, Self-Leadership, and Integrity. We discuss empathy and how it can be combined with Stoic resilience to help us maintain our compassion while avoiding burnout

Donald Robertson, the author of "How to Think Like a Roman Emperor", and a cognitive-behavioral therapist, talks about how to apply Stoicism in the modern world, discussing philosophy, psychology and self-improvement with guests from all walks of life. Available on Google and Apple podcasts.

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